My mom and dad fight alot because my mom wants my dad to hit her so she could kick him out. She thinks hes a burden for his multiple schlorosis. Well 3 days ago, he fell and took a chunk out of their bedroom door, messed his hand all up. Yesterday, my mother called the police and told them that he broke the door trying to hurt her. They believed her. THEY FUCKING BELIEVED HER. Even when the whole house was screaming that she was lying. The cops told her to go get a PFA so dad will have to leave. They let her drive away without a license. She brought four cops to kick my dad out. My disabled dad is now homeless, alone in a hotel. I hate her so much. My boyfriend and I left with dad, we're staying at a friends house until we can get a place to help dad. I never thought she'd go this far.
For some context- My dad got multiple schlorosis after MY MOMS DAD hit him over the head with a metal baseball bat. It almost killed him. But now due to the disease, the right side of his body doesnt work right most of the time, to the point he has to drag his leg around. He worked himself into a grave for 20 years, 5 with this disease, all for her while she was sleeping with other men. And this is how she repays him.
As soon as my boyfriend and I get a place, im taking her ass to court and fighting for guardianship over my siblings. They're 12 and 14 and have been begging to come with me. I told them id try my hardest.
OMG she's actually the devil.
She genuinely is, im getting a place and taking her to court of guardianship of my Little siblings. They're both over 12 and want to live with me
Oh, yeah... kids that age tend to still cling to their parents so that lets me know she is Lucifer incarnate.
Its going to be hard but i promised them id come back for them.
Wishing you guys good luckš«¶ hopefully, your family will be together again soonāŗļøš
You are an amazing sibling. I never thought I would read something that outdid my own monster of a mom. I'm so sorry she is like this.
Its awful, but if i can save them, it's a new fresh start for all of us
Your mom is a horrible person, and it apparently runs in the family if her own father assaulted your dad - stay away from these people.
But just for your info, MS is an autoimmune disease - itās not caused by physical trauma, however, itās neurological symptoms can often be discovered after a head injury - more of a coincidence than a cause.
I genuinely googled this because it seems mad, but a study released last year is suggesting that if you suffer significant head trauma, particularly during adolescence, your 40% more likely to develop MS later. How terrifying is that?!
Still, in this case, you're probably right that it was a coincidence. And she should definitely stay the hell away from her mother and that whole side of the family. Wtf.
That's good to know i guess, thank you
There has to be some sort of legal remedy to get that wiped from his record, especially if there are 4 witnesses that it's a lie? Especially if his mobility problems are medically documented?
It can't just be "the cops believed her" and it's in stone?
I dont know, theyre at a hearing about the PFA right now, that he had to walk to. I'll look into it, its just heartbreaking.
Your mom sounds fucking evil.
One thing to come out of this, it might be a turning point for your dad after which life gradually starts to get better. Living in a relationship like that is soul damaging, and itās often impossible to figure out how to leave. His physical health may even improve once he finds the supports he needs.
I hope so, we're working on finding accommodations for him so he's at least not living in a hotel room
she āwantsā him to hit her? has he ever done it?
No, he's never laid a hand on her, but he does scream a lot when they argue, he has a hard time controlling volume due to a chemical imbalance, its been like that since he was a kid. She keeps yelling at him to just be a tough guy and hit her already so she can get his "lazy ass" out. She resents him for not working, but he literally cant function long enough anymore
Iām sorry this is happening to you. That is awful. My advice is DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Tell your teachers or counselors, someone with authority. You want as many people on your side as possible. Your mom is absolutely evil but itās her word against yours and unfortunately, she has a better advantage. If you have documentation, videos, phone calls, reports, youāll have a better case.
The poor dad! Hopefully he can build a great life of his own without her...
Im trying to find a way to help him since he cant work and has been denied disability
That sucks dude... I'm sorry
Many such cases :(
Very sorry she is behaving that way. She sound like a nasty human being. Have personally never heard of some getting MS that way as someone with MS. I am glad he has a place to rest without being abused further. I hope when the court date comes, he can attend and have you there as his witnesses so that the charges get dropped. Thank you for caring and helping him as this stress will make him much much worse.
Its bee brought to my attention that the head injury didn't cause the disease, but made the symptoms more obvious. And im trying, thank you
Get your dad a consult with a divorce ASAP. He has rights and should be aware of them.Ā
They were never married. He worked to build her credit score so she could buy us a house and she kicked him out of it
Common law marriage is a thing in many states. First consult is often free.Ā
Also a social worker could help a ton because he is disabled. His doctor or call 211 for a referral.Ā Ā
Ill look into it, thank you
Be strong and stay smart. Glad you are safe tonight.Ā
My jaw actually dropped reading this and very little can do that for me. Keep fighting for and supporting your dad
Update usā¦ have him fill out a domestic violence report against herā¦