I don’t know where I fall in at?
I think I am straight but if I am straight why am I thinking about this?
Am I still straight that I am having thoughts to know what it is like to experiment with another guy all the sudden?
I have a question I am a straight male 37 years old and have been straight my whole life. I have never done anything sexually with a guy before. Here recently like maybe about 1 week I would say I have been thinking about what it would be like to sexually experiment with another guy. I am not sure why this is happening all the sudden so later in life, is that possible it could happen?
My other questions are?
Why could this happen so late in life and later on when I know I am straight?
What does it feel like, and what is it like to have another guys cock in your mouth sucking and licking?
If someone decides to go all the way a guy and has sex and has the other guy insert his penis in the guys anus, what would it feel like to have a penis inside you and to have that guy cum inside you?
What is it like kissing and touching another guy and holding someone else’s penis?
I am not sure why all the sudden I have been thinking about this, I have never done anything with a guy before or thought about this until recently, it’s all very confusing.
I don’t know if I am in the right chat to ask about this but any advice is appreciated, just don’t want anyone to be mean, just looking for friendly advice to the questions that I am asking.
I never feel it's about gay or straight. You are a sexual person. You should feel free to explore. I once had a friend who said he was VERY bi. Loves sex with men but didn't see himself ever being in a relationship and falling in love with a man. Discreet guy you could have over for a family BBQ and no one knows he's cock crazy...
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I am a man who is very specifically only interested in women as far as romantic relationships go. However, I also love sucking cock and absolutely want to bottom for a guy. Personally, I consider myself bi, but I call myself straight because that's what people will generally see / experience from me if that makes sense. If I tell them I'm bi, many are likely to assume I'd date a guy, which isn't accurate. That said, I really don't cling nor care about the label, ya know?
I started feeling this way in my late teens, didn't start exploring till early 20s, and its still a slow going process now in my late 20s. That's just life, don't sweat about the "why??" And "what does this mean?"
If it's something you're curious about, chat with folks (much like you're doing here) and maybe go read up stuff about sexuality. Those are things I did that helped me a great deal. In time, if you feel up to it, try to get out there and explore! Worst that could possibly happen is you try it and learn that it's not for you. But, whatever you do, make sure you do it at your pace. Be safe, and have fun, man!
Great response. We all have had our own experience. Thanks for sharing
Well stated! I am the same exact way!
Exactly!
A degree of curiosity about other kinds of sex is normal and common. I'm totally gay, but of course I'm curious how a pussy feels to fuck.
Don't overthink this. If you aren't in an exclusive relationship and want to find out, there are ways of finding a man to explore with. Most of us look online on one of the apps. They mostly have free versions with ads and a lot of limits, but that may be OK for your level of interest. You could also go to a gay bar and socialize with the men. That may lead to nothing, but who knows?
Wherever you look, make it absolutely clear that you have no experience, and also that condoms are a requirement for anal sex. Oral sex is safe for HIV, but you can still catch syphilis, gonorrhea, or Chlamydia. Nobody worries enough about them to use condoms when sucking dick as the risks are not that high. If you decide to pursue gay sex you'll need to get on PrEP and do some more things, but for now you'll be relatively safe. Ideally, for any kind of sex, you should get the HPV vaccine and the MPox vaccine.
As for how things feel, they're almost impossible to describe. You just have to do them, and enough times you develop some skill. The first time will always be awkward.