them holding me like really tight and maybe them stroking through my hair a bit. And them telling me that I'm neither objectively ugly, nor unlovable would also be nice. And then I'd be clinging to them while ugly crying because I can't take people saying nice things to me.
Genuinely even early on when meeting someone moments of weakness/breakdowns aren't dealbreakers for me. I care about others and understand were human and were gonna have bad days. The real dealbreakers are when someones inconsiderate and clearly not thinking of me or my well being; which I find most men do within the first 5 minutes of meeting me lol
Literally had this date with a partner who I was with for 7 years.
We decided to do tea and then a movie and we went to see Pacific Rim, because big dumb movie, simple stuff. Half way through he had a panic attack, so we left the theater and found a bench nearby and sat there as he got through it and I held his hand and was present. It was a weird first date. I gave him a dinosaur when I took him home. It went as well as a date that features a panic attack could go.
Oh, well, I thought the part where I said we were together for 7 years covered that in broad detail, but since you asked:
We hooked up on our 2nd "date" which was a movie at his and then to the bedroom. In Bruges was the movie. He told me that he had very recently been on a huge slutty streak and was trying to slow that down. He had set a 3 dates limit, but the dinosaur let me skip the line by one.
Within 2 weeks he asked if he could call me Daddy, we moved in together after 4 or 5 months. Eventually moved to Chicago. I still live in the state, but in a cheaper place to exist. During the breakup after telling me I could have the car he took it. I paid for half and Uber was my job so it really fucked me bad. He never explained why he left. 2 years of massive depression followed. Been about 4 years now and I have just the normal amount of depression.
Genuinely even early on when meeting someone moments of weakness/breakdowns aren't dealbreakers for me. I care about others and understand were human and were gonna have bad days. The real dealbreakers are when someones inconsiderate and clearly not thinking of me or my well being; which I find most men do within the first 5 minutes of meeting me lol
if u cant handle me scream-crying in ur arms u simply cannot handle me
Literally had this date with a partner who I was with for 7 years.
We decided to do tea and then a movie and we went to see Pacific Rim, because big dumb movie, simple stuff. Half way through he had a panic attack, so we left the theater and found a bench nearby and sat there as he got through it and I held his hand and was present. It was a weird first date. I gave him a dinosaur when I took him home. It went as well as a date that features a panic attack could go.
aw man you gave him a dinosaur that's so fucking cute
He thought so too!
what happened?
Oh, well, I thought the part where I said we were together for 7 years covered that in broad detail, but since you asked:
We hooked up on our 2nd "date" which was a movie at his and then to the bedroom. In Bruges was the movie. He told me that he had very recently been on a huge slutty streak and was trying to slow that down. He had set a 3 dates limit, but the dinosaur let me skip the line by one.
Within 2 weeks he asked if he could call me Daddy, we moved in together after 4 or 5 months. Eventually moved to Chicago. I still live in the state, but in a cheaper place to exist. During the breakup after telling me I could have the car he took it. I paid for half and Uber was my job so it really fucked me bad. He never explained why he left. 2 years of massive depression followed. Been about 4 years now and I have just the normal amount of depression.
:< jesus christ man. moids..
God forbid a girl has standards
where's that fucking needs pyramid meme when i need it
I just want to be held and verbally affirmed, that’s not so hard or too much.
Literally
Being on either side of this is goals
Instead my ex cheated and I had a menty b and he called me psycho 😊
Yeah this is about what I put my partner through every few weeks because I'm a mentally unstable bitch
If he's not willing to do that bare minimum, is it even worth it?
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