During doggy position, my boyfriend said my vagina felt “hollow” and started asking if I had been with anyone else. I felt completely mortified. I haven’t been with anyone else and don’t even use toys to penetrate myself with. I’m in my early 30s and my period is starting very soon. I didn’t even have a perception that my vagina could feel “hollow”. Does anyone know why this would be and what I can do to control it? I feel so uncomfortable and undesirable, he told me to figure out what’s going on because it doesn’t sit right with him
This happened to me with other partners. I am pretty sure it was due to the position and air being introduced into the vagina. Not your fault or anything permanent.
Agreed, this commonly happens in doggy position especially
Yep. If you take your penis out and put it back in, it pushes air into the vagina. You can usually do it a few times. To me, it feels really good and it’s a new/different sensation from the norm.
I had one partner that really liked it. My most recent partner forbade me from pulling out from behind “without warning” because she would let out a long vagina fart that made her self conscious.
My vag farts after doggy, my bf and I just laugh about it 🙄
Affectionately know as a Queef
I like the term fart more 😂
Came to say this. May depend on the angle of thrusting can pump in air and result in a not as tight feeling and queef.
That girl was less fun than you. I didn’t think it was weird or gross but she took everything too seriously.
Well when women are told by society all their lives that their normal bodily functions/features are gross and should be hidden, covered, shaven, plucked, etc. It’s not really a surprise why some women feel so deeply ashamed of things like that. it’s basically ingrained into us from the time we’re kids.
It usually happens when you pull out at an odd angle that air gets sucked into the vagina.
Apart from resulting in queefing, it can actually be uncomfortable or even painful to be penetrated while the air is still inside.
This brought back memories of a major release of air after a doggystyle session with my fiancé! He was horrified at first, thinking I was farting (a LOT), and I had to (laughingly) explain that it was air coming back out of my vagina, and HE was the one who had pushed it in there!
Also, guy’s an asshole for many reasons.
”figure it out”
wtf?!
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1000% agree with this. He sounds like a real prick and sounds like he probably has serious trust issues as well. Tell that guy to fuck off!
Side note: learn to use your pussy muscles to squeeze down on the cock, especially in doggy.
I know those two things, can it also be weak floor muscles too?
Altho that guy is still dumb for saying about other partners and in such a degrading way
Don’t know about that personally. My guess would be air and other things already mentioned.
You know what really feels hollow? Your bf's cranium.
You deserve an award for this comment lol
I mean this in the most respectful way I can: at the very least, your bf is incredibly ignorant of women’s bodies, or at worst a total idiot.
I think it's the "been with anyone else" thing that's the tell here. 😑
As if someone’s average wiener is enough to permanently alter a woman’s anatomy lol
Yeah, the lack of critical thinking required to make comments like what OP's boyfriend did is just dumbfounding:
Well honey, I've thought about it, long and hard. And I think I've figured it out. You should get a penis pump, use it, then fuck me while it's engorged. That should help.
Alternatively, I think you should consider a dick extension.
...
I dunno. Regardless, OP should be considering a new sexual partner. Maybe one with 2 entire brain cells to rub together. I mean, this guy has 2, but they're currently locked in a duel to the death for 3rd place.
average or Not it's not permanently altering things in there, aside from catastrophic damage or something!
Agreed. I just threw the word average in there for a comedic tone.
Lol gotcha sorry. I was thinking "do they think Nonaverage ones change things in there?" :)
Wild for someone to feel something different and jump immediately to “I should accuse my partner of cheating on me”. He’s either insecure as hell, stupid as hell, cheating himself, or some combination of those.
my money is on him cheating. It`s a tell he is accursing her of it.
Can confirm my ex used to do it to me.
Oh! See, I read it as more of a sexual history question ("Has she been with someone bigger and therefore more satisfying than me?" is a common anxiety for some men) but that's a great point.
You could be right, but I assumed since she's in her early 30's he probably wasn't her first. Classical behavior of a liar though.
Huge red flag. Even bigger than the dude he's imagining she cheated with
My money is on that tiny ego!
That's a very nice way of saying her bf is a POS.
Agreed. OP, u/RinaBambina, what is up with your boyfriend and lover?
I wonder if you see yourself with this chump for the long haul or not.
I’m sorry your BF’s comments are hurtful and flat-out misinformed. Nothing is “wrong” with your body, and this has nothing to do with cheating (or previous partners) or toys. Vaginas don’t get permanently stretched by sex - that’s a stupid-arse myth. They’re muscular and elastic, and when you’re aroused they relax and expand on purpose.
Doggy-style in particular can feel more open because of pelvic tilt, gravity and trapped air (queefing is common for a reason, duhhh) and him thrusting air into you if he’s remotely doing something somewhat properly. Also, being close to your period can also change how things feel. All of this is normal.
You don’t need to “fix” anything. If he wants more friction, that’s about positions or technique, not your body. The real issue is him turning normal anatomy into an accusation. That’s insecurity and ignorance or straight-out idiocy, not intuition.
You’re faithful, normal and not undesirable. If he can’t learn how bodies actually work or communicate without shaming you, that’s a red flag, not a reflection on you.
I think he is an idiot
He could be ignorant of humans' anatomy. However, the guy went directly to cheating accusations, that doesn't just come up randomly because people like this usually are projecting their action to get ahead of the suspicions.
I think you nailed it.
Those things are not mutually exclusive, he’s both of them and more.
Can it be both? I vote both. They dont have to be mutually exclusive....
They balloon when aroused or in different positions. It’s completely normal. He’s an idiot.
This is it. When very excited, my gf's vagina will 'balloon'. It's not air, it's a real thing that the vagina is doing. It is when my fist goes in.
Your bf made it pretty hard to respect him. Or trust him.
The correct thing would be to ditch a man who accuses you of being with another man based on the shape of your vagina.
Not even the shape, HE pushed air into her
That guy sucks. Sorry.
Yeah. Your boyfriend is an idiot.
Vagina felt "hollow"
Boobs are like a "bag of sand"
OPs loser boyfriend could have been a writer on the 40 year old virgin.
Air can easily enter the vagina when the woman is on all fours. Often this causes a wet sound like flatulence during intercourse, but that air also sometimes means parts of the erection are not in contact with the vaginal walls. It can definitely feel “hollow” but this is a tactless way for your partner to describe it, and a baseless follow up question about having sex with others.
Your body is normal. The way this man talked to you isn’t. He doesn’t sound like a nice man.
Respectfully, your boyfriend sounds like a disrespectful dickhead that clearly knows very little about the female anatomy.
In certain positions, the vagina can feel different due to how it sits within the human body.
You have every right to feel mortified about his baseless accusations. If I were you, I'd be seriously considering whether or not you should be with him because of this.
This sounds like he's negging you, and just degrading you in some sense. What is his goal with this? Does he want you to look into some sort of "tightening up" nonsense?
Honestly huge red flag, he should be so lucky to get to have sex with you.
Honestly I would be worried if your vagina was "solid"
i wouldn’t stay with a man who’s first instinct was to denigrate me and accuse me of cheating for something like this 😭 OP, i’m sure your vagina is absolutely fine
Tell him that his dick felt like a pencil and ask him if he knows any good techniques to add girth.
I’m half joking but that was a horrible thing for him to say.
It meant you were so aroused it opened up, which is natural.
Him being that dumb on the other hand? Not so natural. I'd never keep seeing someone who disrespects me like that.
The dumbness is natural. The intelligence is a developed skill.
I had the exact same experience when fingering my GF in doggy position. So I just assumed it's due to the position. But in no way had I considered to say/ask something like your BF did... thats just mean
tell him he could probably fill you properly if he had a bigger dick, tell him to work on it cuz it doesnt sit right with you. when he cries about how his dick cant change size tell him that your hollow vagina doesnt care
honestly tho, you were probably experiencing vaginal tenting from arousal which is supposed to be a good thing. doggy position can also really stretch your abdominal muscles and pull your pelvic floor up, making the tenting more noticable and maybe even drawing air into yourself (this can happen in any position but i always find it more common in doggy)
get rid of him. it’s natural and should have told him he was doing something right but his insecurities came out instead. maybe he’s the one seeing someone else 👀
He told you what now??? Figure it out? Baby... never make this boyfriend a husband. He is not the one.
It sounds like your boyfriend is negging you. If you aren't sexually compatible, there are better ways of communicating this. All I can think is he is trying to destroy your self esteem to control you. I know, I've seen numerous men use this form of manipulation. It's rather commonplace.
The only solution is to dump this asshole. He will only continue to try to hurt your feelings for his entertainment.
Absolutely. That would be my first guess. Also…people who cheat tend to accuse their partners of cheating. Hopefully it’s not that, but it’s bad either way.
not only is your boyfriend stupid he’s also incredibly rude to you. that is such an inconsiderate thing to say and the only thing it does is show how little he understands the female body! it was just the angle there’s nothing you can do about it. tell him to grow up and dump him
As a lesbian who uses my hands a lot and pays attention to all the details of the vagina, I will tell you that the vagina will be tighter and also open up in different states of arousal and/or different positions. He needs a sex ed class.
Your boyfriend is a dick. Its like telling a man his dick is small. Your boyfriend probably has death grip syndrome. Tell him to masturbate less and use a looser grip.
He's complaining about a natural thing vaginas do when they're aroused. Literally a vaginal erection. So its more like telling a man his dick is suddenly big and hard and it's weirding you out because you've never seen an erection before.
AIR. ITS JUST AIR. Some positions make it easier for air to enter the vagina and make it feel “hollow” This is also the cause of queefing if you didn’t already know lol
It depends on the woman also. Not all dicks are the same and not all the vaginas feel the same "some you like, some you don't"
Use a buttplug inside your tushy while doing PIV and both will get completely different sensations.
Have fun!
This is honestly a really disgusting way for someone you let have sex with you talk about your body.
Nothing is wrong with you. That’s just how sex is sometimes. “He told me to figure it out”, you should unironically leave immediately because no person should speak to you that way, especially when you’ve done no wrong.
So presumably this guy is 30+ and thinks that women get loose if they have more than one partner? Kick that dude to the curb
Is he a bit of a dumb ass / not very careful about what he says or maybe very inexperienced?
Feel like this is a bit of a combination of both maybe.
Some men are so fucking dumb.
Married for 10 years and dam this dude is a fucking idiot. Anyone who honestly believes you can be stretched out, which is what he's insinuating here, is a moron. Im not a woman so I'll defer to the ladies in here with explanations but god dam that statement from him and topped with saying YOU need to figure it out is a fucking joke.
I hope you break up with him. That’s horrible.
That’s honestly a crazy thing for him to say, and embarrassing for him in ways he’ll never understand
Totally normal. You open up in that angle. If you flex your PC muscles you can squeeze him.
I don't know if "hollow" is the word I would use. But it definitely feels less... Snug in doggy compared to most other positions in my experience with my wife.
Your body is just in a different position, go figure it feels different!
look up tenting it’s a good thing
That’s normal for doggy style honestly. I’m not sure if it’s the angle or if air is brought into the equation because of the positioning. But it’s the reason why I don’t do this position with partners often
Maybe your vaginal muscles are loose in that position? Hollow sounds like a word used because they didn’t want to say sloppy or loose
Hi, male here. Ive experienced this with multiple partners and assure it its fairly common in this position. Its likely due to being aroused, as this relaxes the vaginas muscles, as well as gravity simply pulling it forward and down, and winds up opening the canal more.
Ive found this tends to happen more frequently in plus-sized girls, not 100% sure why, but its normal.
If its an issue for you guys, you should try researching new positions to try that work better for you
Can we all please take a moment to teach men that is not how vaginas work anyway
Well, now that you understand your vagina better, you can work on breaking up with your idiot boyfriend. Moronically ignorant to women's bodies for one, but to accuse you of fucking someone else because of that is ridiculous. Lose this little boy and find a man.
His dick is just skinny. Nothing wrong with you
Honestly this is kind of just a thing that happens during doggy regardless of the partner. Not sure why this is but it isn’t something you should take personally at all omg. He shouldn’t be rude about it though. Either he is aware of this and trying to make you feel bad or he is stupid and/or sexually inexperienced
Your boyfriend, I regret to tell you, is an asshole. You don't need to be with someone who makes you feel that way.
When he can’t get hard immediately next time, ask him if he’s been with someone else and then tell him to figure out whats going on because it doesn’t sit right with you.
He’s a derp.
Some women under high levels of arrousal will “tent”, relaxing and lengthening the vaginal canal. This makes penetration easier and more pleasurable.
Read the first Google search on “vaginal tenting”.
The TLDR version is that it usually only happens when you’re extremely aroused and attracted to your partner.
Bop his snoot lol
amateur. Tell him to read. what a jackass, tell em stay inside and that won’t be a problem. Even if it happens again, stop have him pull out and sit. Let that bitch breath
happened before, BF's dick was getting smaller.
The correct response from your part would be “well your dick just must be getting smaller, and I can’t continue with someone whose dick is shriveling, so see ya.”
not only is your boyfriend a dick, he’s stupid.
Different women feel different for a variety of reasons.
That difference has nothing to do with whether you use toys are have multiple sexual partners.
The state of arousal certainly has something to do with it. Right after an orgasm my partner’s vagina gets very relaxed. As she is building up to an orgasm the back of the vagina opens up while the muscles around the entrance tighten. But that’s just her - other partners responded differently.
All vaginas feel fucking amazing. Best damn cylinder you can find for a penis, if you ask me.
Your boyfriend is a moron or a teenager or both. Tell him to read a book or an ask reddit thread, or dump his ass.
Your bf is a dick for asking this. When you lean forward your tummy is pulled down by gravity and expands the walls of your vag.
I am so grossed out by him asking you if you’d been with anyone else. That’s not how vaginas work.
That when you tell him that if his cock wasn't so small there wouldn't be an issue. Then you dump that jerk.
Reaction your boyfriends comments: ewww. Wtaf is wrong with him.
Girl, he needs to go. He doesn't respect women and is trying to punish you for his ignorance. He's telling you that he trusts his ignorance over your word. Dump this ignorant clown. He's far too old to think this type of bs. If it doesn't sit right with him, he can fuck all the way off. I bet he doesn't even know how to please you in bed and before you say he does, if you've never been with another man, you have no clue.
Try keeping your knees closer together. Widen your feet to give him better access, or just have your legs inside of his.
OP could solve the problem by breaking up with her dumbass boyfriend
I'm not discrediting the boyfriend's lack of tact or his ignorance--other commenters have it covered.
I am simply answering OP's question in case she wanted to know how to control/prevent this in future. It can be embarrassing, potentially anxiety inducing if a person doesn't know that it's just a positioning issue.
Your boyfriend might not understand anatomy
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Yes to everything else said here, if you’re having sex on the regular the canal can also feel a bit looser than normal.. so could be he’s the one doing the hollowing. What a POS.. sorry he said that to you, clearly he doesn’t enjoy having a vagina to stick his dick in?
Has he been w anyone else? Cuz if he’s expecting you to not have previous experience but then he has, he really doesn’t need to be talking.
What the hell!?!)? Please break up with him
Doesn’t the vagina widen when aroused? Maybe he just didn’t fit and wanted to blame something; either that or clueless
Your boyfriend is ignorant. Sex does not make a vagina looser, and the cavitation ("tenting") is a thing that happens naturally during the arousal cycle as the vagina prepares to receive semen.
He needs to be set straight and apologize to you for his ignorance and making you feel like shit for no reason. Then he needs to pick up a book.
I can’t believe the shit guys say to women or worse to their actual girlfriends. The disrespect. How dare he? How about next time you tell him his dick feels so small today. You can’t even feel if he‘s inside of you. Maybe he can use a pump to make it bigger?
Vaginal dilation/tenting during arousal is a thing, sounds a lot like that's what was happening, perfectly normal. Your boyfriend's attitude however... might want to check him on that after you educate him on what's going on. He ever notices that happening he should be proud of his work, not freaked out like you're boning someone else lol.
Your bf is a complete moron. Not your problem if he's got problems holding his erection or probably a small member. On top of being insecure and hurtful. I'd be spending time to figure out if he's a good partner cause on the evidence what you've written... he surely wasn't one in that situation and certainly not when shifting blame to you.
air coming in, mostly bc of the position. ur boyfriend is an idiot btw
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Air goes into the vagina sometimes when doing doggy. I’m a guy and I know this. Sorry to say, but your partner was rude and ignorant. If he says something like this again and makes you feel bad, say “there’s air in my vagina because your penis doesn’t fill it”
Sit him down and 1. tell him he's ignorant of women's bodies/an idiot. 2. explain to him how childbirth works and that it goes back to normal after.. and a damn penis isn't gonna do shit to change a vagina. 3. dump his ass.
Your boyfriends a fucking asshole
This is pretty normal, maybe it can be lessened by osuhing out air or strengthening the abs, but I'm not sure on that.
How is your partner 32, absolute brain dead evaluation and comment by him.
Your boyfriend is a bit dim.
Disrespectfully, fuck that guy. He doesn’t respect you. Needs to be EX’d STAT
Man : spread everything for me
Everything spreads
Man: surprised pikachu
I hope you told him it was probably just his small penis
100% it's air. My wife gets the same, I then push in deep and make her queef for the giggles then pull out so she fills up with air again. It's a blast! 😁
your bf is a fucking loser, leave him
That’s actually a fun feeling I have during doggy style. Feels like my dick is spelunking and it just found an opening lol
Tell not be so small and dont just assume that you took bigger dick. This normal. My ex would do the same if slip out I just go right back in and from fingering too much air. Also would find new bf.
Definitely just the position.
Oh, you poor thing... Thats awful of him to say. You're not hollow... He's just dumb.
Oh, you poor thing... Thats awful of him to say. You're not hollow... He's just dumb.
Definitely "doggy air" lots of lube can help create more of a "seal" but yeah, trade off of the position
I kinda feel like you should both know why this happens. Good on you for seeking answers, good on him for admitting ignorance and insecurities. Bad on him for his delivery. In this position, gravity pulls on your thorax, soft tissues are 90 degrees to how they're normally carried. You should EXPECT those tissues to behave differently in different positions.
When he's seated, his penis appears shorter, has he been sleeping with other women? Not based on that. You shouldn't feel mortified because of the natural consequence of changing you're orientation from vertical. Your boobs hang too in that position, that doesn't mean you're sleeping around.
Your bf should be alone instead of degrading you
Hey babe, last night when we were doing it, your penis felt kindof squashed. Have you been with anyone else?
I thought we all know that Vaginas get “looser” to accept a dick (or strap on for my bi/lesbian homies) due to being aroused.
Or an I confused here?
Ahh the way I would have tossed that "no, it's your dick too short" over my shoulder 👹
Well, the problem is you were fucking a malignant moron. Tell him the doctor said you checked out and that this was caused by too much air being pushed in because he's on the smaller side, which he needs to figure out because it's not sitting right with you and he can't get it done.
Is this the same dipshit from your other post that thinks you don't use soap when washing dishes? Where are you finding these fuckin gems?
Your boyfriend has no idea how the female body works , in that position that’s just how it goes!
He seems like a clown.
Might be vaginal tenting and it's for being aroused.
https://lifehacker.com/learn-how-tenting-works-to-make-intercourse-easier-1571085038
Also I think you deserve an apology from your bf. That was both insensitive and showing a lack of trust. Trust is essential in a long term relationship. He needs to work on his insecurities, temper and maybe even biology.
Your boyfriend sounds hollow
Your uterus changes position throughout your cycle.
Air is also common to get there during sex, especially during doggy, especially if you’re particularly excited.
Weird AF for your boyfriend to not only make you feel self conscious over it, but to also accuse you of cheating over it. Is he cheating?
I asked my friend Lamar what he thought the problem might be and he said, "he's white"!!
Ahh the deathly hollows. Kidding, you’re completely fine as other comments indicate.
Your bf is a dweeb vaginas can change depth and elasticity for a variety of reasons including being aroused, hormones what part of the cycle you’re in hydration blood pressure I’m sure other reasons too
get a load of this guy he thinks vagina only exist to conform to cylindrical shapes i bet he claims to know where the gspot is but had never put things anywhere but farther “in”
The vaginal walls become erect, just like the penis, when you're excited. The vaginal opening and cavity both become noticeably larger. It's nature's way of saying "let's do this!" All very normal and natural, and it's not surprising that you haven't felt this if you haven't been excited in this way before.
Alright. Every woman has different default "tightness" regardless of how much it stretches or squeezes from that default, just like every guy has different length and girth and not every guy gets the same amount of hard as everyone else (and hardness can vary throughout). A lot of women don't even realize some women are tighter than others even accounting for being completely soaked or turned on, regardless of kegals (though this can help of course), etc. It's a muscle. This is why everyone has different preferences on dick sizes too (even if most of the sensation is just at the entrance and any deeper tightness is really just for the guys sensation).
So having said that, one you'll generally relax and squeeze less the more turned on you are, and two the only times as a guy I've felt extra "space" when it was otherwise unexpected was from a combination of #1 and having pushed too much air in from doggie position (which is incredibly easy to do without realizing it when you're that bent over).
Also if you were going to be noticeably stretched by what he fears, you would have had to fucked a guy with a laughably-larger-than-his dick like within hours before fucking your boyfriend, and I seriously doubt you'd be in any position to want to have more sex if that were the case. You'd be in pain. But for a guy that knows absolutely nothing, it could be mortifying to him thinking you hooked up with someone else secretly, and if that's a concern then he's already insecure about his size even if he shouldn't be and thus fears another guy already doing a better job with a bigger dick or something delusional along those lines.
So, from a completely neutral perspective, if I were you, I wouldn't listen to these redditors and dump or judge the guy yet because this is a first occurrence, but I would show him some comments here and teach him that hey, depending on the woman and position (and his dick's size relative to your unique vagina as everyone's vagina is actually unique in both shape and tightness, not just stretchiness and wetness), there's a chance where this scenario can happen. Thus if it isn't enough contact for enough pleasure, well okay change the position. That's what most of us do. There are certain positions that are much better at more intense contact and friction. Nobody can change their size on either side and that's fine lol.
You can do kegal exercises every day if you want to get better at squeezing him while he's inside you. It's hard to squeeze anything except the entrance but if you don't mind him going in and out from that spot (most women don't unless there's pain), you can drive him crazy like that just by bearing down on his dick hard, but it's a muscle so you really do have to do it every day to get better at it. My gf can create a death grip on demand such that the entrance won't even feel good for me, it'll just squeeze me too hard and actually hurt (bordering on pinching almost), so it is possible. and kegals for dudes can help force and keep blood in such that you can prolong what I'd call moments of 100% hardness. You're essentially just flexing your prostate in both cases.
Also something that can help is if you get REALLY wet at 100% and he's already been sliding in with zero issues for both of you at 40% wetness, he can always pull out and wipe off some of the excess with a towel and go right back in.
You're not going to experience anything like what he's fearing unless you were working towards taking in dragon sized dildos every day and maintaining that stretching long-term, you were cheating on him every day with a guy with a giant porn dick and again maintaining that breaking in (which would be mortifying for anyone and you're clearing not that kind of person), or you just had 2-3 kids and had permanent changes during birth that couldn't be avoided.
Sounds like a position issue, but if you want to "tighten up" I would suggest doing kegels
Nagdidilate talaga ang vagina lalo pag libog na libog ka. Wala lang talagang alam bf mo sa anatomy kaya ganyan.
Sometimes that just happens.
I actually have a problem cumming and need friction against the head most times. And I’m pretty long. So I have a lot more experience than anyone else on this.
After the opening the same women at different times will be quite a bit different in how tight or loose it is inside. I suspect it’s hormonal, but it could be neurological or even random (or trapped air as someone said).
He’s a prick if he doesn’t know that this is caused by fluctuations in your body, not sleeping with someone else.
If you are in this relationship I pray you are in a place with totally absent sex education, or he’s ridiculously immature, or both.
Honestly, a guy that immature or confused really shouldn’t be having sex at all. It’s not right to you.
He’s a loser, seriously. Go tell him to f himself.
Maybe his dick shrank.
I doggy, my wife seems to relax or the angles are different and she feels what might be described as 'hollow'. Then she clenches and OMG, nope, no hollowness there. 😉
I don't recall if I ever fact checked this, but I'm pretty sure when a woman is really aroused during sex, just inside the vagina really opens up, can't recall if it's muscle constricting or what, I just know for me when I was fingering, I could literally spin my finger round like you would do if you were saying someone was coo coo on the side of your head, and touch nothing unless I reach for the edges of the wall in each direction.
I thought it was fascinating, but also counter productive if this is the response when the woman is really horny, and every surface that would usually friction with whatever (penis, toy, finger) can't touch it beyond the entrance, the back, and the sides if you penetrate at an angle.
Probably air got trapped. And days it feels more roomy apparently, are days your probably even more physically turned on than usual. since you were even more… accommodating than usual.
It also happens if you (the vagina owner) are reasonable fit. “Bigger” women don’t experience this
Well, I'm a CIS man so take what I say with a grain of salt, but it is my understanding that when a vagina owner is fully aroused, the vagina "opens up" to make room for a penis. So perhaps this is a result of your boyfriend doing a good job of turing you on?
This is entirely normal and your bf needs to get over himself.
Seriously who says this during doggy position? Thats not “doggy style” that’s an insecure dog.
Comment got removed for insult. Let’s say your boyfriend is an absolute penis
To answer your question, YES the cervix lowers, softens and OPENS up slightly before and during your period to let blood flow out. After the period ends your cervix rises, becomes more firm and the opening tightens.
Honestly some positions and angles just feel like there's more space, at least for me with my past partners and current partner. I just always attributed it to them being real wet or just enjoying themselves too much to be tensed up. I could be wrong but honestly it's definitely not a cause for worry or to feel self conscious, if he's not grown enough to deal with the small stuff that happens during sex naturally then he should not be having sex
Seems like his girth is small. No one feels hollow to me. I feel the walls just fine.
You tell him maybe his D shrunk from too much gorilla grip. Huh, it must shush him up!
Yeah this guy is an absolute ass! You shoukd tell him you "figured it out" that he's an insensitive dick and youre leaving him
For me personally when someone has really just destroyed the puss its WAYYYYYY tighter afterward. Id imagine because its healing .
Tell your boyfriend it wouldn’t feel hollow in doggy if he was filling you up with dick instead of air. Then recommend he have his doctor check out his penis in case there is something wrong with it.
Ask him If His dick was shrinking!
Personally I looove when my wifes pussy feels like this!
Your boyfriend is an ahole
This happened to me once about 18 years ago. I hadn't been with anyone else either! I thought it was due to my pregnancy at the time. It hasn't happened with my current partner.
Fuck him again, but as soon as he puts it in, stop and say, "your dick feels skinny. Have you been with anyone else?"