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I saw an elderly woman wearing denim shorts that looked more like chonies! For her top she had a fishnet top with those X shaped nipple covers. No one really looked at her on the strip, but I was shocked! I mean, get it granny; but likeâŠ
The boots cut you off and make you look stumpy. Strappy heels would be the best since theyâd continue the strappy look down from the dress to your feet.
I think just a lessâŠchunky shoe? The flat sole, round toe, and heavy leather make these look like fall/winter boots, not party boots. Look for a pointier toe and a slim heel (even a kitten heel). If you canât do pointy toed shoes, almond toe could be fine, or something open-toe/peep toe.
Okay darling just want to say you really do look so cute and Iâm unsure what the downvotes are for? Like sure itâs not my style, but rarely things are that I like? And yea we donât have the same body but whatâs the point of a giant world if everything looks the same?
Exactly rightâŠ? Regardless of how much skin is being shown the first thing I think when I see that dress is âcheapâ. The fabric looks cheap and flimsy and is pulling across the stomach/doesnât fit flatteringly.
Iâm from Vegas and it would look cheap and trashy in Vegas. Itâs not about the body type. Vegas doesnât care. Itâs actually a pretty diverse and welcoming scene. But they do care about fit and fabric. And styling. Boots arenât a good match either and I love boots with dresses but it doesnât work with this one.
There are a lot of things wrong with this. If you are going for fancy and want a sparkly clutch, this is not the fit for it. You paired that with an apple watch, a hair tie(I think), boots meant for crisp fall mornings đ, and a dress that doesn't compliment you. None of it works.
yes of course but my point is the comments were much nastier even if the dress was showing the tiniest but of cleavage or legs. you can't even compare the two but the reception was far different.
Lose the boots. If you like the dress, wear it, but remember to check yourself every time to sit bend down. Itâs not an expensive or chic look. It also fits poorly. You can do sexy better than this.
I think itâs too much. Itâs super unflattering, and by your own admission youâre struggling with the logistics of keeping everything covered. You have great curves. I think you could find something so much better than this.
I like the dress but it should be a bit bigger, other than that, youâre in the right place for that type of party and I hope you enjoy your anniversary. đHappy Anniversary to you both!
You have lovely curves but this dress is really doing you dirty. Ultimately, you will have the final say because itâs your choice, regardless what however many comments say⊠but I would throw out this dress. You can do so much better. What about something with a deep front or back plunge? Also, any time spent outside in the evening, youâll be freezing.
Having said that, if you bring it anyway and if thereâs anywhere to wear a dress like this, I guess itâs Vegas. But bring a cute coat, like one of those belted wrap coats.
I live in Vegas, you see a lot of outfits very risque, people are even walking in bathing suits so you can wear that, you w'ont feel out of place. However, I do think it's still a little too much.
Based on the background it looks like you already chose to wear it. It looks like a stripper outfit. Thereâs a difference between sexy and trashy. If you are going for the trashy and cheap look then this dress is for you.
I wanna be honest, and please don't see this as an insult. But you're looking like i am going to see you in an arrest video in one of these bodycam-youtubechannels soon...
This is a hard no for me. That dress is hanging on for dear life. Just because itâs Vegas, thatâs no excuse for cheap and trashy. There are definitely high-end, classy events there and not everyone is wearing scanty, ill-fitting clothing. You have such a cute figure.. youâre just no capitalizing on your assets here. Just my two cents.
Itâs Vegas, a celebration, and burlesque showâŠof course itâs not too much. You look sexy and your husband likes it so even better. Ignore these negative comments, I would just do a heel instead :)
Itâs not âtoo muchâ as in âtoo revealingâ but it doesnât properly fit you, and the material being so thin amplifies that. A better made dress of the same cut would be great, but it is obvious that it is a very affordable unlined dress. Iâm guessing you got it off SHEIN.
Not too much but that dress is not flattering on your body type.
You now what I always though was attractive on your body type was those old 50's dresses. Kind of jealous because I love those old 50's dresses but they look stupid on me. They look amazing on you. A lot of goth women wear them but you could also. You would look so hot in one.
No. Regardless of town, event, or occasion. No. (The fact that commenters saw others horrifically dressed in Vegas is not a reason to encourage others to do the same. Mb their mama never taught them that just bc your friend jumps off the bridge does not mean you should.)
Look, I agree about the fabric looking cheap. The comments people are making about body shape need to stop. You can have an opinion on the outfit without being rude. Yes, she asked if it was too much. So say âyesâ and move on. Stop making the âsausage casingâ type comments because honestly the only one who looks bad here are those of you who lost your manners.
I'm going against the grain. Yes, it's too small on you, but that's okay. It's a night out in Vegas with your husband, be slutty. Be hott. Show him the goods!
The dress style isnât too much for Vegas. But itâs ill fitting and the material looks cheap. It would look better without the boots- a strappy heal would elevate the look if you do decide to wear it
Iâm gonna be honest the whole look is a mess. The dress does not flatter you. Itâs revealing but not in a sexy way, it looks like an accident. The boots look like youâre about to trek through mud. The Apple Watch is still on. You gotta change it all. Iâm all for showing skin, but this just looks trashy not sexy.
The dress doesn't fit and I think the boots are an awful choice. Strappy sandals would be the way.
But if you feel good about it and feel hot wearing it then who am I to judge? I don't think you'll get any side eyes. It's Vegas. Pretty much anything goes. I hope you have fun!
I think the more pertinent point this person was trying to make (however inappropriately) is mostly that this dress doesnt fit her at all. Even if referencing someone smaller, A size 6 woman shouldn't be wearing a size 2 dress. It just doesn't fit.
Hey I think you look great and very appropriate for the specific setting and occasion. I think subs like this can focus too much on what is socially/conventionally considered ideal and assume that everyone is choosing what they wear based on wanting to appear as close to that narrow ideal as possible. Your body is beautiful and I'm sure your husband appreciated you flaunting it âšïž
I will say you really can wear anything in Vegas but something like this that is open all the way down the side will either show your underwear or show that your not wearing underwear both of which arenât great looks even in Vegas
Judging by the placement of your hand though Iâd say itâs a no underwear night which i would never recommend lol
Oh nooo, I didnât think about that but youâre so right! OP, I guarantee you will end up flashing someone with the tightness and shortness of that dress and lack of underwear. One would hope you only flash your husband but someone else will likely get an eyeful and thatâs not cool. Iâm no prude, but I donât need to see a strangerâs bits.
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! It's YOUR anniversary, at a BURLESQUE show in VEGAS. Where else would tyou wear it ? Hope you feel hot, and your partner thinks your hot đ„
Itâs literally Vegas, wear what you want girl, you look great!
fr. i saw a dude wearing a string sling bikini in vegas last year during NOVEMBER.
do you girl
I saw an elderly woman wearing denim shorts that looked more like chonies! For her top she had a fishnet top with those X shaped nipple covers. No one really looked at her on the strip, but I was shocked! I mean, get it granny; but likeâŠ
Let Granny have a fun time. We will all be worm food eventually. đ
** I haven't heard the word chonies in years. Thank you for reminding me.
I saw a dude wearing this same dress in Vegas last week
Thatâs one place you can guarantee that no one will be clutching their pearls over the dress.
And happy anniversary!
Hell yeah
This is the correct answer and I hope your partner couldnât keep their eyes off you and I hope the after party was great đ
Girl you are literally at the venue.Â
Looks like you're already there so too late if too much. Too little too late! But seriously, anything goes in Vegas. Spin and win!
Itâs obviously pulling a bit but, whatever. Not everything has to be perfect.
More so, itâs the boots. They totally kill the appeal of the dress. A strappy black shoe will def heighten the look youâre aiming to achieve!
The boots absolutely have to goooooo
Agreed. Itâs Vegas, if thereâs ever a place to wear the dress, itâs there, but the boots do not work with the dress.
Agreed. The dress is great, the boots not so much
Unless they're thigh high boots. Those would work.
Just some black heels would fix it I guessÂ
A pump would be an improvement but ideally, a strappy black heel! Itâll tie nicely into the dress and elevate it. Trust me lol
Especially those heels that have criss cross thin straps farther up the leg. Would match the dress perfectly!
The boots cut you off and make you look stumpy. Strappy heels would be the best since theyâd continue the strappy look down from the dress to your feet.
Yes, the dress is obviously very sexy and the boots are killing the vibe. Strappy heels are definitely the sexier shoe.
I think just a lessâŠchunky shoe? The flat sole, round toe, and heavy leather make these look like fall/winter boots, not party boots. Look for a pointier toe and a slim heel (even a kitten heel). If you canât do pointy toed shoes, almond toe could be fine, or something open-toe/peep toe.
Okay darling just want to say you really do look so cute and Iâm unsure what the downvotes are for? Like sure itâs not my style, but rarely things are that I like? And yea we donât have the same body but whatâs the point of a giant world if everything looks the same?
Seconding this and Iâm always so happy to see some kind comments amidst the direct critiques
It looks very cheap and doesnât fit you well. I would go for a more structured look made from a thicker material.
Exactly rightâŠ? Regardless of how much skin is being shown the first thing I think when I see that dress is âcheapâ. The fabric looks cheap and flimsy and is pulling across the stomach/doesnât fit flatteringly.
Iâm from Vegas and it would look cheap and trashy in Vegas. Itâs not about the body type. Vegas doesnât care. Itâs actually a pretty diverse and welcoming scene. But they do care about fit and fabric. And styling. Boots arenât a good match either and I love boots with dresses but it doesnât work with this one.
Yeah I'd be fearing one of those flimsy looking strings would pop at any moment.
I am going to be honest. I think itâs a touch too small.
For once, Iâm going to say thatâs actually a positive. You do not want gaps between fabric and skin in that dressâŠ
Could probably fix this a bit by loosening the side straps. It'd be a touch more revealing tho.
Maybe a shove too small.
There are a lot of things wrong with this. If you are going for fancy and want a sparkly clutch, this is not the fit for it. You paired that with an apple watch, a hair tie(I think), boots meant for crisp fall mornings đ, and a dress that doesn't compliment you. None of it works.
So glad someone was honest. Obviously people should wear what they want but she asked if it was too much... and it is. It's all too much
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In fairness, Vegas is much different than the office party.
yes of course but my point is the comments were much nastier even if the dress was showing the tiniest but of cleavage or legs. you can't even compare the two but the reception was far different.
Even Vegas has a bit of class.
Or too little.
This is devastatingly correct
Agree with this. At a minimum Apple Watch and hair tie go in the clutch.
Lose the boots. If you like the dress, wear it, but remember to check yourself every time to sit bend down. Itâs not an expensive or chic look. It also fits poorly. You can do sexy better than this.
One of the worst fits Iâve seen both in taste and in actual sizing
I think itâs too much. Itâs super unflattering, and by your own admission youâre struggling with the logistics of keeping everything covered. You have great curves. I think you could find something so much better than this.
that's not your size.
Too much. Or too little lol
Too much and too little at the sane time
Hard no
this dress isnât very flattering on you and looks very cheap. itâs also too small, the fabric is pulling. you can do better!
It looks adjustable, the string is tied at the bottom.
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This
It's the type of outfit that will get progressively more uncomfortable the longer you wear it, especially when you're sitting down.
If you don't mind answering, what fabric is it? It looks to be either polyester or pleather, both poor choices for a dress like that
How could you sit in it?
You canât wear underwear with it. Itâs so short it would not cover your privates when you sit down.
I would be so grossed out to sit bare bum and lady parts on anything in VegasâŠ. Yikes. Then it also makes me want to sanitize all seats I sit on.
Definitely too much. It doesn't fit well /doesn't flatter you.
It really doesnât look good.
I like the dress but it should be a bit bigger, other than that, youâre in the right place for that type of party and I hope you enjoy your anniversary. đHappy Anniversary to you both!
I hateeee the side thing going on but if you were to keep that dress, wear heels instead of boots!
You have lovely curves but this dress is really doing you dirty. Ultimately, you will have the final say because itâs your choice, regardless what however many comments say⊠but I would throw out this dress. You can do so much better. What about something with a deep front or back plunge? Also, any time spent outside in the evening, youâll be freezing.
Having said that, if you bring it anyway and if thereâs anywhere to wear a dress like this, I guess itâs Vegas. But bring a cute coat, like one of those belted wrap coats.
Not too much but horrendous
You have a nice figure, but this dress does not flatter it.
I live in Vegas, you see a lot of outfits very risque, people are even walking in bathing suits so you can wear that, you w'ont feel out of place. However, I do think it's still a little too much.
Based on the background it looks like you already chose to wear it. It looks like a stripper outfit. Thereâs a difference between sexy and trashy. If you are going for the trashy and cheap look then this dress is for you.
Words cannot express how unflattering that dress is to you.
I wanna be honest, and please don't see this as an insult. But you're looking like i am going to see you in an arrest video in one of these bodycam-youtubechannels soon...
ChileâŠ.absolutely not! And those boots!!! Hard hard no mam.
Your husband is not doing you favors by asking you to wear this.
No, not too much. More like too less.
Too michâŠđđ
I suggest you size up one or two sizes to be more comfortable and for aesthetic reason. đHave fun!
this is not doing you any favors girlfriend I would get a different dress
Nothing is too much in Vegas. If it makes you feel sexy- wear it!
This looks terrible on you. Cheap looking and ill-fitted. Not sure if that's what you're going for though.
Not flattering. I wouldnât wear it at all if I were you.
If your husband loves it and you are comfortable getting the attention then go for it! It is Vegas after all.
This is a hard no for me. That dress is hanging on for dear life. Just because itâs Vegas, thatâs no excuse for cheap and trashy. There are definitely high-end, classy events there and not everyone is wearing scanty, ill-fitting clothing. You have such a cute figure.. youâre just no capitalizing on your assets here. Just my two cents.
sighs Girl, you are beautiful and deserve so much better.
Wouldnât be my first choice, but who cares. Feeling empowered and confident is sexy!
What does your husband think? If it feels good, go for it.
Happy anniversary!
He likes the open slit. And I donât think I can wear it anywhere elseÂ
Itâs Vegas, a celebration, and burlesque showâŠof course itâs not too much. You look sexy and your husband likes it so even better. Ignore these negative comments, I would just do a heel instead :)
You can wear it in the hotel room with him after you go outâŠyouâll still have fun and be sexyâŠbut you donât have to do so much in public
Nah. Vegas is the place to wear this
Nope.
Too little, actually. Honestly, itâs not very flattering.
Girl
Go classic pls
You wore that in public ????
Not flattering AT All.
It's not too much, but it's very unflattering on your body.
There are a lot of dresses that are sexy that would compliment your figure better
Not too much for Vegas because it stays in Vegas.
Iâm pretty sure you already know the answer to this.
This draws attention to all the places you may not want it drawn, Iâm sorry.
Thatâs what you wear in the bedroom, honey.
Too little is the problem
The dress does not fit, and nothing matches.
Itâs not âtoo muchâ as in âtoo revealingâ but it doesnât properly fit you, and the material being so thin amplifies that. A better made dress of the same cut would be great, but it is obvious that it is a very affordable unlined dress. Iâm guessing you got it off SHEIN.
Too little. Have some respect for your spouse.
Has anyone told you thatâs a dress for the⊠ladies of the night?
You have a lovely figure but this dress is doing nothing for it.
Are you upside down pineapple people?
There is nothing good about it for you.
I donât think itâs inappropriate I just donât think it looks good on you. Also the boots donât match at all.
Leave a little more for imaginationâŠ
Not too much but that dress is not flattering on your body type.
You now what I always though was attractive on your body type was those old 50's dresses. Kind of jealous because I love those old 50's dresses but they look stupid on me. They look amazing on you. A lot of goth women wear them but you could also. You would look so hot in one.
Like whyyy
very tacky tbh
No. Regardless of town, event, or occasion. No. (The fact that commenters saw others horrifically dressed in Vegas is not a reason to encourage others to do the same. Mb their mama never taught them that just bc your friend jumps off the bridge does not mean you should.)
Looks like a ham coming out of its netting haha.
Iâd eat it.
Oof
Itâs not bad. Maybe try a different shoe, though? The boots look a little heavy for the dress.
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Iâd say too little.
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Was this originally a Halloween costume that made its way into your regular rotation?
Thanks for not asking if you can wear that to your work holiday party at the accounting firm
Look, I agree about the fabric looking cheap. The comments people are making about body shape need to stop. You can have an opinion on the outfit without being rude. Yes, she asked if it was too much. So say âyesâ and move on. Stop making the âsausage casingâ type comments because honestly the only one who looks bad here are those of you who lost your manners.
Don't know how strong that string holding it all together is
That fabric is working overtime.
Itâs waaaaay too much. Like a hookerâsdress
Yes but if you feel confident WHO CARES GIRL
This!!! I think op looks great. Itâs also fitting for a burlesque show and Vegas too.
This is one of those dresses that only looks good on surgically altered bodies. Itâs basically just yoga pants material and string.
This is so accurate
Itâs Vegas, baby! Go for it. Just be careful with the strings. đ
I'm going against the grain. Yes, it's too small on you, but that's okay. It's a night out in Vegas with your husband, be slutty. Be hott. Show him the goods!
This
Nooope! Have fun!!!
Other comments regarding the dress, yes you donât look classy/fancy because the material looks thin and SHEIN quality, but itâs also Vegas lol
Given the venue then I would say this is appropriate..! Not for everyone but it kinda matches the theme.
100% ok for Vegas.
Yeah too much
sisâŠ. itâs vegas. thereâs probably someone without clothes wandering down the street rn at 9 AM. youâre gonna be fine.
Too much !!!
The dress style isnât too much for Vegas. But itâs ill fitting and the material looks cheap. It would look better without the boots- a strappy heal would elevate the look if you do decide to wear it
change out the boots for strappy heels, they kill the dress.
Its vegas girl. Anything goes.
Strappy heels would be perfect!!!
Lucky guy
I feel like for a burlesque show in Vegas this is perfect
tastless and cheap. way too much.
Iâm gonna be honest the whole look is a mess. The dress does not flatter you. Itâs revealing but not in a sexy way, it looks like an accident. The boots look like youâre about to trek through mud. The Apple Watch is still on. You gotta change it all. Iâm all for showing skin, but this just looks trashy not sexy.
yes it is too much.. it looks aggressively inappropriate
For an anniversary, too little is rarely too much.
Oh, honey, no.
Too less
Not a great fit
Too little.
The dress doesn't fit and I think the boots are an awful choice. Strappy sandals would be the way.
But if you feel good about it and feel hot wearing it then who am I to judge? I don't think you'll get any side eyes. It's Vegas. Pretty much anything goes. I hope you have fun!
The dress doesnât fit- need to size up.
I feel like the boots drag the outfit down. It looks clunky đ
Perhaps something slimmer and sticks to the legs like pumps or strappy heels?
Itâs not too much, it just isnât the most flattering, Iâd say, ditch the boots.
If you and your spouse are goodâŠ.itâs good! Very appropriate party attire for VegasâŠ.and a burlesque show
I'd say it's quite literally not enough
Yeah, I think definitely just one size up would've been perfect but the dress is cute and it looks good on your figure. It is pulling a little bit.
Fantastic fit and perfect. I was worried you were going to say an office holiday party and that you work as an âaccountantâ. So Much love!
Uh not enough?!? Showing a lot ! Your man is a lucky guy.
This is tough to look at
Itâs Vegas! We were just there. You will fit right in. Have the best time! Happy Anniversary!
1000
Oh my!
Very lucky guy to be celebrating đ„ł with such a baddie đ„ have fun congrats!
I like the dress and I think itâs good for Vegas.
The most important thing though is do you feel sexy in it? If so get it girl!
If there is anywhere to wear that, itâs Vegas!
Too little? Just tacky regardless of preference. Very cheap looking
Its not flattering
Why do heavy women cram themselves into dresses 2 sizes to small?
Why do people think comments like this are appropriate?
I think the more pertinent point this person was trying to make (however inappropriately) is mostly that this dress doesnt fit her at all. Even if referencing someone smaller, A size 6 woman shouldn't be wearing a size 2 dress. It just doesn't fit.
It's Vegas. If you're gonna wear whatever you want and how ever much sexy you want, it's going to be in Vegas. Otherwise I would say no
Yes.
Hey I think you look great and very appropriate for the specific setting and occasion. I think subs like this can focus too much on what is socially/conventionally considered ideal and assume that everyone is choosing what they wear based on wanting to appear as close to that narrow ideal as possible. Your body is beautiful and I'm sure your husband appreciated you flaunting it âšïž
Why you wearing Santaâs boots. He needs those!
I will say you really can wear anything in Vegas but something like this that is open all the way down the side will either show your underwear or show that your not wearing underwear both of which arenât great looks even in Vegas
Judging by the placement of your hand though Iâd say itâs a no underwear night which i would never recommend lol
Yeah, Iâm afraid if you sit down it may be to short to fold with you. The no underwear is fine, as long as it covers your backside when you sit.
Oh nooo, I didnât think about that but youâre so right! OP, I guarantee you will end up flashing someone with the tightness and shortness of that dress and lack of underwear. One would hope you only flash your husband but someone else will likely get an eyeful and thatâs not cool. Iâm no prude, but I donât need to see a strangerâs bits.
Uhhh no..
This is probably the worst dress Iâve seen and you are way too plus size to pull this look off! Sorry, brutally honest
If youre into dressing like a hooker then no
I saw your picture first and thought oh God not another âoffice party dressâ question.
This look is fire for Vegas. Have fun!
Yes. Too much!
The boots ruin itđ„č
Thigh high boots would've been perfect for this outfit! I hope you enjoy your anniversary!
Itâs okay for Vegas but otherwise I would say no
Gonna say that this one is between you and your partner.
Nah, Vegas is where you wear something like this. Get it!
This is the only occasion to wear this. Happy anniversary.
It is exactly right for an anniversary with your loved one in Vegas.
Congrats and enjoy!