Almost 6 years ago, I made one of my obscure art projects temporarily available online. In it, I'm naked for a few minutes. Those few minutes sparked a wave of obsession from random dudes online that is still going on to this day - welcome to the internet as a woman š¤Ŗ - and the video has been shared on many websites, forums and subreddits without my consent.
I've been able to handle most of it and have the video deleted from most of the places it's been posted on. But there's this one guy who is... really obsessed.
Not only does he follow my socials, but he also sent me screenshots of me naked in dm (with a creepy message "I have your video and there's nothing you can do about it š), went to great length to download the video from the paid, DMR-protected website I posted it on, shared it and bragged about it on sketchy forums.
Recently he also started making various montages with my video (what a creative young man!) and posting them on random subreddits as well as on his youtube channel. He even paid an adult content creator to make a custom video in which she reinact my nude art scene (wtf?). He also makes memes with my face (??) and posts them around. Overall, not only is he creepy, but he's also just... really fucking weird.
I messaged him warning him I pressed charges against him (which is true, but you know how slow the justice system is), but it didn't stop him and he went on making and posting weird content with me in it.
He obviously thought I would never find him... which is vastly underestimating me. Turns out I'm much more of a nerd than he seems to think I am, and I have ADHD so I really don't mind hyperfocusing on really specific things - in this case, finding him.
It also turns out he made quite a few mistakes and is, in fact, much more traceable than he thinks he is, especially to someone like me who knows how and where to search, and who doesn't mind searching for just as long as I need to.
I managed to trace him back to pretty much all the usernames he has online, and, finally, to his actual name and his face. I now know who is is, which neighborhood he lives in, approximately how old he is, what he looks like, his IP address, what kind of devices he uses, what video games he plays, but also what his fetishes are and what kind of porn he watches (spoiler alert: not kinkshaming, but weird-ass stuff).
Turns out this idiot had sent an email to my art business inbox 4 years ago with his full name - I assume he didn't think I would ever connect the dots. He's a rather young dude with a baby face, probably the least menacing face you've ever seen, so it's really funny to look at this guy wanting to act like an internet thug. Honestly, when I saw what he looked like, my first thought was that he needs some good old spanking from his mum to get him back on track.
So, I gave him a taste of his own medicine. I made a funny meme using his face and I sent it to him. He deleted his account immediately - a 3yo reddit account he used rather regularly. That was yesterday and I assume he's still busy shitting himself in fetal position.
Needless to say, it was extremely satisfying.
Tl;dr: I have a stalker who wouldn't stop posting me naked all over the internet anonymously, I found out who he was and sent him a picture of himself. He's now freaking out.
Edit: since some people rightfully wonder why this account is 3yo and this is my first post and that's a bit sus, it's because this is an account I initially created solely to report the naked videos of me posted on various subreddits. And this is also the account he messaged me on. So, maybe he'll see this post, maybe not ;)
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Does he still live with mommy? Tell HER what he has been doing. Send the receipts -- and the police report. Let her deal with him.
Actually, do that whether he lives with her or not. Also maybe to his employer. And his neighbors. Too bad this loser doesn't have an actual human girlfriend you could inform.
Please tell his mother.
Or other female relatives
Definitely! Letting a female relative know could really shine a light on his behavior. Accountability is key!
Part of me loves this, and part of me hates it because it puts more work on the women in his life to correct him
A very good point.
Women are the morality of the world, apparently.
Signed, a woman who doesn't want that job
Let em. Maybe he's got some salty aunties in his life who'll enjoy the tea and straighten him out a bit.
You absolutely are right, but at the same time I would want to know so I could make it STOP. Iād be really pissed off about having to do it but not at the woman telling me.
Work? Some women thrive on this stuff.
No we donāt.
Then you are of the women outside the some
Oh, but correct him, they will! And I suspect they'll find it at least somewhat satisfying.
That wonāt do anything. Mothers who have sons who act like this will defend them no matter what. āBoys will be boys. He didnāt mean anything by it. Itās just a jokeā etc. Even Ted Bundyās mother defended him vigorously until he actually confessed in detail, including his victimsā last words. Then all Mrs. Bundy said was āWe didnāt raise him to be like that.ā
Imagine being the parent of a school shooter or serial killer. You'd be questioning your whole life, thinking "where did I go wrong?". I think most of these parents ignore SERIOUS mental health issues.
The parents of Michigan school shooter Ethan Crumbley are serving 10-15 years in prison because they ignored their sonās several requests for mental health treatment, and then bought him a gun for an early Christmas present. Four days later he took it to school. Parents are finally being held response for their childās actions.
I think 10-15 years is too lenient, but it's something!
Try the sister if he has one. I have gone nuclear on my brother for being skeevy online when I found out about it
A very good chance sheās a fascist in 2025. Weāre done pretending women are by nature ābetterā.Ā
That's exactly what I would do with this information. It is high time that women take back their power from these creepy internet trolls who think they can hide their deviant, criminal behaviour without impunity behind faceless, anonymous usernames.
Too long girls and women have been made ashamed for something that isn't their shame to carry. Hit them back. As hard and cruel as they are. Send their messages to their wives, their mothers, their neighbours, their minister/pastor and their employers. Expose them for the creepy, perverted cowards that they are.
And if you are not tech savvy enough, there is a subreddit about women in tech. There are enough women who would love to help other women to bring some well-deserved justice to these morons!
It's time to fight fire with fire.
Yep. If they go low, go lower. The opposite has unfortunately been proven not to work.
When they go low, I will drag them to Hell!
If he thinks this is bad, just wait until the internet finds out! š
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Sorry this happened to you. I am going to throw out some other options too. Unfortunately I doubt you are the only person this guy is messing with.
Would be a shame if a concerned anonymous person posted some proof shaming him on his local Nextdoor and FB pages.
Find other women that have been harassed by his screen names. Give them the evidence too. Maybe someone is in a state that can hold him accountable. Or you can get multiple cases against him.
Expose him to family and friends. This guy make be scared for a bit but heās going to do it again without being caught.
Thanks! Yeah, on top of what I just did, I def intend to do everything within my power to bring this dude to justice.
Hey, he may not have deleted his account, might have simply blocked you. Which makes it look like it was deleted from your account. Check his profile in a browser without being logged in to be sure.
He did delete it. I checked by logging out of my account and going on his.
This is some top tier detective stuff (as a former investigator back in the day, I can attest)!! Please keep us updated on your progress and his fall to shame town. As a woman I absolutely love to see other women take back their power from creeps and degenerates, and give them a taste of their own medicine. Power on! ā¤ļø
Thank you! And yes I'll update you to the best of my abilities but as you can guess it could take a while.
As a male retired cop, I also absolutely love to see women take their power back.
Hey look, once you get thru this whole thing with your stalker weāre gonna need an update šš¼ donāt forget about us!
Bravo. This reminds me of the brave French woman who discovered that her husband had drugged her for years and let other men assault her. She said she didn't committ a crime and wasn't going to hide her name and face. She wasn't the one who was going to be ashamed. The shame belongs with her attackers.
Canada currently has legislation in the works making deep fake porn a real crime with hard punishments. It's a start .Canada femicide: Protecting Victims Act introduced
GOOD. This, and revenge porn, both need to be treated harshly. Abuse is not only physical, and all abuse is serious.
when they go low, kick their fucking teeth in
Tell them everything and then come back and tell us the outcome!
āI have licked the fire and danced in the ashes of every bridge I ever burned. I fear no hell from you.ā Ā© Nicole Lyons 2017
Thatās what I did. Emailed his mom with examples of his behavior and mentioned that law enforcement was about to get involved if it continued.
I got an angry email ādonāt ever contact anyone in my family againā blah blah.
Ok. Stop the behavior so I donāt have to. Totally up to you, asshole.
I swear to fucking god, if a woman ever contacted me about either of my teenage sons doing even a small fraction of this, I would eat them. Iāve warned them itās never too late for a mother to eat her young.
This made me laugh so hard, thank you so much
For real. "Convince your son to stop what he's been doing, or be prepared to assist him with his legal fees, because he's committing crimes, I will enthusiastically press charges, and lawyers are expensive."
Yeah I wish more women would tell the parents (if it's safe to do so) when their son is being a fucking creep. Would help a lot I believe.
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Absolutely! I like the irony of it. He already knows my name and where I live because it is public information as I'm posting my art publicly, so, he can't use that against me. Me being public - which made me vulnerable to stalking in the first place - is exactly what gives me leverage right now. He's got something to protect, I don't.
Can confirm, I'm the mum.
Get control of your child, please.
Eh. I think actually escalating things is a risky idea, OP giving him the knowledge that she could escalate if she wanted is a much more powerful statement imo. Send him pictures of his workplace but don't actually send anything to them, make him worry every day.
I disagree. Men have been getting away with shit for centuries. Threats do not work, only consequences.
I'm a man and endorse this message. Scorch this motherfucker's earth!Ā
I mean, sure, that might feel good in the moment, but then what happens? You think he's just gonna go "ah well, lost my job and reputation, guess I'll be a decent human from now on." and leave the whole situation alone? Gotta be practical to get results, not emotional.
If he thinks his world could collapse at any moment and someone he wronged has her finger on the button? That is itself a consequence, one that deals psychological damage and incentivizes him to stay in line. Fear of consequences is a better motivator than the actual consequences because consequences have an expiration date, fear doesn't.
A picture of them(victim and the stalker's boss) shaking hands and smiling with the person's boss would go SO HARD! Bro would probably actually shit himself.
Youāre right, heās probably terrified that heās been caught and that youāre going to expose what heās done (and possibly what heās into) to the people he knows. He deserves the fear heās experiencing.
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Hope he learns the lesson about messing with any person, period...
If this happened to me, i'd 100% get a shirt with the guys face on it(as a meme and a momento of the occasion), and tell people about him every time somebody asked about the guy on my shirt.
he shirt would be iconic, but watching him nuke his whole online presence is a quieter, deeper burn.
Iād send the info to his mom about what heās doing. But Iām also a bit petty.
Yes. All his "HAHAHA, I have your data and you can't do anything about it" has now been handed the Uno Reverse card. OP has HIS info and she very much can do whatever she pleases with it... and now HE'S the one who can't do anything about it.
I hope OP has spoiled his little power trip not just for herself, but for everyone else, so he won't just pick a new victim to harass. If he knows that anyone can find him the way OP did, then that's the end of his sick power trip.
I am so invested in this story.
Tell his mother! Tell his school! Tell his work! Send him mail with glitter in it! Have an attorney draw up a cease and desist and send it to his house!
Burn this guyās life to the ground.
No (t yet) ! In war, you want to keep reserve leverage.
The cease-and-desist letter is a definite thing that should happen, though. If there's something that will shrink him down to the size of an amoeba, it's the fact that the thing he THOUGHT he could do anonymously, without repercussion, has now resulted in a legal document arriving at his home.
And he definitely deserves the takedown.
how bad is glitter doused in fart spray do you think? little stinky sparkly dots stuck in all the crevices... never to be found
why not tell his father?
Men usually don't hold each other accountable
Some fathers would be more likely to celebrate this behaviour. Even his mom might be one of those "my son is never wrong" but moms are usually a better bet because she might be able to empathize as a woman.
True, moms often get it more. Plus, who doesn't love a little mom intervention when their kid's being a creep.
His father either taught him this behavior, or encouraged it.
Or wasn't in his life. Or maybe his mother coddled him and excused all his bad behavior all his life. Or maybe he had great parents and is just a degenerate pervert. All of those are just as likely.
That's pretty fucking boss
My favorite part of this is the disclaimer about the age of the account lol, reddit miss marples crack me the fuck up
Yeah maybe I shouldn't have catered to them lol.
Love it, and love that you didnāt let this POS get away with this. Thereās a TikTok account where a woman goes to peopleās jobs and make them read an apology after they post messed up comments online. She tells them if they donāt she will show their family and employer what they wrote. You remind me of her, keep your power!
Do you have the link?
Here you go, the original is now private sadly because he called the cops. They are investigating her for threats causing harm because she told him he could either read the apology (that she had written for him) or she would send the screenshots of the comments to his wife and employer š Soooo yeah, her account is private for the time being.
But she has an ironclad He Started It defense!
Shame we canāt watch it without downloading tiktok. It just sends me to the app store.
Iād have LOVED to see his face when he opened this messagešššš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
Me too lol, but at least now I can imagine it :)
Make an AI image of him with a dismayed facial expression, and say, "Did you look like this when I sent you that last message?"
Nuclear would be to go full out and share/spread his activities everywhere.
I'd go a different route. Just periodically remind him that you have full receipts. Keep him in a state of constant uncertainty and low level fear.
Cold war rather than nuclear holocaust.
Just like a good horror media!
Sheer uncertainty and pure imagination to fuck with one's head. š
Upgrade this to r/nuclearrevenge!
Haha! I wondered if it counted as nuclear, thanks for saying, will do.
id say its not nuclear just yet. on the verge, though
I assume nuclear would be (as another user suggested) telling his mommy.
or some other real-world consequence, like telling his partner if someone is desperate enough to see that creature, yes
Many times these weirdos live perfectly normal lives outside the internet.
Please do
Won't be his best Christmas day this year.
Do it on Christmas Day.
He completely deserves it, but it might be better to just hold this over his head to keep him away. Basically tell him "I can tell you friends, coworkers,Ā and family what you did and there's nothing you can do about it š" and let him stew.Ā I'm guessing he'll finally leave you alone permanently.
Oh I don't even need to threaten him. He knows very well the risk is there. That's what makes it even better - I didn't even have to do much to make him fear the worst.
I like the idea of occasionally sending him reminders, though.Ā In the spirit of "traumatize him back".Ā Or even sending cryptic messages to his mom so she asks him what it's about.Ā Let his own guilt and shame eat at him.
this 1000%
OP should TELL him where he lives, where his mother lives, who he works for, who his friends are, where he went to school, any organizations he belongs to, etc., etc., etc.
Then she should demand he remove everything he'd posted concerning her from everywhere he'd posted it, AND all reposting by others (whom he might be able to influence). And she should monitor those removals if possible. And the consequence of his failure to remove everything would be BOTH, that she'll inform EVERYBODY of his behavior, AND will proceed with a lawsuit to recover punitive damages.
OP is doing a good job of avoiding extortion, which is its own crime (in the US, and similar in many other countries).
If you want to threaten, you can't say "or I'll do". Even saying do something or I'll tell the cops is extortion. You have to say it with your full chest. OP could say, "I'm going to tell everyone what you did. It might look better for you if you made sure all of your posts got deleted, but don't worry, I've already saved them for evidence."
OP's simple meme doesn't extort. It just makes the asshole very, very nervous. He knows all the consequences that could happen, and maybe he'll be inspired to ameliorate his behavior, but OP hasn't threatened him directly.
Who knows who else he is doing this to? Fucking tell his family.
Fuck his mommy, who do you think raised that creep. She doesn't care, but sure, tell her anyway. Then tell the cops and everyone else. Put him on blast. Tell his job. Keep telling his jobs whenever he gets a new one. Tell his co-workers. Tell them alphabetically.
why not tell his father ....
Launch keys inserted, just not turned yet. :-)
OP definitely has obtained weapons of mass destruction
Nuclear will definitely be appropriate if she ends up taking legal action against this bully. Which, if she does, I will rejoice, because bullies can categorically go fug themselves.
I especially like the fact that he was probably getting a big power trip over thinking he could be a vile piece of rubbish to other people without repercussion, and that illusion was forever dispelled when a victim of his found him. He can never fool himself into thinking "I can harass people with impunity" again.
Youād have to expose him to his friends, family, school/coworkers/employer etc. before itās nuclear. Also this is exactly what you should do.
I hope this info has been reported to the police and if you have a lawyer.
Everything has been reported to the police, including the memes and the custom videos (imagine their faces when I showed them that lol). And yes, I do have a lawyer.
Once the police and judges have done their thing, then it'll be nuclear.
A neonazi Maga guy harassed me on instagram once and it took me an hour to find the guys job, his home address, and his wife's socials, including photos of him and his children. People need to remember that not everyone will stop at a search.
Lmao good on you
Gave him a taste of his own medicine!
Nice!
What a creep!
I think he deserves some more memes sent to more accounts. Perhaps you can scare him into deleting everything š¤
Print the meme and send it from a different city to his house. Nothing written on it, no threats, no "see? I can find you too", no return address. Just the printed meme in an envelope.
Seriously, this is a situation where "respect is good, but fear will do the job". As you pointed out, he needs a spanking, and sometimes it takes a village.
Next, pay somebody to post pictures of him around his neighborhood.
āLOST - Have you seen this baby man?ā
The amount of people who are unaware of their online footprint is insane. I often argue for sport but it gets ruined when the person is an idiot. I just wanted to insult your choice of friends, BRENDA, why TF do you have your full home address on your Facebook!?
Lol, agreed! What's weird with this guy though is that he's reasonably tech savvy, yet didn't pay too much attention to his online footprint when talking to me.
It's hard for me not to interpret that as "eh, girls are stupid and don't know how computers work" which tbh I felt personally attacked by lol.
I'd be surprised if that wasn't it tbh ā ļø have you started mailing things to him yet? Like a picture of his job?
I considered sending him a postcard :) you know, just a friendly, non threatening postcard
People even collect postcards! It's falling out of fashion but people still do it.
Do it! Send him postcards to his home and work! You really donāt have to do anything but that. Nothing threatening, just āI know who you areā. Itāll scare him shitless!
I just started following this couple on YouTube that out scum like this. Theyāre biracial couple and he called his wife a not very nice slur. Ends up sheās former military and used to work at the Pentagon as a reporter she was able to track down who he was, that he was in the military, found photos that he posted of him not using his military handgun properly in full uniform.
She then contacted his command at Camp Lejeune and reported him for everything. It was the most beautiful thing Iāve ever seen.
In another video, he figured out a guy who had been harassing him was 40 years old and still live with his mom so he actually called his mom and left her a message about what her son was doing. All in all it was beautiful.
https://youtube.com/shorts/sMGaz2KwUQA?si=ocMAt-WM9MagJvkM
Oh god, that was satisfying. I need a part 2.
I KNOW! you know that guy was crying like a baby when this all came down
This is just beautiful. Pardon me while I knuckle away a tear.
You should hire the lady who drove 3 hours to confront the guy who left nasty comments on her post.
Like Mike Tyson said, "Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it."
This was satisfying. Good work!
tell his mom
tell his dad
This is golden revenge, and it's definitely next-level revenge! I love it!!!
You're Badass! But watch your back he may escalate his behavior and come looking for you in the real world.
Don't forget I pressed charges against him :) Any escalation on his part will be held against him in the case.
Be mindful of where the legal line is; donāt want to burn yourself in the processĀ
Thanks but don't worry, I've paid attention to that and I've been very mindful not to threaten him openly.
Delicious huahahaaa
He will be back. You have scared him but I donāt think itās enough. Keep digging. See if you can find his wife or partner or mother or someone in his real life. Donāt send anything to them. Then find his employer, and if he has a work email, send one email there. You could send a picture of his mom or wife or partner, or you could just let him know you found him. Just send one email. That should be enough.
Put all the info in a file folder in case it isnāt enough. If he escalates again, then tell his wife or partner or mother.
Yes Iām also a woman on the internet.
You should totally email him back to his personal email and be like "what's wrong? You didn't like the meme I made you, <insert real name here>?"
This story reminds me of when I was younger my friend used to call these sex talk lines that women could talk for free but men had to pay money for and so this older guy gave us his number and I ended up plugging it into Google and ending up finding his actual address used Google maps to look at his house and when he started acting creepy I started describing what his house looks like and it scared the shit out of him lmao
Men don't know what to do when they realize women and people with brains too. Scares the shit out of them. Good āŗļø
Sue him and have him served with papers to his home.
Strong start. What's the next move? Infiltrate an account or keep the memes coming?
Send him a picture of his house. No words, just house.
Lol
That was joyous to read
Anyone else noticing the rise of posts on Reddit like this where the bully is traced by their online presence?
Are you into gift giving? I believe he needs new underwear for Christmas š¤£
Good on you OP! These days there are too many boys out there thinking theyāre safe to act like assholes online. Glad this story had a happy ending.
Send his mom flowers congratulating her for raising a walking shitstain. If that was her goal, she did a good job!
Bonus points if she attends church, and you get them delivered DURING SERVICE. She thought her son sent them and Iām still laughing about it all these years later.
I did that to my stalkers mom, and I subsequently learned that he was incredibly frightened of her.
Are you porting his pick where every single one of you me videos or pictures heās put up appears ?
Tell his mom.
paste his mommy's face onto his "art" projects of you š¤£
You could see if the Ex Boyfriend List would let you put him on there? That is also a nuclear option.
Start contacting his OTHER accounts.
Make memes about "Internet Trolls" and post them around his neighborhood, with his face! How they can be anyone.
Internet trolls thrive on anonymity. Definitely go full scorched Earth on him.
You should have included his picture in your post! /s
Please tell me you are going to keep fucking with him.
Amazing. I salute you!Ā
You're a great writer.
I hope this guy is getting some type of legal comeuppance!?
Thanks!
Will def try my best for that to be the case.
When people block you it looks the same as if they deleted their account. If you know the name, id make a new account to look him up and see if hes still here
I logged off and went on his profile to check if it was indeed deleted and I wasn't just blocked. He deleted it.
My advice is to get yourself registered on one or more services that will delete your personal info from data broker sites regularly. It's worth the monthly fees to have the peace of mind. I can't freaking believe how many of those sites there are, and new ones always sprout up like weeds. I'm subscribed to two such services, as each one will catch data brokers that the other one did not.
Here's how important I think it is to limit access to my personal infp: my stalker from my college years deleted himself from Planet Earth 4 years ago, and I stayed subscribed to those data-deletion sites. I'd rather make my personal info as hard to locate as possible. Who knows when the next unbalanced person will show up? God knows I'm outspoken about my political views, and there are always some bat rastards with no lives who would like to cause issues for people who maintain an opposing viewpoint.
Now, having said all that... maybe your own stalker has NOT made an effort to delete HIS info from data broker sites. In that case, you might be able to locate data about him and the people who are related or live near him. If you find the need to warn the people in his life that he's a stalker, against whom you're pressing charges, you will be able to reach out to anyone you deem necessary.
But really, maybe a few screenshots of his face posted next to some data that you have unearthed about him, sent to multiple of his online IDs at once, with the message of, "Stop contacting me. Stop posting anything whatsoever with my image in it. Go all the way away and stay away" will get the point across.
Maybe he'll choose someone else to harass, if he's not already doing so, but it will underscore the point that he's NOT as anonymous online as he thinks he is. That would remove, without question, the power trip he feels when he abuses women online.
Following because I fully support this and am super invested in any updates. Go get him!!
Has anyone else noticed a huge upswing in story posts this week that talk about having ADHD and hyperfocusing? There was one about copying a dictionary in detention and a few others
You may want to reconsider bragging online about all the laws you potentially broke (depending on various jurisdictions) tracking down and stalking your stalker.Ā
op claims to have a stalker, decides to post the story on the same platform the stalker reportedly used
op likes us to believe she:
gathered all usernames, real name, face, neighborhood, age range, IP address, devices, gaming habits, fetishes and porn preferences
without any subpoenas, platform cooperations or isp records
to have charges pressed
yet personally retaliates by creating a meme of his face which caused the immediate deletion of a reddit acc wich implies total dissapearance
that adhd is a superpower for limitless focus, not a popular trope which would conveniently explain extraordinary effort without detailing any methodology
which is meant as a method for characterization rather than to provide evidence
but the most idiotic thing was a convenient email from 4 years ago lmao, a classic reveal device in (online) storytelling
op connects dots years later
She also wants us to believe that he messaged her on this account, which had zero activity anywhere before this post.
He got my account from another guy I got mad at in dm for posting my video.
You rock!
The art video I immediately thought of was that girl who dressed up like Kermit the frog and had a guy fist her so she could act like a puppet while she sang. Yes that is a real thing
Your first thought based on āart videoā is very different from mine.
I hope you tell his workplace how he has been acting. I'm sure HR would love to know his inappropriate conduct towards you, because he might be sexually harrassing women there.
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Don't pretend you ever had any respect for me to begin with. Guys like you always side with the creeps.
Can you take out the restraining order or press charges against him now that you have his name and address. I know u pressed charges already for other aspects of his online crimes, but now that you have hard data on him...?
Yes, I updated the charges against him with his actual name as soon as I've known it.
Very curious to know what his kinks are
Are you worried he might do a better job of covering his tracks now that he knows you found him, in a way that could imperil the legal case?
This is so satisfying
How did you find so much about him?
looking for every possible slip up he did and exploit that.
people post way too much information about themselves online.Ā some folks are good at inferring from limited information, connecting the dots.Ā andĀ there's often info that you weren't even aware you were posting.Ā ever post a word document or an image online?Ā maybe you're not aware of how much meta data is in those files.Ā
I co manage a forum.Ā some poster came on and posted credible threats against my co-owner.Ā my co-owner called the police.Ā the police contacted me and asked me for any info on the poster.Ā yeah I gave them his name, address, school and program. .police went to his door to have a chat, turns out he had other charges or.something, in any event they ended up arresting him on other stuff. that was the end result of him threatening someone 'anonymously'.
a.long.long time ago I had someone doing some not so nice stuff directed at me.Ā they figured they were anonymous too.Ā a letter to the compliance department at their company changed that.
Awesome. I hope you're not done yet.
Update me
loser men try to get a hobby challenge
I wonder how nice his basement lair is in mommies house?
Updateme
True, moms can be more understanding, but it might just fuel his victim complex. Better to keep it on the down-low.
I also support giving the police his name and address BUT be careful that you do not be up being a stalker in the eyes of the law.
You may be able to sue him civilly as well
What that's it..are you serious. You should have either kept going..until he gets on his knees and apologizes..kdrama style..
Ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. It's funny how accountability and equal treatment really changes people. Consequences always come, maybe not immediately but eventually. It's better just to play nice and follow the golden rule. In your case he just didn't know exactly who he was messing with. Heartwarming story, keep up the pressure!
Honestly, keep giving him a taste of his own medicine
You slayed so hard
Iām sorry youāre going through that. But Iām glad youāre sticking up for yourself. They want us to cower, never expecting us to use our brains. Good for you in turning the tide.
Protect yourself by making his name known to friends and/or police, though?
4-6 years is a long time to stalk somebody, and monomaniacal erotomania types are slow to give up the hunt.
Youāve given him his first taste of consequences. I hope it sticks!
Can you post the meme?? I gotta see it lol š š š¤£