Yeah, I’m starting to think moving in was a huge mistake… He regularly informs me I am required to ration my food and will ask inappropriate questions regarding my body. He is fully aware of my ED.
Girls can be mean but the fact that this is a whole ass man makes this disgusting.
I promise I'm not one of those people on Reddit telling everyone to leave their partners and go NC with their parents, but if this was serious you really need to move. Immediately.
This post is quite serious. When I asked for clarification, he meant what he said. This man was supposed to be my friend. I’ve known him for over 12 years and genuinely thought I was safe and could trust him.
It’s a complicated situation and I’m working on finding a solution. I worry…
No, honestly. Learning to stick up for yourself and standing on business--even over what may seem "trivial" things sometimes-- adds up. Makes you feel more confident. This roommate sounds insecure af.
I have on numerous occasions. I stand up for myself and set boundaries, but upon reflection I have determined that this is a dynamic in which I will never be viewed as an equal. It is not a relationship worth saving. I suppose it took so long to realize as my last relationship was abusive.
This makes me so unbelievably angry. Imagine having the gall to be this much of an inconsiderate ass. And at the most wonderful time of the year no less! Despicable. Merry Christmas OP I'm so sorry you have to deal with this crap. I hope your roommate gets steamrolled.
You’re deserving of fueling yourself to thrive! Screw your roommate and listen to your inner child and what they would do instead :,)
I deeply understand how challenging holidays may be, and even then, I am sending many positive vibes in hopes that you feel at peace 🖤✨
Tell your roommate that he can mind his own business. You're an adult and can eat however much you want and need. Whether that be veggies, grilled chicken, chips, or even a pint of ice cream (etc, etc). It doesn't matter... it's your life. I'm sorry he made you feel so awful around the holidays, and I hope everything turns out the best for you!❤️💚
eat her next
I snorted upon reading your comment. Lol, thank you for the giggle. 🖤
what did you have to eat today?
I ate 1/4 cup of mashed potato, 1/2 block of firm tofu, 1/2 cup mixed frozen vegetables, 1 cup of cabbage with 1 tbsp of lemon ginger dressing.
your roommate is an asshole!!!!
Yeah, I’m starting to think moving in was a huge mistake… He regularly informs me I am required to ration my food and will ask inappropriate questions regarding my body. He is fully aware of my ED.
Feels good… 🥲😭
Girls can be mean but the fact that this is a whole ass man makes this disgusting.
I promise I'm not one of those people on Reddit telling everyone to leave their partners and go NC with their parents, but if this was serious you really need to move. Immediately.
This post is quite serious. When I asked for clarification, he meant what he said. This man was supposed to be my friend. I’ve known him for over 12 years and genuinely thought I was safe and could trust him.
It’s a complicated situation and I’m working on finding a solution. I worry…
Tell him to mind his own goddamn business
No, honestly. Learning to stick up for yourself and standing on business--even over what may seem "trivial" things sometimes-- adds up. Makes you feel more confident. This roommate sounds insecure af.
I have on numerous occasions. I stand up for myself and set boundaries, but upon reflection I have determined that this is a dynamic in which I will never be viewed as an equal. It is not a relationship worth saving. I suppose it took so long to realize as my last relationship was abusive.
I’m done with this shit.
Hell yea
Your roommate is sick in the head. Dangerous person
This makes me so unbelievably angry. Imagine having the gall to be this much of an inconsiderate ass. And at the most wonderful time of the year no less! Despicable. Merry Christmas OP I'm so sorry you have to deal with this crap. I hope your roommate gets steamrolled.
Thank you. I appreciate your kindness and empathy. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas. 🥲🖤
You’re deserving of fueling yourself to thrive! Screw your roommate and listen to your inner child and what they would do instead :,) I deeply understand how challenging holidays may be, and even then, I am sending many positive vibes in hopes that you feel at peace 🖤✨
You’re lovely and your comment is providing ample encouragement. Thank you, your empathy and compassion made a difference. 🖤
Tell your roommate that he can mind his own business. You're an adult and can eat however much you want and need. Whether that be veggies, grilled chicken, chips, or even a pint of ice cream (etc, etc). It doesn't matter... it's your life. I'm sorry he made you feel so awful around the holidays, and I hope everything turns out the best for you!❤️💚
You’re so right. This man needs to kick rocks honestly.
Thank you. I really appreciate your support. I hope you had a merry Christmas! :)
Sry
No apologies required. I appreciate you listening and taking the time to respond. Thank you. 🥲
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Thank you everyone for the unwavering support. I am so moved by y’all. 🥲
I am going to stay with another friend for the interim period. I’m so grateful. The holiday may have been rough but it was eye opening.
I will not tolerate less than I deserve any longer and I deserve basic kindness, especially from a friend.
Merry Christmas, you filthy animals. 🖤🖤🖤