Is this misogynoir or am I tripping?

For context I’m 33F. I’ve been single for a few years and decided a few months ago to wade into the dating pool starting with the apps- OKCupid and Bumble. Not a great start. I already deleted OKC 3 times. I’m this close to deleting Bumble.

I’m fairly strict with what I’m looking for, chief among them is they have to be childfree like me and looking for a long term relationship. I consider myself a good judge of character and follow my gut whenever something in someone’s profile seems off. So far the only ones swiping for me are single dads or have “want kids” in their bio. I know they don’t really read and swipe at every profile. It sucks to be intentional while others are treating it like a game.

Before anyone asks I’ve been attending more IRL events that I’m invited to by friends. I have some planned next year that I’ll attend with a friend I met online as well. I’m from a conservative country and having kids is something that’s expected of couples so I know it’s going to be a tough call.

I thought I could have better luck with expats but a lot of them a looking for easy hookups, are passport bros and lowkey consider themselves a prize like Mr. hairline over here.

I’m just frustrated and venting. If you have advice for someone who hasn’t dated since the Obama administration, help a girl out.