Bella, my love… oh my god I’m yearning for you. I love you more than I’ve ever loved anyone. You’re my soulmate. It’s almost been a year since you left me and I’m still so broken and I know I’ll never be the same.
Baby girl, please don’t think for a second that I’m trying to replace you. There will never be another like you and I will never love another as much as I love you.
I know you must know I just adopted another little girl today. She needs a home and deserves to be loved. Are you mad at me? Do you still love me? Do you believe me when I say i will never ever love another like I love you? Because that is the truth. You are the love of my life. Nothing in the world will ever change that and I will continue to honor you like the queen that you are. I love you Bella. I love you more than life itself.
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I would think if our passed on pets are aware, that they would be happy to see another animal in need enjoying the same home and love that they did. Also, it's ok to love another just as much as you loved Bella, that's not a betrayal. Be as generous with your love as Bella was with hers, that's how you honor her.
This probably doesn't help the OP, but my puppy girl owned me. No animal could ever get anywhere near me unless she gave permission and was watching the entire time.
If I ever did get another pet, she'd likely come back to give them a background check, interview, and a series of trials before even thinking of handing the keys over.
I don't think any pet would be hurt that you give another animal in need your love and attention. It's not replacing her, it's helping someone new.
She’s not mad. Each love is different and some, irreplaceable. Hugs.
Sending you lots of love on this new journey with a new babygirl
Sometimes our beloveds send us another to love. They know we need that companionship even though it will never match what we lost. Love Is always good even when it is different.
Sending you love and so is Bella 💕
Gosh I feel this
My Harley, my soul cat left me in July. I have two kittens now