I'm an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking an adult partner, who is somewhat dominant or switchy, that can enjoy a very intense dynamic (both in kink and non kink) that centers around you being my complete priority. I need a high maintenance partner who craves and needs constant attention; who will heavily encourage obsession to you; and encourage an intense addiction to you that is impossible to satisfy. I want to develop a very codependent relationship dynamic and I want everything to be about you. That even in our "getting to know eachother" stage, I should put you above all of my friends, hobbies, and any social activities.

It might seem weird, but I intensely crave to have a very clingy and incredibly possessive partner. It is an absolute turn on for me if you want or need to put yourself on a pedestal over my life and help constantly direct my attention to you. You coul blow up my phone... randomly demand information.. constantly know where I am, or who im with, and what im doing. To go through my phone whenever you want and keep me from having any control over it when you are around me. I want you to actively crave attention and encourage me to give in to your needs as much and as often as possible (More than im even capable of giving). To enjoy convincing me to stop whatever i'm doing and give you attention as often as possible: to develop a chemistry with playful demands and sexualized games between us.. to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires, to the point that you become a complete priority over my social life. To even be so possessive that you keep me from spending my time or attention on anyone but you.

I actually do have a very intense isolation kink. For my partner to play a manipulative role in keeping all of my attention for herself.. To use and leverage sensual and sexual advances to keep me from going out and to encourage me to be weak to my compulsive needs for you instead. If I have plans, you can convince me to blow them off or even coerce me to stay home. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans to give you intimacy instead is a huge kink of mine. If im about to leave, just play dress up strut around or pose in something that you know will distract me and take my eyes away from anything else. convince me to stay as you hold my crotch and moan in my ear until I give in. To encourage and train my compulsive male weakness to prioritize you. Make a deal with me to stay home, or completely sabotage my plans by having rituals of you wearing skimpy outfits around me and tease me into spending hours fondling and admiring your legs instead of anything else.. even to have me goon to you for long periods of time, even as you ignore me and read a book, or watch a show, or doomscroll on your phone. Or to have the most prolonged softcore foreplay, for hours at a time, denying eachother while constantly intensifying our intimacy. I even imagine planning to go see a movie with friends but you come into the room wearing the shortest little skirt and push me to sit down, get on my lap, kiss me as you get lay me down on my back, just so you can all the more easily sit on my face and grind and bounce on my lips until the movie is over. Or to even encourage intense gooning to you while you go through my phone to see what ive been doing on it as I pamper and passionately make out with your pussy.

I enjoy long sessions of foreplay and intense adoration. Even if I want to go out, or am out, to convince me to stop what I'm doing and go home because my obsessive and addictive need for you is more important. Your pussy's needs are more important, and your pussy should always be a complete priority. I love the idea of you dressing up just to keep me gooning to you, keeping my attention constantly on you, even though you are doing something else like reading a book, or playing on your phone, or watching something. Even to have you just sit on my face for long periods of time, periodically bounce and wiggle on my lips while you binge a show, not caring at all how much time is being spent like this. To be dressed up in lingerie as you straddle and bounce on my lap, denying penatration so I spend more and more time being attentive to your body with my hands and lips with constant necessity for more.

There is something so intense about constantly engaging in multi hour long and seemingly endless foreplay, having the most sexually tense experiences regardless of how softcore our interactions actually are. Im not in a hurry for intercourse. I in fact find it to be even more intense with the longer we prolong it. We could have excessive soft core tease and deny sessions for each other: then as the sexual tension and frustration builds, a more rough and dominant side of us might reveal itself.

I want to have a dynamic that we can constantly build and develop, creating intricate rules and games, rituals, or situational cues, all for us to build upon eachother's ideas and fantasies as we create even more sexual and emotional intensity.. creating a synergy within a mutually beneficial relationship.

We can both be dominant and submissive to eachother in our own ways. The only power I really want in our dynamic is to be able to choose and buy outfits and lingerie for you, to collect them for you to wear for me when we are at home, just for you to use as a tool to manipulate me with and keep me home. To be a complete cock tease as you let me spend hours admiring and adoring you, gooning to you in whatever canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I need you to be as possessive and as selfish as you want. Perhaps it could simply be a part of our dynamic, that i am able to dress you however i want, so you can keep me as maliable and weak to you as possible, to keep me from going out, to encourage my obsession and adoration of you, to keep me gooning for you even longer, to make you my priority... and you can control everything else. Where I can go, who I can hang out with, or to just perpetually keep me home as you constantly encourage my little addiction. You choose whatever tv show or movie you want, and I focus on you and your pussy in return. I admit even having incredibly intense fantasies of a partner making me give up entertainment entirely for her, and replacing it with videos and audios of her instead. (I have so many intense ideas I'd like to share with the right person)

And if I complain about something, you just look in my eyes, hold my cock, and as you gently stroke, you tell me exactly how things are going to be. That I only get to choose what you wear and how you dress as we do whatever you decide... that I'm not allowed to go or do anything else but show you how important your pussy is to me.

I do crave consistant playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over everything else. I want someone who will enjoy developing a chemistry and learning what makes me tick so she will always know how to make me choose her over everything else. All while I also learn the intricacies of your desires, that we can build a world for eachother that constantly caters to our most intense fantasies within our established boundaries.

I want codependency. I want a relationship dynamic that others might consider unhealthy, but will actually be considered healthy for us. I would really want to become obsessed and desperate for you.... to have an absolute necessity to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most important part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time with friends or family to be with you instead. I crave a relationship so engulfed in obsessive passion and sexual intensity that both of us will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more sensually intimate play, or to create more and more experiences for eachother that cater to each of our most desirous needs. To be lost in this world of fantasy, and roleplay, and lust crazed love that we perpetually explore.

The ideal person is someone who craves constant attention.. who is never sexually satisfied... even being or manipulatively pretending to be easily jealous can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games, and is even interested in hypnosis or psychological conditioning ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and the desire to cum, to pry away deeper into a male psyche and encourage intense obsession and weakness for her; to ever more increase my dependency, necessity, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.