My buisness partner and best friend lives an open relationship, she always talked about how great it was and she really did seem happy to me. Over the years she would try to convince me to join but my husband always said no. I eventually decided I needed to atleast try. It started off with only oral sex stuff. That lasted a few months and I enjoyed it but wanted more. I eventually started having full on sex. I felt amazing and better than I had in years. My husbands and I marriage was basically over at the start of this but it’s actually gotten better now as I’ve been getting more attention and feeing good about myself. I’ve never told him and he has no idea. I don’t really plan on telling him either. For now it’s just my little secret.