Does anyone else on here also struggle with always being horny or at least being horny multiple times a week if not days? How do y’all handle it? Do any of y’all also admit that masturbating and watching porn is helpful? Does anyone else on here also struggle with being hypersexual?
masturbation became nightly routine for me unless im super tired lol
yeah i definitely relate to this lol especially if im super tired lol
Same
yep, mornings or evenings or both lol
Same
Just wanted to affirm that there’s nothing wrong with being horny
I think there's a difference between high sex drive and using sex and or masturbation as a coping mechanism. Same with porn. There is a healthy way to consume it.
So in thay mindset, if your sex drive is daily or even multiple times a day, and it's not interfering with your life or relationships - then fulfill that, which means masturbation, sometimes even if you're not single :)
And yes, I have a very high libido and kinda float on deep, concious breathing throughout the day. It can be helpful to sit in (or on if appropriate) the tension sometimes.
i dont quite understand: am I correct in interpreting that so long as you aren't a predator, its fine?
I mean, nobody should be a predator anyway… But what that comment really means is your libido shouldn’t impact your time spent with friends or family. You shouldn’t be forgetting to eat, or miss work to goon
aha, forgot about that part! my interpretation felt a bit too weak from what i think you meant, so im glad to be proven wrong :)
Thus is what I meant, yes :)
If you're horny and not using it as a way to cope, it's fine. I was thinking of writing what they wrote but didn't feel like it, but lo and behold someone already did.
I've lived through that phase. It's horrible, if you can see it, try to fix it. You need to tell yourself cheap dopamine will ruin your mood
Yupp. Im always horny all day, everyday
Oof I feel this
Lately I haven’t been because of my poor sleeping this week due to school, but usually I am horny often
Awww I’m sorry about you not sleeping well due to school but hopefully you’re doing ok in school
Raises her hand. Me, I'm horny all the time. I've always had a high libido and the littliest things can turn me on. Thankfully my Wifey is the same way and understands! I either have sex or masturbate basically daily--sometimes both.
Ohhhh very nice
Yes. I just love the tingly, electrical sensation I get in my clit when I’m turned on or climaxing. It’s intense and almost painful, but I love the sensation.
I'm not the only one that gets that sensation sometimes? It's so weird and nearly painful.
But I am also a masochist so I look for weird sensations anyhow.
I’d say I generally have a high sex drive and even more so when I’m PMSing but I don’t use porn as an outlet. Not that watching porn is inherently wrong, it’s just not something I’m into or need. If I’m alone then I’ll masturbate using my imagination, play with some sex toys or, if my girlfriend can’t come over for physical sex, I’ll FaceTime her and we’ll talk dirty and masturbate to each other instead.
Ohhhhh very nice hehe
All day every day 😭😭😭
I hate it
Oh yeah?
Yes, I feel like an addict 😭😭
I can't even concentrate sometimes
Awww I get that way too
I’m kind of like a dolphin except I practice consent 😂🐬
I see a lot of other women feel guilty for being like this both across trans women and cis woman and I think its important to know it is ok and normal as long as your not hurting yourself. Its not wrong to be horny, enjoy that, or have a hi drive.
yup me too. :/ I definitely think it stems from trauma at a younger age; I’m lucky to have a partner who matches my sex drive but I do want to get therapy
I admit that it is difficult for me to manage it but I masturbate twice a day and this helps me a little and I dedicate myself to my hobbies and I try to carve out a moment in the day to fantasize and think about these things and then go back to doing the things I was doing
Ohhh that’s a good idea
Yes, and it's not something you have to repress, and you shouldn't feel wrong or strange. Are you excited? Let it out, it's the right thing to do
Girl me tooo🙂
do you masturbate twice a day?
I do lol.. Hypersexual here too
It's right that you let off steam and do it on what stimulates you the most or that you try to experiment with different ways
I do both..
and it's so beautiful you enter a world of your own
Its so true😊
I wish! I seem to have negative libido nowadays.
When I’ve been lonely (ie non sexual intimacy needs not being met) my sex drive becomes insatiable, so being long distance and decreased contact with my partner for the last month and a half while also being at my parents house has been TORTURE for me
I’ll masturbate up to like 3 times a day when I can, often with porn, sometimes without. It’s literally so fine to be horny, healthy even
Oh yeah that’s definitely understandable
Currently? Extremely. Normally I cope by just giving in with some masturbation. But currently I'm recovering from my vaginoplasty operation (\o/) which means at minimum no sex until all the wounds are healed. How do I cope? Being on HER too much, fantasising a Lot, and in general just not.
yep i just recovered from vaginoplasty 5 months ago but im pretty much healed now and got strapped by my girlfriend for the first time last night. i also seem to get pretty wet from being so horny too which is cool
Sadly not noticing getting wet myself amongst the wound fluid 😔
5 months? Fuck. I was told my wounds could be closed as soon as 4 weeks from now which could be the start of being allowed to do more things again, but waiting until the checkup to make sure, and that already seems impossible long.
Yes, it's not easy, it always takes time, but since it's been going on for a long time for me, I've learned to manage between sex and masturbation. My coworkers must think I have chronic cystitis.
This is a whole issue because it ended up causing me problems in my relationships.
Awwww im sorry
Got on meds called duloxetine. Went from all the time libido to completely dead. Welp.
Ahhhh ok that’s understandable
As with any meds it affects individuals differently. Personally I felt numb more or less all the time, but somehow my libido persisted. It's quite the unusual feeling of being numb and horny lol
Yeah that's gotta be confusing :') I'm stuck between the choice of asking for an increased dose to cope or try to come off it to make me feel like me again. Dunno what me is anymore x) sorry feel like I've distracted from the topic so ima hide
Oh no please feel free to speak your mind ^^ I am always happen to listen
I'm hypersexual and I've been in a sexless marriage for years that just ended. it's been rough times for me and masturbation is pretty much a daily routine to get through!
I used to be, the way I dealt with it was to get into sexual hobbies, the main one being erp.
The problem however, is that my libido has significantly lowered, and I often don't have the required mindset to participate in these hobbies I still wanna partake in. This is pretty frustrating to me.
I am hypersexual by nature as well, but I don't act on it or do much about it, I just sort of let it spiral out in my mind, then get on with whatever I am doing anyway.
I’m always horny, but I’m finding it hard to even address. I mean people will find it weird, but then again I was already weird
So true girl.. Lol same
Always horny, yes. Saddly, it has caused me a lot of troubles because of my poor judgement. Havent became an agressor, mind you. But yea Ive done really dumb crap for sex.
Up until a few weeks ago my sex drive/hypersexuality was pretty dead and I had to choose when to do something... It's come back with a vengeance however a few weeks ago. Please... Send help... I BEG YOU!
I used to be as a teen and into early adulthood when I was single, I even was a swer making content everyday for quite awhile, but now that I’ve been with my partner for 5 years I feel like I grew out of it. I only get horny for him I don’t really crave masturbating much anymore. I’m just like fulfilled as it is 🤷
Yes, I also struggle with it, I’m typically turned on quite frequently. It’ll be random. When I’m driving, playing video games, etc. I have a gf but I also understand with her she’s the other side of the scale where she is hyposexual (has a low sex drive) so typically if I feel turned on during the night, which is quite often, I’ll just masturbate. It’s nothing to be ashamed of and she also knows I have a higher sex drive and she understands. Don’t feel ashamed, there’s no right amount or right feeling we all have different levels. As long as it’s in a healthy manner and your not letting that consume you over your day to day routine then your all good
It got even more intense in my 40s too.
I'm pretty sure I'm demi sexual. I'm suddenly super horny when I feel secure in a relationship or a strong bond with a person. When I'm single I'm rarely horny, and I'm less horny if my partner and I aren't super close yet (just started dating maybe) or are having issues
im always horny and i havent watched porn for nearly a year. just use your mind and have a partner that matches your horniness
r/pornismisogyny
In my experience I’ve dealt with women with high libidos. They were usually either depressed, had ADHD and/or are on the spectrum. Which are things that can cause it. They watched porn a lot and they both told me they used to have an addiction to porn and masturbation. They had different names of what they called it but one girl called it her maintenance and she said there are different kinds of orgasms. Sometime she needs maintenance and sometimes she wanted me. Which I didn’t mind because I don’t have a high libido. I kinda wish I had a little bit of a higher sex drive
so horny I started fucking men cuz they’re easy
wait what?
that’s how my hypersexuality has started to manifest as of late 🤷🏻♀️don’t shame me girl i got enough brewing inside lol
no im not shaming you I just wasn’t sure what you meant sorry
ur good babes i was mostly joking lol. but yeah there is literally nothing wrong with you or your sex drive. is it actually causing you problems & effecting your quality of life (masturbating excessively to the point of pain, interfering with your daily life/ routine/relationships, getting in the way of your priorities… etc) … or are you simply horny and healthy but victim to the seed of shame society has tried to plant within you and every other woman. Be free my friend & goon till you reach the moon. Amen.