I am having a hard day. I have been getting the cold shoulder from my partner, who doesn't want to talk (I tried). It's Christmas tomorrow. I don't have family and always feel a bit lonely during the holidays. It's been getting better over time, but it's still something I am working through.

Just looking for some positive words or stories to help lift my spirits.

Edit: Thank you all for the kind words so far. They have brought good tears and encouragement. Thank you, kind person, for the award. That is so sweet and is my first award.

Edit 2: Happy tears in my coffee reading all of your replies this morning. I am so grateful for this, thank you

  • parent

    Oh, I love this. Thank you

    parent root

  • Keep going and you got this. Wishing you a very happy holiday and know that even though you don’t have family, you have us in r/Positivity :-)

    parent

    Thank you 🙏🏼

    parent root

    You are so welcome 💕I hope that the holidays turned out better than expected and that all is well with you :-)

    parent root

  • I’m sorry it’s a rough time OP. I’m proud of you for working through your feelings - it’s not easy and the fact it’s getting better means you are doing things right.

    parent

    Thank you 🙏🏼

    parent root

  • I came to sob on your shoulder! lol. I'm having a hard day myself. Totally isolated no SO, but my creative endeavors keep me company. I hope we both find some sunshine on that fine day, Christmas. Om Shanti bro.

    parent

    <3 I think indulging in some creativity is a great idea. Thank you for that.

    parent root

  • Cold shoulders are hurtful, and I’m sorry, friend. Keep your head up and smile.

    My therapist introduced me to the poem “Guest House” by Rumí. It has helped me a lot, and I hope it helps you, too!!

    This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival.

    A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.

    Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight.

    The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.

    Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.

    parent

    There is so much wisdom in this. Thank you for sharing

    parent root

    Sending you hope and love today. 🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻

    parent root

  • If you push yourself a little bit every day to make positive changes - just a little - where you are and even who you are will be different next year.

    Your past doesn't have to be your future.

    parent

    You're right. Small changes are big changes. They contribute to change. I needed this reminder

    parent root

  • Last Christmas I was married to someone who made me feel unvalued, unseen and uncared for. I was miserable. This Christmas I’m divorced, alone and really happy. What a difference a year makes.

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  • Take a walk look at everything and name it. Name 5 things you are grateful for. Tomorrow will be better, hang in there.

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  • You have this don't give up on them merry Christmas I know the feeling way to well 

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  • Let yourself feel whatever you need to today! And remember very few things are all or nothing - it might be a hard day but you can enjoy your own company too. Look for some small happy moments. Do something to interact today. Maybe it is just getting out for a walk or getting yourself a coffee. You got this.

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  • Sending you a hug. Understand and wish you love. 💕

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  • Merry Christmas! I don’t know you but I am 100% certain you’ll get through this tough time. Maybe you will even see a silver lining in it or maybe you will laugh at it. I just watched “It’s A Wonderful Life” for the first time in years (decades!) and it made me feel very hopeful about life and the meaning of Christmas. It’s verrrry “white” so if it’s not your cup of tea, just try to imagine rewriting it for your own community. The message will still stand I think. Chin up buttercup.

    parent

    Thank you for the encouragement. I may just watch that today. In my 36 years of living, I have never seen it

    parent root

  • Merry Christmas 🎄. 

    parent

  • Hello lovely. Such a challenge when those we love don’t want to participate. We are all connected and we all have the same wish really; to love and be loved.

    Today is a day where people give themselves permission to express kindness, joy and love freely in celebration. Now I celebrate with you here, in this message. I send you oodles of big burly warm hugs and smiles from ear to ear. Merry Christmas OP, you are awesome and so important in this tapestry of life!

    If you need another boost try taking a walk and saying ‘hello, happy holidays/merry Christmas/God bless you’ to those you pass by. You will brighten other people’s day in addition to feeding the light in your soul. ❤️‍🔥

    parent

    Aw, thank you so much. A walk is a great idea

    parent root

  • Wishing you a healthy and prosperous new year!

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  • Merry Christmas!! Wish you all the best

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  • This year has been rough for me as well, so while I’m not in the same boat, we are definitely paddling the same river. I hope the new year is better to you - sending hugs and holiday spirit ✨

    parent

    Sending hugs and good energy to you too

    parent root

  • I hope it's not to late but merry Christmas friend. May you have a better next year. May all you're dreams and wishes come true. Just know there's people out here rooting for your happiness and sending positive vibes.

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  • You deserve some warm cookies, a blanket, and something comforting to watch / listen to. I hope you like cookies, otherwise you deserve some warm insert_here haha.

    parent

    I had a good walk and was cozy on the couch drawing most of the day. I don't currently have any cookies, but I do enjoy them!

    parent root

    I am glad. Hope you find some time to disconnect and bake some cookies

    parent root

  • So sorry you are going through that. Good for you, for sharing this with us. Wishing you a better rest of your year!

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    Aw 🫂 She will get there one way or another. As long as she makes it there safely, that's what matters. I haven't seen this photo before. It's definitely a good one. Happy holidays to you

    parent root

  • The fact that it’s been getting better over time means that you are doing something right. Keep pushing through it! :)

    parent

    This made me cry. You are very right, thank you

    parent root

  • Wishing you a new year filled with adventures and wonder!

    parent

    Thank you. Happy holidays

    parent root

  • You're never alone, the Lord is with you always

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  • Hey, I’m late to the party but wanted to remind you that it gets better. Our job is to not give up. I was disabled in 2023. Couldn’t work at a place I loved, in a job I loved. I’ve had to fight through chronic pain, depression and anxiety. If I can do it, you can to. Don’t give up the ship. Try to find ways to do service to others. It helps. Your kindness will generate more kindness. Keep crushing it!

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