I tend to enjoy conversations that start with a small observation about popular culture, trends, or something you encountered, and gradually branch out. One thought leads to another, connections get made, and nothing needs to be nailed down or defended.

I’m fine with everyday check-ins and life updates, but they’re usually a small part of how I communicate. Most of what I enjoy is exploring ideas together in a loose, meandering and expolritory way. Topics often wander through culture, food, media, history, habits, and how ordinary things shift over time. I’m especially drawn to patterns that are easy to miss and rarely announced, but become obvious once you notice them and inspire unexpected connections.

I don’t need polished arguments or poetic self-portraits. I’m just looking for curiosity, attentiveness, and the pleasure of thinking out loud with someone who enjoys doing the same.

If your favorite conversations feel more like walking around an idea together than arriving at a conclusion, we’d probably get along!

And btw, if you’re open to it I greatly enjoy sending voice messages as well

  • Hey! 26/M USA here too. I like the way you think, I enjoy making theories about things, exploring new topics, finding how things connect, or learning about things I have yet to make an opinion about. Especially with how quick the world is changing, having a thought partner is really cool. Anyways, that’s all to say I enjoy that type of conversation and open to voice messages too