What I mean is, do you guys ever like buck your hips into your hands when you’re jerking off? I’ve heard this term used and I’ve seen it in porn and stuff, but does it actually happen?
If you do it, do you do it more often using a flashlight?
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Only if i get very desperate lmao. It's usually not as effective
Really? Is it that you feel less friction?
speaking personally, you kind of need the leverage, mostly, to stroke. if you are thrusting up into your hand, you have a bit less leverage
Wow, I’ve never really thought of that. I guess your hand would be a lot different from like a pussy or something so it wouldn’t feel as good to just randomly push into it.
Some of us are not circumcised also which may play a part. Girls with larger lips tend to not have their clits as exposed and thus potentially that protection could equal increased sensitivity but humpers be humping so it’s not a brekiang thing concept really 8)
In general the grab and jiggle works for most guys but for skins protect ridges and ridges are pressure areas for nerves and pushing blood around so I expect the idea of squeezing vs pulling striking teasing twisting and sucking. (I expect both girl roses have a male version we had pumps for size etc.
So it’s likely done not as common as others. Not all girls like finger banging and are more clit and some don’t hump etc. juggle you hot spots however they work for ya
Yeah, it's harder to control the grip, when to grip harder or softer and also the rhythm of the thrusts is harder to perfect into your own hand
Gotcha, you can control the pressure and the speed with your wrist instead of using your whole body. Makes sense.
Yeah exactly. But ngl if I'm edged enough I'll hump the air or my hand or whatever without hesitation
The friction is kind of a good thing unless you’ve just been edging for a long time then it kinda hurts but I do it when I’m leaned over my bed with it raised up so I can kind of begin to squat and thrust slightly and I can get my hips going, and I do all that because it helps me kind of prime myself to cum and you can engage your ass hips stomach etc. and feel the muscles working the organs if that makes sense
yes, sometimes, especially after edging for a while.
it just makes me feel extra desperate.
I’ve heard that a few times, now! I guess cocks need to fuck anything they can get when they get desperate haha
ahahah, yes
it's sometimes fun if you use a fleshlight AND have a buttplug in
then you can sort of tease yourself more, thrusting up into the toy.
Sometimes I do, other times I’m actually humping something or playing with my tip, but now that I’ve learned of this I’m gonna go try it rn
Oooo, let me know how it feels/what you think!!
It actually feels pretty nice, nothing amazing but the hip motion is nice to feel instead of just my hands, thanks for the suggestion😉
Yes, sometimes...
I wrap both my hands around my shaft and pump. Or I lie sideways and thrust. The sideways style is easier
Ooo, I’ve never thought about using both hands before! That’s very interesting, thank you!!
Yeah... One at the base another near the glans
Sometimes yeah instinctively you just start to thrust lol
Gotcha, so it’s like primal?
More or less when my dom edges me a lot, I can’t control the thrusting and have to be tied down a little more😵💫
I’ve seen this in porn as well and it drives me crazy! I find it hot to see a guy get so primal with his own body while masturbating. To the point where he bucks the air and thrusts his hips…🥵
Me later today probably lol
I’m a women and it’s kinda arousing hearing you men talk about this
Only like reading it, or would you like a personalised demo? Lol
I mean….👀
More like my hand fucks me. Lol
Mmm, I’ve never heard of it this way, before!
See my comment,,,,, pretty much said the same thing, " my hand Definitely fucks my cock
Not my hand, but a homemade fleshlight. Rubber glove with a towel rolled around it, fold ends of glove around the sides, fill with lube and fuuuck it's good! Was told about that one by a female friend
It's funny how long it took me to try basically the same idea, and I was also told by a female friend about it originally. I just use a vinyl glove (I just buy 100 count packs at store for cheap enough) and either some KY or hand lotion depending on situation, and it feels so much better than just dry jerking that I almost always do it that way now.
Your comment makes me wonder how many of us dudes figure this out solo vs being told by male or female friends. Probably an interesting poll about out there somewhere.
I am typically stroking my shaft up and down, base to head, for the most part.
When I’m getting close to cumming, I’m still stroking my shaft but I also start thrusting and bucking my hips in time with my strokes.
Oh, does it feel better at the end or do your hips just do that on reflex?
For me it feels better but there’s probably a natural inclination to pump harder when getting close to orgasm.
Only when im really really desperate for someone. Its more of a subconscious action tbh
Like a reflex, is what I’m hearing a lot of.
The only time I have done that is when I’ve gone multiple rounds and I need a little extra push!
Oh, does it feel better? Or does it just give you extra energy?
It certainly can if I’m hard and focused it’s self lubricating ! It can take me over the top so I can finish again
I have never actually tried it, but well, I am about to in 5 mins lol
Yay! Tell me all about it, please!
A few times but if im gonna do it i use my cock sleeve just pound the fuck out of it. I fuck it deep and hard as long as I can
Damn, that sounds rugged! Do you like pressing your tip against the toy’s “cervix” or does your toy have an opening?
Its got an opening. Fleshlight are damn tight and small inside. Be great to have a fleshlight that I can fill up with cum. Slide the against its cervix. Fuck Im horny now
10000% I do, especially when I’m super hard and turned on, laying on my back and thrusting up as my hand goes down, I love it
My normal stroke is about 80-90% stroking and 10-20% thrusting. Somehow it's fine to power the motion through thrusting if it's into something, but if it's into my hand, I want to stroke too.
I have done it that way many times before, too, though. The easiest position is kind of in between on my stomach and on my side. If I do it on my stomach, my weight crushes my hand; if I do it fully on my side or back, I want to thrust. Having this in between angle helps me stabilize my hand without crushing it. I also need lots of lube to do it this way. And unless I've laid down a towel (which I almost never do), I'm still going to finish in a more usual position.
Dont really see the appeal and havent heard from any of my friends that they do this
Hmmm, it might be more rare than I thought.
Its just an awkward thing to do. Much more easier to stroke rather than fuck your own fist, too much effort for little to no reward
Gotcha, I’m hearing a lot of this. It’s easier to control your wrist/hand instead of your hips/whole body.
Yea I mean I have before not all the time
Gotcha! Does it feel better? Or worse? Or about the same?
I mean it's not the worst but stroking feels better the humping is when I'm super needy
Actually it does work kinda like that. I rock my hips to push my cock into my hand or against. Especially like now when I feel super sensitive at the head..
This is exactly what I was thinking! Thank you for your answer!! I have a better image in my head, now! :D
No problem! Have fun with the information.
I made a GIF doing said thing doesn't look half bad!
Fuck yeah!
This is the kind of support I need 🫶🏼
when I get really into it I thrust into both my hands , power fucking them
I only just heard about this from a commenter! Very hot image!
Yeahhh its very hot, would be better with you tho ;)
I used to do it sometimes when I was younger but now I’ve bought a toy to fuck and it’s changed my life fr lol
May I ask what kind of toy?
It’s like a rubber pussy and ass I can send a pic in dm if you want
Sometimes when I want it real fast
I like making them do it even though I know it's not likely to "work" on them. So they do it when I tell them to lmao
I love being told what I can and can't do 😮💨
Sometimes
Sometimes. Depends on mood and sensation
I tend to do it when im fantasizing about a specific person 🫣
That too. Sometimes there is nothing left or being in the moment, in the FUCK
😂 EXACTLY THIS
I don't know about all guys but I do
I do pretty often! It's a fun way to switch it up and feels more primal then regular stroking
I’ve done it a few times when I’m feeling really euphoric
I've done it a little bit, but never really full on tried it. might as well give it a shot
edit: as of typing this I did it, i thought of leaning on my back while legs are up and planted down, then I'd just, thrust. right? Then i sat back down and started thrusting with my groin. solid 6/10 for me. not bad!
Yes
I did it occasionally in my teens, but if I tried it now I’d probably throw my back out; it’s easier just to stroke it
Sometimes. But usually I move the hand.
No I can move my hand faster than I can thrust….. but if I want the thrusting feeling I place my fleshlight on the edge of the bed and squeeze it between the mattress and the pillow.. lube everything up so it has the wet pussy feel and stand next to the bed thrusting in and out of my fleshlight😉
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Uhhh, no not really. I'll hump other stuff but not really "fuck" my hand
Every day lmao. I use a fleshlight and a couple of strokers(not all at the same time. Im not THAT much of a heathen lmao). But they still don’t compare to the real thing lol
sometimes, when i want to get a quick one out i do
In the shower I use conditioner and fuck through the ring of my fingers.
Only for show 😂
Yes I have when I want to go longer and more thinking if I want motion slapping
Sometimes, if I really get into it
I definitely do it. Sometimes when I'm jerking off I really get into it and start thrusting my cock in my hand and it usually feels pretty good for me. I don't own a flashlight so sometimes it's the best I got but yes I do do it.
Sometimes I'll lube up my hands and wrap them around my shaft... then stand with my hands motionless on the desk and fuck them. It's a good idea to mix it up now and then, so your body doesn't get too accustomed to certain stimulii.
I agree with some others that when the state of arousal is very intense, it's almost instinctive for me to thrust my hips. I don't do it throughout masturbation, but very often when I'm near orgasm. Whether with a toy, or my hand; I thrust. I feel like my cumshots are generally bigger as a result. Of course, With a woman, thrusting is just part of the process. Lol.
I do it sometimes when I’m trying to change things up. Feels pretty good after you’ve been stroking for a while.
No. Death Grip forever!
I don't , but neither of my left or right hand cant keep theirs elf off my cock... It don't matter how much I tell them to stop, they just beat it all the time... lol
It’s more like when I’m on the edge or when someone really excites me during a JO session
More often than not if I’m in the shower, for a brief second feels and sounds like the real thing with the sounds of clap clap clap echoing throughout the bathroom
Based on the answers you already have it obviously depends on the guy. Me personally? No.
Yep sometimes i do that. Additionally it is fun to do with a partner as well.
Sometimes but not really
I think porn probably exaggerates it, like a lot of stuff, but I will say sometimes when I'm stroking my cock, I get so into it that my hips like, buck and thrust on their own a bit.
It does kind of fuck with my rhythm, though, so I don't try to do it. But sometimes the pleasure gets intense enough that it just happens.
Yeah I hump my hand when I'm about to cum I also stroke with panties and hump those in my hand
Sometimes
I enjoy thrusting into my hand and moving my hips and keeping my hand still. for me it feels better, more intense.
never have, but maybe i’ll try it
Thrusting into my hands imagining it's my babe is so much fun dude
I do it every now and then… I did it once with someone I was dating and sexting.. she did say it was a “hit” now that I think back. I prefer doing it that way if I’m using my toy
100% hands are among the least embarrassing things I’ve fucked.
Partial list: hot dogs. Cucumber, ham sandwich, glove, teddy bear, friends hands, tree, bottle, dildo, squash, couch (not even republican), bed, pillows, rabbit fur, socks, down jacket….
I fo so times but often use a object...as a fleshlight
Not if you have foreskin
Not usually. Sometimes if I'm showing on cam I will. LOL
I don't, I find it more intense to stroke my cock.
Never
For sure…the weight can slow down how fast the ropes come out. And if your super excited the precum can lubricate to get you there faster. So you can get there fast and lengthen the climax
No,,,, but my hand Definitely fucks my cock
Humping my hands intensifies the feeling and kind of tricks my brain into thinking that I’m really fucking but I have to be really horny with some leisure time to do it.
When I’m extra horny yes! It’s just kinda like an instinct at some point when you get so turned on your body just starts
When I am very desperate
Yeah. I do. I’ve got a lot of toys and they can be fun to fuck. But, personally, I prefer my hand 90% of the time. And if I’m really into it I’ll fuck my hand like you described.
Actually, i prefer "fucking" air. I grab and pull down my balls and starting bucking my hips. Humping asif fucking. Feels waaay better than boring jerking
Only when I'm in the middle of cumming really good.
Yes, when im edging. Then I have to slow down or I'll cum in my hands.
sometimes. but it’s mostly when i’m really horny and desperate. usually when i’m fucking my hand i’m imagining i’m fucking a girl that i know personally.
this makes me want to fuck my hand
Sometimes I like to lie on my back get lubed up and start with stroking. Then after I get warmed up, I sort of bounce my hand by thrusting up into it as it’s on the way down.
Lots of motion. Feels excellent. It’s hard to lock into the rhythm. But oh so nice.
Hands? Have you met men? They will fuck anything.
No, my hand fucks my cock.
Honestly, the only thing i "fuck" is an actual vagina. If I'm masturbating (with my hand or a fleshlight), I prefer to let my hand/arm do all the work.
I've done it, but it doesn't really make a difference. If I'm using a fleshlight or some other type of stroker, I'd fuck it but otherwise not really
Yeah i do that. But i also like humpimg things lile my pillow, and sometimes ill put my hand in between
Flashlights maybe! But nothing beats a lubed up hand!
Just did it last night! Usually I do this when I'm super horned up and stroking just won't do anymore. I lube up and hold my hands steady while I thrust into them.
At times, when I’m too desperate, I do. It’s a bit difficult to fuck my hand, considering my cock’s very thick, but I leak a lot of pre-cum, and I end up stroking so so much desperately. Nghhhhhh, I need to breed someone so badly.
I will thrust into it like that if I'm using a toy, to replicate the sensation of actually fucking. But if I'm just jerking off, then I just move my hand over my dick and not the other way around. It's just easier and more convenient, and I'm also typically sitting or laying down with my phone in my other hand, haha
This is how I was picturing it in my head for most of you. lol
Hahaha, accurate!
I notice the difference from sitting still and jerking off vs holding my hand or toy still and thrusting my hips to fuck it. Thrusting feels way better, just takes more energy.
Hi. Never used a flesh light don’t intend to and don’t fuck my hands. Hope that helps with your investigation.
I like using two hands to just do whatever might “look” ok if sharing with someone fun. Other than that I have no sensation in it cos my disability sooooo I just use one of my many many many toys lol
I buck into my hand (and/or flesh light) every night. Doing so in a bit as well.
Only when using a toy like a pocket pussy or masturbator
No, but if using a toy like flesh light I do fuck that
I don't, no, nor do I fuck what you call 'flashlights'