The true belief is that ‘women should stay virgins until they meet me specifically, at which point they should immediately give me sex because I want and deserve it’.
They know they can’t say that and have anyone agree, so they hide it behind bullshit purity culture.
From what I understand, guys who unironically think this seem deeply insecure about their ability to pull anyone. More specifically, if they're going to get into a relationship or get laid, it's not enough for them to find someone they enjoy being around. They feel as though they must(as in they feel obligated) to be someone's first partner because the idea of being with experienced women makes them worry about letting them down, thinking they can't offer anything the pros haven't seen before
In other words, I think this is a byproduct of a much bigger problem a lot of neckbeards seem to have; Them seeing everything from innocent hobbies to relationships as competitions. Ones they have to win or else they'll see themselves as failures at life
I am going to say, that they probably think of it in a Madonna-whore kind of way. They want to gain experience with "promiscuous" women or sex workers, but in no way they will marry those women. They will just exploit them and then still feel like they have their moral high ground and will want to marry virgins. This is a very victorian mindset.
I believe this is exactly what it is. I had an ex-friend who thought like this and it was so "normal" to him, that he was dumbfounded when I called him out on his misogyny. In his case it was about promiscuous college women. He was talking about how it's okay to fuck them at college, but once you start working and getting serious about the rest of your life, you should avoid such women.
And then blame and demonize the same women they slept with /bought adult content from. They will speak of them as the jezebelle that led them astray, when in reality they profited from them with pleasure and experience and those men have sought them out on their own. And they will shame other men for being with such women, because they have been dehumanized and reduced to wares in their minds.
Charlie Kirk said this too and I'm like "Are... are you saying the guys should be having sex with each other?" I am also just completely lost on this logic.
They don't hold contradictory ideas. They're just misogynistic against women who enjoy sex. It's ok to fuck the "whores" to get experience, but they're not marriage material. You can only marry a virgin.
They have an understanding how society works, they just dont like it because it has too many rights for women and not enough for men. These are just a bunch of red pillers that want a Harem and think that's how society should operate.
The true belief is that ‘women should stay virgins until they meet me specifically, at which point they should immediately give me sex because I want and deserve it’.
They know they can’t say that and have anyone agree, so they hide it behind bullshit purity culture.
¯\(°_o)/¯ I was never pure. I was born chock full of minerals and trace elements
and microplastics
I remember seeing a documentary a while back saying in some places in Colombia the dudes solve this dilemma by fucking donkeys.
I refuse to google it to confirm so I'll just live under this impression until I die.
Much more ethical to just touch weiners with the homies
is it gay if you kiss a homie goodnight?
I need to know for psychology research
Not if you wear socks
Can you touch tubes if you're both wearing socks?
I cackled at this. Nice.
I have friends who are Colombian and they confirm this is true, but mainly in small towns
From what I understand, guys who unironically think this seem deeply insecure about their ability to pull anyone. More specifically, if they're going to get into a relationship or get laid, it's not enough for them to find someone they enjoy being around. They feel as though they must(as in they feel obligated) to be someone's first partner because the idea of being with experienced women makes them worry about letting them down, thinking they can't offer anything the pros haven't seen before
In other words, I think this is a byproduct of a much bigger problem a lot of neckbeards seem to have; Them seeing everything from innocent hobbies to relationships as competitions. Ones they have to win or else they'll see themselves as failures at life
I am going to say, that they probably think of it in a Madonna-whore kind of way. They want to gain experience with "promiscuous" women or sex workers, but in no way they will marry those women. They will just exploit them and then still feel like they have their moral high ground and will want to marry virgins. This is a very victorian mindset.
I believe this is exactly what it is. I had an ex-friend who thought like this and it was so "normal" to him, that he was dumbfounded when I called him out on his misogyny. In his case it was about promiscuous college women. He was talking about how it's okay to fuck them at college, but once you start working and getting serious about the rest of your life, you should avoid such women.
And then blame and demonize the same women they slept with /bought adult content from. They will speak of them as the jezebelle that led them astray, when in reality they profited from them with pleasure and experience and those men have sought them out on their own. And they will shame other men for being with such women, because they have been dehumanized and reduced to wares in their minds.
Charlie Kirk said this too and I'm like "Are... are you saying the guys should be having sex with each other?" I am also just completely lost on this logic.
Duh, it says women are supposed to stay pure only until marriage. Obviously men are going to gain experience with adultery
surprisingly easy to hold two contradictory ideas at the same time
They don't hold contradictory ideas. They're just misogynistic against women who enjoy sex. It's ok to fuck the "whores" to get experience, but they're not marriage material. You can only marry a virgin.
sooo to them, some women legit just exist for sex? honestly, not surprised
They have an understanding how society works, they just dont like it because it has too many rights for women and not enough for men. These are just a bunch of red pillers that want a Harem and think that's how society should operate.
Two other dudes. Double the experience plus "it's not gay if it's in a three way"