We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.
We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.
If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.
We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.
Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.
This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.
This is not a place for you to experiment.
I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.
We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.
We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.
Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)
Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.
Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.
Thanks, really
This needs to get pinnend
Maybe not this but we need something to at least try and ward off creeps
Legitimately all the "I want to fuck a femboy" posts on all femboy subreddits makes me feel objectified , creeped on and pushed out of the space.
This post is so fucking real. Thank you for making this
Whenever I post to these subs or similar, the amount of creepy messages I get from guys is unreal like bro. I don't want you, please leave.
It’s kinda insulting that they think we’d be into it ngl
Isn't it!
Innit!
They forget we're guys too and those cheezy intros they send us we can see a mile away
Well said! There's a lot of confusion/ignorance with some people about what a "femboy" actually is. I know the term is quite loose but some people have wild misconceptions, related to some of your points above. I support this message! People need to judge others less and embrace what feels good and true to themselves(aslong as nobody else is effected of course)!
The way I see it, it’s just a feminine boy/man. Nothing more. Any other characteristic has nothing to do with it.
I literally tryed to explain this to someone yesterday and they sead no you have to pass as a girl and be gay to be a femboy. Was so frustrating
I hate that cause some of our community doesn't want to shave or struggle with more masculine features, anf people like that can make those types think they aren't welcome here
Also not all femboys are feminine 100% of the time and u wanting to connect with them by ONLY the feminine side of them makes you superficial at best
Im immediately suspicious of anyone whose only criteria for a partner is them being “a femboy”. You don’t want a boyfriend you want a living body pillow.
Plus a lot of those kinds of people aren’t willing to accept that femboys are men and, as you say, we aren’t feminine all the time. How will that relationship go when the “femboy bf” forgets to shave four days in a row?
Exactly!! Somedays I'm too tired to shave or don't feel fem enough to slip into my things. I always imagine being with them would be like living with one of those lifetime channel men who tell their spouse what to do and wear
It would be a lot of denial from their end I imagine
Best comment ever. Because I guarantee they won't want me with no makeup, torn loose clothes and covered in engine grease
Unless they’re also into THAT. I mean, ppl can & do have multiple ’types’ or whatever.
genuinely thank you for posting this my goat
"It's insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup"
Dude you have no idea how much this hits
Trust me I have some idea. Had a few bad chats in my time
As a trans women, thank you for posting the alert we are not the same group ❤️
Well said! I would also add what the sub IS for, which is a safe space for femboys to hang out and have a supporting community.
Exactly. We shouldn’t tolerate creeps coming into our safe space. Coming in here trying to date us when we’re just trying to have fun
Especially Everytime you post a photo they in your DMs like "Hi sexy" "hello beautiful" 🙄
Or worse, the innocent “hey”
OMG! Yes! You know there's more in there
Thank you! Also want to say transmasc/nonbinary people and trans men can be femboys too :) We're not "cis women with extra steps"!
this! I'm transmasc enby/non-binary boy who's a femboy and I hate that whole "cis women with extra steps". I'm not a cis woman, I'm a (non-binary/trans) feminine boy!
I used to think it was weird for trans men to be femboys because I thought it was “ruined the point”, but then I realized any boy can be a femboy and trans boys are boys, why should it be a cis male only thing
i’m so tired of this, not just here but everywhere. i see a cool femboy! comments? “female enough” “i need a femboy bf”
I don't understand what you mean by 'it's gay'? There are straight femboys, too.
I should say I meant “to like femboys”. Thanks for pointing it out, I’ll edit that.
All of this!
Perfect. Literally couldn’t have been said better.
Just yesterday I had some random Redditor say I must be submissive because I used a 🤣 emoji. Lolwut. Gotta love these creepy manipulative dudes.
They think they’re so smooth.
I know just because we are more feminien makes them think we have lower standards it's stupid.
This needs to get pinned
All of this is 100% true. We need this.
I opened reddit and this is the first post i see. It makes me so happy so many people of this community feel this way and are actively fighting off creeps. Even though sadly creeps would still lurk in here, this post really says it all. Thank you for such an amazing post.
Based. We need to pin this post :)
THIS!! Thank you!!
Thanks for making this :3
I agree wholeheartedly, and I'm not a femboy. Chasers are one of the worst parts of most minority-based threads. Heck, I just lurk here out of vague interest in y'all's GNC stuff, being a fellow non-conforming individual. You'd think that would be more common.
Can you also add that being a femboy doesn’t mean you’re gay
Ah yes. Was going to but I forgot
Unfortunately because its the internet the weirdos wont read this at all. Because its the internet weirdos will be weird, thats just an unfortunate byproduct of the internet
Yeah I know. If you’re coming to an sfw space to creep I can’t imagine light reading is in the forefront of the mind
Louder for the people in the back!
THIS.
I love this!
Yes
EXACTLY
Jes
What is meant by „This is not a place for you to experiment“?
A lot of guys tend to see femboys as ways to experiment with their sexuality often without regard to our feelings.
I mean that this space specifically is not here to help guys experiment, nor are we femboys obligated to help any “curious” guys with that. There are other ways.
The "don't tell my wife" types
As a bi guy I get that from both ends. I hate being someone’s experiment.
Ah okay, I interpreted it as not being able to experiment with different clothes as a femboy, therefore I was a little confused.
This is so real
Periooodd
Ground rules set 😂
LOUDER FOR THOSE WHO REFUSE TO LISTEN 🗣️🗣️
This is all so true
Some the these should be rules and they ain’t sadly
Hell yeah :3
Yes! TY!
Hell yeah, thank you this needed to be said
Well said
W post!
PLEASE PIN!!
Glad you’re able to clear things up and explain what this community is and isn’t :3
Been getting a lot of the same post over and over that it’s starting to feel like deja vu 😅
I’m a visitor, and AGREED bro the amount of creepy guys there are here is scary, like even i got texts from weirdos because sometimes i comment here so this post is NEEDED
Well said!👏👏👏☺️
thank you for this post, nyaa!! :3
Preach 🙌🗣️
100%
OMG!!,Thank you for making this!!
This is so good
some people really just think with their d#cks and its really hard to watch. Like we dont need to know how high your s#x drive is leave the pretty guys alone.
Its sad that we even have to tell people how to behave properly, but im glad this was made!! this should be pinned as someone else said 🩷
So very true
Fantastic post. I have accepted that I can never be a femboy because of my body type and size, but that doesn't mean i don't wish I could be and enjoy living vicariously through watching my femboy friends IRL live their best life.
I'm sorry people have been awful enough to need a post like this, but I hope this post gets pinned for future creeps to see.
As long you like being feminine, you’re a femboy.
Holy based Batman
Thank you. I hate seeing dating and these horny shit posts.
Facts. And no we won't show you our feet
co-signed by a trans woman because that was some real shit u just said
Lol always love the people that think femboys are soft and empathetic. While I am mostly soft and empathetic that can quickly turn when I'm not treated right. I'm not weak and will happily show it.
That’s the dumbest stereotype imo. Also, building on what you said, when they say “soft and empathetic” they mean “personal therapist who will put up with my shit no questions asked”
Idk about you but I have had several occasions when someone just trauma dumped all over me
The only thing I have posted in here was asking for some dating advice for me and my partner that was about it, but yeah I’ve seen a few of the weird comments.
Whenever i comment or post i got plenty of those in dms lol
please bring more awareness to this!!!
Hi I’m a woman I just was friend umm I literally have a friend that I helped realize that he preferred being a femboy but he moved away and I feel lonely (not sexually) and need more friends 😭😭
Ahhahahahahahahahahahahaha
Realmente os "heterotops" chegaram a esse ponto???
I only disagree with the part about being gay, but the rest 👍
This is the kind of discipline r/teenfemboy needed! You are welcome here if you're not a femboy, but you are a guest. Just like white people are guests in Hip Hop. Gatekeeping is necessary for marginalized communities, and we will not let ourselves be objectified and fetishized!
This 100% needs to be pinned or something on the sub. People get weird about femboys and each week there's another "is it gay" post. I will never understand why people forget that femboys are boys and that they're normal people, straight up
oh my gosh thank you
i disagree
And why’s that?
I want to be sexualized. Sorry :( All your points are valid
Good for you but the community as a whole does not and this subreddit is not the place to be sexualised
Thank you for clarification! I apologize.
Straight dude.
I just heard of this sub.
I don't understand why a straight guy can't come to a femboy community and seek to make friends.
Like, if someone wants to be my friend and nerd out on something I know about then how is that wrong?
I get that but A) It’s a femboy community for femboys specifically. B) Why does a friend have to be a femboy? Why can’t you find friends in a space dedicated to nerding out?
because there is nothing wrong with searching for friends of specific attributes, to learn more about them, their culture, their mindset. Why else do you think people travel?
Seems like you (and maybe your community) is interested in gatekeeping people out, which is cool, but why though?
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"a community by femboys for femboys."
Well, great shit. I'm not a femboy.
Agreed except the part where you said we're not better women. I beg to differ honey. I think we're better everything :3
Haha I like the confidence. I just don’t like men using us to justify their blatant misogyny
Meh! I say let them. That way they out themselves and we can make a mocking collage of all the pathetic losers with their reddit names visible, post it on the reddit with the title "Wanna be here and not be a pathetic loser? Don't be like these guys". :3
I’d be tempted to agree (I love embarrassing creeps) but there’s kids and vulnerable people so we have to sacrifice that potential fun for safety.
I wouldn’t be against a list of accounts to avoid though. It would help a lot of us
As a visitor, im challenged to broke all of your word politely no im not, respect is earned not demand
Eh?
The concept of femboy is really appealing and peaked my interest till i wanna hear more
I really want to talk to a femboy to become friend
The reason? Becoming friend with everybody is a fun thing i'll try
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