The exchange has matched! Each person in the exchange has been assigned a giftee. You should have gotten an email with a link to click on in order to retrieve your match. Your match is a digital “envelope” containing your giftee’s name, address, questionnaire, wishlist, and exchange preferences. If you can’t find it, check your spam folder. If you still can’t find it, log in and check the exchange page to retrieve your match. 

Note that your Santa (gifter) and your giftee are likely not the same person! Each person’s match is drawn randomly, and matches are not reciprocal in most cases.

What next?

  1. Retrieve your match by logging in to Givin Gifts or by following the link in your matching email. Please retrieve your match by Dec 1.
  2. Read your giftee’s questionnaire and profile. Reminder: please pick your gift based on the information your giftee provided. Please do not just send anything you want to get rid of!
  3. Message your giftee and introduce yourself. Givin Gifts has a message system which preserves your anonymity, or you may PM or chat your giftee via Reddit/Mastodon (preferred contact is in match information). Ask any questions you may have about their preferences, collection, or interests, as well as any information you need to successfully ship a package to them (such as a phone number). Click here for a tutorial on how to send messages via Givin Gifts. NOTE: Even though this is a “secret” santa, anonymity is not required by our exchange rules. However, the Givin Gifts message system is anonymous if you would prefer to remain a mystery!
  4. Respond to your Santa’s messages.
  5. Get your gift ready! For ideas, see last year’s galleries: green - red. The deadline to ship is December 10. If you’ve ordered parts of your gift but are awaiting arrival to ship to your giftee, you may click “Mark as ordered” on GG in the Sending tab to let your giftee know.

NOTE: When your giftee posts your gift, an elf will tag you by username so that your giftee can thank you. If you prefer not to be tagged and wish to remain perpetually secret, please let an elf know in advance.

I didn’t sign up in time, is it too late?

If you’d like to participate and you missed the signup, please contact your nearest elf (below) to be put on a waitlist for late matches. In your message, include which tier you’d like to waitlist for, what country you’re from, and which countries you are willing to ship to. We will do our best, though we cannot guarantee you a spot, sorry about that!

Further information

The original post with exchange guidelines and instructions can be found here.

Need help? Contact an elf!

If you need help, comment below or contact the appropriate team member(s) depending on your region. We recommend contacting an elf in a timezone close to yours for prompt responses compatible with your schedule.

You can easily identify the exchange organizers by the “Santa’s Elf” user flair on Reddit:

You can contact the exchange organizers on Mastodon:

  • Americas: @alexa488@penfount.social
  • Europe/Middle East/Africa: @Halfcelestialelf@penfount.social
  • Asia/Oceania: @paradoxmo@penfount.social
  • Head Elf (escalations/other): @paradoxmo@penfount.social

You can contact the exchange organizers on Instagram:

  • Americas: @mharp24, @dermpathgal
  • Europe/Middle East/Africa: @halfcelestialelf
  • Asia/Oceania: @paradoxpenguin
  • Head Elf (escalations/other): @paradoxpenguin

Rematching

If you have the means and time, please volunteer to be a rematcher! Click the “Become a rematcher” button on the exchange page to volunteer. You may volunteer to send 1–5 extra gifts—please only volunteer to send as many as you have time and money for.

You do not have to have registered for the exchange initially in order to be a rematcher! If you just want to send gifts, and don't care about receiving, you can be just a rematcher in the exchange. If you would like to do this, please contact your nearest elf and let them know the following information: what country you are in, what countries you are able to ship/gift to, and which tier gift (red and/or green) you are willing to send. We’ll put you on a list and reach out if your help is needed to fulfill a rematch.

Issues

  • I was notified that I was dropped from the exchange, but I still want to participate. Please let us know, along with which tier, which country you’re in, and which countries you would be willing to ship to.
  • I was removed from the exchange because my profile wasn’t filled out. Please reach out to an elf and let us know your GG username. We may be able to get you back in.
  • I signed up, but I can no longer participate. We totally understand. Please let us know ASAP so that your match can be rematched to someone else.
  • My giftee didn't fill out their questionnaire. Please message them and ask them to fill it out. If they don’t respond by Dec 1, please let us know.
  • I got matched with my housemate/spouse. Please let us know ASAP and we will try to rematch you.
  • I got matched to a giftee I can't post to. If you’re willing, you can order them a gift from a fountain pen store near them and send your note separately via regular post. If this still won’t work, please let us know ASAP and we will try to rematch you.
  • International shipping is expensive. What’s another option? You may choose to order a gift for your giftee from a fountain pen store close to them and send your written note separately via letter mail.
  • My Santa never messaged me. Please wait until Dec 1. If it is getting close to the ship date and you still haven’t heard, let us know.
  • I never heard back from my giftee. Please reach out to them directly using the preferred contact listed by them in your match information. Or let us know, and we can reach out on your behalf to nudge them. If they don’t respond by Dec 1, let us know, but do your best to prepare a gift anyway based on what they’ve written in their exchange preferences.
  • I got the same match for both exchanges. This can happen if there are very few people in the same country. Please let us know, we may or may not be able to do something about this, but at worst, you just send your match two gifts (: (yes, you may combine shipping)
  • Do I have to buy new stuff for my giftee? No! In this hobby we accumulate a lot of things and we encourage you to give pens and inks (bottles and sample vials) you are no longer using or that simply didn’t suit your preferences. If sending used items, please ensure that they are clean and in good working order. New is of course fine as well—if you happen to know the perfect gift for your giftee but don’t own it, go with your instinct!
  • Can I make stuff for my giftee? Yes, if you are crafty, whether that’s with leatherwork, knitting, bookbinding, pen turning, or 3D printing, you can definitely craft things that you think would be a good gift for your match (:
  • Since it’s a “Secret” Santa, do I have to stay anonymous? No, this is not required, you may message your giftee directly on Reddit if you are OK with breaking anonymity. But some Santas prefer to stay anonymous for the fun factor, and if you wish to do so, you may use the Givin Gifts message system which does not reveal the Santa’s username.

Reach out to an elf if you have any other issues or questions!

Gift selection and packing

  • Read this general shipping and packing advice for gift exchanges
  • If you're shipping internationally, read this advice on international shipping from the NYT/Wirecutter.
  • Be aware of shipping rates and keep your shipping box as small in dimensions as possible. Also be aware that most postal services have flat rate boxes that can be significantly cheaper to ship with than your own box. Look up this information in advance so that you aren't blindsided by shipping charges!
  • Include a note with your Reddit or Mastodon username so they can tag you if they post your gift to the sub.
  • Write “FP Secret Santa” and which tier on the box or on the note you include. People get many gifts and packages during the holidays and you will want to let them know what this one is for! If ordering directly to your match from an online retailer, use the gift note option.
  • We highly recommend you use a tracked shipping service. (Though we realize that in certain cases, this is not possible.)
  • Used items: These are perfectly acceptable to send, but we request that you send items that are clean and fully functional. Pens should be cleaned prior to shipping. Do not send dirty or broken pens, nibs, or converters. The sole exception to this is if your giftee has specifically requested to receive “project pens” or nibs that they want to practice repair work on.
  • Used/crafted item value: Value can be difficult to assess for limited edition models and inks, but generally retail value at time of launch or current secondhand market price is a fair valuation. For determining used pen values when there is a dispute, we look at a range of r/pen_swap posts and go for a middle value to be fair to both gifter and giftee. For hand-crafted items, we look for similar items and materials on Etsy and pick a midpoint. For inks, assuming full retail value for an obviously full or nearly full bottle is fair and pro-rated for partials.

Fountain pen specific packing advice

  • Ink samples and decanted/re-bottled inks: We highly recommend using sample vials with rubber o-rings in the cap or bottles with a foam gasket in the cap. Cap tightly to prevent leaks. If you cannot get the sample vials with the rubber o-ring, use some Teflon plumbers tape around the threads of your bottle or vial. Put your inks in a ziploc bag in order to contain any leaks if they happen so that the rest of your gift is not affected.
  • Pens: the most secure packing method is bubble wrap stuck inside some PVC tubing, with packing tape securely around the outside. Other decent options are paper towel or toilet paper rolls. Or if you use the original pen box, pad the inside with a few sheets of bubble wrap or newspaper to reduce movement and provide protection.
  • If you choose to write the address using fountain pen, remember that most fountain pen ink is not permanent! Protect the ink from the rain and snow by taping over it with clear packing tape. Or use permanent ink or a sharpie.

I sent my gift. What now? (Exchange logistics)

  1. On the exchange page on Givin Gifts, under the Sending tab, click Mark As Shipped and enter the shipper and tracking number. Click Add Package and then the Save Details button at the bottom.
  2. Optional - you can keep your giftee updated by letting them know you’ve ordered something, either to have sent directly to them or to you for assembling into a final package. Marking a gift as ordered is optional and not required by us or GG. 
  3. Upload screenshot or receipt of proof of shipping to Givin Gifts using the Upload Shipping Proof button. Click here to see what constitutes good proof of shipping.
  4. Once you receive your gift, please click Mark as Received. You will need to submit at least one photo of your gift to Givin Gifts to display in the exchange gallery. Note: If you are saving your gift to open later, please do NOT submit a picture of the box label. This photo is public—it must not contain any personally identifiable information. You can post a picture of your favorite pen or a note that says thank you instead.
  5. Post your gift to Reddit with the Secret Santa! flair, or to Mastodon/Fediverse/Instagram with the hashtag #FPSanta. And if you know your Santa’s username, tag them! Please crop out or censor any personally identifiable information such as address, phone number, or real name.
  6. A week or so after the shipping date, Givin Gifts will send an email to ask you if you received your gift. Please fill out the form with the circumstances. If you didn’t receive it, let us know and we will try to help.

Happy gifting!

—Your Secret Santa team

  • Muahahaha. My giftee provided a really great questionnaire, with lots of detail, and I’ve already begun plotting the present. I think I’m going to be able to pull together something they’ll like. Thanks for organizing this exchange! I’m excited to get everything together and start wrapping it up.

    Isn't it super fun? I spent all Sunday working on it. Most fun gift(s) to give AND receive during the holiday season for me <3

  • I want to thank all the involved elfs for the massive work you’ve put into the logistics

  • I retrieved my giftee and couldn’t be more happy, we have lots in common and I’m so excited!! My sewing machine is ready to work haha!

  • I'm excited! Haven't done an exchange since redditgifts closed. Not the easiest giftee, but I'll figure something out :)

  • Following people are on the naughty list of people who didn't fill out their questionnaire (as of last night... if you filled it out today then awesome!)

    Oh shoot! I forgot. Thank you for the reminder. I’ll get it done ASAP

    Will do! Gonna complete it tonight.

    I apologize, we have been dealing with some health issues in my home. I have completed the questionnaire.

    I signed up last minute and wasn't able to fill in everything at the time. I went back yesterday and tried to fill it out, but was unable to find the correct link when you input for our amazing match partners. I sent them a filled out questionnaire in the messages, I hope that was okay? If that's not okay would you mind putting the link up here pretty please :D

    Thank you so much! I'll go put all the info in there right now. :D

    Edit - done and done!

    Thank you, responded to my giftee's message.

    Hi! I'm sorry for the delay, I am recovering from surgery. I have looked all over givin gifts and can't find the questionnaire. I copied the questions from the link in the original posting but would be grateful to have a little direction on where to enter my responses on the GG site. I'm sorry, this is my first year and appreciate anyone who can help this n00b!!

    I saw help on another comment - lemme try now :)

    Ok I think I got it!

    It's done! I finished it last night except for my sotc, which I just linked to

    Yes! So sorry its been on my todo list forever 😔

    Ok I filled it and sent to gifter on givin gifts, wasn't sure how to read to gift exchange.

    I did! Late last night actually.

    I did it last night! Did it not save? (Edit: late last night/early this morning, usa eastern)

    You're good, I see it now! We compiled the list as of around 00:30 UTC, so you were flagged since you hadn't done it by then

    Gotcha! Thanks :) appreciate y'all looking out :)

    I did mine! Sorry!

    Please fill out your FP Secret Santa questionnaire: u/Spaceace33

    I filled it out yesterday but will make sure it saved!

    Sorry! Done!

  • Squee! I just shipped my Secret Santa gift and am so excited for it!

  • So excited for my first ever Secret Santa ☺️

  • First exchange and so VERY excited!! Had so much fun putting together gifts for both tiers. Thank you to everyone who has made this possible!

  • Get your gift ready! For ideas, see last year’s galleries: green - red. The deadline to ship is December 10. If you’ve ordered parts of your gift but are awaiting arrival to ship to your giftee, you may click “Mark as ordered” on GG in the Sending tab to let your giftee know.

    Would there be any issue if we order stuff but due to that can't get the package sent prior to December 10th? Can we update the status of the gift as sent afterwards? Or is it mandatory to have it marked as "sent" by the 10th? I want to know in case I have to hurry up if I end up doing any online purchase, since it will take a while to get delivered to me.

    I know that, in the worst case scenario, I can have it sent directly to my giftee, but I'd prefer to send it myself if possible.

    It's fine to send after 10th, just keep your giftee informed as to why so they're not left wondering why they haven't gotten an update.

    Keep in good communication with your giftee, and in general, it's more important to send a good gift than an on-time gift

    Ok, thanks a lot!

  • How long should I wait for my Santa to contact me? My details were retrieved. I am giddy and this is my first Secret Santa lD

    They have until Dec 1, if it gets to then and you don’t hear anything please reach out to us and we will follow up. You can also message them yourself on GG and see if they respond.

    I'm in this boat too. My details were retrieved almost right away but I have not heard anything :/ I've messaged as well.

  • Yay. I retrieved my giftee/match. Excited about putting a gift for my giftee (getting some ideas already).

  • I’m shocked people have already shipped and received their exchanges. I still can’t figure out what to get. Halpp!!

    If you need help figuring out a gift please feel free to reach out to an elf (:

    Thanks all of you have enough to worry about running this I don’t want to bother anyone.

    We are here to answer questions and help things go smoothly. You won't be a bother, I promise!

    You can also try crowdsourcing ideas. Like this post, this one, and this one. Last link has some cool ideas to consider in general too.

    Ah ok thanks. I will do this.

  • I have now shipped my secret Santa package. On a bleaker note, I've heard nothing from my own secret Santa.

    It looks like they retrieved, but I'll give them a nudge to reach out to you.

    Yeah I saw that they had retrieved. Just nothing since. I am much obliged, kind elf.

  • I got locked out while trying to upload my carefully answered questionnaire. I’ve been prepping The past two days asked it’s still 11/22/2025. The deadline was hitting right as we’re trying to do dinner planning and I thought it was in.

    Can I get in for a rematch?

    Did you get the lockout resolved? (is the issue with your GG account?)

    Please reach out directly to an elf with your GG name, tier(s), and countries you can ship to. It's likely we can still match you.

    Thanks so much for the help!

  • What’s a Global wish on gg? My gifted has some items there. How do I let them know it’s already purchased so not to buy it themself?

    In your GG account profile you can add wishes that are shown to all gifters, for any exchange, that’s what a global wish does. I’m not sure what you mean by the second part, are you saying you want to tell them you bought the gift so that some other gifter doesn’t re-buy it?

    Thank you. Ignore the last part

  • Just popping in to say I love this, and I think I'm quickly becoming addicted to this community.

    Not going to participate this year because I'm too much of a fountain pen noob and don't think I understand enough to get my giftee something that I'd be proud of, but I'll study up and be a gifting wizard next year!

    Can't wait for all the posts showing what everyone gets. I'm so excited for you all 😊🖋️ 

    noobs are welcome! You can be added to the late match waitlist if you'd like. If you need help figuring out a gift, the elves are here to help out.

  • I need some help from the elves. I ordered my giftee’s gift on Nov 29th, having it shipped directly to them from the retailer. My own secret Santa retrieved match/my details on Nov 22nd, but I haven’t heard anything from them. Should I wait a few more days?

    Edit at 1:31 p.m. PST: sent a chat to u/merantite

  • Help, please...according to Givin Gifts, my Santa never retrieved my information.

    Also, according to tracking information my giftee had their gift delivered on Friday, November 28. I wanted to make sure they received it. They are on Discord which I am not. I messaged them through Givin Gifts to let them know, but have not heard anything back.

    We’ve reached out proactively to your Santa because we saw they haven’t retrieved, but haven’t heard back so far. Please contact an elf so that we can keep you in the loop on what to do next.

    Re: your delivered gift, as long as you’ve uploaded shipping proof, your part is done and you’ll get credit for sending it. Your giftee might just be busy or traveling, so give them a few days to respond.

  • First time exchanger - any advice y'all can give on gifting without much to go off of? Don't want to get it wrong - TYIA!

    You are very welcome to use the GG messaging system to ask some clarifying questions or for more info from your giftee. You can message an Elf for ideas. This recent post has some good ideas. And if you want to crowd source ideas from the sub, I recommend making your own post for better visibility.

  • Thank you for this post! Excited to be a part of it this year since I’m just getting into fountain pens

  • u/RocketQueen21 please enable Reddit messaging and please respond to your messages on GG, your Santa is trying to contact you and they cannot send your gift until you do.

    I’ve been replying to them on GG. I just updated my Reddit settings.

  • I am SOOOOOO excited for my giftees to get their packages and I can't make the post office be any faster!!!!! 😬😬😬😬✒️✒️✒️✒️

  • Ugh. Royal Mail delivered my giftee's package to their "safe place" which was...? On top of their wheelie bin. Sigh. Looks like it's gone. (It was sent tracked and is insured, so will get on to that but arghh.)

    Oh man, that sucks. 2 things. 1, Have you submitted shipping proof to Givingifts? (the tracking number should be enough) 2, was this a nominated safe place from your giftee or was it the postie just being a complete muppet?

    Absolute muppetry by the postie, unfortunately. My giftee is trying to find if anyone else took it in for her (as they left it on Saturday, outside in the rain) Luckily I had a photo of the package to send her. Full tracking info is in GivinGifts.

    Ah - it's been located! But had been opened, so trying to find out what was missing. Now I know for next time to take pictures of everything I put into a package, so that's useful!

  • If you're in the following list, you were not matched—usually this is because you picked domestic, but there was no one else in your country. We may still be able to get you in during the late match round, please reach out to an elf and confirm that you'd like to be in late match and which countries you can ship to.

    Green tier: * u/Pysiool * u/excanman

  • If I need to reach an elf do I PM them directly?

  • I'm pretty sure I registered, but when I log into GG I don't see anything - can you confirm whether I'm in?

    Thank you!

    I see you on the list in red, try going directly to the red tier exchange page, or check for a link in your email. If you need more help please reach out to an elf directly.

  • I was removed? Not sure why.

    Hey there! Rachel from GivinGifts Support, Looks like your account was stuck in a shipping proof suspension loop. The suspension has been removed and account cleared. The FP Crew will reach out to you with more

    Oh. Yeah. I emailed my recipient, so no way to provide proof, but they did get it.

    Sending a message to see about getting you back in.

    It's ok. I don't mind sitting it out. Just confused.

    We'd be happy to have you back in! It was a GG issue that removed you. Please see your chats for more info.

  • This is my first Secret Santa experience ever, so I apologize if this is an ignorant question, but...

    Are we meant to keep our identity hidden from the receiver, or are we meant to share who we are in case they want to track us down later? Personally, I would love to be able to speak directly with anyone who sends me something, but I don't know whether there's a rule or a guideline about this sort of thing.

    Thanks!

    That's up to you. See this question:

    Since it’s a “Secret” Santa, do I have to stay anonymous? No, this is not required, you may message your giftee directly on Reddit if you are OK with breaking anonymity. But some Santas prefer to stay anonymous for the fun factor, and if you wish to do so, you may use the Givin Gifts message system which does not reveal the Santa’s username.

    If you choose to stay anonymous, we'll reveal you as the Santa when the giftee posts the gift so that they can thank you.

    When your giftee posts your gift, an elf will tag you by username so that your giftee can thank you. If you prefer not to be tagged and wish to remain perpetually secret, please let an elf know in advance.

    Thanks! I have no problem with them knowing. I appreciate the info.

  • Does GG send users an email if they get a message from their Santa? My giftee prefers contact via Mastadon, but I don't have an account there, and it seems they don't really use Reddit anymore. I'm hoping they'll see my message in time for me to take advantage of Black Friday sales for their gift.

    Yes, it sends an email. If you need an elf to help nudge your giftee on Mastodon please reach out

    Thank you! Could an elf poke my giftee on Mastadon, please? I left questions for them on GG.

    I’ll let the elves know- I’m not one of the ones of mastodon but I’m sure someone will help get it sorted

    Paradoxmo got in touch with them for me. Thank you!

  • Can you sign up to be a rematches in a different tier than you signed up in?

    yep just reach out to your elf letting them know

  • I need help. I signed up qnd thought I would find out who to send my gift to today. Read that I should ha e recieved a email...but I haven't recieved anything.

    I believe you are in contact now with an Elf, yes?

    Yes thank you!

  • My Santa retrieved my exchange preferences on November 24th, but I have otherwise not heard from them. I messaged an elf last night to let them know, but I wasn't sure if I should post here too.

    Thank you, elves :)

  • u/merantite sent you a pm with a question, in case you don't see it.

  • Just posting to say that my giftee knows I will be sending their gift out after the 10th, because I'm still waiting on a few packages, but I also wanted to the mods to know :)

  • Msg’d you on chat

  • Hi, wanted to let the mods know I had a shipping delay. Due to an recent injury I couldn't go pick up my gifts as I had initially planned. I already let my giftees know on gg that I will ship their gifts as soon as I get them!

  • If you're in the following list, you were not matched—usually this is because you picked domestic, but there was no one else in your country. We may still be able to get you in during the late match round, please reach out to an elf and confirm that you'd like to be in late match and which countries you can ship to.

    Green tier: * u/lyrab_wp * u/pranabus