I’ve been seeing a guy for about two months who has a lot of good qualities I’ve been looking for in a bf and we’ve had fun memories together but I’m questioning if I should end things after our last date.

I told him several times that I’m doing Dry January, but he and his friend still pressured me multiple times to drink during our last hangout. I felt disrespected and pressured to give up on a goal I care about.

I didn’t budge and I did call him out on pressuring me and he could tell I was annoyed. He responded with “give me a hug.” I don’t remember if he said sorry.

On top of that, I think he has a bit of a drinking problem. Also our intimacy hasn’t been great and my needs in the bedroom aren’t being met. I think his performance is linked to his drinking.

I’m sad because Ive had great times with him, but I’m wondering if this is a red flag I shouldn’t ignore and end things with him or if I’m overreacting to one awkward night.