Honestly I know this sounds silly or childish, but growing up with body image issues and having a relationship that amplified them, I just want someone to want me for my looks only or mostly, even if they don't care about me that much. I'd Honestly prefer that over someone having feelings for me but not be their type physically

  • Ayesha get off Reddit or Imma tell Steph

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    😭🤣

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    nbacj is leaking (just like steph when he sits in the chair)

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  • I get that everyone wants to feel special and attractive. I hope you find someone to look at you the way you want. Everyone deserves that.

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  • Rip your dms

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    i think she's a he pretenting to be a she in a he's account

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    How to get dick pics 101 lol.

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    I don’t know if there’s anything that indicates that they’re a guy or girl. They could be a guy and aren’t pretending about it. I’m a guy who would love to be lusted over in a relationship, and if I’m not, I don’t want to be in that relationship. Not a gender exclusive thing. Everyone wants to be desired.

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    it was a joke. Ik its not a gender exclusive thing.Yeah, i agree even sometimes i myself want a girl who'd just eat me like her fav dish

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    Why im a woman and i feel similarly

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    if a woman is feeling tht way, ig its more of a skill issue cuz no matter how ugly she is there will always be a guy who'll make her feel special, just gotta be patient. When it comes to men, even handsome dudes sometimes get lonely lmao let alone the ugly ones like me.

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    Since you know so much about how life is as an ugly woman – how long do you have to be patient for? (Asking for a friend)

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    Oh im not a woman, however the reason ik so much bout ugly woman is cuz of my own cousin. She is wat most men considered ugly; she was fat, has kinda weird face and most of all she used to eat alot like ALOT. After 25, idk wat happnd she just realised bout it and started working on herself. No she did not become skinny or become beautiful, still in progress but her confidence in herself increased. She started attending functions, approaching guys at cafes etc. She faced many rejections but in midst of her journey, she met a guy in the gym. He was avg but he liked her for her hard work and now they're going out. I'm 22, never been in relationship so rather than crying bout it, im learning various skills, working out etc and i believe one day ill find a girl who'll desire me more than i do.

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    The number one thing men care about is looks. If we followed ur pogic no woman would have an ED or body dysmorphia.  Its what u grew up being told that will make u feel like that. U dont go flirting with men at 7 and find out ur ugly and have no skills... u watch americas next top model at 7 and see all that is wrong with u and qhy no one will love u. 

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    Yea because women don't want to feel attractive

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    Most want to. Most don’t. And that’s OK.

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    I don't answer, I'm just venting because I can't tell this to somebody in my life for obvious reasons

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    No kidding...thats just screaming for all kinds of obscene photos and messages

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  • I’ll lust for you internet stranger whose pronouns I don’t know so I’ll refer to as babe because that’s gender neutral to me;

    Omg babe, you’re so yummy. You look absolutely ravishing today.

    I’ve been where you are. I know what you’re feeling right now. I don’t usually offer positivity but I can tell you from my personal experience that there’s AT LEAST one person who will find you to be the seggsiest and hottest person to ever exist to them. And also, at one point you just get so tired and stop giving an F about how you look. I’m not saying that your insecurities just vanish but it just gets a little easier to stop caring.

    Sending you loads of hugs <3 You’ll be okay babe. Keep smiling for me :)

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    Careful what you lust for…. could be ai

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  • i feel you my guy. sometimes you just want to feel wanted.

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  • This is going to be both validating and upsetting - whooo !! Being lusted after sometimes feels really good. I hope that's something you get to experience - as long as it's not in a nonconsensual or sleezy or otherwise unhealthy way !

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    I want to be lusted over without feeling invaded negatively. I think I’d be happy in most situations though

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    Yea, I recently got on the dating apps and…. Lust for me was there, but few actually peaked my interest.

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  • You and me both!!! 

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  • I understand you wanting the experience and it’ll really inflate your ego for a bit but….soon you’ll want me be looked at as more than a body, trust me.

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  • Except when all you get is people that lust over you but not wanting to date you. It makes you feel unworthy and used. It hurts to be good enough for lust but never love.

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  • Yo honestly it is super weird… everywhere you go there are lingering eyes. Everyone (especially dudes) are straight up staring at you and some women look with absolute hatred/jealousy. I keep my head down to avoid it.

    Look for a person who loves you for YOU! You are NOT your flesh skin suit. You are so much more.

    You are worthy of love and with love will come attraction and lust.

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  • Need that reassurance to help boost your confidence

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  • It’s not fun. Like at all.

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  • One day, you’ll find a person that gives you what you never had, tenfold. But more importantly, you have to lust over yourself in a sense. Know you’re wonderfully made and a beautiful creation no matter if another person says it to you. You must see it in yourself first and believe that before another person can even begin to understand and see you for all that you are

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  • I can definitely understand where you’re coming from :/

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    Though I do want my partner to have feeling for me. But I guess I just never had one that lusted over me like that

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  • Honestly, same here. I feel like I get SO down bad for people and yet it never happens to me.

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  • I was expecting a link or pics. lol.

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  • Obligatory RIP your inbox.

    But hey, maybe a weird thing to say, but you deserve to be lusted over. Everyone has a body that's super sexy to someone. I am sure you are gorgeous and that you'll find someone who sees you for how sexy and attractive you are. It's not weird at all to want that.

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  • Small beans. Most of us are gross and unworthy. Deal with it

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    Untrue! And very negative

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    I don’t find reality negative. I find our cultures focus on superficial things negative. But that’s just me.

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    Maybe. I’d still argue that there are a lot of genuine people around.

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    There’s nothing I said for you to assume that I don’t agree. Yeah I know there are genuine people, doesn’t make them worthy of lust. Why are you talking to me about that.

    Don’t answer that. You already called me negative just because I think most people aren’t worthy of lust. You have the day you deserve.

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