I’m a 20yo trans guy, had top surgery, on T yap yap yap - anyways I used to race cycling, loved it to bits, had to stop bc I found out I have a genetic disease that was causing serious chest pain (seriously not helped by excessive binding lol) but it’s been a while and I’m better now. I’ve just started to cycle again and I am fully aware road bike riding/racing isn’t really a hot sport for us trans guys given the skin tight clothing but the only thing that is bothering me is that I CANNOT figure out a good way to pack while cycling😭 I’m pretty tall and don’t have hips so the tight clothes don’t bother me but OH MY GOD HOW DO I PACK??? I tried my regular packer (just a silicone prosthetic one) but because I personally don’t wear anything under the cycling shorts (don’t judge it’s normal lmfao) it keeps moving way upwards and keeps turning sideways kms. I also tried some socks and they also refused to stay in place and kept bunching up - they were way more comfortable but I still looked bricked up😀
So my question is, what would you guys recommend? I’ll put some points here of things I have to consider/deal with - even if you don’t cycle I would appreciate literally any advice holy balls‼️ 1. The shorts are skin tight so any bumps or oddly shaped things are not convincing 2. I’m an unreasonably hairy person and I’m allergic to tape so taping anything down is not an option lol 3. Road bike riding involves a lot of standing up and sitting back down which is why my junk won’t chill tf out and stay put - but whatever I use needs to be soft 4. Cis guys sorta shuffle their junk to the side when they cycle so they can actually sit on the seat so I’m tryna figure out how to make that look
Literally anything helps! Especially if you are a trans guy who does road bike riding ☝️ I need a solution lmfao. I’m high key stealth and quite happy that way - I don’t think the other guys are gonna think I’m trans I think they’re just gonna think I’m a bit TOO excited to be there 💀
step one is always buying a harness- keeps the packer in place. you can also make one with elastic and suffering [https://queermushroomforest.weebly.com/diyharness.html/#possible\]
my first rec would be foam packers- simple, and they work, like the one [https://sockdrawerheroes.com/collections/packing/products/sdh-budgie-packer\]
then, for something realistic, id go uno by axolom, but for the shuffling, id go any of axoloms models with moveable balls because [in my expereince] they are softer and easier to manouvre
[also bonus buying from axolom you can get the flexit harness, which is decent]
I would love to use a harness but unfortunately you would be able to see it from outside my pants lol - I will have a look at the foam packers though thanks!
easiest option is saftey pinning then- or getting silicone adhesive from someplace like gendercat
I don't cycle OR pack but this is a very funny problem to read about, so I feel personally invested in you getting good outcomes somehow 😂😂 Have you considered a jockstrap with a solid cup? You said the skin-tight shorts will show everything but a strap and cup may be typical enough that it wouldn't get a second glance.
A more intensive idea that may involve trial and error is to layer and sew padding in the crotch area specifically, just enough that you dispel the Ken doll illusion. Maybe even with the rolled up sock method, doing a few temporary stitches at the top, bottom, and each side of the sock ball to fix it to the crotch of the shorts? That way you'd just snip the temp stitches at the end and you can wash the sweaty shorts and socks properly.
I'm not sure what would work, but now I'm thinking about this seriously and I might end up trying one of these solutions on some yoga shorts I have and love but can't wear at the gym because of the Ken doll issue.
I have considered the strap idea but I guarantee it will be noticeable :,) so I’ve ruled that out - the only idea I’ve come up with so far is to sew a basically stuffed shape thing and Velcro it to the inside of my pants(???) I need that shit to stay in place and stay UNDER me instead of bunching up 😭
What about getting a couple of these and going arts and crafts on stacking/gluing/stitching them together, then stitching them on the inside of the shorts? They don't have them for sale separately there, but Amazon does have a few options.
Haha cycling pants actually have these things built in! I think sewing something might be my best idea, not sure what to fill it with tho but I guess I just need to lock in
Get those tiny silver shorts white goodman wears in dodgeball - a true underdog story, they have an inflatable package, that's customizable, for your and whoever else's viewing pleasure. 😘
Yeah, looking at cycling pants, I noticed they have that stuff in already, but I hoped double-stacking the front bit might just give you enough of a shape up front that it won't look weird.
As far as filling the shape with something...obviously those biodegradable styrofoam packing peanuts. Or ball bearings. And when the other cyclists ask if the rolling clacking sound is your junk, you just say, "What sound?"
We're all such opposites.....im MTF and was soooooo glad when I had SRS, now I can wear skin-tight gym wear and not have a bulge! Damn I wish we could swap body parts around, life would be so much simpler. Wishing you the very best in finding a solution to your problem 😊
Wear some damn briefs with the cycling shorts, it's not normal to go commando in these, I don't care what anyone says, they even specify they're not underwear and need a layer between your bits and the fabric. Plus it's really gross. Consider everyone has to see and smell your junk sweat. 😅 Just wear a size or two too small in briefs and you'll be solid. Mtf here, used to have issues keeping tucked my whole life before coming out. I had to find solutions without outing myself, so tight briefs and you'll be golden. Plus it's way healthier for your package.
Uhmm im transfem but this might help
so i play baseball and i wear a thing called baseball sliders under my baseball pants
And they are basically skin tight and have a pocket in the front genital area thats usually for the cup/box
Sometimes they have padding on the side/ butt area but thats just because the main use is for sliding in baseball but there are some that dont have that padding that just are skin tight with the cup pocket
But thats all i can suggest
But make sure you get one with an integrated cup pocket
And then with them i would just use whatever you use to pack doing any other activity (sorry im not trans masc so i dont really know what ppl use to pack)
But thats what i can suggest that might work with cycling cause its skin tight
Idk
Hope this helps and soz if it doesnt
I have The Imprint from ReelMagik for the gym/working out/especially revealing pants. I pack with an EZP as my daily go-to, but I don't actually need the STP for working out, and it's always just one awkward move away from accidental bonertown. The Imprint is great coz it's not a separate shaft and balls, it's like a cup or those modesty inserts male underwear models use. Can't go wandering the pants and the shaft coming out of place or falling down your leg, super light and comfy, plus they're very affordable