spending the night in a hotel room with my female friend, we’re both very close and talk about things like relationships and sex quite casually along with undressing in front of one another. it’s past midnight before bed and honestly i’m feeling a bit horny but also it’s weird because we’ll be sleeping right next to each other. she’s in the shower right now as i’m texting and honestly i wanna do shit with her but i don’t know how she’ll react. would love to explore because i’ve never been with a girl before and she’s a lesbian but also don’t wanna ruin the relationship

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  • Ask if she’d like some company in the shower? Be honest and direct if it’s something you really want. Being coy about it will probably lead to inaction.

    Agree. Be honest and open. The shower idea is a good one.

  • Seriously, I'd just tell her how you feel. If she's not up for it, it's an uncomfortable night ahead but surely that's better than the uncomfortable night you'd have not knowing and being horny.

    And keep us updated!

  • If you guys trust yourself like that, then might be better asking, no harm in that

  • let us know what ended up happening...

  • i’m sorry everyone i chickened out and didn’t say anything 💔 rubbed my nipples and gingered myself next to hear secretly when we turned the lights off though 😋