(Sub-5) I will never learn to live with the fact that I am ugly and my life is naturally ruined. I feel nothing but pure envy every time I see my naturally beautiful friends, especially one of them who has white skin, pink and heart-shaped lips, dark brown hair, is 1.67 meters tall, and is simply divine, exquisite to look at. I send her so much; she can have whoever she wants without trying. She won in life
comparison is a bitch ngl
got whiplash from the vodka pfp, haven’t seen those two in forever 😵💫
anyways, i can definitely sympathize with this. envy for everyone who has it better is a putrid feeling though, and has typically led me to deeper misery and isolation. i can’t say it gets better in a linear way, but if you practice putting importance in your general existence instead of just your looks then slowly it’ll feel better to breathe. most surface-level socialization does revolve around appearance, but life itself does not.
whatever you do, don’t let your resentment consume you. neither you nor your friends deserve that.
Same, but remember that even your most beautiful friends will never have the same amount of privilege and prowess as the average moid. Never forget who the true enemy is.
any moderately attractive woman can have moids wrapped around her fingers I’ve seen it so many times.
No, they can sleep with them. Much different. If power was obtained through attractiveness then we'd have more women in power.
The fact is that not even the most beautiful woman has the power over the most pathetic man in society, and the fact that many of you cannot admit it confirms that point.
Truly they are under spells. Sad!
Same. I look horrendous, most of it is more or less set in stone, and I don't even have personality to make up for it since I can't even talk to people like an actual human being. Anyone who ever cared for me either "has to" (I am more or less the only child of my entire family) or does so just out of pity.
I think one of the most upsetting things about this experience is attractive people can't even comprehend what it's like to be unwanted. It's an alien idea that they will never experience
https://preview.redd.it/ee5k514x9m7g1.jpeg?width=216&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f14c2faf72dce2b5dbefe0e9ec7d6a65e6e37fac
Im content with my life. But a part of me knows I’ll never experience the true female experience because I was never all that attractive and extremely masculine my entire life. Every girl treats me like a dude, every dude looks down on me because I’m not a pretty feminine girl.
Felt hard. In comparison to literally any other women I feel like a disgusting vile creature.
Idk if this will help you, but to cope i think about how we'll all be old and ugly someday. No one gets to be beautiful forever
I relate so fucking hard. I wish I was attractive..
Sometimes i forget that this sub isn't just for girls going insane but also for people using the exact same mindsets and language as incels
r/Rotcels
wife her up lowk
Real. Pain!
Its true but also comparison is important to help us stay grounded and prevent embarassing ourselves further. Dont listen to the people telling you to gaslight yourself, we must strike a balance
True eves are just drag queens
Seem like moid 🤔
I am a girl 😭
i have gotten every person ive ever wanted in real life and i feel miserable and worthless so no, being true eve won’t fix you
At least you can be miserable and beautiful, I'm miserable and ugly
it doesn’t matter. both of us are miserable, there are people uglier than both of us who have happiness, we are not miserable because of our looks. and beauty is only determined by society, why it’s called beauty standards.
stfu
Just felt the need to rub it further in, you're an insecure piece of shit for trying to make this about how pretty you must be
LOL dude just because i mentioned i am considered attractive to convey the issue that attractiveness/looks is not the answer to literally any form of deep meaning or true happiness, makes me insecure, got it🤣
You're 17 years old and you lack empathy you wrote. Lol, it really shows.
And yeah, it does. Sorry being pretty didn't help you get where you want in tennis. You know what does though, talent and hard work. Shame you don't have it.
real classy, you can’t comment shit about hard work nor my talent because you don’t know anything about it😹 nor do you know anything about the sport. feel free to make more jabs about how pathetic my life is or whatever shit you want to do
“i’m not like you guys, ew, i’m pwetty and sadge 🥺🎀”
eh there are a lot of issues you can still have while being attractive, it’d be silly to dismiss it like you can only be sad and ugly. i’m considered pretty and yeah people want to fuck me but in the end i’m still ethnic and people can be fucked up. a slightly ugly white girl prob doesn’t have to deal with that
no one is saying pretty people can’t be sad tho? the issue here is that people with pretty privilege keep positioning themselves as the idk authority ig of what sadness should look like? telling OP, someone who feels unattractive that “being pretty isn’t everything” doesn’t dismantle the hierarchy babe. what you’re still doing is speaking down to her and everyone else who feels the same by deciding which pain is reasonable and which isn’t. who are you to police what true happiness and sadness look like?? arguing about gatekeeping emotions while actively gatekeeping them. be serious 🫠
?? where is the gatekeeping
so saying since OP is an “ugly white girl” she can’t feel as sad as you—the ethnic pretty girl everyone wants to bed—isn’t gatekeeping?
i’m a POC myself. but wtf is that take?
where… did i say that? you’re putting words in my mouth
I am considered attractive by the standards society puts onto people. In no way am I superior in any way 😭 but whatever you want to get from that message you do you🥺
Shut up
Fakecel, fakecel! 😭🫵
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I AM A GIRL
I meant the person in the picture not you :C