Hey y'all! IT'S CHARITY TIME! You have spent all your money on Black Friday by now, so here we are asking for more money! Have you heard of Thankmas? Well, this year it's going to be a bit different and Youtuber Million needs your help!
He is dedicating it to the people in Jamaica that got hit by hurricane Melissa.
You can donate here
I think being poor only exasperates this feeling, one thing I notice with the wealthy people I know in this world, is that they seem to have a belief that they can do almost anything. Nothing seems too far out of reach for them. I think it's built into the system on purpose. It keeps the haves up and moving, and the have-nots down in the dirt.
Shittttt! You and most of the world! most of us are winging it wayyyyy more than we admit. Feeling lost is pretty normal when life is uncertain, because our brains are wired to crave control and predictability, so not having a clear plan can trigger a lot of anxiety and overthinking. (Yay!) we all have a different tolerance for uncertainty… you need to get cool with not knowing what comes next and most people struggle with it, especially when they’re comparing themselves to others who look like they have it all figured out. They don’t either.
So having no idea what you’re doing with your life isn’t some personal failure, it’s kind of a very human response to a messy, unpredictable world. Taking small steps and focusing on what you can control is actually one of the main things therapists will recommend as well.
Perfectly stated. I would add that as long as you have a firm grasp on a sliver of hope
AND a great sense of humor,
you're good to go. These are requirements!
Well said! I'm.definitely winging it, but what I do know is I'm having a ton of fun experiences going out dancing, connecting with people, biking on trails/exploring nature around me, generally having a fun time and that's whats truly important to me, making enough money to survive is just a side gig that gotta be done to maintain a body!
You should learn about your Natal chart, and how to read it so you can get an all round guided map of YOU. It can clear so many things up, help you understand yourself better. It's worth a shot 💖 best of luck!
I like to think I have an idea of what I really want to do with my life...then when I try putting it to action, the world crumbles a little more, I lose hope, try again...eventually something more purposeful is given to me, I slack, get into some trouble, and then get really depressed because I can't commit to much.
I’ve had that exact thought loop more times than I can count. I felt less panicky once I stopped demanding a big answer and just focused on the next small move.
Trying lying with your head at the other end of the couch. Then start making other micro changes like this and see what happens. Also, start investing if you haven’t.
Hey y'all! IT'S CHARITY TIME! You have spent all your money on Black Friday by now, so here we are asking for more money! Have you heard of Thankmas? Well, this year it's going to be a bit different and Youtuber Million needs your help!
He is dedicating it to the people in Jamaica that got hit by hurricane Melissa. You can donate here
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None of us do my friend. You aren’t alone.
I know what I am doing. Reading this post and writing this reply. He is now reading it. Let's just start there.
Me too. It’s such a horrible feeling especially when you’re poor
I think being poor only exasperates this feeling, one thing I notice with the wealthy people I know in this world, is that they seem to have a belief that they can do almost anything. Nothing seems too far out of reach for them. I think it's built into the system on purpose. It keeps the haves up and moving, and the have-nots down in the dirt.
Shittttt! You and most of the world! most of us are winging it wayyyyy more than we admit. Feeling lost is pretty normal when life is uncertain, because our brains are wired to crave control and predictability, so not having a clear plan can trigger a lot of anxiety and overthinking. (Yay!) we all have a different tolerance for uncertainty… you need to get cool with not knowing what comes next and most people struggle with it, especially when they’re comparing themselves to others who look like they have it all figured out. They don’t either. So having no idea what you’re doing with your life isn’t some personal failure, it’s kind of a very human response to a messy, unpredictable world. Taking small steps and focusing on what you can control is actually one of the main things therapists will recommend as well.
Perfectly stated. I would add that as long as you have a firm grasp on a sliver of hope AND a great sense of humor, you're good to go. These are requirements!
Well said! I'm.definitely winging it, but what I do know is I'm having a ton of fun experiences going out dancing, connecting with people, biking on trails/exploring nature around me, generally having a fun time and that's whats truly important to me, making enough money to survive is just a side gig that gotta be done to maintain a body!
Nobody does but we keep going
Welcome!!!
I don't know your age, but I can relate to when I were younger, I didn't know myself or what I wanted.
My only little piece of advice is to think about why we react the way we do.
Because when we reflect, it opens many closed doors.
No one does. No one older than you or younger or next or behind or in front of.
All of us know nothing.
I’m 23 with 2 kids, no idea what I want to study 😂
Me neither.
Same here 🤷🏻♂️ good luck to us all 👍
Sometimes i think what i am missing haha dont know
Me neither pal, you’re not alone, good luck
You are not alone
Apparently fetus deletusing
You should learn about your Natal chart, and how to read it so you can get an all round guided map of YOU. It can clear so many things up, help you understand yourself better. It's worth a shot 💖 best of luck!
Same bro. But we have to survive everyday.
I like to think I have an idea of what I really want to do with my life...then when I try putting it to action, the world crumbles a little more, I lose hope, try again...eventually something more purposeful is given to me, I slack, get into some trouble, and then get really depressed because I can't commit to much.
No one does, we make it up as we go along
I’ve had that exact thought loop more times than I can count. I felt less panicky once I stopped demanding a big answer and just focused on the next small move.
Trying lying with your head at the other end of the couch. Then start making other micro changes like this and see what happens. Also, start investing if you haven’t.
Be ready for winter...
There is food, there is movie, cozy weather, there is celebration...
Happy Holiday ...