Hello tu__ia,

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Original post: My friend [19F] told me that she has a crush on me [19F]. Personally I never imagined going out with a girl and I'm kinda afraid that if things don't work out between us our relationship will be destroyed. And another thing is, I can't imagine a relationship with her lasting for a long time, and if I don't think that it would last, then there's no way I can take it seriously.

What answer to give to her? Should we try dating?

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I would let her know that you don't reciprocate feelings, and you value your friendship but aren't looking for anything intimate! It can be difficult to word, but really let her know that you still want to be friends and don't think less of her. 💖