This sounds like a heavy thing to carry, and I’m glad you put it into words. When we’re already feeling lonely or ignored, it’s easy for our brains to turn that pain inward and blame our appearance. That doesn’t mean those thoughts are true. It just means you’re hurting, and that deserves compassion, not more self-criticism. Please remember that attraction and connection are not just about looks, even if it feels that way right now. Your worth as a person isn’t defined by how you look or by who talks to you.
I also hate the way I look but I am a woman. It sucks extra because women have to look attractive or you are not wanted. At least men can compensate by becoming wealthy. But that doesn't help all men I suppose either.....
This leads nowhere... What exactly don't you like? Focus either on what can be changed aside from it OR if what you don't like can be changed do that OR maybe your perspective can change but you have to be critical and realistic about the subject to find answers if not this is just a motto that you have to make everyday worse than it actually is
I know you can be better but I like the saying "once you can articulate the problem 100% means you have 90% of the solution" or something like that tho 😂✌️ but yeah ❤️ good luck brother 🙏
Women who value your appearance that much are 2 dimensional and aren't worth your time. Your body is nothing more than a meat sack you drive to experience sensory input from the world. You aren't your body. You're your thoughts, hopes, dreams, interests, dislikes, etc. Start looking at who you ARE and not assume you are how you look. Stay hale and hearty, stranger.
This sounds like a heavy thing to carry, and I’m glad you put it into words. When we’re already feeling lonely or ignored, it’s easy for our brains to turn that pain inward and blame our appearance. That doesn’t mean those thoughts are true. It just means you’re hurting, and that deserves compassion, not more self-criticism. Please remember that attraction and connection are not just about looks, even if it feels that way right now. Your worth as a person isn’t defined by how you look or by who talks to you.
Forget about your looks, work on yourself and enjoying your life. Women flock to ppl who enjoy their lives
I also hate the way I look but I am a woman. It sucks extra because women have to look attractive or you are not wanted. At least men can compensate by becoming wealthy. But that doesn't help all men I suppose either.....
You don’t actually know that tho man, truth is women’s attraction towards men is on a spectrum.
Don’t give up.
This leads nowhere... What exactly don't you like? Focus either on what can be changed aside from it OR if what you don't like can be changed do that OR maybe your perspective can change but you have to be critical and realistic about the subject to find answers if not this is just a motto that you have to make everyday worse than it actually is
I know you can be better but I like the saying "once you can articulate the problem 100% means you have 90% of the solution" or something like that tho 😂✌️ but yeah ❤️ good luck brother 🙏
Are you fit? That’s the question to answer.
Finally some real problems
Me too
Women who value your appearance that much are 2 dimensional and aren't worth your time. Your body is nothing more than a meat sack you drive to experience sensory input from the world. You aren't your body. You're your thoughts, hopes, dreams, interests, dislikes, etc. Start looking at who you ARE and not assume you are how you look. Stay hale and hearty, stranger.
Your life gets new direction once you start accepting yourself the way you are. Just go ahead. Love yourself. It will change everything.
But what if you're always being leaned against?
Self-love doesn't mean people won't push you around, it means you won't let 'em define you. It should be like "my line, my vibe".
Then I look at other people and think: why are they treated better or not criticized? And then I feel unfairly treated.
I am a woman, you can talk to me.
It’s hard to believe anyone else could like you when you can’t even stand your own reflection.
And this has to do with him venting how?
You're right, my bad. That came out harsher than I meant.
I understand, we’re all only human
Thanks for understanding
I admire your humility, it would have cost you nothing to ignore my comment, or to give me snark. Cheers