One of the main reasons I want to be a femboy is because I want to be cute and loved like a girl, but I just thought to myself: "im not cute though" and I hate myself for it and its kinda making me invalidate my want to be one. So what do I do about this??? I wanna be seen as cute but I know (or maybe its just my self critique who knows maybe I am idfk) im not cute. Im too masculine looking help

Another reason: I feel im im really feminine. But when I told my friends they said I didnt seem to be acting any different from normal. So is this fake too?? Have I not been acting feminine like I thought i was?? Even if i already act feminine. What are more thinsg i could do to act feminine

I feel like that fact im still straight/bicurious, kinda also invalidates me? Am I allowed to be straight and still just as much of a femboy??

Can I wear more loose clothes than the stereotypical tight clothes that femboys wear bcs im introverted I dont like exposing my shape and figure.

Ive seen people say their friends said they'd make a good femboy just by how they act and im jealous like "my friends never said that so does that mean I shouldn't be one?"

I just wanna be cute help me i wanna be loved like that

I td my parents recently and they were chill but its still uncomfortable for me bcs in terms of comforting when im uncomfortable aboyt something, I don't like people doing it it makes me feel like a burden and it makes me cringe, difference is that if I was being comforted for just existing by a partner itd feel soo goodd. But like I said I feel like this won't happen ever.

Theres probably more but just this for now

Cuteness is more of, like, a mentality if that makes sense. It's a confidence thing, yanno? You don't have to be a stereotypical femboy to be seen as cute.

Straight femboys are perfectly valid; your sexuality doesn't affect your gender expression.

On the clothing thing, wear whatever you want ! There's no one way to express yourself femininely, so don't feel like you have to restrict yourself to 'count' as a femboy :3

Also, you don't have to rely on other's opinions of you to feel validated, because you'll obviously see yourself differently since you spend the most time with yourself. So even if your friends don't comment on your femboy potential, it doesn't mean anything

As for actually being cute, just wear what makes you feel good and act in a way that feels natural to you <3 Btw, you'll find your person, don't worry too much about it.