Hello Top-Station-166,

You are not in trouble or anything, this is just a simple copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed.

Original post: I either get into relationships right away or drag the friendship/platonic thing forever.

If im being unhealthy ill date right away If im trying to do the right thing and take things slow I take forever.

Why cant I find a nice middle ground.

I will say I have a fear of commitment and none of my relationships last long, I like unavailable men that give me a chase, I like to be submissive, a have a daddy issues, I have poor boundries

I dont know if the last bit is important to answer my question but I thought id include it.

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