The Ontario is a fatphobic comic based on the stereotype that fat women will constantly try to "step in" to stop their friends from getting dates, presumably out of imagined jealousy because according to them we spend our lives doing nothing but malding over thin women existing and trying to get back at them.
The juice adds the "my wife is alive" and switches a "she" to a "he", putting a new spin on the comic because now, instead of her saying "She's not interested" to the man to stop the other girl from getting a date out of jealousy, she's saying "he's not interested" to the girl that he previously had shown interest in, because she is his wife who was separated from him and presumed dead a long time ago, who has now found him and knows he will be interested in her instead upon being reunited with his wife who had been presumed dead
Bro, people constantly do stereotype us and treat us badly for our body types. But sure, when people's biases are called out, claim being the victim of said biases is somehow just trying to be trendy and attention seeking since you can't possibly think about and learn from your actions.
I can accept the state of society while still advocating for changes in it. I can handle people being rude, fatphobia isn't going to ruin my day. That doesn't mean when I see it I'm not going to call it what it is.
I don't blame others for acknowledging that I am fat, I blame others for treating me and other fat people worse because of it.
I should not have to dramatically change myself and my lifestyle, and fight against my body(I'm a strong hiker, it's not like I just don't exercise, just setting thinness as a goal doesn't work healthily for me and the only time I achieved thinness was when I had an eating disorder) and go back to eating disorders, or I should just silently not say anything when people spread rhetoric that encourages harmful stereotypes?
I can be able to get over it and also still point out people's biases.
If you are a "strong hiker" you would know you are built, not fat. And yes, you are going to change yourself for others, that is a basic requirement of participating in society.
Fat people are unattractive, the physical embodiment of a deeply hated characteristic from our instincts (greed, in the bible, other cultures had their own representations of the greedy)
If you hate the word you get for being a tub, you should either ignore it or stop advocating for this to change. As it isn't going to work. No one loves that build, if you get complaints that is part of your adult life.
By the way, you are not getting a medal for having an eating disorder. If it's gone you can rebuild a healthy body, so blame something else yet again. Let the broken arm heal and build back the atrophied muscles.
Um, actually, I'm quite aware that muscle and fat are different things. As a strong hiker I have a good amount of muscle mass. I also have a decent amount of fat because I am fat.
Changing oneself for society should be expected of people who make moral failings and hurt others. It shouldn't be expected of people simply for their body type.
You claim you aren't discriminatory, yet you say an entire group of people are "The physical embodiment of greed" and deserve to be hated. Simply for our body types.
Whether you want to label me fat, or label me as "built" because I also have more muscle and a healthier lifestyle than some people with the same body fat percentage as me doesn't prove anything and doesn't mean fatphobia is any less of a problem. People who are less healthy than me don't deserve to be treated any worse than me for it, because people's value shouldn't be judged by their health, but by their moral character.
I always thought the "genetics" argument didn't encompass the whole picture even though for many people it is true, because people deserve to be treated kindly regardless of the state of their health. Though it is genetics for a lot of people, for example I have an ex who was plus size and at one point she didn't eat great, but when she changed her diet, guess what? Still plus size. She lost some weight but didn't just magically turn thin. She turned out to be a backstabbing bitch, so fuck her, but that's unrelated to this entire topic
The reality is that genetics and lifestyle both play a role in weight and have an effect on it, you don't know either of those things about a person you see so you shouldn't make assumptions about them, and regardless of either of those things and what the "reason" someone is fat is, they deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.
Even if in a specific case it's 100% lifestyle and 0% genetics, you don't know how someone's life is, what else they're dealing with, why changing things in their lifestyle that effect their health may or may not be worth it to them, and it's not your business, and that person deserves the same amount of kindness and respect as everyone else. And if they do want to change their lifestyle, it should be about health, not about the number on the scale They should make choices that are worth it for their health and not be expected to change their whole lifestyle in order to meet the aesthetic society has deemed "ideal" in order to be treated with kindness.
Also "no one loves that build" my ass, I have a preference for large women(Slight preference, I can like any body type), I've had partners in the past that also prefer large women, people are a lot more open about attraction to plus size bodies in queer spaces because we're already attracted to things that are "taboo" to like according to society, the "nobody is attracted to fat people" rhetoric is really only pushed by straight people. Straight people refuse to acknowledge attraction to plus size bodies exists and when they do like us they repress it or just don't talk about it because it's taboo.
The guy you were arguing with doesn't seem to be worth the effort, he reminds me of the person I used to be in my teens and arguing online won't change his mind. Very good effort on your part though, I'm posting this to acknowledge how reasonable your comments were and how childish his were. I hope any future readers can take some of the insight you have offered and that maybe the other commenter learns more empathy later in life.
Empathy for what? Fat people to jump on the victim train instead of fix their own bodies? Where has accountability gone, or the drive to improve yourself?
Fat people are fat, 99% of the time, because of their own lack of discipline. This is why fat-activism is disgusting.
No, all of these issues you are stating are either incorrectly represented or personal. Many of these are also the cost of living, such as being called out for being fat.
About the loving your build bit, people love getting suctioned in latex suits and covering themselves in piss too, this doesn't mean any of it is normal.
Yes, you should be discriminated against for being fat. Yes, it is almost always your fault. I've gone through tough times and not expanded. Genetics are almost always used as a big excuse too. Do you think your ex was dieting or was she rewarding quarter mile runs with a big mac? You need discipline, a little bit of self hatred and the drive to control and take responsibility for your own life to change. Narcissistic people often don't have these things, starting with those who think we should foam cover language and society to make themselves feel better.
It is definitely health, by the way. Being fat is more than numbers on a scale, it is the strain on your joints, cancer risk, heart disease and a multitude of other, even indirect issues, like doctors finding it harder to diagnose issues because being fat itself can accommodate many symptoms of other issues.
Im not claiming to not be discriminatory. Im discriminating against the fat, huge difference from the other trendy victim statements, as fat isn't valid. Fat isn't a lifestyle, it's a deathstyle. Early demise and social outcasting are real risks of pretending you have the agency to call for these extra rights to protect yourself from mean words.
Acknowledging that being overweight can lead to health problems and being a dick for the sake of being a dick are two different things. You don't need to be a dick to people because YOU think their bodies are gross. It's not your body and not your health to worry about. Nobody needs an opinion on their health from some rando on reddit named TheIndominusGamer420.
I am a person whose weight fluctuates a lot. I have been toned, scrawny, and chubby in cycles. I am aware that my current weight is unhealthy. I am working on eating better and being more active. Being concerned for people you love because of their weight, that's fine man. You love em, you want em to be around in your life as long as they can. But cmon dude nobody needs to be belittled for these things. If you're gonna pick a hill to die on, pick one that actually matters. Be better.
And even if your outdated views on health and opinion that it's always our if it were always something we could and would be better off changing was true
Let's assume these views on health are true and it is always something we could change for a sec.
This still doesn't fucking justify being an asshole. Even if we assume losing weight is the best path for every plus size person (which isn't true), encouraging someone to change via bullying, even if that change would be good for them, doesn't work.
Even if your views on health are true, that doesn't justify fatphobia because bullying people for being bad at things has never made them better at things.
If it was actually about that you'd be spreading awareness about nutrition, not on Reddit trying to justify being mean to people. But it was never about health, that's the thing, cruelty was always the point.
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r/mywifeisdead
Ion get it
No need to get charged up about it.
This is gold
Only if it has 79 protons and (unless it's some weird isotope,) 118 neutrons.
only funny redditor
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his wife is alive
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The Ontario is a fatphobic comic based on the stereotype that fat women will constantly try to "step in" to stop their friends from getting dates, presumably out of imagined jealousy because according to them we spend our lives doing nothing but malding over thin women existing and trying to get back at them.
The juice adds the "my wife is alive" and switches a "she" to a "he", putting a new spin on the comic because now, instead of her saying "She's not interested" to the man to stop the other girl from getting a date out of jealousy, she's saying "he's not interested" to the girl that he previously had shown interest in, because she is his wife who was separated from him and presumed dead a long time ago, who has now found him and knows he will be interested in her instead upon being reunited with his wife who had been presumed dead
Bro thank you for the actual detailed explanation. You're a real one for this
The less wholesome edit i thought about making instead had the guy going βoh fuck itβs my wifeβ
I like what you ended up going with a lot. Made me chuckle so much my dog barked at me for disturbing the quiet
Thank you for explaining this!
"fatphobic" π even fatties are on the victimisation train these days ππ
Bro, people constantly do stereotype us and treat us badly for our body types. But sure, when people's biases are called out, claim being the victim of said biases is somehow just trying to be trendy and attention seeking since you can't possibly think about and learn from your actions.
"people are calling me fat, and it is making me sad"
Options: Accept that this is the truth, turn it to normal noise like everyone else does with directed micro aggressions
OR
Blame it on "genetics" when genetic disorders are both rare and even rarer to show symptomatically
Put the blame on others for pointing it out, feel yourself with a full belly and full ethical complex
OR
Go on a weight loss diet and lose excess fat, making yourself normal before the end of the year (only 6 months away!)
I can accept the state of society while still advocating for changes in it. I can handle people being rude, fatphobia isn't going to ruin my day. That doesn't mean when I see it I'm not going to call it what it is.
I don't blame others for acknowledging that I am fat, I blame others for treating me and other fat people worse because of it.
I should not have to dramatically change myself and my lifestyle, and fight against my body(I'm a strong hiker, it's not like I just don't exercise, just setting thinness as a goal doesn't work healthily for me and the only time I achieved thinness was when I had an eating disorder) and go back to eating disorders, or I should just silently not say anything when people spread rhetoric that encourages harmful stereotypes?
I can be able to get over it and also still point out people's biases.
If you are a "strong hiker" you would know you are built, not fat. And yes, you are going to change yourself for others, that is a basic requirement of participating in society.
Fat people are unattractive, the physical embodiment of a deeply hated characteristic from our instincts (greed, in the bible, other cultures had their own representations of the greedy)
If you hate the word you get for being a tub, you should either ignore it or stop advocating for this to change. As it isn't going to work. No one loves that build, if you get complaints that is part of your adult life.
By the way, you are not getting a medal for having an eating disorder. If it's gone you can rebuild a healthy body, so blame something else yet again. Let the broken arm heal and build back the atrophied muscles.
Um, actually, I'm quite aware that muscle and fat are different things. As a strong hiker I have a good amount of muscle mass. I also have a decent amount of fat because I am fat.
Changing oneself for society should be expected of people who make moral failings and hurt others. It shouldn't be expected of people simply for their body type.
You claim you aren't discriminatory, yet you say an entire group of people are "The physical embodiment of greed" and deserve to be hated. Simply for our body types.
Whether you want to label me fat, or label me as "built" because I also have more muscle and a healthier lifestyle than some people with the same body fat percentage as me doesn't prove anything and doesn't mean fatphobia is any less of a problem. People who are less healthy than me don't deserve to be treated any worse than me for it, because people's value shouldn't be judged by their health, but by their moral character.
I always thought the "genetics" argument didn't encompass the whole picture even though for many people it is true, because people deserve to be treated kindly regardless of the state of their health. Though it is genetics for a lot of people, for example I have an ex who was plus size and at one point she didn't eat great, but when she changed her diet, guess what? Still plus size. She lost some weight but didn't just magically turn thin. She turned out to be a backstabbing bitch, so fuck her, but that's unrelated to this entire topic
The reality is that genetics and lifestyle both play a role in weight and have an effect on it, you don't know either of those things about a person you see so you shouldn't make assumptions about them, and regardless of either of those things and what the "reason" someone is fat is, they deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.
Even if in a specific case it's 100% lifestyle and 0% genetics, you don't know how someone's life is, what else they're dealing with, why changing things in their lifestyle that effect their health may or may not be worth it to them, and it's not your business, and that person deserves the same amount of kindness and respect as everyone else. And if they do want to change their lifestyle, it should be about health, not about the number on the scale They should make choices that are worth it for their health and not be expected to change their whole lifestyle in order to meet the aesthetic society has deemed "ideal" in order to be treated with kindness.
Also "no one loves that build" my ass, I have a preference for large women(Slight preference, I can like any body type), I've had partners in the past that also prefer large women, people are a lot more open about attraction to plus size bodies in queer spaces because we're already attracted to things that are "taboo" to like according to society, the "nobody is attracted to fat people" rhetoric is really only pushed by straight people. Straight people refuse to acknowledge attraction to plus size bodies exists and when they do like us they repress it or just don't talk about it because it's taboo.
The guy you were arguing with doesn't seem to be worth the effort, he reminds me of the person I used to be in my teens and arguing online won't change his mind. Very good effort on your part though, I'm posting this to acknowledge how reasonable your comments were and how childish his were. I hope any future readers can take some of the insight you have offered and that maybe the other commenter learns more empathy later in life.
Empathy for what? Fat people to jump on the victim train instead of fix their own bodies? Where has accountability gone, or the drive to improve yourself?
Fat people are fat, 99% of the time, because of their own lack of discipline. This is why fat-activism is disgusting.
No, all of these issues you are stating are either incorrectly represented or personal. Many of these are also the cost of living, such as being called out for being fat.
About the loving your build bit, people love getting suctioned in latex suits and covering themselves in piss too, this doesn't mean any of it is normal.
Yes, you should be discriminated against for being fat. Yes, it is almost always your fault. I've gone through tough times and not expanded. Genetics are almost always used as a big excuse too. Do you think your ex was dieting or was she rewarding quarter mile runs with a big mac? You need discipline, a little bit of self hatred and the drive to control and take responsibility for your own life to change. Narcissistic people often don't have these things, starting with those who think we should foam cover language and society to make themselves feel better.
It is definitely health, by the way. Being fat is more than numbers on a scale, it is the strain on your joints, cancer risk, heart disease and a multitude of other, even indirect issues, like doctors finding it harder to diagnose issues because being fat itself can accommodate many symptoms of other issues.
Im not claiming to not be discriminatory. Im discriminating against the fat, huge difference from the other trendy victim statements, as fat isn't valid. Fat isn't a lifestyle, it's a deathstyle. Early demise and social outcasting are real risks of pretending you have the agency to call for these extra rights to protect yourself from mean words.
holy self projection
Acknowledging that being overweight can lead to health problems and being a dick for the sake of being a dick are two different things. You don't need to be a dick to people because YOU think their bodies are gross. It's not your body and not your health to worry about. Nobody needs an opinion on their health from some rando on reddit named TheIndominusGamer420.
I am a person whose weight fluctuates a lot. I have been toned, scrawny, and chubby in cycles. I am aware that my current weight is unhealthy. I am working on eating better and being more active. Being concerned for people you love because of their weight, that's fine man. You love em, you want em to be around in your life as long as they can. But cmon dude nobody needs to be belittled for these things. If you're gonna pick a hill to die on, pick one that actually matters. Be better.
And even if your outdated views on health and opinion that it's always our if it were always something we could and would be better off changing was true
Let's assume these views on health are true and it is always something we could change for a sec.
This still doesn't fucking justify being an asshole. Even if we assume losing weight is the best path for every plus size person (which isn't true), encouraging someone to change via bullying, even if that change would be good for them, doesn't work.
Even if your views on health are true, that doesn't justify fatphobia because bullying people for being bad at things has never made them better at things.
If it was actually about that you'd be spreading awareness about nutrition, not on Reddit trying to justify being mean to people. But it was never about health, that's the thing, cruelty was always the point.
I assume the larger one is actually his wife
Wasn't there also a version where the guys says "I was actually talking to you" and the BBW gets all flustered ?
Yeah and he has flowers
I feel like there's room here for r/gatekeepingyuri
lmao I haven't seen a post from this sub in years bruh
What
Norbit?
she shortly died afterwards from morbid obesity :imstuff:
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The fridge always guards the snacks
Olive garden
OP we might have liked this post but for some reason, we fucking HATE this comment
Yes,WE( ALL of US) hate THIS comment
what's the downvotes for πππ
The wife is not alive
Because FUCK THIS COMMENT IN PARTICULAR
You know what OP, fuck this comment
Fuck this comment post is good, but this comment? No. FUCK. YOU.
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This isnβt bone hurting juice. People wonβt get this reference unfortunately
Monster House good end?
She was resurrected as a L4D Boomer!
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Yer a creep.