I haven’t had a birthday gathering for over 30 years. Accidentally my fault. Someone asked what I wanted to do for my birthday”special day” and I did it doesn’t matter to me. As in where. Not the day. Gave everyone the excuse. My bad. The ones who really cared were on it. But 10 maybe 15% of the circle of 20-25 on the regular interactions daily. Sad. I didn’t even get dinner in my 55th. So I went out and bought some kick ass cup cakes (6) and went to get a good coffee from a place that doesn’t charge you your first born for an extra pump of syrup. Got in the car and drove around eating my cup cakes for the day. Couple burgers in there as well. Shittiest part about that…. My phone never vibrates or rang. For 9 hours. Cool huh? So now…. Birthdays are just a day and if someone says let’s do something….. I straight fucking annoyed. Go figure.
Thanks my dude. It doesn’t suck as much any more unless someone says let’s do something. Like bitch…. You forgot for the last 18 years. Why now? Prolly needed something fixed or moved. 🤷‍♂️
I still treat myself to something every year. On my time in my space. Fuck all else.
Yeah, we only got ourselves brother. That's what I did. I went a got a buffet dinner. No one really cares unless they're gaining something from it. Over the last 5-6 years I've really dropped 95% of my friends. Stopped smoking weed and people stopped hitting me up. That's todays society right there but yeah, keep your head up boss. We got something good coming eventually
I guess go the girl/ woman route and organize the celebration yourself. I don’t even get told happy birthday by anyone but my younger siblings and my parents unless I organize something. My friends aren’t big on birthdays so they assume I’m like them. That could be a reason for you as well.
I haven’t had a cake I didn’t buy or make in several years, except for one time I said I really wanted a tres leches cake for my birthday and my dad went and bought it. My mom will make me flan or a specific meal but it’s something I always mentioned how much I appreciated it, ever since I was a kid, so she keeps doing it. I don’t think she’d still do that if I hadn’t said how much I like it.
Make sure the people in your life know you like birthday surprises. Maybe offhandedly mention how someone else got a cake and people sang happy birthday and how you miss it. They might pick up on it and start doing it. :)
Happy late birthday! Ik it can kinda suck sometimes
Thanks🤜🏼🤛🏼
Happy birthday man, sincerely wish you the best, hope you treat yourself to something nice or someone does
Thanks bud!
I haven’t had a birthday gathering for over 30 years. Accidentally my fault. Someone asked what I wanted to do for my birthday”special day” and I did it doesn’t matter to me. As in where. Not the day. Gave everyone the excuse. My bad. The ones who really cared were on it. But 10 maybe 15% of the circle of 20-25 on the regular interactions daily. Sad. I didn’t even get dinner in my 55th. So I went out and bought some kick ass cup cakes (6) and went to get a good coffee from a place that doesn’t charge you your first born for an extra pump of syrup. Got in the car and drove around eating my cup cakes for the day. Couple burgers in there as well. Shittiest part about that…. My phone never vibrates or rang. For 9 hours. Cool huh? So now…. Birthdays are just a day and if someone says let’s do something….. I straight fucking annoyed. Go figure.
Same here man, phone never rang as well. Happy birthday dude🫡
Thanks my dude. It doesn’t suck as much any more unless someone says let’s do something. Like bitch…. You forgot for the last 18 years. Why now? Prolly needed something fixed or moved. 🤷‍♂️ I still treat myself to something every year. On my time in my space. Fuck all else.
Yeah, we only got ourselves brother. That's what I did. I went a got a buffet dinner. No one really cares unless they're gaining something from it. Over the last 5-6 years I've really dropped 95% of my friends. Stopped smoking weed and people stopped hitting me up. That's todays society right there but yeah, keep your head up boss. We got something good coming eventually
Damn. I’m hitting the buffet next year. I love a good buffet.
Yeah! Buffet is the way to go! Full stomach, happy me
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Thanks 🙌🏻
Happy birthday bro!!
Thank you🤙🏼
I'm a woman who just turned 31 and none of my friends wished me a happy birthday. Not limited to men.
Happy birthday to you as well 🎉🥳
Happy bday!!!
Appreciate it 🫡
I worked on my last (26th) birthday and I honestly couldn't give a shit. It's just another day.
That used to be my mentality, life is precious and fragile man. It can't be just another day.
Most adult organize their own bday parties. Same here since 2019 and I’m only 25 right now
Happy Birthday! 🎉
I guess go the girl/ woman route and organize the celebration yourself. I don’t even get told happy birthday by anyone but my younger siblings and my parents unless I organize something. My friends aren’t big on birthdays so they assume I’m like them. That could be a reason for you as well.
I haven’t had a cake I didn’t buy or make in several years, except for one time I said I really wanted a tres leches cake for my birthday and my dad went and bought it. My mom will make me flan or a specific meal but it’s something I always mentioned how much I appreciated it, ever since I was a kid, so she keeps doing it. I don’t think she’d still do that if I hadn’t said how much I like it.
Make sure the people in your life know you like birthday surprises. Maybe offhandedly mention how someone else got a cake and people sang happy birthday and how you miss it. They might pick up on it and start doing it. :)
Oh, I will be 31 soon.
Thank you Angry Tuna Sandwich! Happy early bday for you as well!
You play xbox?
Ps
Well what do you play?
Any multi-player big names
I'll shoot you an invite when it's convenient
At the moment I don't have that much free time but when I do, i play helldivers2 and Warzone
Man helldivers looks so fun shame it's not on Xb but Warzone is good fun too
Helldivers is fun as hell, unfortunately after a while it gets repetitive
Well hopeful they find a way to mix it up a little one day
hey ik this post is kinda old, but hope things are turning out better for u now