Hi… My names are Zane, Mephisto and Izuko… I’m 14FTM, and I’m the victim of a grooming incident involving a 21 year old man who told me he was 16… We had dated for months… I trusted him with all my issues… I had never shared any identifying information… One time, it had been a bit since he had responded… So I messaged someone else he was dating(another teen my age)… He had told me he was polyamorous, I’m also polyamorous so I didn’t mind… But it turns out they had broke up after his other boyfriend found out… My groomer had blocked his ex… His ex showed me proof of everything… Including his Facebook account and a recent post from his father congratulating him on his 21st… I told him that I knew and he blocked me too… I still watch over his known accounts with my alts he didn’t know about… I haven’t reported him because I’m a person who doesn’t fall out of love easily even when they aren’t a good person… And I know I still love him… I don’t know what to do… I have his legal name and where his father lives(a general area from Facebook and I don’t even know if he lives near his father or not)… People have suggested I tell his father everything… But I don’t know what to do… I don’t know what his exact situation is… Basically I’m asking for advice… Please, you educated and reasonable adults… Tell me what I should do…
Talk to your parents or a trusted adult in your life. Go to your local authorities and report him.
If you're not comfortable with that and need someone to talk to further, you can get help from RAINN. Call 800-656-4673 or text HOPE to 64673. They also have a chat available on the website.
And technically no, you're not supposed to participate in NSFW subreddits if you're under 18. However, you're here, your post isn't sexually explicit. The danger is that you could be contacted by another groomer on the site or be exploited in some way. Please remember that all posts are public on Reddit. Be cautious and do not accept DMs, send people information about yourself, or pictures.
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