I stupidly blocked this guy before screenshotting but below is the transcript. For context, I’m a trans man and just say I’m trans on my profile.

Him: Heyy there. Just want you to know that you’ll never pass as a woman Me: thank you Him: ??? Him: I thought all you trannies wanted to pass??? Him: why aren’t you answering??? Me: why would that be your intro to anyone you want to talk to? Him: I just wanted to put you in your place Him: now that I have, will you fuck me?

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  • Wtf is wrong with people ._.

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    Tbh, Grindr is a bit of a cesspool. But in general, I’ve surprisingly found Grindr to be the least transphobic overall out if all the apps I’ve tried

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    Yikes. Ive had the opposite. Little success on grindr when I was still using it, and most of it was either creepy or mean. Bumble and HER I have emaculate success and virtually 0 issues except once in a blue moon

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    Interesting. I’ve heard great things about HER but I’m a bi but mostly gay (trans) man so it’s not really the space for me. I should probably give bumble another try though.

    As for which apps are best, I think it really depends on your location and what gender you’re presenting as. Grindr is mostly a space for queer men and some trans chasers so I can definitely see it being not the best place for trans femmes. Regardless, stay safe out there!

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    I see plenty of trans men on HER and they all seem super chill. It's a great option if you want to avoid cis men.

    parent root

    Oooh thanks that’s interesting. Maybe I’ll check it out. Thank you!

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    Sometimes people on that app treated me as man lite, so if you’re a binary straight guy it’s prolly not the best place.

    It’s clear to me that a lot of the women on there want a more queer relationship, so that just made me feel like they didn’t see me as a guy. “lesbians” on the app hitting me up.

    I wish there was a safe place for all kinds of trans ppl that isn’t just a chaser app (looking at you, Taimi).

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    I've met transphobic bisexual people on Grindr. Was a weird experience

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  • Average Grindr interaction

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  • “You’re a freak, also can we bang?”

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    Monster fuckers be like

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    No lies were told here

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  • I'm a queer trans man on grindr too and I've had this interaction. I have pic that shows my clothed body that highlights I still have boobs. Cue the dudes who message just to say they aren't attracted to women and how I'll never be a woman. The transphobia and misogyny is insane in cis gay spaces.

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  • What a fucking idiot 😂😂

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  • the fucking audacity to insult you, call you a slur, then ask why you arent answering, THEN ask if you still wanted to fuck. my god.

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  • Lmao wtf, this feels unreal lol, anyways dont mind people like that, they arent gonna get lucky anyways

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  • I just wanted to put you in your place now that I have, will you fuck me?

    Has this line ever worked on anyone? Ever?

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    Probably in the BDSM community

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  • I feel like I took psychic damage

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  • Would love to see the screenshots of this convo

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  • Had a conversation with a guy and when I told him I couldn't host he got mad and said "Trump says there's only 2 genders" and blocked me lol

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