Hi everyone! Your favourite moderator, Sylvia, here. With an...unfortunate announcement.
I will be taking a (potentially) temporary break from my duties as moderator.
I know it's hard to really take the human perspective into account when thinking of how I'm doing, since I'm forced to be smiles and joy while talking to people, but anyone who's talked to me recently knows that facade has been broken numerous times.
Truth be told, dealing with insane amounts of petty squabbles and disrespectful behaviour all day does eventually start taking a toll on you, and recently I've come to some other realisations that have put me in a terrible mental state.
TL;DR I have been treated shockingly badly by the sub, and need a break.
I hope you all use this as a moment of reflection, to start being less loud, less rude, and less desperate to throw other users under the bus.
When will I be back? I will be gone for all of November and December. If I choose to return, it will likely be in January, but there is a chance I choose to not return at all.
I'm very happy to begin moving away from this incredibly toxic chapter of my life. Thank you all for the memories, I probably won't value them that much.
With love, Sylvia
P.S. if you have any moderation struggles, please use Modmail or ask Mines or Overall, as both are still active. Thank you.
Bye Sylvia, you deserve to take a break, you're such an amazing mod and you deserve way better :[
Oof, well, enjoy your break! I hope you enjoy using your time off not babysitting us and I hope people don’t try to ping you or DM you.
Hope you have a good break, you don't deserve to be treated badly at all. If you decide to just go away, then we'll have to respect that, and that's okay.
Have a good break!
Take a break, you deserve it, wishing you the best
so srill active without mod duties or not active at all?
God I hope it's the 2nd one.
I need /srs or /j
/srs
Wish you luck on what you do next!!!
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Take it. You've earned it Sylvia
Good luck Sylvia, I wish you the best.
It's a shame this sub has been filled with negativity in the past years.
Take care, Sylvia.
God it must suck being constantly like this, with people at your ass and you having to force a smile every damn time. Take a rest, pal. It'll be worth it.
Bye queen
You haven't deserved how you've been treated. And there is absolutely ZERO need to put on a facade. You've been an amazing mod