i've never topped and never want to.

i have zero interest in my dick when i'm having sex. Love when sex is all about the top, his cock and my mouth or hole - it's that simple

i’ve always been bottom, and always will be💕 never topped!

I'm an exclusive bottom.

I topped some after I lost my virginity. I never felt like it was my role. I bottomed one good time in college and I never went back. I will never top anyone again.

How about exclusively top? Tried bottoming when I lost my biginity and frankly was bored, but topping hit all my buttons.

That's all I ever have been. Love a alpha guy telling me what to do

I’ve only ever been a bottom

58 here. I tried topping when I was younger and never liked it. I’ve been an exclusive bottom since at least 1998. I can’t imagine living any other way.

I’ve tried topping and it just wasn’t something that appealed to me at all

I just love being a bottom

Always been a total bottom

I have no interest in being a top.

I’ve been exclusively top but the idea of bottoming is the focus of my fantasies lately. I want to experience it

Totally verse. Love flipping and breeding each other

used to be vers, now a total locked bottom

Me! Hi!

My very first sexual thoughts were bottomy before I even knew what sex was, or that liking boys was "unusual".

I've topped a handful of times because I was asked to, and it wasn't good for either of us.

So I describe myself as a natural total bottom. And I have more thoughts on why being the bottom came naturally to me, but nm.

I always thought that the guy with the bigger penis was automatically the top and I have a small penis lol

Verse here. Definitely swing more towards bottom these days. Used to be a total top maybe 2 years ago until my FB decided to try fucking me and I was hooked. When we started he was the bottom as well. But now we just use each other's holes and it works nicely.

I'm a total bottom. Never been interested in topping. I absolutely love the feeling of a cock inside me.

I know my genuine happiness requires having a top partner that wants to make my ass theirs, where all of our sexual interactions revolve around them cumming in me, and that happening as much as reasonably possible.

Always the bottom with men...I have never had the desire to top a guy

I’m a bottom, but when I’ve grown an attachment to someone, I do find myself going vers. But I’m usually just bottom.

In practice, I became almost exclusively a bottom as I left my twenties. Part of that was having difficulty staying hard long enough to fuck, even if I wanted to. I could still flip fuck sometimes, working myself back to hardness while being fucked.

I've tried topping early on maybe 3 guys but its not for me Im a natural bottom always was and always will be I need that rock hard cock being driven into me

I started off topping cos I was used to women and so I figured it just made sense for me to top. Now I have a boyfriend. I exclusively bottom.

I’m a bottom because I’m submissive by nature and I love being dominated. But I also don’t stay hard long enough to top. It’s okay, you’re not alone fellow bottom buddy!

It’s rare for me to have the urge to top, i get aggressive and feral but can’t follow through.

i’m kinda an exclusive bottom. for the most part, i am. like, if i found out today that i’d have to bottom for the rest of my life, i would be totally happy with that. i also have the best sex and feel most like my true self with a total top.

on the other hand, the thought of topping doesn’t turn me off. when i jack off, i fantasize a lot about certain guys that i’ve topped before or guys who i want to top. i also have fantasy guys, cis or trans, that i totally make up in my mind who i jack off to while imagining that i’m fucking them.

problem is that 99 times out of 100, when i top someone it just doesn’t do anything for me. it’s that one out of a hundred that keeps my top hope alive.

Right here 👋

I absolutely love being a bottom. The first time I got fucked, I knew this was where I belonged

total bottom here

I only enjoy be a bottom from first Time have the curiosity of sex with guys

Im the same here, no interest in topping at all. I get far more pleasure from my ass than my cock ever gives me.

im all bottom. i havent been hard in years.

I'm a bottom, exclusively but I wish I could top because I think a lot of bottoms are fucking hot and I would love to smash.

I've never been able to top and likely never will. I have only ever wanted to bottom.

Total bottom, never topped and don't see that ever changing.

100% total bottom

Me

Total bottom. Never topped and can‘t even imagine it would actually work for me.

🤭✋🏻 present

Total submissive bottom my entire life. My sole purpose is to take cock and be a warm hole.

One here for now.

Yep, I'm exclusively a bottom, I topped my first boyfriend once when I was 18 (who I also lost my virginity to) and it just wasn't the same. Bending over or being on my knees taking a hard cock has always been my purpose.

99.5% bottom here, and own it. I get a lot of flack for being a total bottom, and we're all too familiar with the "no total bottoms" sentiments in profiles.

I topped more when I was younger, but had enough encounters with men who didn't know how to prep that it turned me off... That aside, I just don't love topping and it isn't my preference. I do it maybe once a year. Blessing and curse, I have a pretty nice uncut cock and get asked to top often, so even though it very occasionally happens, I just label myself as a total bottom to avoid any misguided expectations.

I am. I wasn't always, but I am now.

I only bottom. No interest in topping at all.

Always have, tried to top a few times but U just couldn't do it and my body rejects it. So at least I tried and confirmed for myself I'm definitely an exclusive bottom lol

I used to try topping for a while, considered me vers. Until I realized I was pretending to be what I wasn't, probably because of some internalized bottom shaming stigma. Since I accepted that, I've been exclusive bottom, and I feel much more confident and relaxed about my role now.

I'm 100% bottom. I have a small penis and currently I'm suffering from ED. So, I can't top now even if I wanted to, but I love bottoming anyway

I haven’t topped in years. No desire to. I LOVE getting fucked.

Yep, I’m a total bottom too. Submitting to another man and pleasing him with my holes is the only thing I want to do

Always a bottom from first time. i just went to my knees without being told. Bi here. I am most uncomfortable when a man or even a women wants to please me. I always prefer when they want me to please them.

Even before I was permanently locked in chastity, I was only interested in bottoming.

I’m… a selfish bottom? I’m a big dick bottom. We do all the normal foreplay back and forth, but I’m bottom and husband is top. I have topped in the past, but it was just… okay.

I say I’m a selfish bottom in that… bottoming makes me cum super fast. I’m rock hard the whole time and it makes me wanna cum SO bad…

So… we usually do lots of foreplay until we are both close to cumming. Actual penetration then doesn’t last very long, but it’s AMAZING. I get to cum the hardest cum ever from a dick pumping in me, and he gets to cum while I’m still nice and tight!

Plus I don’t need a day or more recovery from being abused for an hour so we have sex more often.

To add to this… I remember thinking,when I was first figuring out what gay sex was… thinking I was never going to do anal. It can’t possibly be pleasurable. It’s gonna mess you up. I’ll just stick with suckin dick… Now I’m a total bottom that loves nothing more than a nice dick making me cum… 😅

Guilty!

I derive no pleasure from my cock, only from yours 😍

Me. Never topped and never will. In my 30s now. Technically I’m a virgin?

Always bottom here….. have a feeling it’s rather hardwired in many respects.

My dick is an irrelevance.

💯Bottom

I'm like 95% bottom, but would happily be an exclusive bottom in a relationship

Yes all bottom and my butt always getting attention and I have the craving since I was young but bottomed the 1st time at 18 and fell in love with it!

Yes, I am severely averse to my dick being inside something and wet. I don't like the feeling at all. I also hate receiving blowjobs. Psychologically it feels wrong for me to be top. My dick doesn't stay hard long enough anyway so it wouldn't work very well. I once got a fleshlight many years ago and maybe used it twice, it just wasn't enjoyable for me.

This is definitely ME. I had a GF in HS and dated a few others and also topped a few men. I hated it. I tried so hard to find pleasure in it. Not for me. Once I learned how to bottom, I knew this was my sexual destiny. Totally with you!!

Yes always been bottom

I'm all bottom, only a bottom, nothing more than a bottom.

I started my sex life having straight sex, but never really enjoyed it. Then after my fist time with a man, I understood why...

I tried topping once (kinda happened) and didn't like it at all - it didn't feel right, like it wasn't my place.

I'm a bottom not just because I like it but because I feel that's my role, that's what I'm supposed to be. I don't care about my dick because I get my pleasure from giving pleasure.

So yeah, I'm exclusively bottom. And proud of it.

Probably 80 or 90% bottom. Not against the idea of ploughing some poor sap now and then, but it needs to be their idea and I need to be in the mood. Hasn't happened in years now.

I’m purely a bottom. I tried to top once and I couldn’t get hard. Was kinda turned off at the thought of penetrating a man. I get it…I’m crazy

Total bottom, made for it, born to it, trained in it. I topped maybe four times total when I first started, because I was asked to, but it very quickly became clear to me that I just didn’t get what that was all about, and now I’m convinced that I simply lack whatever it is that makes a man a Top - any of it. I have no Top brain in me whatsoever. It’s not that I just don’t want to, I have no way of getting into the Top headspace. Not that it doesn’t fascinate me - it does, and I study Tops intently to try to understand them and why I have such a need to serve them. But my role is to take them, not be them.

My first time to ever have M/M sex was with two black friends who happen to be a couple. I know it sounds like a story straight out of Pornhub, but it really did happen and has happened a couple of times since then. My point is, I have no desire to top. I have never orgasmed so hard as I did when these two guys took turns on me. Also, the thought process that BBC is better, does have validity to it!! They both can go forever without cumming which makes me cum multiple times

I'm exclusively bottom. I used to top and I didn't like it when a guy assumed he was going to fuck me. Nowadays, I prefer when a guy is deep inside me. I no longer want to top and haven't for years.

me. I know my role in the bedroom and don't ever want to change it

I'm exclusively a bottom. I've tried topping. It wasn't my thing.

Full time bottom and proud of it

Actually, I'm a total top! Always have been and always will be.

😁😁😁😁

Another bottom here, 40+yrs. Tho l do love to play with other bottoms, playing with their tight holes with my fingers, toys and tounge, whilst blowing them, brings me pleasure. I am even a little dominant with other bottoms.

Total bottom here, but mainly anal. I don't want to spend hours performing oral on someone. I don't mind sucking someone to get them hard, or them finishing in my mouth.

Sub bottom

I’ve topped a couple of times but don’t find it enjoyable. I’m happy to be married to a pure top that knows my love of bottoming!

I love being a bottom 💕. Just feels so good even when I have to tap out for being too thick or long

Always and forever a bottom slut.

Not by choice but don’t mind it either.

Just be you and enjoy that dick. No need to question if you need to be someone/something else.

Yup, sounds like me😆

Not me but I dated someone like that, he didn't even want me to touch his cock, he just wanted to worship cock and be taken care of, the best fuck buddy I've hsd

Absolutely, have no interest in topping.

Bottom only here. I like to give and my dick likes to behave like a clit around other dicks.

I'm a bottom, but at home I masturbate while watching porn with a dildo in my ass. I don't consider my dick an ornament like others; it gives me pleasure both when I cum hands-free while he's fucking me and when I just masturbate.

Me

Totally verse, the best is switching within a session :)

Total bottom here.

Been with women, prefer men, naturally a bottom, have topped a couple guys before per their request but will never top again. No interest in it. I don't even want a guy sucking my dick. I get there are some tops who like to suck too, but to me, that's not my sexual organ and is just a distraction to what i was born to do, pleasing men with my ass.

With men I am a total bottom, don’t want to top at all, with women I am a total top

With men, I’m only a bottom.

Yes bottoming is what makes me want men, otherwise idk

99.99999% bottom

Have topped, just not as much for me and I don’t feel an urge to top men I’m with.

Strictly bottom with men.

I’ve always been a bottom, no desire to top, 100% caged bottom.

I’m one of “those” guys. You know the guy that is DL and his wife has no idea that I love pleasing a man and having him load me and and me home to her w his load

I am

If I want to top I’d rather it be with a woman

Total submissive bottom never top nor want to i never want to be in the dominant position dont even want my cock sucked which I have lost some hook ups on but don't care. I like gay bulls who just want a hole to use be it my mouth or ass my body is for their pleasure it is my goal to make my hookup and their cock have a great time with and leave happily satisfied also the more the merrier.

Same here, no interest to top a man

I’m a bi bottom, I’d never top, I have no interest too, whether topping or having a guy go down on me.

Sorry to break it to you, but exclusive bottoms are no longer rare… Porn has created archetypes that have eviscerated spontaneous versatility

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I'm a total bottom sub sissy

I would love to see a poll on this for older guys. I might know one or two people that used to be “exclusive” bottoms that, as they got older, stayed that way. The vast majority seem to not stay bottoms for whatever reason.

Certainly this could just be selection bias/anecdotal, which is why a poll could be useful.

That’s one of the very few checkmarks in the “good” category for never having had a legit relationship. I’ve always been a top and that’s never changed.

The idea of falling in love with a bottom, marrying him, and then have him decide he’s a top a few years down the line is nightmare fuel.

I enjoy both, but I’d choose bottoming 90% of the time

Me

Too many. I'm guilty too. It seems every time I find a sexy guy to hook up with, he's an exclusive bottom like me. I want to get upset, but then I'm a hypocrite

Haven't topped in probably 25 years.

This sissy slave only bottoms.

M64. I'm a total bottom. I topped a few times when I was young. I've become very submissive as I got older. I'm to the point of considering chastity so it's not even considered.

100%, I’ve felt the feeling for both and bottom wins by miles. I’ve never had the urge to top again

I’m bisexual and I have no desire to top men. Men’s assholes aren’t appealing to me for some reason. I have topped a trans woman before and a guy at the gloryhole, and I enjoyed those experiences, so my attitude may change. But I need to be in the right headspace, and I give most of that energy to my lady. When I’m with men I just really love sucking cock and getting fucked.

I've never topped and don't plan on topping anytime soon.

I have found myself interested in younger, more feminine guys as of late, so maybe I might top in the future with the right partner...maybe after I have too much grey in my beard to pick up the good looking tops.

I have only ever topped so far but I seriously want to let someone in my virgin hole to introduce me to bottoming possibly permanently.

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I’ve topped doms that want me to do it, and that’s basically the only way I will.

IM GOOD FOR EITHER ONE. SEX IS GREAT WHEN ITS SEX WITHOUT ALL THESE CONSTRAINTS. IF IM WITH A TOTAL BOTTOM, ILL TOP. IF IM WITH A TOTAL TOP, ILL BOTTOM. IF IM WITH SOMEONE WHO JUST ENJOYS SEX....IM AN OCTOPUS!!!

I don't find men's arses attractive in any way. Certainly not enough to take on the job of being a top!

Women's are a different matter.

Bottoming just feels right though. Especially given my trans status.

I definitely with things were different though because shenis is in very high demand lol

I was a top, but not a very good one.

Now that I am transitioning, I plan to be a total bottom. It's becoming impossible for me to top, which I don't mind.

I topped for my first few sexual experiences. It was overall fine, but so boring. Bottoming felt so much better and right. Now, I wish I had never topped so that I could say I’ve never used my dick for its intended purpose. At least I never will again. Love being a total bottom.

I’m bi and married to a woman. We have an open marriage. I have no desire to top another guy. I have topped the guy I’ve been seeing regularly these past couple of years once but it was more for him than for me. I just don’t have any real desire to top another guy. That said, I’ve got a friend who is pre-op MtF trans and I’ve fucked her a couple of times without any issues but I honestly don’t see her as a guy despite the fact that she has a penis.

Unfortunately I've compromised my whole..id rather pass ..I dont see me that way and either would anybody else'

. and im not top material .. plus.. I successfully shrunk my useless dick ..no growing back now