Idk, took my first dose yesterday, 5mg. Unsure if this is the route I should be on. Will begin my first time in therapy soon too... Generally depressed most my life, but never would admit it. Now it seems to be affecting my relationships so I need to do something, right? My fears are of the negative side effects. Mostly low or no libido, ED, and inability to O. I love sex with my wife, is it really that widespread or am I only seeing the negative because its the internet (and I'm looking for it)? Last night was interesting though, I dosed in the morning as my Dr directed. By night, I had this weird pulsing vibration through my whole body, kind of a gentle rocking sensation, but I could see it too. My wife told me its the meds, when she got on effexor she said her whole body felt like it was yawning. I guess I'm here looking for reassurance, and if things dont get better I'll just stop (with guidance of course).