Hello all!
This subreddit has continued to grow and I am very happy with it. As a subreddit grows, so too must its rules. I want to announce that there will be some more leniency in how certain rules will be applied, but also some better enforcement of others. This will be a gradual process. For now, I'd like to outline in detail what my plans are over the next week or two:
In regards to the sharing of links to pornographic content in comments, that rule will be altered so that it is mostly allowed as long as the parent submission calls for it. So, if a person makes a submission or comment that says, "I've been looking for videos for a long while of people wetting leggings", you will be allowed to comment with links to such video content, even if the content is your own. However, if a submission or comment does not ask for any links or resources and you decide to randomly link to porn or media of yourself, that will still be removed. Keep in mind that this subreddit will still not allow any pornographic media as a submission. There are plenty of subreddits for that.
Linking to other communities such as porn subreddits and discord servers will now be allowed as well. I may even add some popular pee-related discord servers to the subreddit's side bar for those who are interested. This does not grant anyone the ability to give people their own discord names as a chat request. All chat requests, hookup attempts, and personals ads are still strictly prohibited.
Our "Content/Source Requests" rule will also be altered. Asking for ideas on how to integrate piss into daily sexual activities will now be allowed. For example, if someone makes a submission that says something like, "I'm home all alone for the whole weekend and want to piss and masturbate the whole time. What should I do?", both the submission and comments generated by the submission will be allowed. However, such submissions can quickly devolve into chat requests, so please remember that such requests are still strictly prohibited.
Lastly, I want to address an issue that often arises when people make submissions or comment in submissions with the "First Time" post flair or any other submission that asks for early piss memories. While it's natural that certain sexual activities start to blossom well before the age of 18, we need to be especially careful about how those things are described. If a general description of a childhood awakening of sexual desire starts turning into very specific descriptions of events or people's bodies, then we have a major issue. This rule is already enforced but the line between what's appropriate and what isn't is too murky for my taste. I will be writing new rules to govern exactly what descriptions are allowed and prohibited to ensure that everyone is very clear about this.
I will leave the comments section of this announcement open for anyone who has any comments or concerns about the above details, or any suggestions about other changes that could be made to improve the subreddit.
Thank you everyone!
Can we please get a set in stone rule WITH moderation that clearly outlines that describing your sexual stories from when you or someone else was a child is bannable with 0 tolerance? Reporting this to reddit almost NEVER has actions taken.
I love this sub, but almost daily im seeing posts prodding for information that typically leads back to underage stories being told in the comments, if not directly asking for them in the post title. I guarantee you these people then get contacted by pedos and it gets way worse. This sub is definitely being used to help these types of connections happen.
For example this post keeps popping up and again the comments include sexual stories about children. Like the young man with the highschool crush and watching her as they got off the bus. Which then gets attention from other commentors and then we get a graphic description on the state of her being shaved or not.
The last paragraph you wrote said it would be addressed and that was a month ago.
Hey there. You are right that such a rule should have been done already. Sometimes life and other things get in the way, but I will be working on it now.
However, it does seem to me that you want a much harder approach to this than is warranted. In the original post, I specifically said that it's natural for certain fantasies to start at a younger age and it's fine to say that as long as explicit detail isn't used. In your example post that you linked, the body text doesn't use any body descriptors or go into extensive detail. Also, for your example of the high school crush, it's possible to be 18 in high school.
Giving people permanent bans when they're just answering a question without the intent of sexual gratification is not the way I choose to run this subreddit. This is a discussion subreddit and your desire for zero tolerance for the most base descriptions doesn't align with that.
The rule that will be written and enforced will prevent specific and extensive discussion, stories, and other descriptors of individuals who were under the age of 18 at the time, and unless something is so egregious that the user needs to be banned and reported to reddit immediately, I'd prefer to give people a chance first and let them know that their descriptions of certain things need to be more vague in the future. For the vast majority of people, that won't be an unreasonable request.
I have a question about this part
Does that mean you're now allowed to ask for recommendations or what exactly does this mean?
I'm just not entirely sure how to interpret this
Yep, you could do that. If someone, (or you), makes a post and says, "I'm desperate to see videos of people peeing in their car" or something like that, others can then comment on that submission with actual links to that type of content.
Ok thank you. I even made a post on the NSFW version of find a Reddit because I didn't know about these recent changes of the rules 😅