Hey there,

I’m 29, based in southern Germany (but open to Europe), and I’m hoping to meet a woman who enjoys taking the lead in a relationship. Not just in the bedroom, but in a way that deepens intimacy, trust, and connection over time.

Let me be upfront: I’m not looking for 24/7 control or total power exchange. I admire strength and confidence, but I also value mutual respect, communication, and space to grow as individuals. Ideally, we’d find a rhythm where your guidance feels natural, maybe even a little teasing. The kind that makes me feel both safe and deliciously undone.

Outside of kink, I’m a curious soul. My interests shift with the seasons. Sometimes I’m hiking through a forest, sometimes I’m buried in a fantasy novel or coding a game I’ll never finish. Right now, I’m puzzling through jigsaws and trying to get more flexible with yoga (also good for my health, since I work an office job). I’m also trying to fit as many plants as possible onto my balcony and one day I’d love to have a big garden where I can grow my own crops. Gaming has always been a passion of mine, but I am more into relaxing games, Egoshooters are to stressfull. I prefer either cozy games or anything with a pause function so I can plan things in my own pace. I love trying new things and would adore a partner who’s just as playful or a little nerdy. So mostly I am a homebody, but I enjoy a little adventure from time to time.

Physically, I’m tall (196 cm), with long blonde curls and a slim build. Sometimes I have a beard, but thats very random depending on my mood.

As for me, I’m more on the shy side when meeting new people, but I warm up quickly once trust starts to build. I’ve been told I’m friendly, thoughtful, and someone you can rely on. I’m the kind of person who tries to help when someone’s struggling, even if it’s just by listening. Loyalty and trust mean a lot to me, I don’t give them lightly, but when I do, it’s for real. I’ll admit I can be a little disorganized sometimes (my desktop is a chaotic mess), but I make up for it by being open-hearted and genuinely caring.

Who I’m hoping to find? A woman who’s confident, warm, and enjoys being in control, but also wants a deep, emotional connection. Someone who’s as excited about building trust and intimacy as she is about playful rituals and private games. If you're nurturing but firm, curious, maybe a bit wicked in the right moments, you might be exactly who I’m hoping for.

When it comes to kink, I’m still exploring. I’ve had a few experiences but nothing long-term. I’m drawn to edging, pegging, praise, playful power dynamics and more, but we can talk in detail about it once we get to know each other better.

Limits: hard pain, sissification, cuckold, financial domination, and anything illegal or permanent.

Let’s start with a real conversation. If something sparked your interest, I’d love to hear what excites you. Tell me what makes you feel powerful, playful, or seen.

Looking forward to hearing from you