I thought I was the only one that didn’t like femboys being so sexualized and I thought that a person doesn’t need to show much skin. I prefer clothes that look and feel “comfortable” and showing a lot of skin really isn’t the way for that. I just saw a post of another person looking for advice on clothes to wear that aren’t so revealing.
If you’re like me and him, why? If you’re not, why not?

i dont like being cold
W reason
Understandable have a nice day
Exactly!
This IS the answer
I dont like showing a lot of skin just bc i have a lot of scars but if it wasn't for that I would just bc I like how it looks
it just feels like i'm sexualizing my body tbh
You are honestly if you show too much skin. A big part of sexualization of femboys and women in general is because there is so much 🌽 of it qwq And that is not good
trans girls are even more sexualized!
Honestly trans girls don't get sexualized nearly as much. Most of the time trans girls are spouted as "femboys" even when they're not (i would know because I've even experienced it myself)
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I would say both are equally sexualized
the fuck is a “🌽”???
Replace the c with a p in the word corn
that's unnecessary censorship
Tell it to the mods?
the mods will read it as it's supposed to be taken anyway
Yeah, i agree with this tbh.
It’s a matter of personal preference in both directions. It’s really that simple. You like what you like and don’t like what you don’t like. There’s no right or wrong. It would be wrong to think negatively of someone who’s views differed on matters like this ❤️
Sure! I have nothing against people who show skin, it’s just my preference not to
Power to you, it’s good to know your own mind. Maybe you’ll change your mind someday, maybe not. Power to you either way ❤️
I just feel ugly and i dont want to people see how ugly i am -w-
I’m sure you’re not ugly!
That's kind of irrelevant
Same honestly 😭
I don’t fully know how to shave my legs yet and I get really cold really quickly >\<
I’ll get you a tutorial!
https://youtu.be/DZViQdVbIv8?si=EHycrtyN8jqL3LxZ
I don’t shave my legs (not a femboy), but I remember randomly watching this one. I think it’s helpful, although I don’t remember a lot
Tysm! Now I just have to get over the other issue >:3
Getting cold is no problem, in fact, I had a creepy teacher that told us when girls came over to his house he’d turn the heating up a lot so they would take off their clothes. I thought “why trun the heating up, when you can turn it down and they’re be cold and snuggle up with you?” If a person already gets cold by themselves them I don’t even have to turn the heating down lol
True :p
Big clothes are cute
🔥
I would show my skin because I enjoy showing off my body if I’m completely honest, I just can’t really show anything because not I have does show anything. It’s all a matter of preference at the end of the day though, and I like being able to see skin
"not I have does show anything"
https://preview.redd.it/1b1btvm2vq8g1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1fa4e71a8420a04f150f615b905fb0e27a64213a
I’m stupid in the head some days alright, I think what I meant was, well shit I can’t remember now
Nothing I have shows anything? x3
It’s probably something like that
i just think nobody should have to look at that so as much of my body should be covered as possible
Į̵̧̺̟̤̑͒̃̽͝ͅ ̵̢̢̡̳̳̼̣̥̞̟̦̝͉̇̈͊̀͋̚̕͜͠d̴̛͈̣͇̼̹̱͍̣͚̓̾͗̇͒̓͋̓́̃̌̿́ö̶̢̡̖̣͍͉̱̞̠̥́̊̈́̓͂̉͛̃̈̔̓͛̍͝ņ̷̻͍̜͕͍̺͇͉̘͕̖̬̽̋͋̈͂̂̕'̷̛̗̫̻̼͎̊͊͗͊̃͑̈́̓͗͂̕͝ẗ̴̡͎̤͔̹̦͈̰́̈̆̊̔̃͛̾͐̀̐́̕̕ ̵̨̙̗̹̩͎̪̲̦̔́̓͗̓̏̇͑̉̓͋͘ͅͅh̵̨̯͈̱̮͙̳̓̑͐͋̅́͂͠a̶͉̎̈́̑͠͝v̶̢̡̤̣̭̘̩͖͎̹̱̞̺̆͌ͅḛ̸͙̼͕̻̮̠̼̣̜̦́̈́̆͘ ̵̨̠̣̹͉̳̱͌̇͒̓̓͋̎͘ṡ̷̨̧͕̠̫͙̆k̸̨̛̙̩̗͒͊͗̅͂̅̈́͑͑̓͛ï̵͈̳͔̺̝̩͕͉̤̝̜̠̫͑̓͆͝n̶̦̞̤̏̑
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It has been already, i can give you my bones. Nothing else though
Yes pls :D
Nawr...U an alien?
I'm a trans woman but pre transition and my arms are very masculine and my legs aren't very pretty so I cover them up most of the time. It just saves me the insecurity and discomfort
Cuz why wear uncomfortable revealing clothes when you can wear cozy warm clothes? :3
Yeah! That’s the point, I like when people dress with comfy clothes
Comfy > “sexy”
As an Ace that’s my opinion :3 tho I don’t get why people wouldn’t wanna be comfortable even if they aren’t Ace-
Yeah, I totally agree
Self esteem... im very aware at how cubby i am... I don't want people to insult what I already know
Same
Horrible at shaving, body dysmorphia, and a trickle of wanting to not be hypersexualised
Insecurity and embarrassment … can’t even wear shorts tbh, covering clothes just feels safe :3
I’m sure you’re beautiful
Im cold
Based
And i have an old body(im only 20 why am i groaning every time i sit down)
I HATE SHOWING MY SKINN!!
I don't like going shirtless or wear shorts, all my clothes are either long sleeve or short sleeve that I wear outside my long sleeves, you know those 90's looks, I just like being modest and don't really like sexualising myself (ㆁωㆁ)
https://preview.redd.it/7qfyvt6sls8g1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29f8596eaa1226b1c3064c4f0acb48b9c4ce0f14
Clothes are good.
I’m closeted so I don’t get to shave my legs
Why not?
Parents are insanely homophonic
Yeah that’s a problem I have too
because of how ugly I am... and the scars...
Because I'm ugly
I just feel physically more comfy in clothes that show skin add long as it’s not too too much like knees to right above my ankles I don’t like covered if it’s not cool and my arms don’t need covered in my opinion as they are already uncovered most of the time but I also don’t like tons cuz of it’s warm I don’t wanna be hot but if it’s cold then I’m layering if I go out fem so temp will also determine it
i have long ass legs and revealing clothing makes me feel tall and ugly💔
Statistically , men like longer legs! (in women, but I think it’s the same)You’re not ugly for having long legs
aww thank you 💜
I like showing legs for sure, they are nice, hands too, but when i show off midriff I just feel slutty or something, it just feels wrong, also it's not very comfy either.
I'm the opposite of this haha. I can only imagine the discomfort of people when they visit my house, seeing me in nothin' but shorts. I just shrug them off. My house. My dress code. In public? Yeah mostly the same in summer. But I'll take a T or tank top for when I go into stores. Other than that? I'm bare feet and loving life haha
That may apply to you but not necessarily to everyone
Sure
I just feel uncomfortable, that's why I ONLY wear croptops when it's like very hot outside
Yes, because I hate the cold and am hiding secrets
I like being warm
I’m female but I only don’t want to bc I’m too young and feel uncomfortable doing it in school or public, and I live in an area where when it’s fall or winter it gets pretty cold
IM FAWKIN COLD 😭
by SpeedLight VIA Giphy
I love femboys showing tummy
Meeeee! I really don leik my belly being out. that's about it. I don't mind the cold, though, it can be annoying. :P :3
If you’re cold you can unlock the late-game cheatcode called “cuddles”. Just ask your bf if you’ve unlocked that already!
I haven't unlocked BF yet :< I have the massive debuff of: shy as FUCK
Real
eh mostly in the very split new liberal yet raised conservative place i live if you dont cover everything then it's terrible iguessss
I feel more comfortable in longer clothes, I have scars that I don’t like to risk showing (shorts still cover them at least…) and also I get cold easily. But I also like hiding myself because for one I’m ugly af two I feel I’m always being judged :333
Getting cold is always a good reason… but I think you’re not always being judged!
Nuh uh
wym Nuh uh? I cast Nuh uh to all your insecurities!
Nuh uh
I'm religious so I kinda have to be modest X3
Cuz I'm fat n ugly. why would I show myself, if I don't like myself?
I don't mind to show skin, as in wearing shorts or a t-shirt, going full Magic Mike tho, that's a different story, I a little far(thankfully not that far anymore) from the twink body goal, to be doing that.
Ah. I cannot just wait to fathom the sight of my next humans upper dermis. How Delightful. How Fantastic indeed. Would you agree?
body dysphoria
Leg hair = bad
Not a femboy nor a boykisser here: its hard to explain but it feels much safer (both from physical damage and eyesight) even though it cooks me up from inside in summer im sure it has more pcychological reason in my subconciouse and im damn well aware of it even just know its there bit i tend to ignore it because i feel better that way
Just to clarify: i ware longsleeve shirts and pants and a ballcap anywhere any season outside, any type of neck warmer (scarf, muffler, shemagh and more) and long coats are added in winter
Hope this helps
I love my skin. I, however, do not like my body hair, acne, and Vitiligo. I don't dislike my Vitiligo because of what it does to my skin, I dislike it because it won't spread fast enough. Also weight... I'm like 201.4 lbs I think.
I hate the cold and nobody wants to see my skin. It’s not pretty.
I'm just very hairy. And associate showing skin with being assaulted. Because that's what happened repeatedly.
I’m so sorry for you
Eh depends where. I hate showing feet, but arms i dont care about.
I don't like very revealing clothes, even though I'm more masculine because I'm not a femboy, even though I want to be, but like, I don't like shorts and tank tops, I much prefer shirts with sleeves and pants and shoes and caps.
because i tend to want to rip it off
I don’t because I’m fat and hairy, the opposite of what I want.
Well, the fat part takes time to lose, but you can improve the hairy part in a few hours a week at most!
To hide my scars.
Pre everything trans, so my body is my shame, I suppose. I feel if I could at least get rid of my body hair and my attempt at a diet goes well I would definitely feel more comfortable in more revealing clothes. Especially in summer as I overheat easily...I can already feel the boob sweat...=w=
because I'm ugly skinny. but gradually I accept myself -_-
I ain’t that down bad
well
I'm hairy all over and I don't have anything to shave
It makes me uncomfortable, and that's it.
Gender Dysphoria is my reason for the season
Honestly, for me it depends on the day, some days when my dysphoria is pretty bad, I won’t show pretty much any skin… other days I show a lot of skin, my main reason is I just think it’s cute…
I have autism and HATE having too much skin exposed.
Bruh, i can't even show my shoulders without someone harassing me. Then again, i will kick their ass
Warmth
because i have to much muscle and i want to look more feminine than masculine
i enjoy oversized clothing with tight clothing underneath, minimizes my figure, and i can be comfy and warm >w< (im nearly 200 pounds, revealing clothing looks wrong on me qwq)
I'm a closet femboy so I'm afraid someone somehow will figure out my identity >¬<
I don't like my body. I mean mostly because I'm a trans guy but also I'm a little on the chubbier side and I just,,,, dont like seeing it lol
It's chilly when -4°F
I just get embarrassed or self conscious of o were to show too much skin 😞
Dont want to be peeled
Uhhh u mean that with evasion at the end and a square? (If you get it you get it owo)
I hate how my body looks, and I refuse to show it off until I like it.
I don't like how I look 😭
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I'd roll up like that!
I either get cold or sunburned
https://preview.redd.it/jnvymk18np8g1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7be9970919e19c8565a60ca50ce015bd8651d291
wait. yall have skin
Self-conscious about but also I'm cold
I don't wear shorts cause of leg hair
Because its skin not fur
I don’t like being cold and because its being sexualised, it’s rlly sad honestly 😭🥀
I don’t like being perceived
Clothing is a shield that prevents people from perceiving me
I don't like being cold, and it just, feels? suggestive for some reason.
Not a femboy (a t-girl) but I don’t like showing lots of skin in public because I feel like I’m getting stared at but it feels like I’m getting creeped on (I can pass if I try enough, even without HRT yet) so that’s why I don’t like showing skin in public and even with people I know
Bhahahaha I don't like showing off skin because I'm hairy :P
Pink knee highs. It's a femboy?
Scars a lot of them not because of me hurting myself at least the most of them but me doing stuff that look like they where self made and not from my bike
Mix of scars, ugliness, dysphoria and not wanting to sexualise myself
probably bc i feel really self conscious and dont like being neked or showing skin outside of my arms or head
First: I'm always cold 🥶, second: I'm not super comfortable with my body 🫤 (nothing serious, I just think I'm a little too thin), third: the only person I really want to show my body to is my boyfriend (except I don't have one 🥲), and fourth: I much prefer loose (and slightly oversized) clothes which are infinitely more comfortable (especially if they smell like a guy I like 🙃)