It turns me on so bad. I love it omg. Like hell yea, I love when a woman is down bad for me. It's just something about being wanted. It's mind blowing, it's satisfying. It makes me go "wow, someone actually wants me like that. Hot". I just love it ugh.

  • I actually literally have been having that same feeling recently. I never actually got that before until I started dating my new girlfriend, that feeling of, "damn, she really likes me... Fuck that's hot." It's very nice :)

  • Yes 100% honestly this might sound narcissistic but I personally think I am really attractive and I love it when other women act accordingly. It’s so hot knowing that you can drive someone crazy w desire it’s so satisfying.

    It's not narcissistic. You just love yourself, and you're confident. Which honestly, good for you. Each time anyone tries to treat you like free salsa, you remind them that you are fucking guacamole. I love that for you.

  • me too. this seems to be so rare it’s unbelievable

  • That's basically being in a relationship.

  • It seems so obvious and like a “well, duh” concept, too, but it is a particular feeling.

    My partner clearly desired me early in our relationship when we were both just giddy in our new love, but as time has gone by her natural baseline of low libido has been the norm. And while I feel valued and loved and cherished, it has been so hard to not feel desired very much

    Being wanted, feeling the heat in her eyes, the effect I have, how she responds, hearing her breath catch in her throat, it’s incredible and I can’t get enough.

  • I remember back when I thought I was just a messed up hetero, I found the thought of guys wanting me viscerally horrifying. I wanted to curl up and hide away at home and never come out as to not be seen by men. But after coming to terms with being sapphic, now when I suspect the slightest hint of interest a woman may have for me, I want to puff up like a peacock and show off and do more of whatever piqued her interest 😍🔥 It’s addictive, lol

  • I've never felt that before. 😒

  • It makes me anxious 😭 I’m glad it’s so positive for you

    It used to be negative for me too. It was always so hard for me to believe someone actually liked me. But now I guess I just believe I'm worthy of love, so it's easier to accept. But still, sometimes the thoughts of "Is this really real?" comes in my head.

  • I felt that for the first time not long ago. Don't get me wrong, I knew my previous partners were interested and wanted me, but I was always the one taking the initiative/showing that I desired them.

    I had a first date a while back that I was literally dripping just by the way they looked at me. I am not joking! I proud myself about being an experienced tamer and being very dominant when I have a partner/date, but this person got me SO NERVOUS. SO SEEN. SO DESIRED.

    I'm fucked, send help!

  • I'm going on a first date tomorrow and feeling like this 😅 But in the sense that someone finds me attractive and wants to meet up with me to see if we can be more based on how our connection is face to face.

  • Yes. It's been one of the hardest things about coming out. 

    I miss being desired SO much 

  • I've only experienced that feeling once and it was magical. I really want to have it happen again

  • I’m glad someone else gets it, I want to be wanted so bad it’s not funny 😭😭😭

  • A peak I to the mind of a Dom... Interesting. Things are starting to make sense

  • Dude same hereeee

  • Ugh, I dont experience that much, life is not fair for average looking people

  • I wish someone desired me. I'd sell my soul to the devil to be desired in that complete and thorough way...

  • Girl, same.

  • Yes feeling desired is something most of us want and can be very beautiful in the right context. I too dream of experiencing it in my life time, but only time will tell

  • I literally had the same exact feeling you described so recently. In prior relationships, I always felt like I wasn’t being desired so it did cause a little trouble. When I started dating my current girlfriend, everything changed! it’s such an amazing feeling :)

  • I love that feeling sooooo much🫠

  • Saaammee there is nothing quite like being desired being seen as irresistable in someone else's eyes