None. Zip. Zero. That’s what’s so frustrating. I think she was being influenced by her fiancé (now husband) and her father. Every time she needed anything-(money, cell phone, commercial sewing machine) she called ME. I always gave her what she asked for. I mentioned one time maybe she could call her dad (in a very calm-non confrontational way) and she blew up. He’s always been a shit father. He’d cancel his weekends constantly. I would have to file for child support constantly. I would always call him and his parents when there was a band concert or play she was in and he never attended. Now all of a sudden her new husband and my ex are best pals and drinking buddies. Ugh.
Is there anyone you could trust to act as an intermediary between the two of you? I wouldn't be overly aggressive about it because it might make the situation more volatile than it already is, but there's obviously no way of knowing what's going on in her head or her heart unless she tells you (or someone close to you).
As this is a cross-post, attached is OP’s original explanation:
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Do you have any idea why she's trying to shut you out of her life?
None. Zip. Zero. That’s what’s so frustrating. I think she was being influenced by her fiancé (now husband) and her father. Every time she needed anything-(money, cell phone, commercial sewing machine) she called ME. I always gave her what she asked for. I mentioned one time maybe she could call her dad (in a very calm-non confrontational way) and she blew up. He’s always been a shit father. He’d cancel his weekends constantly. I would have to file for child support constantly. I would always call him and his parents when there was a band concert or play she was in and he never attended. Now all of a sudden her new husband and my ex are best pals and drinking buddies. Ugh.
Is there anyone you could trust to act as an intermediary between the two of you? I wouldn't be overly aggressive about it because it might make the situation more volatile than it already is, but there's obviously no way of knowing what's going on in her head or her heart unless she tells you (or someone close to you).