I mean I know there's guys that go around grabbing on whoever they feel like but this type of breed always amazes me -are there really that many out there that just grab onto the first woman they see even if they are obviously with their man? What's even the point of doing that if not to ask for an ass beating?
Apparently yes. For a really satisfying one, look up the waitress in Georgia who took down a guy who grabbed her. Cops arrested him, and charged him the groping, too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQTKu1AdUYU
I was 18 but probably looked 13 and I was just walking to my friends house one afternoon, I stopped to cross the road and there was a young traveller couple crossing from the opposite side.
The male decided it was acceptable to grab my ass in the middle of the road and I instinctively turned to wallop him. She went to hit me and I told her she needs a better man and some dignity if that's what she's tolerating in a bf. She beat the snot out of him there and then as I carried on my way.
I'm 37 now and still get ID'd on a regular basis just to give an idea how young I looked back then.
I'm also a red headed Scottish traveller so it never ends well.
I got hit on at a nice restaurant, on valentines day while activly sitting across from my man cause I was dressed a little saucy (like it matter what anyone wears though)
I got hit on at a nice restaurant, on valentines day while activly sitting across from my man cause I was dressed a little saucy (like it matter what anyone wears though) some people are just assholes.
Just to clarify, she’s not anyone’s possession. Her identity is not “another man’s girl.” No human being should be SA’d regardless of who they are or aren’t with. I’m glad the person she is in a relationship with held that idiot accountable.
I feel like that goes without saying. We all know that. Those that dont, the type that grab on women, they arent going to learn by reading PC reddit comments.
The point isn't that she "belongs" to the other guy. The point is that there's a guy there who will very likely have a violent protective reaction. Guys that are willing to sexually assault women in public prey on vulnerable people. What OP is saying, is it's crazy that the man's presence didn't act as a deterrent to this walking slug.
This type of thinking is why the Democrats lost to Trump in 2024. Just looking for things to be upset about where nothing exists. No one with a sane mind saw that comment and went where you went. Except for professional victims like yourself.
Behaviour like this is a pain and annoyance for regular ppl to deal with and certainly a contributing factor to as to why straight white millennial males voted more red than blue.
Holy fucking shit was that a huge useless pile of nothing. You "don't like generalizing" but then make the leap to "It can happen or it can't so basically everything is 50/50" and my brother in Christ I hope you don't actually require that dumbed down of a worldview to make things make sense. None of that drivel really applies to the video or the comments, anyways.
Literally every type of guy you've heard of in all of history still exists in approximately the same ratio. They're just functioning in different circumstances.
You think gropers exist to the same levels now compared to pre enlightenment and progress against this kind of behavior??
So societal norms and values changing have zero impact on behavior and we're all just acting 100% on impulse?
Not sure I believe that. Shits still fucked, but not nearly as fucked as it used to be in a lot of cultures. And in other places in the world it's significantly worse.
I think they were trying to say the “social norms” are a part of the circumstances. People are still people, but the circumstances of today are different than they used to be. Of course changing circumstances will change behavior.
You think gropers exist to the same levels now compared to pre enlightenment and progress against this kind of behavior??
Yes, they're just in an environment that's less tolerant of what they want to do, so they don't. They're not inherently different people, they just don't like the consequences.
So societal norms and values changing have zero impact on behavior
That's the opposite of what I said. Read harderer.
By saying we have the same numbers of gropers you are saying it is inherently a male trait that you are born into and not a product of the environment and values you grew up with. That is where I would disagree there are genetic traits due to being male like higher levels of aggression and sex drive but acting on those things is a conscious choice based on the morals you have developed throughout your life not your genetics.
I've never been to a gay club and not had a woman grab either my dick or bum (have also had women I don't know kiss me, grind on me, put my hands on their breasts etc.) Have never knowingly encouraged it (outside of being polite).
I've never really cared (because I knew I could get away/was safe and it seemed more an attempt at playfulness or flirting than being assaulty), but as they added up it began to weird me out (I think this was compounded by how unsuccessful I am with guys at these clubs).
Sorry i was not comparing men to women just past men to present men. In the past the world there was a lot less accountability and a lot more abuse by men because it was rewarded to be an asshole hopefully we continue to ostracize these traits and they will continue to be less prevalent. Obviously with the proclivity of social media and filming we get to highlight a lot more of these bad interactions so people may think they happen all the time.
My point was that in my lived experience women in the right environment will also partake in this behaviour. So I don't think it's a 'men' only issue. But I do agree with your overall hypothesis that the less safe (socially or physically) someone feels performing these behaviours the less likely they are to happen. Perhaps this is even why it's less likely to be seen from women, because it is gendered and 'ladies don't act this way' plus there's also likely a greater risk to their physical safety if they do and it goes south.
My post wasn't shitting on women or trying to make men look less bad. It was more that if you want to intellectualise something like sexual assault then all data points would be valid.
Also human to human, if someone tells you about their experience of repeated sexual assaults taking the time to respond personally to them but choosing to do so with what amounts to 'that doesn't fit my narrative and worldview so I will be ignoring it and reiterating my hypothesis' is amusing but also a bit dehumanising.
It isn't my narrative or worldview it just didn't have anything to with what I was talking about except for women do it as well.
Also human to human if you get offended by someone not trying to offend you on the internet you should probably stay off the internet because it isn't healthy for your mental.
It's rhetorical consternation used in a sense to convey disgust at the behavior and disappointment in society generally that someone could get to that age and think that behavior is acceptable in what seems to be a developed part of the world.
Yeah ngl I’m letting my hb get slapped like that if he did that, then I’m calling him an idiot afterwards. Don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t let the guy stomp him or properly beat him up, but the slap was so justified.
The way you say “touching another man’s girl” makes this sound like some ownership shit. Just say “touching a woman” or something that credits the ownership of existence to her instead of him.
Fascinating how this is always constructed as "touching another man's girl" and not "harassing a woman, who happens to have someone with her who will stand up for her".
I have a real girl, lmao, she's me. I do in fact get that women are real people with their own inner experiences and not just accessories to men. Do you?
It might be fascinating if it wasn't also constructed as "her man stood up for her"... But it isn't. Just stop. People refer to both sides of a relationship as possessive of the other. Your virtue signaling is vacuous.
It's not about whether or not he stood up for her. It's about whether the problem was that the guy harassed an innocent person or whether the problem was that he messed with another guy's "property".
Yeah, I was thinking this is the kind of situation where a guy winds up dying for defending his gf. Badly outnumbered and those dudes look pretty violent.
Gotta fight for your girl but 4 guys with potentially a gun or knife could be dangerous. That one guy behind his gf when he's hitting that dude could be a problem if he pulls a fast one.
horribly incorrect title. girl doesn't belong to man, is not man's property. After SA'ing girl. After unwanted physical touch. Maybe more accurate titles. Best response may be to grab his ass in response and see if he enjoys being sexually harassed by strangers he's likely not attracted to.
Solid connection, excellent execution
I mean I know there's guys that go around grabbing on whoever they feel like but this type of breed always amazes me -are there really that many out there that just grab onto the first woman they see even if they are obviously with their man? What's even the point of doing that if not to ask for an ass beating?
The problem is a lot of these idiots carry, and roam in numbers. And that gives them the extra amount of courage they need to pull shit like this.
This seems to be the exact scenario here. His buddies didn't really seem to want to do anything after that slap.
Apparently yes. For a really satisfying one, look up the waitress in Georgia who took down a guy who grabbed her. Cops arrested him, and charged him the groping, too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQTKu1AdUYU
Oh that is awful, glad he got his comeuppance
All in front of his wife and kids lol
Sexual Assault. The charge should be sexual assault.
I wouldnt call that a body slam.
Not at all a body slam. More like a push. He must’ve been drunk or something he went down pretty damn easy for how big he was
Just totally unexpected I think
He was also with his wife and kids at the time. Hopefully she divorced him.
One of my favorite videos. 😂
Sadly yes, has happened to me numerous times.
One in particular always stands out on my memory.
I was 18 but probably looked 13 and I was just walking to my friends house one afternoon, I stopped to cross the road and there was a young traveller couple crossing from the opposite side.
The male decided it was acceptable to grab my ass in the middle of the road and I instinctively turned to wallop him. She went to hit me and I told her she needs a better man and some dignity if that's what she's tolerating in a bf. She beat the snot out of him there and then as I carried on my way.
I'm 37 now and still get ID'd on a regular basis just to give an idea how young I looked back then. I'm also a red headed Scottish traveller so it never ends well.
> looked 13
Oh, he needs to take a seat.
I got hit on at a nice restaurant, on valentines day while activly sitting across from my man cause I was dressed a little saucy (like it matter what anyone wears though)
Just to clarify, she’s not anyone’s possession. Her identity is not “another man’s girl.” No human being should be SA’d regardless of who they are or aren’t with. I’m glad the person she is in a relationship with held that idiot accountable.
I feel like that goes without saying. We all know that. Those that dont, the type that grab on women, they arent going to learn by reading PC reddit comments.
It should go without saying, but the comments aren't "I can't believe he would touch a woman", they are "I can't believe he would touch a man's woman"
If even one person learns to reframe their thinking on the subject, the comment is worth it.
I mean, it's a colloquial term of endearment and closeness. It's kind of silly to be so upset by it.
Plenty of couples refer to each other as "their man/their woman". There's nothing inherently malicious about it.
It's used in the same vein as "wife" or "partner". You still say "my wife", no? Or "my partner"?
Girl is often used in a similar context. It just also happens to additional definitions.
Police the stuff that actually matters, such as keeping your grubby little hands to yourselves and to not harass women.
The point isn't that she "belongs" to the other guy. The point is that there's a guy there who will very likely have a violent protective reaction. Guys that are willing to sexually assault women in public prey on vulnerable people. What OP is saying, is it's crazy that the man's presence didn't act as a deterrent to this walking slug.
The 'ownership' is mutual, in a partnership your partner is an extension of self.
Thanks for clarifying the obvious
This type of thinking is why the Democrats lost to Trump in 2024. Just looking for things to be upset about where nothing exists. No one with a sane mind saw that comment and went where you went. Except for professional victims like yourself.
Behaviour like this is a pain and annoyance for regular ppl to deal with and certainly a contributing factor to as to why straight white millennial males voted more red than blue.
Yeah just love how OP listed her as not only a possession but that he’s a man while she is but a girl.
Ecclesiasticus 36:24 He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.
Yeah, everyone understands this but thanks good job pointing it out
I mean- being with a man is not a reason to sexually assault someone or not. Just- don’t touch people you don’t know??
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Holy fucking shit was that a huge useless pile of nothing. You "don't like generalizing" but then make the leap to "It can happen or it can't so basically everything is 50/50" and my brother in Christ I hope you don't actually require that dumbed down of a worldview to make things make sense. None of that drivel really applies to the video or the comments, anyways.
And actually stopped to confirm that the guy deserved it before swinging. Solid.
Absolutely
Kinda wish he used the back of his hand.
Bitch slap versus pimp slap, either or is fine by me but I feel the sentiment
Made me LOL when I saw his ear buds go flying
relished it
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I give it a five out of five.
Respect
It's difficult to believe pieces of shit like this still exist in the world that think it's OK to do stuff like this.
Literally every type of guy you've heard of in all of history still exists in approximately the same ratio. They're just functioning in different circumstances.
You think gropers exist to the same levels now compared to pre enlightenment and progress against this kind of behavior??
So societal norms and values changing have zero impact on behavior and we're all just acting 100% on impulse?
Not sure I believe that. Shits still fucked, but not nearly as fucked as it used to be in a lot of cultures. And in other places in the world it's significantly worse.
I think they were trying to say the “social norms” are a part of the circumstances. People are still people, but the circumstances of today are different than they used to be. Of course changing circumstances will change behavior.
I think you both probably agree.
Yes, they're just in an environment that's less tolerant of what they want to do, so they don't. They're not inherently different people, they just don't like the consequences.
That's the opposite of what I said. Read harderer.
By saying we have the same numbers of gropers you are saying it is inherently a male trait that you are born into and not a product of the environment and values you grew up with. That is where I would disagree there are genetic traits due to being male like higher levels of aggression and sex drive but acting on those things is a conscious choice based on the morals you have developed throughout your life not your genetics.
I've never been to a gay club and not had a woman grab either my dick or bum (have also had women I don't know kiss me, grind on me, put my hands on their breasts etc.) Have never knowingly encouraged it (outside of being polite).
I've never really cared (because I knew I could get away/was safe and it seemed more an attempt at playfulness or flirting than being assaulty), but as they added up it began to weird me out (I think this was compounded by how unsuccessful I am with guys at these clubs).
Sorry i was not comparing men to women just past men to present men. In the past the world there was a lot less accountability and a lot more abuse by men because it was rewarded to be an asshole hopefully we continue to ostracize these traits and they will continue to be less prevalent. Obviously with the proclivity of social media and filming we get to highlight a lot more of these bad interactions so people may think they happen all the time.
My point was that in my lived experience women in the right environment will also partake in this behaviour. So I don't think it's a 'men' only issue. But I do agree with your overall hypothesis that the less safe (socially or physically) someone feels performing these behaviours the less likely they are to happen. Perhaps this is even why it's less likely to be seen from women, because it is gendered and 'ladies don't act this way' plus there's also likely a greater risk to their physical safety if they do and it goes south.
My post wasn't shitting on women or trying to make men look less bad. It was more that if you want to intellectualise something like sexual assault then all data points would be valid.
Also human to human, if someone tells you about their experience of repeated sexual assaults taking the time to respond personally to them but choosing to do so with what amounts to 'that doesn't fit my narrative and worldview so I will be ignoring it and reiterating my hypothesis' is amusing but also a bit dehumanising.
It isn't my narrative or worldview it just didn't have anything to with what I was talking about except for women do it as well.
Also human to human if you get offended by someone not trying to offend you on the internet you should probably stay off the internet because it isn't healthy for your mental.
Being a prick is an innate trait, yes.
Moronic take you are not born with a personality
That would only be true if education and natural selection didn't exist.
You think the assholes are being selected out of the population? You think the assholes are losing? Which mountain do you live under?
Losing? Alright kid it's bed time.
You're the one babbling about natural selection.
Some believe when you're a star, you can do anything. Grab 'em by the pussy even.
Right? Imagine how he would have behaved if she wasn't literally hanging on her big-tough mans right there. That was a bold, bold move.
It’s very real, so it shouldn’t be difficult to believe. It’s the shit (in different forms) woman deal with.
It's rhetorical consternation used in a sense to convey disgust at the behavior and disappointment in society generally that someone could get to that age and think that behavior is acceptable in what seems to be a developed part of the world.
I understand, I think the worlds were not ideally chosen since there are a lot of people that don’t know or don’t want to.
It's difficult to believe ~80M Americans picked one of these pieces of shit to run the world's biggest superpower.
His hombres: I'm not with this chacho
I'm so glad the CCTV had sound because that slap sounded beautiful
Crisp
I totally thought the bf was gonna get jumped
He’s the size of two of them, and they all watched their boy get bitch slapped, none of them acted disrespectful like that either.
Something tells me no one likes that dude
Yeah ngl I’m letting my hb get slapped like that if he did that, then I’m calling him an idiot afterwards. Don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t let the guy stomp him or properly beat him up, but the slap was so justified.
They might have if he'd lost his mind and started beating the shit out of him. That slap was completely deserved and proportional however.
Open handed slap is a great response. You’re not going to accidentally kill the giy and you’ve pretty much called him a little b.
"I'm kind of a big deal at the Circle K" energy.
A slap is the way to go. Embarrassing, impactful, and no chance of them going down, hitting their head, and getting you arrested for manslaughter.
"No it's cool I know the cashier" then go touch them.
His method of attack being a slap is so much more satisfying and disrespectful than a punch. A punch is for damage, a slap is for ego-deflation
A slap with that hand does plenty of damage. Like a leather wrapped baseball bat.
This kind of man always deserves the worst, just like they are.
If youre willing to touch people, expect to get touched back in no equivilent way.
The person touching you back does not need to be the person you touched either. You dont get to pick your punishment.
I love the slap method though.
/r/menandfemales
after touching another person without their consent
There, I fixed the title for you.
It's sad that I had to scroll down so far to find the first comment that speaks this out
THANK YOU.
At first I thought he slapped the gum out of his mouth, but then I realised it’s an earpod.
The ol paintbrush, great attention getter.
I remember this before AI turned them into unibrow neanderthals.
Bro tried to play the "I'm close with the shopkeeper" card lol
The way you say “touching another man’s girl” makes this sound like some ownership shit. Just say “touching a woman” or something that credits the ownership of existence to her instead of him.
This is just another bot account reposting this clip for the 795th time with the original title.
"OP" will be a soft 6 OF account in a week with all the karma from just this one repost.
Scrolled hoping to see someone saying something like this, thank you.
You spend too much time on internet, enjoy the slap and move on
Knocked the rings out that mf like sonic.
Mamabicho!!! Iktr
I loved hearing the earphone bounce a couple times.
Friendly touch back
the guy acted sleezy by dapping up the guy like he owned the place and "knew the people" lmao
Serves him right.
Well deserved. I’d rather get punched than slapped, dignity wise.
Also known as... touching a woman who didn't want to be touched. Ownership not required.
Bitch boy got bitch slapped.
Adidas sweatshirt knew shit was gonna go down and didn't even flinch. Something tells me this guy has acted like an idiot brfore.
Dude watches the Oscars!!!!
Slapped his ass just like his mama should have
He's so merciful with that slap.
An open hand slap is so much more disrespectful than a fist. Damn.
Videos that ended too soon
Is it the light that makes them all look like having a unibrow?
"Another man's girl."
Bruh, he fucked up even if she didn't 'belong' to someone.
My man wouldn't have done anything.
Would it have been okay if she was single?
What if she belonged to a woman instead of a man? It would have been okay then?
her man stood up for her
No she doesn't own him. But that's just how English works bud.
Virtue signaling is so lame.
A good slap.
Damn that CCTV camera quality is very unflattering. The couple turned and looked at the assaulter like 🗿🗿
Fascinating how this is always constructed as "touching another man's girl" and not "harassing a woman, who happens to have someone with her who will stand up for her".
...you need to have a real girl to get it. I'm praying for you buddy!
I have a real girl, lmao, she's me. I do in fact get that women are real people with their own inner experiences and not just accessories to men. Do you?
It might be fascinating if it wasn't also constructed as "her man stood up for her"... But it isn't. Just stop. People refer to both sides of a relationship as possessive of the other. Your virtue signaling is vacuous.
It's not about whether or not he stood up for her. It's about whether the problem was that the guy harassed an innocent person or whether the problem was that he messed with another guy's "property".
What’s the legal consequences of this? Would both men be facing assault charges? Not disagreeing with the slap but just wondering
Nah. Guy slapping is defending someone from assault.
Well deserved…glad nobody was carrying
Bernie Mac would be proud
Dudes gonna be pissed when he realizes he lost an AirPod
Wow he held back a lot
Dude felt all confident. Good drinks, some take out…whoops! Too far homey.
did he poke her side waist
Yes! Yes there are! Women feed into it also don't be fooled
I did this is a bar awhile back got jail time for it. It was worth it
Bro got hit so hard the music stopped. LOL
Respect ..
His “friend” goes and hides behind the gf 🤣
“You got the right to be Bitch Slapped!’
Slapped the taste out of his mouth.
It's GLORIOUS when a "cool guy" shows off in front of his friends....and they don't help him when it's CONSEQUENCE TIME
The quick phone switch got me 😆
He gotta do what he gotta do. Respect
Jay did the 5 fingers say to the face?
This looks so badly compressed, it could as well be a cartoon, or AI generated.
I see consequences for our actions … we need more of this (the consequences part…. And how about thinking before we act and grab a girl like that)
What is the deal with slapping? Genuinely curious.
Good for him, but that's terrifying. I don't want to get killed because someone touched my wife and walked away.
Always the left airpod 🤷
He got Chris rocked
Powerslap! What happened to the good old fashioned closed fist?
Slaps are I believe more disrespectful… Or so I’ve heard
It sounded like a gunshot.
I am getting emotional watching it. It’s like he’s slapping some assholes in the past for me. Ah so good. Slap! 🏆
Why do bad guys always hide behind being acquaintances with regular people. It's like they're trying to validate their shitty character
@endstosoon. What happened after??
Handzy and his 3 hombres pulled knives and shit and went gang land on his ass. But for those few seconds before that dude was on top of the world.
Yeah, I was thinking this is the kind of situation where a guy winds up dying for defending his gf. Badly outnumbered and those dudes look pretty violent.
It would be funnier if they actually were in gangs and they did nothing and later hes like "Why didn't you back me up?"
"Bro he was bigger than us"
Gotta fight for your girl but 4 guys with potentially a gun or knife could be dangerous. That one guy behind his gf when he's hitting that dude could be a problem if he pulls a fast one.
Looked like backup guy was keeping a hand on a gun, but decided it wasn't needed.
Fight if she's under attack or was somehow physically hurt, not because she's offended. Let the cops take care of the rest.
This was pure realization to defend ego and turf. Not self defense.
Dudes like that catch charges or new orifices.
Not everyone lives in the same world you do.
That's fine.
I'll still judge the hell out of them and their decisions though.
I don't have any respect for that type of value system or those that hold it.
horribly incorrect title. girl doesn't belong to man, is not man's property. After SA'ing girl. After unwanted physical touch. Maybe more accurate titles. Best response may be to grab his ass in response and see if he enjoys being sexually harassed by strangers he's likely not attracted to.
You can do that. Tell us how it goes.
What an idiot
r/mildlyfrustrating …. Dude should have got a beat down