• Cat ownership buffs your odds big time

    you mean lesbians love pussy?

    I came to this thread yesterday and had taken the advice at face value, noooo  

    Tbf it seems to be one of the meta for a lot of relationships. (Source : my co-op female player has a [cat] familiar and I was affected by the boosts too)  

  • For whatever reason the progression to [cohabitating] status is much faster than it other types of relationships

    +20% bonus if you rent the U-Haul vehicle too

    Is there a way to bypass [cohabitating] status while keeping this relationship type intact? If not, I will need to start throwing more points into my [single] build. I’d really like a hybrid build though. It has a better move set.

    A lot of relationship perks are locked behind [cohabitation] status. I see some players compensate with [Generational Housing] builds but you can do that while [Single] and it only works if your teammate has their own housing build so YMMV.

  • Get a [Subaru] vehicle.

    Well, if you live in the [Pacific Northwest] region of the [United States] faction, getting a [Subaru] doesn't work, as the [Subaru] meta there is so strong that even [Cishet] mains drive them.

    Toyota Highlander is the new shit...

  • Campaign for high speed rail in the Politics quest line of your server as you will inevitably fall for someone whose base is far away from yours.

    My girlfriend and I hope to move in together when we both have enough currency to be safe in our base. But right now we base very far apart.

    According to my stat sheet, I'm a lesbian in all but [gender]. I'd be extremely enthusiastic about the devs adding a highspeed rail system to the map, and would make fast(er)- travel like that my primary focus if I was ever granted any sort of admin privileges.

    Idk what it is man. I must've accidentally made a masc lesbian build that.... wait, aren't I the dream [lesbian] build? Because I do have a dick

    if you have the gender dysphoria stat you can become a lesbian by following the transgender quest

    its a fucking grind tho, an absolute slog

    But it’s not all bad. You gain all sorts of affinity boosters. The game’s largest boost for [music production: electronic] can only be obtained with that questline iirc.

    can confirm, i completed the coming out quest and immediately got 30 points in music prod electronic, it's kinda wild

    Hell yeah sister

    you can also double jump

    You pull random aggro too for some reason; sometimes normally static NPCs will just attack you for no reason

    I feel this - a lot of my early crushes ended up being lesbians. I checked my settings and I was config'd okay - just needed to find the right woman who had similar qualities.

    Lesbian characters are just so...approachable, ya know? I love 'em.

  • Dog ownership with frisbee accessories gives you +3 to stamina and +4 to intrigue.

    Flannel buff access is guaranteed and uhaul vehicle unlocked on engagement

    Uhaul vehicle unlocked on date 2 in some cases, ymmv

    +4 to intrigue

    Who or what would you conspire against?

    The straight agenda

  • Pvp is more competitive than you'd think

  • Male characters will try to gaslight you that you simply haven’t had the right PIvP session yet.

    Or that's because they are the only ones with the right PvP session.   ... Maybe we should deal with our own PvP instead of thinking about people duelling?  

  • Depends on your location. Players in the North American and European regions have a fairly easy time of it, while players in the Middle Eastern region get hunted down and killed if they so much as talk about it.

    Mods need to fix those aggro settings

    Fr their roam range is insane

    There are plenty of openly gay players in the Middle East, but they're concentrated in Tel Aviv.

    I don't get it?

    Tel Aviv is the gayest city in the middle east, if not the Mediterranean.

  • The current most popular load out seems to be:

    head slot-Beanie

    foot slot-Birkenstocks

    torso-Flannel

    The most popular mount option is the subaru forester, though some people choose the uhaul.

  • Be hot and rich.. same as it always has. Being hot, rich, and Butch is Diamond tier.. but good luck with that.

    I feel like you might want to explore other Guild options. My Guildmates & I have followed the Uhaul integrative questline for 500G or less. We all generally have liked grinding together and idling in our bases.

    To OP, updating your UI to have ready access to your Tools has always been stock loadout in the Sapphic optional dungeons. If you can't, asking other players if they have is always a solid ice breaker to get party invites. It really does help if you can find a Guild Hall near you focused on the Sapphic dungeon crawls.

    Don't forget, interpersonal [Communication] is a difficult skill tree, but it can be trained up.

    As of right now, [Flagging] is no longer meta for Sapphics of all kinds. The only ones remaining tend to be flannels and carabineers. It's harder for Femme avatars, but not at all impossible.

    I would advise you to try idling in Hubs for hobbies that LGBTQIA+ Mains tend to flock to. My city has groups for D&D & TTRPGs for LGBTQIA+ mains on Meetup.com for example.

    Best of luck, OP! Don't forget, even when it gets hard and lonely, it's better not to go AFK. LGBTQIA+ mains are unpopular right now in a lot of places but they're important to the player economy.

    Also, if you're easily frightened by the outdoors, or just a lady lumberjack main who needs a cup of tea, check local craft stores, markets, and makers markets. 

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  • A lot of players trying to power-level their [Lesbian] class join guilds that focus on one of the sport minigames. There’s an alliance called Rugby Union with guilds in a lot of Anglophone servers that is highly focused on that class.

  • No idea, but I'm here to say that, as a gay male player, I also don't know the meta for the relationship questline. I've been focusing on the career questline instead, because of that, but it's not that fun. I'm hoping that when I eventually git gud at the relationship questline, it'll improve my gameplay experience a bit, and hopefully give me a bit more motivation to keep grinding those career quests and get some cool achievements along the way.

    There are a lot of mini-games and alternate quests that the gay player-base have been able to enjoy but long term it has damaged the fundamental relationship questline. So many players under lvl 30 aren't even seeking out that quest. Which sucks because it has to be played cooperatively.

  • Lore in [occult:horoscopes] is a damn near must.

  • From personal experience, the relationship is fairly easy right up until you pass the marriage threshold, then its difficulty curve makes it insanely hard to progress.

    Over 70% of players who try this path give up and start their relationships over. 

  • Exploit/trick: Go to a zone where they're against the rules and join a relationship. Convince her to give you a load of money, break up. Won't get reported cause you might both get banned. Repeat

    (non-outside: romance scams are typically straight since there's more straight ppl but they will use that kinda stuff)