My boyfriend since 2 years, told me during our last argument that I was only with him because no other man was interested in me. He then added something like, "If If they had noticed you, you would surely have been with others by now". Now I don't know what to do. I told him I would never forgive him for saying those kinds of things, but even though I told him I was leaving the relationship, I don't see him doing anything to look for me. It hurts but I need some advice

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    Original post: My boyfriend since 2 years, told me during our last argument that I was only with him because no other man was interested in me. He then added something like, "If If they had noticed you, you would surely have been with others by now". Now I don't know what to do. I told him I would never forgive him for saying those kinds of things, but even though I told him I was leaving the relationship, I don't see him doing anything to look for me. It hurts but I need some advice

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  • Why tf would he say that to you?? Nahh that’s weird. He sounds crazy and you deserve better

  • Well done him for insulting both of you in one sentence. Sounds like a mix of insecurity and passive aggressive communication

  • You deserve better than that