I’m 5’4” and don’t bottom. It honestly gets discouraging sometimes, since I don’t bottom and I feel most guys won’t be interested in meeting/hooking up simply because of that. Of course, if I was taller it wouldn’t be an issue. Are there any (actually) short men here that are complete tops with happy sex lives?
I can tell you as a tall man I love short men. Most of us do. I'm any position. When a short top is confident it's a fun power shift.
Agreed! Tall bottom here
The best 🥵🥵
Any position but your flair says you’re a top 🤔
In any position* meaning tall tops and bottoms love short guys.
Short dudes insecure about everything with big “little man syndrome” will pretty much never have fulfilling anything as long as they let that define who they are.
Short kings with confidence is where it’s at. I’m kinda a “giant” bottom so I definitely understand the reverse, but now I just own it and understand that some people are just shallow (unlike my butt 🙃) and they just missing out.
If anything I love that it acts as a sorta filter for shitty people.
Giant, you say? 😋🤤
Haha, I was definitely being dramatic, I’m only 6’-2”, settle down 😜
5'7½ and I'm lying about the half (iykyk)and my bottom hubby is 6'2. I love me a tall bottom.
That's a giant to me, I'm 5'4" 😋.😁
But I'll settle down haha
Haha, I see that, I’m also asexual tho, so yea, still settle down, lol
I love a short top 🥵 There’s something so hot about a guy who’s such a natural top that all societal expectations about which position they “ought” to be on the basis of their height don’t matter.
5’5 here and a natural Top
Height should only be a factor in determining who leads when dancing
Why even then?
I don’t know, just caught it on a Star Trek episode and it sounded good 😆
I LOVE a shorter top. Im 5'10". Most of my tops were shorter and stockier. I liked it.
I’m not a strict top sorry-
But i have had success. I’m 5’7, bf is 5’11, he loves my topping skills. I’ve also had hookups with other guys around or above my height where it wasn’t an issue as a top, and i have bottomed for men shorter than me.
Not really sure if I qualify as tall or short these days (about 5'10/5'11) but as someone who is almost exclusively a top, I've gotta say short cute guys make me wanna spread my legs like nobody's business.
I’m a 6’2 bottom and definitely into short tops, especially if they have a dom streak
My ex is a 5’4 top and I am a 6 feet bottom. We’ve had some of the best sex. I also had another guy who was about that height and he was so attentive and would always make sure I was satisfied getting fucked.
I'm a tall (6'5") bottom who gets plowed less than I would like because people assume I'm a top. But I can tell you everyone I've been with has been shorter than me and they have very happy sex lives while we were dating.
Simply put, it is indeed frustrating when people make assumptions based on physical appearance only (no one ever thinks I'm a bottom 😥), but don't despair.
I'm as tall as you and I wouldn't mind your height at all. I can see height becoming an issue for you though, as most guys that hit on me are top. If you want we can chat :)
Yes. I'm one. I'm the same height as you.
I allocated too many of my stats below the belt.
Listen, when I'm on my back with the knees to my ears or on all four my butt up, you'll definitely tower me.
I always like to counter stereotype things.
Older bottom/submissive with younger top/Dom. Tall or bigger bottom with shorter or leaner top. I like the idea peoples would be so wrong of what they think of the dunamicould be and what it is really behind closed door 😉
My boyfriend sure does
I won't lie I do find taller guys hotter but it's not a requirement and I'm willing to give short tops a chance if they are confident and we have a connection
My bf is shorter than me. I am 6.1 and he is 5.6 and we are happy.
I’m 5-10 and I love short tops…….and wish there were more of them. I love the look of a cock on a smaller guy and to answer your question I can think of at least one short guy who should be enjoying his sex life because he fucks me a couple times a month with his rock hard cock.
I'm a 5'3 white verse guy and I'm very popular as a top
Short king total tops are my kryptonite
I'm 6'8 and my partner's 5'10, and I'd like to think I keep him happy! I guess 5'10 doesn't actually count as short, but everyone looks short next to me, haha. Honestly wouldn't bother me one bit if he was your height.
You don’t need to worry about that, being physically tall as a man is a trait much more important in straight dating spaces. What seems to matter more to gay men is being in shape and having a well-rounded aesthetic overall (it helps to try to conform to the „tribe“ (= body stereotype) you identify with, but it’s not strictly necessary). Being shorter is actually an advantage there, because you need to build and maintain far less muscle to look jacked.
Many gay men do tend to fetishise penis size though which is just as reductive, but there are also plenty of bottoms who will prefer less-endowed tops to make sex easier.
I'm short and I've devoured tall bottoms. They love being ridden.