purely from the post-nut clarity i would class it as more of a kink, if you dont have a genuine desire outside of sexual gratification to be a woman then you probably aren't trans. or atleast your individual transness wouldnt benefit from a social transition
NOT an end all be all, and I'm not a professional, but as someone who has went through something similar this is my take
The latter can help you with understanding some things I think. Whether or not you are trans is not something anyone else can tell you. It is a question you have to answer yourself.
Here is the clinical criteria for Gender Dysphoria for your review.
Gender Dysphoria in Adolescents and Adults 302.85 ( ICD10 F64.0 / ICD11 HA60)
A. A marked incongruence between one’s experienced/expressed gender and assigned gender, of at least 6 months’ duration, as manifested by at least two of the following:
A marked incongruence between one’s experienced/expressed gender and primary and/or secondary sex characteristics (or in young adolescents, the anticipated secondary sex characteristics).
A strong desire to be rid of one’s primary and/or secondary sex characteristics be-
cause of a marked incongruence with one’s experienced/expressed gender (or in young adolescents, a desire to prevent the development of the anticipated secondary sex characteristics).
A strong desire for the primary and/or secondary sex characteristics of the other gender.
A strong desire to be of the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender).
A strong desire to be treated as the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender).
A strong conviction that one has the typical feelings and reactions of the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender).
B. The condition is associated with clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of functioning.
You must meet the qualifiers of Section "A" and "B" to be diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria
You don't need to have dysphoria to be transgender, but it is the most common qualifier, as the majority of transgender individuals do experience dysphoria in this fashion. We encourage you to discuss this with a gender therapist.
I felt the same once apon a time. I wrote it off as a kink or fetish but with time it became more and more an issue for me when i wasnt aroused. Ended up being post nut was the guilt and shame of it all rather then it not being a sexual thing.
For me i could "be a man" when i didnt think about it too much but i always wanted in a perfect world to be a girl. Like if i could just magic button myself into a girl and would have always been one a bit after the post nut was done then thats how i started to make that connection.
Cis people dont want to be the other gender more or less ever
You, my friend are a woman. Let me guess, you are about 30 something and have these thoughts since puberty? And you have strong urge to crossdress? And you read a ton of trans fiction?
You cannot admit it to yourself because you fear the consequence.
I would advise you to get a therapist ASAP, but beforehand think about this questions:
- How would you feel if you had a magic button which turns you into a woman, with no turning back. So once you are woman, you stay a woman. However everyone you know, and every document you have knows you as woman. Nothing else changes in your life beyond your biological gender. Would it be your desirable state or would you like to be a guy?
Think about this.
I bet you will say, yes I would be rather a woman. If so, you just fear the consquences, which is absolutely fine, we all do.
purely from the post-nut clarity i would class it as more of a kink, if you dont have a genuine desire outside of sexual gratification to be a woman then you probably aren't trans. or atleast your individual transness wouldnt benefit from a social transition
NOT an end all be all, and I'm not a professional, but as someone who has went through something similar this is my take
I’ll be honest, I’m too tired to help you break this down, so I hope others are more directly helpful. But, some things that might help.
The latter can help you with understanding some things I think. Whether or not you are trans is not something anyone else can tell you. It is a question you have to answer yourself.
Good luck!!
Here is the clinical criteria for Gender Dysphoria for your review.
You must meet the qualifiers of Section "A" and "B" to be diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria
You don't need to have dysphoria to be transgender, but it is the most common qualifier, as the majority of transgender individuals do experience dysphoria in this fashion. We encourage you to discuss this with a gender therapist.
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I felt the same once apon a time. I wrote it off as a kink or fetish but with time it became more and more an issue for me when i wasnt aroused. Ended up being post nut was the guilt and shame of it all rather then it not being a sexual thing.
For me i could "be a man" when i didnt think about it too much but i always wanted in a perfect world to be a girl. Like if i could just magic button myself into a girl and would have always been one a bit after the post nut was done then thats how i started to make that connection.
Cis people dont want to be the other gender more or less ever
You, my friend are a woman. Let me guess, you are about 30 something and have these thoughts since puberty? And you have strong urge to crossdress? And you read a ton of trans fiction?
You cannot admit it to yourself because you fear the consequence.
I would advise you to get a therapist ASAP, but beforehand think about this questions:
- How would you feel if you had a magic button which turns you into a woman, with no turning back. So once you are woman, you stay a woman. However everyone you know, and every document you have knows you as woman. Nothing else changes in your life beyond your biological gender. Would it be your desirable state or would you like to be a guy?
Think about this.
I bet you will say, yes I would be rather a woman. If so, you just fear the consquences, which is absolutely fine, we all do.