For context: I went to talk to a psychologist who recommended that I went no contact with her for good for personal reasons and when me and my father told her in the evening she started saying that I want her out of the house because I’m jealous of her and like that if she leaves I can have my dad as my life partner and that I’m in love with him in an incestual way I feel so disgusted I don’t even know why she said that it’s not even the first time she says that but it makes me want to throw up. She even went as far as saying that I was psychotic and hallucinating her abusing me when my brother witnessed it??
(Btw what she means by the fact that I can’t tolerate them being in a room without me is because she talks about my recovery behind my back without letting me know what’s going on not some weird incest shit)
It sounds like your mother has pathological trust issues, among other things. As in they are so sensitive and suspicious she suspects that her husband would cheat on her with you. So sorry you have that kind of mother. Though I wonder if she has accused your father of cheating with others before
That's the part I'm lost on. I had to double check the sub because this read like am I the angel. Unless she did something that had cps involved or similar levels of abuse, why would she be kicked out? What kinda therapist would tell a kid to somehow kick out their parent? Like, short of "you need to get out of that house and go no-contact" that doesn't make sense.
Yes she is abusive and neglectful has told me to kill myself all that stuff but my dad is enabling it by wanting to keep the peace and he’s abusive himself
How old are you? A psychologist suggested you team up with your abusive, cheating dad to kick her out of their house? I'm really sorry you are experiencing this but your p.o.s. father shouldn't really have a say on your mom's mental health when he is undoubtedly causing a lot of it.
Definitely get away from your mom, but your dad is clearly a manipulative prick too. It took his child's psychologist to suggest them forcing boundaries, before he did anything, and even then, you were holding his hand while you did all the work. Instead of addressing his wife and child's mental health, he buried his head in pussy. He doesn't care about either of you. He has let you deal with this on your own until someone gave him the permission to just kick her out...then let you do it.
That is not a man. That is a sad fucking excuse of a human. I sincerely hope you get the help you need to get out of that situation.
For your own sanity please listen to your psychologist , she’s a 3rd party that can’t take sides , so if she’s telling you to cut your mother off then you should !! Just from what you wrote it seems like your mom has some serious issues and you do not need her issues to become your issues!!!!
Now i am curious, whats the context?
For context: I went to talk to a psychologist who recommended that I went no contact with her for good for personal reasons and when me and my father told her in the evening she started saying that I want her out of the house because I’m jealous of her and like that if she leaves I can have my dad as my life partner and that I’m in love with him in an incestual way I feel so disgusted I don’t even know why she said that it’s not even the first time she says that but it makes me want to throw up. She even went as far as saying that I was psychotic and hallucinating her abusing me when my brother witnessed it??
(Btw what she means by the fact that I can’t tolerate them being in a room without me is because she talks about my recovery behind my back without letting me know what’s going on not some weird incest shit)
That is really fucked up. She sounds like she has some serious issues.
It sounds like your mother has pathological trust issues, among other things. As in they are so sensitive and suspicious she suspects that her husband would cheat on her with you. So sorry you have that kind of mother. Though I wonder if she has accused your father of cheating with others before
My dad is cheating with like 5 different women rn so I can’t even blame her he also tells me all about it 💀💀
I mean... it kinda sounds like you need to have some time away from both of them.
But you live with your parents, right? And you were told to go no contact with your mom? So kick her out of the house?
That’s what I told my dad but he keeps delaying it saying “next time she brings negativity I will”
That's the part I'm lost on. I had to double check the sub because this read like am I the angel. Unless she did something that had cps involved or similar levels of abuse, why would she be kicked out? What kinda therapist would tell a kid to somehow kick out their parent? Like, short of "you need to get out of that house and go no-contact" that doesn't make sense.
Yes she is abusive and neglectful has told me to kill myself all that stuff but my dad is enabling it by wanting to keep the peace and he’s abusive himself
How old are you? A psychologist suggested you team up with your abusive, cheating dad to kick her out of their house? I'm really sorry you are experiencing this but your p.o.s. father shouldn't really have a say on your mom's mental health when he is undoubtedly causing a lot of it.
Definitely get away from your mom, but your dad is clearly a manipulative prick too. It took his child's psychologist to suggest them forcing boundaries, before he did anything, and even then, you were holding his hand while you did all the work. Instead of addressing his wife and child's mental health, he buried his head in pussy. He doesn't care about either of you. He has let you deal with this on your own until someone gave him the permission to just kick her out...then let you do it.
That is not a man. That is a sad fucking excuse of a human. I sincerely hope you get the help you need to get out of that situation.
He still technically didn’t do anything since she lives with us again and it’ll be the “next time she does smth”
Whoa. That’s pretty much peak, time to move out and find a whole new family (I’m serious)
I know I’m aware 💔💔
So these are texts to your father from your mother, as sent to you by your father?
Yes
Can I ask what your father said when he sent you this screenshot?
Basically like “look what you’re mother said” because he was letting me know how the conversation went
For your own sanity please listen to your psychologist , she’s a 3rd party that can’t take sides , so if she’s telling you to cut your mother off then you should !! Just from what you wrote it seems like your mom has some serious issues and you do not need her issues to become your issues!!!!
Lol there are no response this did literally just kept making message after message.. yall will fall for anything
Well I can’t exactly decide what my dad sends me 😭
Lol they are text he made him self lol yall will believe anything
I wish ts shit was fake bruh who would want this as a mother 😭😭