for context i’m f19 and I decided it would be fun to dash with my friend. after about 9 dashes I decided i’d do about 4 more because I was having a good time , I got an order for McDonald’s and I got this overwhelming bad feeling randomly. as soon as I got to the area of the drop off there was no visible address on the house itself or on the mailbox and there were no streetlights so it was just pitch black besides my headlights , the customer marked the order as “leave at my door” but when I parked my car I noticed he had walked outside waiting for me to hand him his order. I handed it to him and told him to have a goodnight and left without getting my picture , as soon as I got in my car I received this text and I drove away , I never answered the first one and he then proceeded to send the other 2 texts. Is this weird? or am I just overreacting based off my bad intuition I had before even dropping off the order, It’s not like the texts he sent were creepy or weird themselves it just felt creepy and weird based off of the bad vibes I was getting
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I’d report it. I’m also really surprised DoorDash wouldn’t recognize and block any message with a phone number in it. Seems like a great way to reduce risk and liability.
It ended the chat early when a guy tried hitting on me. It said inappropriate behavior was detected.
There’s these programs that you can put on your kids phone to detect certain flag words being messaged. That’s how a pervert teacher got caught assaulting her student because his mom noticed the program said that the word “baby” was messaged a disgusting amount of times. I’m pretty sure Doordash has something like that set up because those chat deactivations happen FAST
Oddly enough, sometimes DoorDash messages have to go through sms anyways
Same with UberEats, I could never figure out what dictates it. But I’m pretty sure it wasn’t their actual phone number, it was like an Uber made phone number.
I think if they ordered 3rd party
Maybe yeah. I just remember it was annoying, because a lot of the times the customer I wasn’t even on yet would start messaging me directions and asking where I was. And it’s like, you’re 3rd on this order. Give me a minute.
People need to realize this is DoorDash. Not HookupDash, DateDash. Report customer.
Hookupdash made me laugh, you're absolutely right though
But you know what I think I found my next business model idea 💡 🤔🤔
...WhoreDash?
SmashDash
DickDash
Like bro tinder is right there lmao. You could literally swipe while you wait on your order. The craziest part is your chances are exponentially higher on tinder 😂
But then hed have to accept that teenagers aren't into him and thatbwpuld crush his ego
DoorSmash
Always trust your gut, if someone or something feels off even in the moment, don't ignore that feeling, sketchy situation I'd say and I would probably report him, good you're keeping on a swivel
It's almost as if tens of thousands of years of evolution in dangerous environments has conditioned us to recognize the subtle signs of something being very wrong. Seriously trust your gut! (This goes for any situation, not only dashing)
This! always trust your gut, even if many situations aren't unavoidable, it gives me the wherewithal and alertness to know that I should probably take that information accordingly, it's helped me de escalate situations before they can get to a worry of personal safety usually. We are wired for social situations and to pick up on small cues, if something or someone feels off to you, heed that and act accordingly
It’s really inappropriate. You are working and shouldn’t have to be worried about being harassed
It's not, you can report
Both drivers and customers need to stop using Doordash as Tinder.
I once had a door dash driver leave, drive off, and come back 5 minutes later to knock and ask if I was single. Reported immediately, just couldn’t believe it.
yeah no that’s absolutely insane.
Report him to support for sure, this was inappropriate of him.
no it is not. report his account, rate one star, and call DoorDash to complain over the phone as well. what a sicko
Edit: just realized you’re the driver so I’m not sure if you can rate one star, but you should def report and complain to DoorDash to get this account banned.
I'm not at all overreactive to these things but "do you have a boyfriend" as a third message is definitely "written" VERY creepy.
Im a guy and this has happened twice to me. Once I had a girlfriend at the time, but honestly I just thought it was flattering 😂. Can’t imagine being a girl and having this happen.. very different dynamic
I delivered alcohol to a guy wearing a tee from a vacation spot I just visited recently. I asked when he went to [location] and I had just gotten back from there x days ago. We talked like 5min and I was almost hoping he’d ask for my # but dashing I was just being a person and left. Sometimes tho guys are really fucking creepy. I never dash past 10
I'm a guy and I can honestly say that I've never felt flattered when I've been hit on. Then again, any time I've been hit on it's been leave at door orders, so I've never seen or met the person watching me and texting me. The worst one was a guy that started hitting on me thinking I was a woman because of my name before I had even arrived at his address. So basically a creeper that's going to hit on anyone that he thinks is female. It's always been awkward and uncomfortable. It's never gotten to a level where I felt the need to report it, but as a man I'm very much less likely to need to be worried about it as much as a woman.
Report that creep. Stay safe ❤
I’ve gotten 4 weirdos so far. They either asked if I’d sleep with them, if they could 👅 my 🙀(, if I would come back because they had a “bigger tip” for me (sent this in app) and lastly “you married? Do you chill?”(called me in app after I dropped off order). This was when I first started. Had no idea you could and should contact support about weird crap like that.
Im a bartender and I have a regular who drives for door dash. Turns out he delivered food to another of our regulars that he saw around, she is 25 years younger than him, and he asked her out at her door step as he was delivering food. She rejected him, and he isnt angry or anything but he now goes and hugs her whenever she comes in and makes her super uncomfortable. I have offered whatever help she wants, including kicking him out or making him stop but she doesnt want any trouble and now no longer comes in to avoid him. Moral of story, report this crap to doordash, dont let it slide.
that’s like the #1 no no for dashers
It's a customer sending these messages to a Dasher, still "ick" though...
you right oops, #1 no no for customers too. so icky.
Absolutely the fuck not, report this creep for harassment. This isn’t tinder.
I'm not sure what your standards for "creepy" are, but a random dude trying to hit on his random door dash driver definitely falls into "creepy" territory to me...
I think it is creepy…hence the post itself? I was more so saying the way the texts were written weren’t as creepy as ones Ive received in the past personally
He couldn't even bother to use the right "you're"
That's all you need to know.
I recommend changing your dasher name to a guy's name. You'll get less stuff like this.
No, report him. Just like Dashers aren’t allowed to be inappropriate with customers, customers aren’t allowed to be inappropriate with Dashers. It’s why there’s a function to report customers in the app. If you feel like it’s really serious, report him— don’t feel bad for doing it.
It's not allowed. "It’s not like the texts he sent were creepy or weird themselves" - wrong - in this context, it's absolutely creepy and very inappropriate. I would report him to support. Also, always listen to your gut. If you feel something is unsafe or off, listen to it.
You are a young woman, who was in a dark area to deliver food to an address you could not see and you had a bad feeling about it before you even arrived. The fact the guy was outside was probably simply cause he knew his address wasn't easily findable - however, given all the factors, and then the texts afterwards - it's extra creepy. I'm glad you had a friend with you cause who knows what could have happened otherwise.
Men who say "he's just shooting his shot" have not been harassed by men on the daily, called out, yelled at, or abused by men for simply brushing off their advances, ignoring, or rejecting them, even in the most polite ways possible. So yeah, you guys need to figure out when it's an appropriate time to shoot your shot or not. When someone is at work - it is NOT the correct time. Being professional should go two ways here - on the worker and customer sides. Don't be messaging people creepy shit like this when they're simply doing a job. DoorDash is a job, not a dating site.
nope. report it. i thought in 2025 people knew not to hit on people at their jobs but i guess not!
As long as no one is shamed out of this mentality it'll continue. We need to put it on the same level as picking your ass in public. Shame the shit out of this.
Report as unsafe.
It's inappropriate. Report, report, report. Working for him for 15 minutes does not and will never entitle him to act this way with you.
I’m glad you went with your gut and got out of there quickly. What a creep! Definitely report to DD
Report the customer. This isn't hooters where you are paid to flirt with creepsters.
Big yikes - being a dude myself, I don't see what makes them think this is ok. How lonely are you to hit on your delivery driver AFTER they are gone
It IS creepy and weird what he did. Don’t downplay it
Report to DD's SAFETY TEAM. Not Support! Support will direct you there but if you want to reduce the wait, tell the robot "Safety Team, please." and it'll get you to the appropriate sector.
I'm a driver, too, and if there's one thing I hate about this job are the creeps. I have a boyfriend and kid, but that isn't their business. I'm out here to make a living and getting this shit makes me livid.
This is a safety violation 🛟 make sure you report this order and get him removed from your account: they won't be banned from the platform (sadly) but you won't be matched up with them again for deliveries.
Probably better that way anyway. If their account got deactivated, it's no trouble for a customer to create a new account, and they'd be back in the position of potentially running into this customer again. With them just blocked from getting matched in the app again, they're likely to never see that customer again. (Unless they both use UberEats or some other apps as well)
Report it, that’s not okay.
Not allowed and not ok. Don’t ever accept this kind of behavior from someone. It’s predatory to hit on someone when they are working.
Report it.
People get offended too easily. Say “thanks for the compliment, but I am not available.”
That’s it. Done.
I’ve been hit on by men and women and you handle it with maturity and grace.
He asked if you had a boyfriend, he didn’t ask you to come over to do the horizontal mambo.
Why is it of the gender’s were reverse this would be taken differently?
I think it's just asking for trouble. I think we've all had customers that we thought were hot enough to want to give a number to, but it's still important enough to be professional at your job not to do stuff like that.
Report to Doordash and they'll block you from receiving any more orders from him.
It’s not something that’ll happen all the time but it does happen and people post about it here usually when it does occur. Just ignore the text by not responding and report.
Whether or not he was just trying to shoot his shot, it is inappropriate in a few ways. Mostly for the fact that you are just doing your job so there’s a creepy aspect to it as we all know a lot of men do not take kindly to rejection and there’s a high chance you might encounter him him again on the job. He may of not thought it through very well and I don’t think he’s done anything wrong purposefully, but it is still quite inappropriate given the circumstances. It is up to you whether you decide to report, but I do suggest not engaging any further- you can also block people on doordash I’m pretty sure, so that way you do not have to see him again . Also, paired with your bad feeling about it all I say trust your gut. I don’t think you’re overreacting by being creeped out.
So best advice I can give for doing DD or any delivery service at night is bring a flashlight. You might feel weird shining it around but it can really help you. I would have tripped over plenty of things if I didn’t have one. Also is it allowed? No not really but you can block him so you won’t see his orders again.
This exact same scenario happened to me and it was a McDonalds order. Pervy dude name Ryan but DoorDash ended the chat early once he sent those messages, thank goodness!
Always trust your gut, even if it seems silly. It will save your life.
It's creepy. Don't respond. Report it.
Your gut feeling is always the feeling we should rely on. We gaslight ourselves into thinking we are overreacting when in reality it's just our most primal and basic instinct telling us something is wrong.
Always pay attention to your intuition. It’s smarter than our normal brains most time. Be on guard when this happens
Keep a bottle of mace on you when you’re out at night fyi. And if you can try to snap a photo even with them holding the bag so they can’t say they never got it
Nah...It's inappropriate. You can report them if you want.
Might want to change your name to an unmistakably guy name, too. Additionally, just let em drop it off before grabbing it. I’ve seen this suggested a lot on this sub whenever similar situations arose.
Sorry you had to deal with this, OP.
yeah unfortunately I was the dasher in this situation so there wasn’t much avoiding the contact ofc and that wasn’t the problem, i just have to figure out how to change my name but i have seen people say they report accounts for thinking it’s a woman and a man delivering or thinking it’s a man and a woman delivering so i don’t wanna get in trouble
It would be ok if he calls you beautiful in person but if you kindly rejected him that should have be the end of it. But sending you a text?? Is a bit weird
Weird af
Carry a knife or mace with you.
Fucking gross
Tell him you got the addy and your man is on the way now, then block all communication and report to DD.
It’s creepy. It way creepier when it’s the other way around though (a dasher flirting is far more serious as they know where you live). I would still report of course. It’s not uncommon for people to pick up “leave at door” orders.
It’s not allowed at all you should respond to him with a dick pic. Let him know what it feels like to get a creepy message.
was he Indian?
no ? idk what that has to do with anything though 😭
Yeah, it's totally allowed. Half the job is hitting on customers /s
Yes, 100% allowed. It’s actually written in DoorDash policy that DoorDashers can use the app to hit on those they deliver to.
Please don’t karma farm with dumb questions.
Absolutely not
As if 1 creepy message isn’t bad enough, followed up twice
Report him
I mean theres 2 ways. Just move on, he cant bother you further he was shooting a shot. (As inappropriate as it may be)
Other options is to report it if it made you legit uncomfortable and unsafe
Some folks think every app is a dating app it seems
Seems like he was just shooting his shot.. I don’t see any harm in it.. doesn’t seem like he said anything outta the way..
His lack of grammar and inability to speak is really what gives me bad vibes.
Ya, its not allowed. But you do need to report them, honestly the history should be right in the app, its important that you do otherwise the AI will just miss these crucial human misconduct, thats harassment, you might have a real case, especially if DD is passive about protecting you & showing follow thru. But again NO what happened is not allowed. You can get them banned & might even have lawsuit if DD is passive about doing their job too.
Just set up an ad for free chickens on Craigslist and use that number.
Not allowed
Omg at first I thought these were MyChart messages. Still creepy & completely inappropriate
My wife gets tips added after all the time with “you’re beautiful” messages. She just chuckles and accepts the extra tip haha
I wouldn’t recommend delivering at night alone without pepper spray just in case
Same here
I’m not a dasher, but I think there’s a safety situation to get out of delivering in circumstances like this.
Report it for their grammar
Your gut is sobering to trust and never ignore. These messages are also not appropriate. Stick to your gut feeling and stay away for sure.
Why would it be allowed lol no. Report them.
Report it. It's unfortunately common for ladies dashing
lol no. But the question of “is it allowed?” Is funny. Even if it was, would it be okay for you? I imagine not. But out of fairness maybe you’re trying to figure out how out of pocket it is. Which I would say , pretty out of pocket if there wasn’t anything that signaled him this would be okay.
Always listen to your intuition never doubt even if you don't see evidence. Your Intuition is always right.
If you continue to doordash, buy a taser or pepper spray. I'm a single woman and I always have my taser in my pocket when I deliver an order to the door. You can find a taser on Amazon for ten to fifteen dollars.
Definitely trust your gut. There’s a reason it’s telling you to gtfo. There’s a great book written on the subject called The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
reply with “you’re”
Why is it always men doing this to women and not the opposite way around?
Starts carrying hawmie
I mean it’s def weird and gives off strange vibes, but there’s a good chance the guy is just awful at talking to people and wanted to compliment you but didn’t know how. He didn’t seem threatening or anything so
That’s absolutely not ok. If he had class, he’d come back and leave a note or find you online and send a DM. But not creepy. Like, “Hi there. I’m sorry if this seems weird or inappropriate, but I was your door dash driver the other night. And my Lord, but you are stunningly beautiful. So much so that I couldn’t even think straight until I wrote this to give to you. If you have a boyfriend or S/O, then by all means disregard this. But on the off chance you’re available, I’d love to take you out sometime and get to know you.” See the problem is, this isn’t the 80’s or 90’s. You’re only allowed to chase girls if you’ve been pre approved but you’ll never know if you have it haven’t. So any message can be seen as creepy, stalker ish, etc. Honestly it’s why guys don’t approach girls anymore. Too much smoke. So we look. Did she look back, did she smile, should I flirt or nah? It’s just too much these days. Back in the day I’d just walk up to a lady and tell her she’s gorgeous and it was never a big deal. Today? Hell no.
It shouldn’t be. It’s super creepy when someone hits on you and they already know your address and phone number. They can still just show up at your home even if you have told them you’re not interested. You know how awkward it is when an Uber driver hits on you as soon as the ride begins? They know where you live and now you’re in their car, kidnapping made way too easy.
It's definitely creepy and I do think you should call support and tell them you didn't feel safe and want orders from this customer blocked but I mean yeah, it's allowed
search the phone number for a name and address just in case if the situation escalates and you need a court order. i know this seems like a reach but better safe than sorry.
block and report. this is not allowed. it should be common knowledge that asking someone out while they’re working is completely inappropriate
I mean if he’s your age it’s probably just an innocent compliment and shooting his shot but if not then yeah that’s pretty weird and inappropriate. I would report and have DD support blacklist his account from showing up on your account.
I think this is the same questions as When the compliments becomes harassment? And the same answer: when you like/dislike the person who sends the message.
Creepy as fuck. Report them.
You are in a place of work. This is inappropriate. You have every right to report this.
Is this allowed? What do you think? How does that make you feel?
You know men are terrible at approaching women these days, probably happens to you a lot if you really are that cute.
He shouldnt be doing this but at the same time I wouldnt think too much of it besides "yet another guy with a failed attempt"
Bro was just shooting his shot
You have a good face for radio, I wouldn't look too far into this.
definitely report the customer
Wait so awkwardly hitting on people who are working isn’t appreciated?
I didn’t need to read more than the headline and see the photos. 100% not allowed and you need to report them. This person is getting people to show up to their home at any hour of the day, and I can only see this escalating one time when they get turned down.
Heck no! It’s not a dating app!
Obviously it’s not allowed. Report it. How do you not know what to do? This is common sense.
When will people realize that you do not have to follow through on every impulse to try and score. The cute person who didn’t want to be bothered by people because they chose to DD their food doesn’t have a high probability of being “the one” let alone receptive to being hit on
Edit: Just realized OP was the Dasher, but sentiment still applies!
ask for his number and then use txtme to send dick pics and ahole pics. tell him you're trans
Its weird. I've dashed at least 50 times and never spoke to my dashers about anything other than where to deliver my food.
Bro suffers from pornbrain baaaaad
what’s the difference between messaging it or saying it.
I was able to hit on a door dash driver and it worked out for me lol
If this happens to you again, drop the order. Trust me that’s not only creepy but super dangerous. Especially when the streetlights are off ☠️ I’m glad nothing bad happened to you OP
No, It absolutely isn't. Report it.
safety report = they should block his orders from coming to you.
Someone needs to ask Olivia Henderson what she would do. LMAO
Shooters shoot. 🤷♂️
Ah, The smell of desperation. It's like this on any app. Especially for females. Boys will be boys I guess.
Don’t even consider it, they can’t even use the correct you’re
I get more and more reasons every post i see on here to not use doordash. Also report his ass this is a food delivery app not tinder.
Damn, as a dasher, I deliver food and other items to very beautiful people quite often, I couldn’t even fathom the thought of attempting to flirt with them. It just feels incredibly inappropriate. I just don’t understand how these people think.
What do y’all think people did before tinder or hinge? Lmao it’s so funny to see how out of proportion people blow things.
I remember somebody here, not too long ago, posting language to reply to unwelcome messages. It sounded like a standard automatic form text from DoorDash, saying something like ‘now that your order has been marked as completed, contact with your driver is unavailable. For further questions or concerns regarding your order, please contact DoorDash support’
It was much better than that, but that’s the gist of it. So you can send that and hope they stop messaging thinking the messages don’t go through to you.
100% report that incident or anything like it that may happen in the future. Always trust your gut. If you don't feel safe contact support and drive away.
I would assume that's not allowed. That's highly unprofessional
This is why we chose the bear in the woods every damn time.
Ignore it. You did right. Remember where that location is and don't deliver there again.
CREEPY. EW. Call and report that.
It's so disgusting when people try to pick up girls (or guy) during a work transaction. Jees, they're doing a work service, and googling girls to pickup, and violating your privacy by using the job to gather your personal info for their individual escapades. Disgusting. Please report it so they can be properly removed from the privilege they have.
Had a guy send me his number after a dash once, too. I had him blocked. Totally inappropriate.
Please trust those alarm feelings you get. They are happening to keep you alert and safe. Please report this person as this is harassment behavior and you do not have to deal with creeps on the job. If he is harassing you, you can get he is doing it to others. I know that icky feeling when things like this happen. I would also recommend that you note the address and if you ever see it pop up again, refuse the order. Do you carry bear or wasp spray? I would get some and have your phone ready. Tryst your gut feelings and stay safe!
So annoying. And them texting blocks more runs from coming in for a minute. 🙄🙄
Eww no. Report it
No, absolutely not.
holy airball
I’m no DoorDash executive, but I’m going to guess: No. This is not allowed.
It’s most likely some lonely soul hoping for a connection. But sometimes it’s better to follow your gut.
No it’s not
had someone do this to me, immediately reported them. so unprofessional AND they have your address, thats insane.
I see no problem with this.
OP already has 184 DMs from me. My opening line was "I know the difference between your and you're."
I'll report back.
I cackled
No it’s not allowed, yes it’s weird, and yes it’s fucking creepy.
Always listen to your gut instincts!! As an older woman, I speak from experience.
Definitely not okay. I had a dasher find and add me on Snapchat after delivering to me so I reported him. They ended up giving me some apology credits, although I'm not sure what happened to the Dasher themself.
Don’t downvote me here guy but personally I’ve always found it flattering, makes my day when a customer asks me out however I’m a guy so it’s a different dynamic, I got these sort of things a few times from hot women back when I used to dash
I’m trying to attach a screenshot but it won’t let me post a photo here :(
Report it
Oh hell nooo, idk if ur spiritual but that bad feeling is def something warning you, or if not spiritual its js that gut feeling, when u feel that yk something is wrong 😭 report that person plsss
Start asking for money 💰 since he’s such a bold strong man🥰🥰
This shouldn’t happen just because it is a business transaction but to any woman thinking this then there’s one thing that you should think of first. If it was one of the most handsome guys you’ve ever see would you still be thinking the same way. 9 times out of ten the answer is no and you would happy that this cute guy is messaging you. It just honestly seems like a guy taking a little bit of shot even though it’s in the wrong situation. He wasn’t really creepy except for the weird emoji at the end.
Someone tried to do this to my sister late at night, I instead went to the door to grab the food because “there was possums and he didn’t want them to get the food” there wasn’t any possums. He seemed a lot less confused and wanted to get out of there much quicker when he saw me instead of her, definitely some weird shit. She changed her name on the app to a male one and never had this issue again. I’d report it
"is this allowed" ... Nope.
Okay genuinely seeing a good portion of this comment section try to argue whether it’s appropriate for him or not to do this is so sad because literally it’s common sense to not ask out anyone while they’re working.
Yall can stfu about the “he didn’t do any harm” or the “that could’ve been your future husband”
Most women feel UNCOMFORTABLE when you do this. How do yall think “ah yes. It’s still fine tho. She’s fine” Yall literally lack rizz. No wonder there’s a male loneliness “epidemic”
Maybe consider, if you want someone to like you then maybe don’t make them uncomfortable
But what if they were like, really hawt?
This day and age anything could have happened or he just really thought you were pretty. Compared to a lot of what I see women talk about going through online this seems nice in comparison.
Happened to me before with a women didn think much of it tbh jus a nice compliment 😂
I'm sorry but this reads like those AIO posts like "I caught my husband fucking his mom and dad at the same time. Am I overreacting for leaving him?"
I am sorry you're dealing with this but I do think you know this is reportable behaviour if you just stop and think about it.
I had a guy message me after I left and say if you wanna make some more money you can come back and I told him no and then he added a $5 tip anyways
Not allowed,report and block
A few months ago, I (54m) delivered what turned out to be a late nite food gift order in a community with a very poorly thought out numbering system and no visibility. I called the guy whose name was on it and asked him to come out to meet me or shoot up a flare or some other method of locating him cuz I was giving up. He said it was for a friend and he was not familiar with the layout either. So I said "give your friend my number so we can get the logistics worked out for where I'm supposed to hand this off." Few moments later I get a text from gift recipient. Turns out I'm actually right in front of her pad so I can just drop it on the doorstep and bail. 30 seconds and a half block later I get a message from this woman (18f) that says "Hey come pick me up and take me on a 'Doordash Adventure'". 20 years ago I'd have turned right around in such a situation and even then it would have been inappropriate and creepy, so of course I had to decline but there's a 20 year old version of me in my head that wanted to turned it into one of those Penthouse Forum letters that starts out "I never thought it could happen to me..."
But yeah always report the creepers FFS.
Report the customer. Hell no this isn't normal.
Yes, it's weird.
If he felt that way why not shoot his shot in person, and not behind an app. I’d say if it ended after that day and he’d never proceeded to hit you up then it should be fine. Maybe keep an eye out on that specific delivery location to avoid him if you’re really concerned. I never door dashed so idk if that’s possible before you accept an order. Goodluck!
Nope.
It’s happened to me before too. But I’m a man so it’s like a different sense of feelings ya know and I didn’t think much of it. If you truly don’t feel safe about it, report it and all that 9 yards and I believe DoorDash will block that person, so if you do go dash again you won’t receive orders from that person again. Idk if there’s really much outside of that, that you can do.
This happened to me as a dasher and i got the same guy the next day! It was so awkward. I told him im not interested.
That is creepy. Like. I don't care if he realizes it's creepy or not. You don't text a young girl (a teenager at that) your phone number and tell her she's cute.
Like. Even if it's harmless the red flags here are overwhelmingly there. Not all men. But enough. Especially with the recent up tick on men starting to be more "I take what I want with no questions" lately, regardless of the status of the relationship, safe to say report it immediately.
Door dash legit says "for your protection, do not give out personal information" before you are able to text anything to a driver. He literally ignored that. So either he's confident your not a threat, that makes the possibility of your safety less of a concern to him already in that mindset.
It’s 2025, in America everything is allowed. Stay safe.