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Assalamualaykum everyone,

Welcome to this year's edition of the ISO Thread - Europe!

The ISO Thread will be renewed annually to keep profiles recent and to overall ensure a better user experience for those who are looking to find their spouse on r/MuslimMarriage Insha’Allah. There are three separate ISO Threads, each for different regions of the world to help users better filter out candidates. This ISO Thread is for users residing in or willing to relocate to the Europe. The other two regional threads can be found in the Highlighted Posts section and the Sidebar. The previous editions of the ISO Thread can be found in the Subreddit Wiki.

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ISO Profile Template

  1. Age and Gender
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
  6. Ideal marriage timeline
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
  10. Current Job Status
  11. Do you want kids?
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Feel free to omit the questions you are not comfortable with answering publicly.

MOST IMPORTANTLY: Allah (SWT) is watching everything.

  • Female Profiles Reply Here:

    1. ⁠Age and Gender

    29 yr old Female💀

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    27-35

    1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Ghana west africa, opening to relocating.

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Black, Ghanaian . Open to mixing.

    1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single

    2. Ideal marriage timeline

    At least want to get to know some for a year, but ideally 1-2yrs

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    a) I think someone who strives to be a good Muslim encompasses everything I would be looking for in a partner; kind, humble, thoughtful; prayerful; always striving to be better and the list goes on. b) Someone willing to be supportive with the path I’m taking career wise ( that can be discussed) c) A very patient person d) Honest e) Good communicator;

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Practicing, wears the hijab. Try to read the Qur’an as often as possible and working on praying on time! I’d definitely love to get better than I am currently In Shaa Allah.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have an undergraduate degree in Medicine, Looking for some with at least an undergraduate degree.

    2. Current Job Status Unemployed :( , Actually actively studying for an exam atm.

    3. Do you want kids?

    Yes, In Shaa Allah, 3 maximum

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time.

    I love to travel, i’ve been to a few places but i’d especially love to explore the world and other cultures. Hoping to start touring Africa soon In Shaa Allah but I’ve been to quite a number of countries), taking long walks with good scenery and GREAT weather. I’m also learning how to swim and my next plan is to get into playing tennis!

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’m actually quite interesting once you get to know me and would always have your back when you need me to!

    Hopefully this gives someone the motivation to hit me up! Praying you find your person even if it’s not me :) Salam!

    26 female

    26-30 years max

    if its worth it im open to relocating

    preferably kurdish

    single

    maybe within 2 years we’re engaged idk

    he is emotionally intelligent, loyal, generous, funny & genuinely a good person

    im muslim (sunni) but far from perfect, i try to dress modest. i don’t wear a hijab.

    doesn’t matter as long as he is a hard worker

    i work full time as a pharmacy assistent

    i do want kids InshAllah

    i enjoy being in the nature the most, being alone tbh my alone time is very important. when im free i like to travel, go to a concert or watch a movie but im a homebody in general

    i speak 5 languages and im a good baker its very therapeutic for me

    1. Age and Gender 25, Female Height: 5’5

    2. Age Range Required in a Prospect 26–35

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Currently based in Leeds. Willing to relocate within the UK for the right person.

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Ethnicity: Pakistani Nationality: British Open to all ethnicities.

    5. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married. Not open to divorcees, widowers, or individuals with children.

    6. Ideal Marriage Timeline Within 1–2 years, insha’Allah, after getting to know each other in a halal and purposeful manner.

    7. Five Important Characteristics You Look for in a Prospect

    Respectful and well-mannered

    Caring, generous, and emotionally considerate

    Soft-spoken with a calm personality and sense of humor

    Adventurous, fun, and enjoys life

    Strong family values

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity Practicing Sunni Muslim (Hanafi). Hijabi, do not free-mix or date. Do not celebrate Milaad or Khatams. Completed Umrah and planning for Hajj in the coming years, insha’Allah.

    2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? BA in Business Management (University of Leeds). Looking for someone educated, preferably degree-level.

    3. Current Job Status Employed in the UK Civil Service.

    4. Do you want kids? Yes, insha’Allah.

    5. List 3 hobbies or things you like to do in your spare time

    Exploring nature and going on walks

    Reading and writing

    Travelling and discovering new places

    1. Something short and interesting about you In my spare time, I love exploring new places, going on spontaneous weekend adventures, and hunting for good halal food spots. I enjoy long walks in nature, creative writing, and visiting animal sanctuaries, and I like staying active with light workouts. I’m also guilty of planning future trips just for fun and inspiration. I have never dated or free-mixed and am seeking a marriage rooted in deen, respect, and companionship.

    Gender: Female

    Age: 32

    Location: UK - British born Pakistani

    Height & Weight: 5'4, slim

    Marital status: Single

    Education: University degree

    Profession: Finance Professional

    Hobbies: I absolutely love travelling and being outdoors. Long walks in the countryside is my type of activity. I also enjoy cooking and baking. I also watch quite a few shows and like going to see movies with friends.

    Do you want kids? Yes Insha'Allah 

    Religion: very practising ( wear hijab, dress modestly, pray 5 times)

    Deal breakers:

    Someone not religious, ill mannered or who has been in a sexual relationship

    Requirements:

    Height 5'9 + University graduate and in a professional role Ideally the UK but open to other countries if you can relocate and have career prospects here

    Expectations from the partner:

    Timeframe in which you want to marry(Optional): within 1 year

    I wouldn't want to drag things out and would prefer parental involvement early on

    Bismillah Al Rahman Al raheem. 

    1. Age and Gender 27 female

    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 25-35

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Turkey, willing to relocate. 

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Arab, palestinian. Open to mixing. 

    5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single/never married/no children. 

    6. Ideal marriage timeline 1-3 years

    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Family-focused – makes family and home life a priority. Listens and values my opinion – pays attention and considers my thoughts in decisions. Stable and responsible – has a reliable job and can handle daily life tasks. Kind and affectionate – shows love through thoughtful gestures. Honest and dependable – Communicates openly, and can be relied on.

    8. State/specify your level of religiosity Sunni, grew up in a religious Arabic household, wearing hijab since age 12.

    9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a CS degree, looking for someone with a stable income in a halal field. 

    10. Current Job Status Unemployed. Working on a portfolio for freelancing. 

    11. Do you want kids? Yes

    12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time I have a lot of hobbies, from reading fiction and non-fiction on health, technology, art, and politics, to drawing, painting, 3D modeling and motion design, to watching anime, reading manga and gaming. I’m also a tech enthusiast and always excited to build and try new gadgets/tech.

    13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I love nature and animals, cats in particular have a special spot in my heart, and I’d describe myself as open-minded, calm, and warm. I’m looking for a like-minded partner who can be my best buddy, someone to share thoughts, ideas, and experiences with, and who I can support in the same way.

    Okay here goes nothing .. Bismillah .

    1. ⁠Age and Gender- 31 Female 5 ft 7 , looking for 5’9 and above
      1. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 29-36
    2. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? West Midlands , to relocate in West Midlands or up not too far away from it, preferably with own house
    3. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, preferred also Pakistani
    4. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children single never married
    5. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline- flexible depends on the person and situation
    6. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect 1.Honest 2.compassionate - someone who has empathy towards their wife not interested in Andrew Tate/macho mentality men , a man who can express his feelings and is not afraid to be compassionate towards his family and wife 3.sense of humour someone who can take a joke and is easy going not always taking life so seriously 4.God fearing/religious , someone who prays 5x or makes a conscious effort to pray as much as they can and make the others up. 5.Emotionally intelligent /mature -

    7. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity

    hijabi, pray 5 times a day and always working on improving my Deen inshallah . Sunni hanafi Muslim looking for the same

    1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Undergraduate degree in psychology and also part qualified in accounting, looking for someone with a decent level education, a stable career is more important than the education

    2. ⁠Current Job Status- full time working but Would like to go part time after marriage

    3. ⁠Do you want kids? yes but not straight after marriage

    4. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time travelling, reading, going on walks/hikes (replaced with badminton in the winter!)

    5. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Erm I’m left handed lol. Other than that Im introverted Around people I’m not familiar/comfortable with but enjoy spending time with family & friends and usually get told I’m funny.. I also enjoy baking in my free time and going out to new food places etc. also random but I love planes! Might be because I see them fly past all the time whilst working and usually wish I’m on the plane 😂

    Age: 34 🇸🇴 ,5'11 Age range: 33-40, compatibility is more important Location:uk, not ready to relocate due to family commitments, but possibly in the future. Ethnicity:somali, not open to mixing Marital status:never married, no kids Do you want kids?yes, in sha Allah
    Ideal marriage time line:4-6 months but depends on the circumstances, no more than a year

    5 important traits: Taqwah:People who actually fear Allah move differently. Aqlaakh: someone respectful,polite, not defensive for no reason,considerate, kind. someone who has patience. Mentally mature; knows what to prioritise. Easy going: that likes to have a laugh once in a while. Someone on the deen who doesn't listen to music and is trying to better themselves. Hobbies:learning new things, taking long walks (hikes),reading,hanging out with family and friends Something interesting: I can be spontaneous, and I always find myself taking random side quests and doing activities that I didn't think I'll do. I feel like the older I get, the more spontaneous I become.

    ISO Profile

    بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

    In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

    1. Age and Gender

    • 28 years old
    • Female
    • 5’3, • Medium-brown complexion
    • Canadian (grew up in Toronto)

    1. Preferred Age Range for Spouse • 26+, flexible if compatibility is present

    2. Location & Relocation
      • Based in Toronto, Canada
      • Open to relocating, especially to a Muslim country, with further discussion

    3. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing • South Asian background. (grew up in Canada) • Open to all ethnicities (family is supportive)
      • Also open to reverts/converts

    4. Marital Status
      • Single

    5. Ideal Marriage Timeline
      • Within 6–12 months, inshaAllah (open to discussion based on compatibility)

    6. Characteristics I’m Looking For
      • Practicing Sunni Muslim who follows authentic Qur’an & Sunnah
      • Emotionally mature, kind, responsible, avoids major sins, financially stable
      • Involved in home life, values Islamic manners publicly & privately
      • Beard not required — character matters more
      • Height: Ideally 5'9"+, but flexible
      • Not open to polygamy
      • Looking for a husband who leads with gentleness, takes initiative, and values growth.
      • I appreciate sincerity, emotional intelligence, and someone who sees shared faith as a strength
      • Someone striving to be a good believer, spouse, and human being

    7. Level of Religiosity
      • Practicing Sunni Muslimah
      • Pray 5 daily prayers, wear hijab and modest dress
      • Regularly attend Islamic classes, working on Qur’anic Arabic
      • Faith is central in my life. I strive to embody kindness, humility, and patience.

    8. Education & Expectations
      • I have a Bachelor of Education
      • Looking for someone with at least a bachelor’s or diploma-level education (to ensure employability/stability)
      • Profession: No preference, as long as halal and stable — remote work is a plus

    9. My Work Status
      • Work in education (Mon–Fri, 8am–4pm), financially independent
      • Would like to continue working until I have children, then possibly part-time or pause to focus on family

    10. Do You Want Children? • Yes, very much so! May Allah bless all those hoping to become parents, ameen

    11. Hobbies & Interests • Enjoy long walks (especially in moody weather), reading, and trying new hobbies
      • Love tea, trivia nights, and board games, I'm pretty competitive, but nice about it! 😄
      • Enjoy thoughtful conversations, dry humour, puns, and playful banter

    12. Something Unique • Will remind you to make du’a, then follow up with memes
      • Faith-driven but fun, curious, intentional, and occasionally chaotic; the good kind 😄 • I strive to bring sincerity, snacks, and soul into everything I do.

    Also this is very brief so please feel free to reach out and ask me any questions you may have!

    1. Age and Gender 41, Female

    1. Age Range you want in a prospect Between 40–50

    1. Location & willingness to relocate Currently living in Sweden. Looking for a partner within Sweden. Not actively seeking relocation.

    1. Ethnicity & openness to mixing Pakistani. Open to mixing, provided there is religious compatibility and mutual understanding.

    1. Marital Status (self) Single, never married. No children.

    1. Ideal marriage timeline Within 6 months after mutual compatibility is established.

    1. Five important characteristics in a prospect • Practicing Muslim • Emotionally mature • Respectful and kind • Trustworthy and communicative • Non-controlling, values mutual freedom

    1. Level of religiosity Practicing Muslimah — observes daily prayers, fasts in Ramadan, and strives to live by the Qur’an and Sunnah while keeping culture and religion separate.

    1. Level of education & preference Master’s degree. Looking for an educated partner (degree preferred, mindset matters most).

    1. Current job status Professionally active and working in Sweden.

    1. Do you want kids? Open to discussion.

    1. Three hobbies /interests Cooking, arts and crafts, fashion
    1. ⁠Age and Gender: 26, Female

    2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 26-30

    3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? West Mids, potentially depending on the area

    4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani preferred due to.cultural compatibility.

    5. ⁠Marital Status: single

    6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: depends, within a year at most.

    7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Patience, compassionate, honest, creative and aspirational

    8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Wear hijab, trying to work towards praying 5 times a day prior to marriage.

    9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? University degree, looking for something similar in a potential or even a career path that may not follow the traditional path

    10. ⁠Current Job Status: Working full time as a Biotech PM

    11. ⁠Hobbies/interests: Reading (all genres, particularly sci fi and contemporary)
      

      Gaming (horizon, mass effect, dragon age etc) Creative activities (jewellery making, crafts etc)

    About me:

    I'm a huge bookish (mainly sci fi) and gaming person, but I also am learning python currently to balance it out.

    I would consider myself an ambivert and really enjoy socialising (in book clubs etc) but also time to recharge at home. I'm one of seven siblings, so I'm looking for someone who can get along with my family really well.

    Career wise, I'm aiming to insha'Allah become a PM in a tech company after this course, so definitely will be employed (even after marriage).

    Other than that, I'm working on my Deen by going to islamic talks and attending classes on weekends- so I would ideally want someone on the same wavelength as me.

    We do not celebrate milad/khatams.

    Caste is not a consideration for us.

    1. ⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender: 27, Female, 5’6”
    2. ⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Male, 27-33, must be based in the UK
    3. ⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect:

    UK and unable to relocate due to the nature of my studies/career (graduating as doctor in the NHS in the coming year) and unwillingness to be in a different country to my parents as they get older (mainly because it’s my fardh to care for them, I also have no brothers and I am the oldest daughter, and I saw my parents do frequent trips to Pakistan when my grandparents were unwell etc and i don’t want that - I want my children to have a close relationship with their grandparents/family and being in another country doesn’t align with that). Happy to move about in the UK though !

    1. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing: Pakistani (Punjabi) and would prefer this but open to mixing (I will teach you Urdu)

    2. ⁠Marital Status - Single, never married, no previous relationships (expect this from you too)

    3. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: next 1-2 years

    4. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: kind, ambitious in life and deen, sense of humour, effective communicator and listener, self-confident and self-starter, no female friends

    5. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Sunni Hanafi - quite religious upbringing, wear hijab, practicing (prayers, fasting etc), have completed umrah and hajj, have been heavily involved in Islamic student societies throughout my higher education. Im not interested in gossip or superficial things and try to live life with Prophetic principles.

    6. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for: BSc (Hons) Medical Science, MBChB (next year Insha’Allah), looking for at least university level educated, you don’t have to be a doctor (but that might be nice!).

    For me my career is important and I do have plans to keep training as a doctor/working after marriage and with children as well, so I am looking for someone who is supportive of this and is not intimated or put off by an ambitious/highly independent woman.

    1. ⁠Current Job Status: medical student (see above)

    2. ⁠Do you want kids: definitely but a few years in to the marriage, I want a few romantic years first while we get to know each other 🥰

    3. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: reading, painting/sketching, learning languages

    Currently training for a half marathon and getting back into fitness (got very car reliant the past few years with my degree!)

    1. Though I am quiet, this doesn’t mean that I am shy (I actually enjoy public speaking!). I may take some time to bring my walls down but once I do I am known to be funny (that British sarcasm) and I care deeply for those close to me. Im interested in lots of things especially medicine, Islam, history, art and politics! If you’re into personality types I am quite a rare one (Myers-Briggs INTJ-A).
    1. Age: 21, Female

    2. Age range: 21-26 will be the best for me!!

    3. Location: London. Will be open for relocation not too far from my family and quick commute to London

    4. Ethnicity: Ukrainian-Algerian. Preferably someone with a similar ethnicity but I will be more than happy to other ethnicities as well, I'm also open to both reverts and born muslims!

    5. Status: Single/never been in the relationships

    6. Timeline: 6-12 months

    7. Five characteristics I'm looking for:

      ~ Kindness. Kindness. Kindness. Be kind. To your family, to people around (muslims or not muslims). It's very very important to me!!

      ~ Empathy and Emotional intelligence. Talk to me, cry with me, laugh with me. I want you to be my best friend and be the best to you. I want to support you, hug you when you are feeling down, don't be silent. Men need support and it's very important for me to know how you feel. And I expect the same to me: be supportive and be there for me when I need it. All arguments and misunderstandings should be talked about, don't leave in the mid of conversation and don't go to bed with a not resolved argument. Also no arguments should be shared with the family, our negative energy stays in the house and we try to resolve it here without telling parents, siblings and all other family members. I don't want to air one's dirty laundry in public and it's better to keep the personal problems between us

    If you cry watching movies don't worry, I'm even worse!!! Being emotional is my supervisor trait so having another man crying with me during a sad or even happy moment will be a plus haha!!

    ~ Religious. Pray, fast, follow fard AND sunnah. Focus on your family, don't judge any other person. No backbiting and bad behaviour towards others are allowed in this house! lol (having a cat is a huge bonus point!!)

    ~ Have some hobbies. Be a nerd in something. I think it's so cute when a man is passionate about something he enjoys. And I will support it no matter what

    ~ Learning together but still respecting personal space. I believe that partners might get tired of each other sometimes and need some personal space.

    1. State of religiosity: I find myself religious. Pray 5 times a day, fast fard and sunnah days, do zhikr. I'm always thinking "what Allah would say" when I'm deciding to do/say something. I should specify now that I'm not a hijabi as I grew up in a pretty islamophobic community however after moving to the UK I occasionally wear hijab yayy!! I wear modest clothes (nothing tight or figure showing). I still have a long way to go but I'm getting there. Would be nice to have someone by my side

    2. Education: Finishing my BA and thinking about doing Masters however not decided yet. Don't really care about your education. It's a plus but if you're doing apprenticeship/college qualification or already working it doesn't really matter

    3. Job status: I'm currently working in retail while studying and planning on either working in the creative industry or teaching after graduation insha'Allah. You don't have to have a very successful career or high-paying job. If you still live with your parents it's also fine, we can work together to afford a separate and better place. I don't mind contributing to the rent and bills because nowadays if you want to live well you have to work for it. However a stable income from you is very important. Not high, but stable

    4. I love kids dearly and build good relationships with them however due to some reasons I wouldn't want to have my own children. I would love the idea to adopt a child and give them a warm and kind and safe place!! Would be nice you you were on the same page with me..

    5. 3 hobbies:

    ~ Watching movie/animes (especially thrillers, horrors)

    ~ Reading (currently reading Pride and Prejudice)

    ~ Gaming (sometimes watching someone play, sometimes I'm playing myself. Currently it's Resident Evil 4 Remake)

    1. About myself: ~ I'm quite introverted so would be nice if you were easy going, kind and with a nice sense of humour. And also patient because I might get some time to get to know you and fully trust you:') I recently started going to the gym and cooking!! Building myself up for an independent life lol.. I love to go out to museums and galleries, parks, cinema, travelling with my family and generally just living my best life that Allah gave me

    I’ll try to keep this short even though I could write a lot more— I am a yapper to a detriment😅

    I’m 25, 5’9”, and i am from Texas. I’m a Latina Mexican 🇲🇽 — and yes, I’m open to mixing cultures. I think it makes for the best food and the most interesting children lol. I am born and raised here. I planned to relocate to Dallas after graduation, but if Allah writes qadr in another corner of the world, I am open to following where He leads.

    Islam is not a hobby for me, it is the root. My faith became my anchor during a time where everything else felt heavy. I chose Allah over comfort, and He transformed me. My goal every day is simple: to be better for His sake. I’m committed to salah, hijab, fasting, seeking knowledge, and making heartfelt dua, especially for the man Allah is preparing for me. May he be protected, guided, and strengthened long before we meet🤍

    I’m an ambitious woman with a soft heart and a mind that never stops learning. I have a bachelor’s in Biology, a minor in Chemistry as well as an Associate’s, and I’m passionate about science and discovery. There’s so much to know and experience and so little time.

    I love classic literature, especially the kind that reveals how human we’ve always been. I’m very fond of all things Dark and Twisty. You can often find me with a book, a journal, and a cup of something warm. As much as I love learning, Arabic bites me in the ankle and it’s genuinely my kryptonite I’ve probably learned and forgotten the alphabet a good 10 times😂 (I’m working on it, I promise). So if you speak Arabic (or are at the very least somewhat better than me) that’s definitely a plus since our kids don’t have much hope in learning Arabic from me😵‍💫

    I’m also really active in my Muslim community. I organizing halaqas, events, and spaces where ladies feel connected, seen, and supported. I believe in building community and serving it, not just consuming it. Anyone interested in the Dawah scene, I’m your girl. Latin America is hungry for Islam.

    Family is everything to me. I am extremely blessed with the family I was given. My relationship with my dad is one of the biggest blessings in my life. He is a beautiful example of masculinity, leadership, loyalty, and mercy. I pray my future children know the comfort of a father like that.

    I can be a homebody, but I am naturally adventurous! I recently got into being more active. I’ve always been a chubbier girly but I’ve lost 20lbs in the past 2 months. I’ve been loving Pilates, I’ve done a couple 5ks with my friends this past year. I love traveling, learning about and exploring new cultures, cooking dishes my ancestors definitely didn’t authorize for me, and creating memories with the people I love. Experiencing new things is amazing. I value an experience more than anything tangible. Like I said, I’m in love with discovery.

    What I’m seeking is simple but rare: A man with prophetic character. Gentle, emotionally intelligent, protective without being controlling, consistent in his deen, and humble enough to always keep growing. A leader with tenderness. A heart with taqwa. Someone who sees his wife as his partner in dunya and his companion toward Jannah.

    I want a man who wants only one wife. Key word being WANTS. I don’t want a man who is only able to have one wife, I want him to choose monogamy. I do want children, inshaAllah, a loving, curious, respectful home filled with Qur’an, dua, and warmth. A home where our kids feel deeply wanted and safe to run into their parents’ arms for everything.

    Age preference: I would prefer someone my age or older with no max cap, however I am open to someone younger if they are well developed and well established in their deen, maturity, and career.

    If anything I said resonates — if you’re a man who leads with Allah, who is well established within himself, who values a bright mind wrapped in a soft heart and is willing to care for it with gentleness, then I’d be happy to talk with sincerity and adab and to involve a wali as soon as we feel comfortable. Please send me your ISO. I look forward to meeting you, Naseebi.

    May Allah guide us both to what is written and what is khayr 🤍 BarakAllahu feek for your time.

    29F

    Age range: 26-36

    Location: West Midlands UK, not willing to relocate outside WM

    Ethnicity: Pakistani, open to mixing south Asians - Pakistani, Indian, Bengali etc

    Single never married

    Ideal marriage timeline: flexible - dependant on how long it takes to get to know someone / get families involved etc

    5 important characteristics: Religion: must be someone who has a good balance between life and religion, tries his best to pray 5x a day and conscious of Islam in daily life and decision making. No smoking/vaping/alcohol.

    Independent: Preferably looking for someone who is able to take care of himself and would be willing to help his wife out with the house if both parties are working. Ideally someone who is willing to buy a house with his wife soon after marriage.

    Good sense of humour: life is tough so we’ve got to have some bants!

    Empathetic and emotionally intelligent: In a marriage you’re spending a lot of time with someone so it’s important to be able to communicate your feelings and take into account what the other person is feeling

    Adventurous: looking for someone who is willing to try new things, travel and generally have fun.

    Hijabi, try my best to pray 5x a day although improvement is always needed. Trying to be a good Muslim on a daily basis. Sunni muslim.

    Education: Bachelors, looking for someone minimum bachelors.

    Job status: working - would like to continue working after marriage.

    Kids: Inshallah a few years after marriage. Want to take a few years with my husband to get to know each other properly, become financially stable before thinking about kids.

    3 hobbies: 1) badminton 2) swimming 3) reading

    Aiming for a chilled out lifestyle with my husband, drama free, travelling, eating out, generally enjoying life inshallah.

    (Please note I am looking for someone born and raised in UK)

    Age and Gender : 24, female - 5'6

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect : 24-28

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? north east england, united kingdom – willing to relocate.

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? indian. open to indians & other south asians (preferably urdu speaking)

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children – single, never married.

    Ideal marriage timeline - within 1 year or mutual decision.

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect.

    other than the basics that are striving towards your deen, being respectful, kind, patient and mature, i value emotional intelligence a lot. I’m looking for someone who can love wholeheartedly. I want my partnership to be a mind-body soul-connection so if you’re very nonchalant about expressing yourself towards the people you love, that’s a huge dealbreaker for me.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity.

    i’m sunni. Alhamdulillah I try to pray all my five daily prayers on time. i’m striving to be better in my faith on a daily basis. I’m also a hijabi & dress modestly.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    i have completed my bachelors from a UK university and i’m currently pursuing my masters. i am looking for someone who is atleast a bachelor degree holder and is well settled in their career.

    1. Current Job Status

    student

    1. Do you want kids?

    yes, InshaAllah!

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time.

    i’m a self proclaimed homebody that loves to unwind and recharge at home after a long day of uni/work. i enjoy cooking and baking a lot as i find it super therapeutic. i love fixating on all things media related and love watching movies and kdramas (recent hobby has been constantly updating my letterboxd!)i also love gaming on my switch everytime I want to unwind a bit.

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    i’m a very chill, go with the flow person, I just want to find someone who is simple and self aware and wants to grow with me together through all walks of life :)

    Assalamualaikum, this is about myself.

    1. Age and Gender: 29 F / 5'3"" / Slim-Moderate

    2. Age Range Required in Prospect: 29-34

    3. Location: UK

    4. Ethnicity: Indian, require someone with Indian origin

    5. Marital Status: Single (Never Married, require the same)

    6. Education: Post graduate (MSc, looking for a post graduate and higher qualified)

    7. Current Job Status: Working

    Only reach out if you are in the UK.

    Jazakallahu Khair, good luck with your search.

    Me: 23F, 185cm

    Age Range: 23-30~

    Location: France. Strongly opened to relocation (im still studying though)

    Ethnicity: Senegalese. Open to mixing.

    Marital Status: Single, never been in a relationship.

    Ideal marriage timeline: Within a year.

    Five important characteristics you look for: Practicing, emotionally intelligent, communicative, funny, responsible.

    Level of religiosity: Sunni muslim, practicing

    Level of education: I'm a pharmacy student. I don't have any requirements when it comes to education, but I would want my partner to be curious and strive for knowledge.

    Current Job Status: Full time student.

    Do you want kids?: I'm open to having them.

    List hobbies, or things you like to do: Crafting, videogames, reading and cinema.

    Add something short and interesting about you: I'm quite introverted but I love spending time with close people, being playful and making them laugh. Quality time is my love language. I'm very curious and I like to try new things (food, activities...), I'd really want to share my life with someone adventurous! I also enjoy long walks and hiking.

    1. 23, female, fair skin complexion 
    2. Age Range required in a prospect: 20–35 
    3. Currently live in the UK (born and raised). Open to relocating or staying, either is fine. 
    4. I’m Arab (Yemeni). I prefer another Arab, but I’m open to other ethnicities if there's compatibility. 
    5. Single, never married. 
    6. Ideal marriage timeline: Within one year. I prefer that we are both open (respectfully) and ask any questions needed to ensure compatibility. If you don’t like being questioned, please don’t approach. 
    7. Five important characteristics: Hardworking, traditional in values (someone who provides and opens doors, not someone who thinks others are beneath him), kind and empathetic, extroverted and sociable, patient, understanding, and affectionate (if you are cold or get angry easily, please avoid me). 
    8. Muslim, Sunni 
    9. I’m a university graduate. I don't mind what my future partner's job is, as long as it is halal, stable, and full-time. 
    10. Do you want kids? Yes, definitely. I’m open to either a small or a big family. I mentioned before I would like to stay home to raise the kids, still do, but perhaps work part-time or have my own business too? 
    11. Hobbies: travelling, trying new food places, watching movies. I’m currently into badminton and swimming (lowkey failing :(
    12. Deal Breakers: Disrespect/abuse, someone who drinks, dishonesty, previously or currently married.
    1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender: 26F
    2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-32ish but maybe could go a year or so either way depending on other factors.
    3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? West Midlands, UK. In terms of relocating, it would be difficult to predict if/when this would be possible because of the nature of my job. This is something I’d like to discuss in more detail.
    4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bangladeshi, open to any ethnicity (and my family agrees with that).
    5. ⁠⁠Marital Status: Single, never married.
    6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: Ideally in around a year of getting to know someone.
    7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: A Sunni Muslim who sticks to the 5 pillars of Islam, honesty, open-mindedness, good communication skills, emotional maturity.
    8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: I abide by the 5 pillars and pray on time 5x a day, fast, etc. I’m a hijabi (though typically wear western clothes). I would describe myself as moderately practising overall, with room for improvement of course!
    9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Medical Degree, MBChB. Looking for someone degree educated.
    10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status: Hospital Doctor.
    11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? In sha Allah.
    12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Gosh, I have so many hobbies but I’d say the main ones are creative hobbies (like sewing and creative writing), active hobbies (running, women-only gym) and media (reading various fiction books, playing all sorts of video games). Realise I kinda cheated there with 3 categories rather than 3 hobbies but it’d be nice to find a fellow nerd!
    13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’ve always been known as the jokester of the family and love entertaining people I’m close to, but I know when to be serious too :) Also I have some weirder/niche interests/hobbies like fountain pen collecting, metalsmithing and rollerskating!

    Thanks for reading! If any of the above resonates with you, please don’t hesitate to reach out! JazakAllah khair.

    Age & Gender 24 | Female

    Location & Relocation Karachi, Pakistan. I am open to relocating if there is mutual understanding, support, and a shared vision for our future, insha’Allah.

    Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing I am Sindhi and Urdu-speaking. Ethnicity is not a priority for me; what matters most is shared deen, good character, and compatibility in values.

    Marital Status Single, never married

    Ideal Marriage Timeline Within the next one to two years, insha’Allah.

    Five Important Characteristics I Look For A practicing Sunni Muslim who prays five times a day and strives to live according to the Qur’an and Sunnah. Kind, emotionally mature, and respectful, someone who treats others with adab and compassion. Family-oriented and values maintaining strong ties of kinship (silah rahmi). Believes in teamwork, mutual growth, and shura (consultation) within marriage. Has a positive outlook and a good sense of humor, bringing peace and balance to life.

    Level of Religiosity I am a practicing Sunni Muslimah who prays five times a day and continuously works on strengthening her connection with Allah ﷻ. I value modesty, sincerity, and spiritual growth. I believe deen should be at the center of our lives — a source of peace, love, and purpose — while still making space for joy, laughter, and companionship within the halal boundaries set by Islam.

    Education & What I’m Looking For I have completed my Doctor of Physical Therapy (DPT) from Liaquat National Medical College. I value education and personal growth, and I’m looking for someone with a respectable professional background, ideally in a field like medicine, dentistry, or any career built on integrity and hard work.

    Current Job Status Fresh graduate preparing to begin my career in physiotherapy, soon to be everyone’s go-to person for backaches and stiff necks, insha’Allah.

    Do You Want Kids Yes, insha’Allah. I wish to raise them with love, knowledge, and a strong Islamic foundation.

    Hobbies & Interests Reading and writing reflections that bring me closer to Allah. Traveling to places that inspire gratitude and growth. Cozy evenings with chai, a good book, and heartfelt conversations.

    A Little About Me I’m fun-sized at 5’2” and currently working on reaching my ideal weight, 48 kg and counting. I’m someone who values deep conversations, sincerity, and emotional warmth. I try to live with gratitude, sabr, and tawakkul.

    I wish to build a marriage that feels like sakoon (tranquility), where both partners help each other grow spiritually, emotionally, and professionally. I also hope to continue my work as a physiotherapist with mutual understanding and support, while prioritizing family and deen.

    And yes, I take dessert research very seriously — if there’s cake involved, you’ll find me smiling. 🍰

    Age and Gender 31, F

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect Close to me in age

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? USA, not willing to relocate.

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Turkish-American - yes, open to mixing though I would like my future spouse to also be able to speak Turkish in addition to English.

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single/Never Married/No kids

    Ideal marriage timeline I don't think two people can truly ever know each other until they get married/live together but inshaAllah, if both parties feel comfortable, within a few months if everything aligns. God knows best.

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    Mindset - the spiritual sustenance of my future spouse is important for me. How do you make sense of the deen and your life experiences? How does it manifest itself in your decision making?

    Ahlaq – good manners (adab), good character- one who is patient, has humility, generous, sensitive to matters of ethics/morals.

    Emotional intelligence, kindness, and softness of heart - someone who allows their heart to reflect the compassion that the Creator has given them. Someone who does not hold a grudge, who is flexible, who is genuinely kind, and is not easily swayed by their anger.

    Steadfastness - someone who is cognizant of their purpose in life and in existence and aims to act in alignment with their fitrah accordingly. Someone who wishes to make strides in dawah within their capacity. Someone who will keep their word and their promise holds weight. Someone who wants to keep striving to be better for themselves and to benefit others.

    Easy-going and well balanced - someone who knows their responsibilities, protective, and solution-oriented but also is not afraid to banter and have fun together.

    State/specify your level of religiosity I consider myself religious. For aspects of the religion that look outwardly: I wear the hijab. I do not wear make up in mixed settings. Not a fashionista. My attire is modest and simple, including but not limited to black abayas. I pray daily, fast, etc.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for? BA. Would like the same or higher. Having said that, I realize intelligence is not something measurable by a degree.
     Current Job Status Would want the flexibility to choose whether to work in the future.

     Do you want kids? Yes, inshaAllah. Would love them.

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    I love hiking and nature walks.

    I like to study the Qur'an - lol. By no means do I study it as much as I'd like, but that is an 'activity' that I aim to do daily.

    Stargazing.

    Deal breakers:

    Would like someone who has grown up/experienced living in the West.

    Not praying all daily prayers/drugs/addictions/smoking/drinking/prior relationships/things prohibited by the Creator.

    Polygamy.

    Someone who has been married before.

    I wish to stay in the U.S. Not looking to relocate outside of the country.

    Someone who doesn't speak Turkish and English.

    Someone extremely politically charged or with extreme interest in politics (whichever direction it may be).

     Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    While I would consider myself an introvert, easy going, and collaborative, I have a competitive side of me that comes out under specific circumstances. If we end up playing a game, I will probably switch into competitive mode and give you a run for your money.

    Please ONLY reach out if you've read this in completion, including the deal breakers, and feel that we may be compatible. Please also be ready to be in touch with my wali. Khayr inshaAllah!

    Assalamu alaykum!🩷

    1. ⁠⁠⁠Age & Gender: 21, Female

    2. ⁠⁠⁠Preferred Age Range: 18-27 (open to a lil bit older too tho)

    3. ⁠⁠⁠Location & Relocation: Based in the UK: Bedfordshire outside of term time and Devon during term time. I’m open to relocating nationally in the UK, for now

    4. ⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & Openness: Caribbean - Antiguan and Jamaican. Preferably interested in a Pakistani but STILL OPEN to other ethnicities

    5. ⁠⁠⁠Marital Status: Single (never married)

    6. ⁠⁠⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within the next 12 months, in sha’Allah

    7. ⁠⁠⁠Five Key Qualities I Look For: Emotionally intelligent, consistent in faith and character, kind, soft-hearted, and family-oriented

    8. ⁠⁠⁠Religiosity: I’m a practising Muslim (revert), always striving to grow in knowledge and connection with Allah

    9. ⁠⁠⁠Education & What I’m Looking For: I’m a law (LLB) student, graduating in Autumn 2027, in sha’Allah, and ideally looking for someone with GCSEs or above

    10. ⁠⁠⁠Job Status: Full-time student and part-time Customer Service Adviser

    11. ⁠⁠⁠Children: Yes, I’d love to have children, in sha’Allah

    12. ⁠⁠⁠Hobbies/ Spare Time: Writing, roller skating, reading, shopping, watching history and Islamic documentaries, cooking and spending time with family and friends

    13. ⁠⁠⁠Something Interesting About Me: I love deep and maybe a bit weird conversations, journaling, and writing short fiction emotional and spiritual stories

    May Allah make this search easy for us. Ameen!

    Jazak’Allah :)

    This is mine:

    Mission let’s find and get married before 2026 ends 🙏🏽

    1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and gender - 26 female, 5ft 1/2
    2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age range for prospect - 23-30ish (flexible as maturity is more important than age)
    3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & open to mixing - Pakistani & no (sorry) - has to have British citizenship
    4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Material status - never married so single
    5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location & willing to move - West Midlands, yes, insha’allah only in the uk
    6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline - within the next year insha’allah as soon as we’re sure
    7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5 important characteristics - financial stability - this consists of being able to provide for us, give us our personal space (whether that’s rented or not), and allow me to be a housewife or work part time so that I can be more present for my Islamic duties towards my spouse. Practising Muslim - trying to be a better Muslim than he is right now, praying salah and following the 5 pillars atleast. Patience - being patient and calm so that he can be a good leader within our household by making reasonable decisions insha’allah. Other things include good akhlaaq and knowing that women are different to men so being to be adaptable in that way rather than acting logically.
    8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of religiousity - I am trying to do the bare minimum and strive to do better by attending Islamic lectures etc, doing more dhikr, praying more voluntary prayers as life is too short
    9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠level of education - post graduate, and I don’t mind if he doesn’t have a degree because there’s so many different formats nowadays so as long he’s got some form of education, that’s enough for me.
    10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work full time alhamdulillah
    11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kids - yes insha’allah
    12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies - cooking/baking, going on walks/explore nature (love greenery) ,read books, watching funny shows lol

    Fun fact about me - I won an award for a book that I wrote when I was younger (still have the book so could read it if we get married 👀)

    Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, alcohol, have friends that are women, men with anger issues, close-minded men who don’t try to grow and be open to it.

    I just want to marry someone who will put me first as I’ll always put him first too whilst keeping Allah as the reason why we love each other insha’allah.

  • Male Profiles Reply Here:

    I'll keep it concise:

    1. Age and Gender: 22 M
    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20–25
    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? CH, close to France/Germany.
    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Lebanese.
    5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: currently no.
    6. Ideal marriage timeline: no ideal timeline.
    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: essential, otherwise it won't work out: i) 5'7"/170 cm or above ii) not overweight iii) light-skinned/white iv) doesn't look masculine or tries to be (that one should be obvious) v) Doesn't smoke or do drugs vi) unless a convert, didn't have 7aram relationships vii) no plastic surgeries or at least be upfront about them.
    8. State/specify your level of religiosity: practising and at the mosque daily.
    9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? BSc
    10. Current Job Status: working, she should be too or studying something/doing an apprenticeship.
    11. Do you want kids? Yes, not pressured though, later.
    12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: 99% of women don't care about this when choosing.
    13. Lookswise: objectively ~7/10, athletic build. I fit into the light-skinned mediterannean phenotype (I get mistaken for greek/turkish/italian/portoguese/balkan).

    Age and Gender

    24 male

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    20-26

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Currently living in Ireland. I won't be able to relocate until 2028 because of my current job (see below for details), however I am open to it afterwards, especially uk and any muslim countries

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    I am Indian, open to mixing

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    Single

    Ideal marriage timeline

    The next 1-2 years. I would at least like to be engaged this year.

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    There is a hadith that states the most important thing to look for is deen. I want a religious woman that wears hijab and is trying her best to become religious.

    I also want her to be caring, as my lifestyle definitely takes a lot out of me.

    I am also looking for someone who has more of a preference being a homemaker rather than someone career orientated.

    I would like someone adventurous as i love to travel and I envision planning trips together with my spouse. Would also be nice playing sports together or taking part in each others hobbies.

    Lastly, someone intelligent who I can have really good conversations with.

    State/specify your level of religiosity

    I am Sunni, I pray 5 times a day, stay away from shirk and biddah, fast mandatory days and sometimes optional days. I don't listen to music, I want to undertake alim courses and am currently trying to memorise the Quran (I only have the 30th Juz memorised). I am not perfect by any means but I want someone who recognises whats right and wrong and tries her best with her nafs.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    I have a bachelors degree in Law and have also passed my professional exams. I am looking for someone who has also finished college, the specific field doesn't matter.

    Current Job Status

    Working full time as a trainee solicitor. I will be fully qualified January 2028, which is why I can't currently move.

    Do you want kids?

    Yes, very much so. I would like a big family inshallah

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    I love to travel, I visited 9 countries in 2025 and would like to do more this year

    I love to read, I read multiple genres but I like to increase my knowledge. Currently reading the autobiography of Abu Bakr and for non-fiction, I am reading the as the coffee gets cold series, currently on the second book.

    I like to workout, I go gym and train in Muai Thai

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I've been both sky diving and scuba diving. Looking for someone to go bungee jumping with next ;)

    1. Age and Gender
    - Age: 24
    - Gender: Male
    - Height: 5”10

     

    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
    - 18–28

     

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
    - Location: UK (just outside of London)
    - Willing to relocate: Definitely, for sure!

     

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
    - Ethnicity: Pakistani and definitely open to mixing - I love learning and exploring new cultures :))

     

    5. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children
    - Single

     

    6. Ideal marriage timeline
    - I want the time to get to know the other person, I know everyone is at different stages in life, so inshallah how ever long it takes

     

    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    1. Open and honest - we’re going to be stuck together forever haha, so I want someone I can be comfortable with, someone who will tell me anything and everything and vice versa. I want them to be open and honest with me, to call me out if I’m making mistakes, or say if there’s a better way to go about doing something, or to be open about how they truly feel. With this openness and honesty, we can both grow together! Also, I do know that this is something that takes time and effort from both sides, so I’d love to hear about your preferred communication style, love languages, attachment styles, etc. It’ll be fun to get to know you more deeply beyond the surface layer + that open and honest communication where you’re comfortable enough to talk about anything and everything not only feels great but will also ensure things are healthy and work out for the long term inshallah :))

    2. Authenticity – I really value warmth, light-heartedness, and being a source of calm and peace for one another - what the Qur’an describes as being the “coolness of the eyes.” Life has its serious moments, but I’m drawn to people who don’t make everything feel heavy, who can laugh, talk openly, and be themselves without putting on an act - I’m looking for someone real, genuine, authentic, open, someone who has a more realistic / optimistic lens. I really appreciate those who are genuine, emotionally open, and not overly rigid or reserved - just like with everything, this all comes down to communication so I would want someone who knows how to communicate properly and doesn’t lose their temper easily or is quick to raise their voice just to get their point across

    3. Someone who values growing together - There’s always chances and opportunities for growth, I want the both of us to take it and grow together. Sure everyone makes mistakes and has their down days but I want someone who understands that there’s always a way to make things better, that through thick and thin, everything is going to be alright, so long as we keep putting that work in :)) This is also why my timeline is flexible - I would want my partner to pursue their dreams and ambitions, giving them all the support they’d need, and I’d hope to receive the same in return

    4. Open minded - I value someone who can see things from different points of views and is open to new experiences. There’s so much to explore out there, I don’t want to be stuck in the same old spot not trying out new things + I want to be able to have open and engaging discussions about things even if we don’t agree about the subject at hand - I’d still love to yap and hear your view on things and hopefully learn more both about you and the topic being discussed

    5. Cares about mental health - nothing is more important than mental health and I want someone who understands that. The discussion of mental health shouldn’t be taboo, I want someone who can openly communicate their feelings and discuss ways to work on mental health. For example, I journal from time to time, especially when I don’t have such great days to help put things into perspective and to get it all out there so I can feel better!

     

    8. State/specify your level of religiosity
    - Sunni. I try to to be the best that I can be, I pray, I fast, I give zakat, I follow all 5 pillars, etc. but I’m always learning and looking to grow my knowledge and faith :)) I don’t smoke or drink either, I will only consume anything that is halal.

     

    9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
    - I have graduated with a first in BSc Computer Science. I absolutely love learning, so I did consider going down the masters / PhD route but the income going down that route is not worth it. I’m looking for someone who is passionate and happy with what they are currently pursuing / doing - they should definitely have some goals, aspirations and some idea of what they want in the future. I don’t have any strict requirements or look for anything specific, I value someone’s character and values above all else

     

    10. Current Job Status
    - Software engineer at a FAANG (alhamdulillah) - for context, FAANG just means high pay and prestige so I can comfortably provide + I am super ambitious about my career, life, and goals in general - it does also make things like relocation to the states or Europe or elsewhere so much easier

     

    11. Do you want kids?
    - Yes and I’d be open to discuss this - for example, if you have fertility issues or would rather adopt, etc. I’d be open to considering other possibilities!

     

    12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
    - Anything that is engaging or active - whether it’s just walking and talking or bouldering or anything in between haha
    - Reading (Books + News, feel free to recommend or talk about anything you love to read!)
    - Playing chess
    - Going to the gym
    - Going out with mates
    - Travelling, especially exploring different cities and cultures
    - Visiting art galleries and museums
    - Discussing anything pertaining to psychology, philosophy, mental health, geopolitics, economics, deeper conversations about life, etc. just love a good deep insightful yap about anything and everything
    - Anything intellectually stimulating
    - Learning new things - recently I’ve been learning new dishes to cook other than just chicken and rice haha - feel free to suggest any recipes to cook or even bake!!

     

    13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!
    - Planning on visiting at least 5 new places this year (already have booked one trip with friends - have fun guessing where to haha) + I was planning on getting myself a cat as a grad present but never got around to it because I didn’t realise I wouldn’t have enough time for one, can we please get a cat haha so I can finally fulfil this wish, thanks 😃👍

    Age & Gender: 29, Male

    Location: Germany (Prefer someone already here or in a neighboring country).

    Ethnicity: Pakistani. Open to mixing provided we can communicate well.

    Marital Status: Single / Never married.

    Education & Job: Master’s degree / Employed.

    • Looking for: Someone with at least a Bachelor’s preferred; field doesn't matter.

    Religiosity: Practicing.

    • I pray multiple times a day, eat Halal, and fast. I am trying to get closer to Allah with time. I strive to live an honorable life and base my decisions on that principle.

    Do you want kids? Yes.

    Five important characteristics I look for: Respectful, ambitious, secure in themselves, kind, and hardworking.

    Hobbies: Spending time in nature, travel, and cinema/theatre.

    About Me: I’ve lived in 3 different countries and have been living independently for 10 years. I now feel ready for a bigger commitment and am looking to settle down with the right person. I look for the good in people and value simplicity; I take a straightforward approach to life and am looking for a partner who values the same.

    God has been kind to my career so far, and I remain very ambitious. I’m looking for someone to share a fun, peaceful life with. Feel free to reach out. Good luck to everyone!

    HEY EVERYONE, BELOW is my profile. If you find any compatibility reach out to me, or if you want to know more just dm me.

    1. Age and Gender

    29 Male, 5'7" (I am the only son of my parents and have 1 sister who is doing her residency in Internal Medicine in New Jersey, America)

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    22-30

    1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Currently in Nuremberg Germany. Yes, willing to relocate across Europe or other foreign country (specifically US coz my sister is already there) but it depends on mutual interest and circumstances.

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Pakistani from Islamabad,Yes I am open but preferably Pakistani as culture compatibility is easy else I am ok with other options as far as we have mutual mental compatibility.

    1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    Separated, My wife took Khula. I have one cute daughter who is residing with her mother. We can discuss about this matter.

    1. Ideal marriage timeline

    By end of 2026 hopefully.

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    Must be mature, should discuss things and must not be a conflict avoider, must tell me which things of mine are bothering her so that I can fix that instead of making the home environment toxic and not breathable. Must be responsible, follows basic deen, supportive and have ambitions in life. Apart from all these still for a healthy relationship mental compatibility is the most important thing and that you only can know when you discuss things with someone.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Alhumdullilah I am a born sunni Muslim and perform my 5 Times prayer and try to follow my deen as much as I can. I do not drink or smoke. I only eat halal. I am not perfect but I try my best to practice my deen.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    I have done Bachelors in Electrical Engineering and currently persuing Masters in Medical Engineering from Germany.

    I would prefer the one with a professional qualification. She must be ambitious about her future and should have goals so that we can progress together towards our better future.

    1. Current Job Status

    Already had 2.5 years Experience in a well known company in Pakistan. Currently I am focusing on my Masters In Germany and Works part time while studying and can manage finances.

    1. Do you want kids?

    Yes, definitely but I would prefer to build a mutual understanding and then would move forward towards having kids In shaa Allah.

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    I love to watch movies and series during my free time, especially the psychological thrillers. I like to travel and explore. I definitely like to cook in my free time.

    1. Age and Gender: 24 years old, Male, 6'4"

    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 22 - 26 (I'm open to other ages too)

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: London I also won't mind living in Morocco and rotating between both countries.

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: Moroccan. I prefer Moroccan or maybe Algerian. But other ethnicites can reach out too.

    5. Marital Status: Single, never married, no children

    6. Ideal marriage timeline: Really not sure, we will discuss this.

    8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing

    9. What are you looking for in a partner education-wise?: Education doesn't matter to me.

    10. Current Job Status: Online business

    **11. Do you want kids?: I'm open to it but I don't mind a partner who doesn't want kids.

    As-salāmu ʿalaykum, may Allah (swt) put barakah in your search.

    Please do not waste mine and your time Bi’ithnillah and only get in contact in the case that you truly feel compatible

    1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender

    Male, 27 years old, 6’4

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    21–29 (flexible, InShaAllah)

    1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Based in London. Open to relocating within the UK or abroad if there is khayr, InShaAllah.

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Gujarati, Zimbabwean, Yemeni heritage. Open to different ethnicities, InShaAllah.

    1. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children

    Single, no children.

    1. Ideal marriage timeline

    Within the next 1–2 years.

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect • Kind and compassionate • Family-oriented • Grounded in faith • Supportive and understanding • Ambitious with a growth mindset

    2. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Practicing Sunni Hanafi Muslim, Alhamdulillah. I keep up with salah, give charity, and engage in community work.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    BSc in Chemistry (Queen Mary University of London). Open to someone educated (university or otherwise) with a mindset of continuous growth.

    1. Current Job Status

    Founder & Director in Recruitment (technology, data, and cybersecurity) and talent consultancy.

    1. Do you want kids?

    Yes, InShaAllah.

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    • Gym and boxing • Hiking and outdoors • Cooking and baking different cuisines

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    Alhamdulillah, I balance faith, family, and work while pursuing my ambitions. I’ve combined entrepreneurship with technology and am passionate about using AI to make a positive impact. I come from a close-knit family, enjoy community service, and try to live with humility, sincerity, and ambition.

    Assalamu Alaikum, I hope you’re well.

    This is slightly long, but worth the read, Insha’Allah.

    1. Age, Gender & Height: 29, Male, Slim, 5'8".

    2. Age Range for Prospect: 22–28.

    3. Location & Relocation: Based in West Midlands, UK. Ideally looking for someone nearby.

    (I realise this narrows my options, but family is a huge part of my life. I’d love a genuine, close relationship with my in-laws and I want my wife to feel supported by her loved ones close-by.)

    4. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing: British Bangladeshi – ideally looking for the same.

    (Whilst I desire a righteous practicing Muslim and would love to learn about other cultures, I’d ideally like someone with a similar background. This is simply to help with family compatibility and make communication easier, Insha’Allah.)

    5. Marital Status: Single/ no past relationships.

    6. Ideal Marriage Timeline: Insha’Allah, within a year.

    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    Deen-Oriented – I’m not looking for perfection (I’m far from it myself). What matters most is someone consistent with prayers, striving to grow in faith with a love for learning and trying to follow Islam as best as possible for the sake of Allah.

    Good Akhlaq / Adab – I’d love a spouse who’s humble, polite and naturally kind. Someone whose good manners shine through with everyone.

    Kind & Compassionate – Life isn’t always smooth, I hope to have someone who can be my safe space, as I want to be hers. Someone to lean on during tough times, laugh with on good days, as well as share life’s ups and downs.

    Emotionally Intelligent – Communication and empathy are key. I value someone expressive and self-aware, who can share thoughts and feelings openly, understand my perspective, and who handles challenges with thought and care.

    Genuine & Sincere – I hope to find a wife who will be my closest companion and my best friend. Someone I can talk to about anything, plan with, laugh with, travel with and navigate this Dunya side-by-side. Someone who genuinely cares for me as much as I do for her, protects my heart and shares the sincere intention to be the best spouse for the sake of Allah, Insha’Allah.

    8. State/specify your level of religiosity:

    I try my best to keep Islam at the centre of my life, but I’m far from perfect. Alhamdulillah, I’ve been consistent with my prayers since young and do my best to fulfil my Fard. I try to recite Quran often, even if it’s just a page or two a day and enjoy learning about the Sunnah and implementing it in daily life.

    I also do the basics such as avoid alcohol, smoking, eating Haram, Bid’ah and maintain boundaries with non-mahrams.

    9. Level of Education:

    I hold both an undergraduate and postgraduate degree. I don’t require a specific level of education in a spouse – just someone intelligent, with a growth mindset, who wants to increase in knowledge for the sake of Allah.

    That said, I have a strong ambition to pursue Islamic studies and would highly value a spouse who shares this passion.

    10. Current Job Status:

    I work full-time, Alhamdulillah, earning a Halal income.

    11. Do You Want Kids?

    Absolutely, Insha’Allah. I’d love to have children in the future, seeing a miniature version of myself or the loml would melt my heart.

    12. Hobbies / Spare Time:

    I enjoy staying active through the gym and sports, as well as travelling, trying different cuisines and cozy evenings in with a good movie or show. I’m keen to share and explore my spouse’s hobbies too, and to create many meaningful memories together, Insha’Allah.

    13. Something Short & Interesting About Me:

    I enjoy deep, reflective conversations on long drives. I keep a simple notes journal on my phone for insights from lectures, books, videos and khutbahs that I try to put into practice. I also like researching different topics, so rest assured, I have no shortage of conversation topics… so be prepared to talk lol.

    If you’ve made it this far, JazakAllahu Khairan!

    I pray you (and everyone here) finds what they’re looking for. Reddit odds are small… but it only takes one, right? ❤️

    If we may be compatible, please reach out. I’d like our families involved early on once compatibility is established, Insha’Allah.

    Salaam,

    Age & Gender: 26, Male, 5 ft 8 Preferred Age Range: 22–26 Location & Relocation: London, UK. Willing to relocate within or near London depending on spouse. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing: Bengali (Sylheti). I have a preference for a South Asian/Bengali background. Marital Status: Single, never married, no children Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within 12 months, in shaa Allah

    Five Important Characteristics I Look for in a Prospect: Kind, caring, mature, loyal, and someone who brings peace into my life. I strive to offer the same and more, in shaa Allah.

    Level of Religiosity: Sunni Muslim. I try my best to pray all five daily prayers and am actively working on improving my deen to become a leader of a Muslim household one day, in shaa Allah

    Education & Preferences: Bachelor’s degree in Mathematics. I don’t have a strict education requirement for a spouse—character and values matter most to me.

    Current Job: Software Developer

    Do You Want Kids?: Yes, in shaa Allah

    Hobbies / Interests: Anime, gym/fitness, board games, video games, spending time with friends and family

    Something Short & Interesting About Me: I am a kind-hearted man, always looking to improve myself and become the person I aspire to be. I’m a big anime fan, love going to the gym, and want to become the best version of myself, in shaa Allah.

    Was thinking why the "ISO version 9" was like the wild West. Turns out there is a 2026 one now. 🤣

    Salam alaykum sister.

    Age and Gender: Male | 23 soon | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20 - 25

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales, Open to relocating for the right person within the UK. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

    Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practicing and modest, trustworthy, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

    State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practicing person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

    Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

    Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine, and I enjoy a good road trip 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

    Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

    HEY EVERYONE, BELOW is my profile. If you find any compatibility reach out to me, or if you want to know more just dm me.

    1. Age and Gender

    29 Male, 5'7" (I am the only son of my parents and have 1 sister who is doing her residency in Internal Medicine in New Jersey, America)

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    22-30

    1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Currently in Nuremberg Germany. Yes, willing to relocate across Europe or other foreign country (specifically US coz my sister is already there) but it depends on mutual interest and circumstances.

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Pakistani from Islamabad,Yes I am open but preferably Pakistani as culture compatibility is easy else I am ok with other options as far as we have mutual mental compatibility.

    1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    Separated, My wife took Khula. I have one cute daughter who is residing with her mother. We can discuss about this matter.

    1. Ideal marriage timeline

    By end of 2026 hopefully.

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    Must be mature, responsible, follows basic deen, supportive and have ambitions in life. Apart from all these still for a healthy relationship mental compatibility is the most important thing and that you only can know when you discuss things with someone.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Alhumdullilah I am a born sunni Muslim and perform my 5 Times prayer and try to follow my deen as much as I can. I do not drink or smoke. I only eat halal. I am not perfect but I try my best to practice my deen.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    **I have done Bachelors in Electrical Engineering and currently persuing Masters in Medical Engineering from Germany.

    I would prefer the one with a professional qualification. She must be ambitious about her future and should have goals so that we can progress together towards our better future.**

    1. Current Job Status

    Already had 2.5 years Experience in a well known company in Pakistan. Currently I am focusing on my Masters In Germany and Works part time while studying and can manage finances.

    1. Do you want kids?

    Yes, definitely but I would prefer to build a mutual understanding and then would move forward towards having kids In shaa Allah.

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    I love to watch movies and series during my free time, especially the psychological thrillers. I like to travel and explore. I definitely like to cook in my free time.

    1. Age and Gender: 27, Male
    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20s
    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: France. Can and will probably relocate. I am looking for a partner who is flexible to settle with me.
    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: Moroccan (grew up in Morocco), prefer north-African/french but open to mixing. I Speak Arabic, French and English fluently
    5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Divorced. Can ask for more details.
    6. Ideal marriage timeline: Within a year
    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Most important: Fears Allah. Feminine, Kind and peaceful. Responsible (can take care of herself and her home). Romantic. Non-careerist
    8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderately religious. I strictly observe the obligations (prayers, fasting, etc.). I lead a clean lifestyle: no smoking, no drinking, and I avoid unnecessary free-mixing.
    9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?: PhD. Will appreciate some form of education.
    10. Current Job Status: Research engineer
    11. Do you want kids?: Yes, insha’Allah. I look forward to being a father.
    12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Sport, reading, nature walks/hikes, watching shows, consuming islamic content, playing
    13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I'm seeking to construct a proper family centered around the love and fear of Allah. I'm very ambitious, responsible and kind in my actions. I am introverted but a direct communicator. I value a wife who makes Allah and her home the number one priorty, and preferably maintains a strong bond with her family.

    1. Age and Gender:

    25, M

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

      20-27

    2. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

      Yorkshire, England. No

    3. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Pakistani and open to mixing

    1. Marital Status:

      Single

    2. Ideal marriage timeline:

    6 months+ - Basically enough time to get to know each other and be sure we would want to spend the rest of our lives together

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
    • Deen/Akhlaq - You may not be the best of muslims but be someone who continously strives to improve on their journey in islam and must fulfill her obligations in Islam
    • Emotional maturity/intelligence
    • Modesty
    • Being easy to talk to
    • Humour

    Looking for someone who will not only be a wife but also a best friend, someone I can lean on and find peace & happiness with.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Hanafi. Alhamdulillah follow all fardh and try my best to become a better muslim with a non-judgemental approach to others. Although I wouldn't call myself the most devout muslim I place islam at my core and try my best to revolve my life around deen.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    Computer Science Degree Not looking for anything specifically, however would want a housewife when it's time to start a family Insh'Allah

    1. Current Job Status:

    Working as a Software Engineer Alhamdulillah

    1. Do you want kids?

    Yes definitely Insh'Allah at least 3

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
    • Massive movie fan(Send me your letterboxd)
    • Listening to audiobooks
    • Walks/Hiking
    • Enjoy playing video games when I have free time
    • Big foodie especially trying different cuisines
    • Big comedy fan but unfortunately my humour has devolved into dad jokes
    • Staying fit by regularly going to the gym

    Age and Gender:
    34, Male, 180cm

    Age range that you would want/require in a prospect:
    25-30. Though it's not a hard limit, because it's just one of the minor factors out of many other important factors

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
    Germany (It depends on the country and my career prospects in that country. I am open to discussion on this)

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
    Given the actual definition of ethnicity, I feel it's hard to put myself into a single basket, so I'll just say that I'm originally from Pakistan. I am very much open to mixing.

    Marital status (Single/Divorced/Children):
    Single (Never Married)

    Ideal marriage timeline:
    I don't have a hard timeline. Ideally, it could be 6 months to a year, depending on how things progress, but I would not like to drag things way too long if everything aligns well

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    • Education
    • Ambition (Zest for life)
    • Sense of humor
    • Empathy, Communication, and Emotional Intelligence
    • Love for traveling and outdoor activities

    Since I'm no mind reader, I don't prefer any mind games. I really appreciate clear and honest communication. Mind games and guesswork only lead to problems that could have easily been solved with clear communication. :)

    State/specify your level of religiosity:
    It depends on how you see it since everyone has a different scale. I may or may not be the best Muslim yet, in your opinion, but I'm not the worst, either. I pray, fast, eat halal, and not super conservative/liberal. I've never committed any major sins and never intend to. I follow the teachings of Islam and am always willing to learn and improve if I'm not doing something right or don't know about it.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?
    Bachelors (Would prefer someone with similar or more education, not a deal breaker, though)

    Current job status:
    Working full-time in the tech industry

    Do you want kids?
    Yes

    List 3 hobbies or things you like to do in your spare time:
    - Travel, hike, and take photos - Watch documentaries/TV series, read books - Spend time with friends and family

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out:
    I think I'm well positioned in terms of my career, but I know that my best is yet to come, so I am looking forward to the next steps in life and finding a partner that is equally ambitious yet with a calm personality, who can push me to be a better person, while in return I offer the same. In short, I have a growth mindset, and I'm looking for someone with a similar mindset, at the very least.

    Asalamwalkium

    Age & Gender: 23, Male

    Preferred Age Range: 20–24

    Location & Relocation: London, UK. Not currently willing to relocate, but open to discussion in the future.

    Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing: Bengali (Sylheti). Open to mixing, though I have a preference for South Asian/Bengali background.

    Marital Status: Single, never married, no children.

    Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within 1–2 years, in sha Allah.

    Five Important Characteristics I Look for in a Prospect: Understanding and emotionally considerate Loving and caring in nature Soft-spoken with good akhlaaq Resilient and patient Family-oriented and sincere

    Level of Religiosity: Sunni Muslim. I try my best to pray all five daily prayers and am actively working on improving my deen. I’d love to relearn the Qur’an properly with correct tajweed and continue growing spiritually over time.

    Level of Education & What I’m Looking For: I’ve completed a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science. I don’t have a specific education requirement for a spouse, character and values matter more to me

    Current Job Status: Working in an administrative role within the NHS.

    Do You Want Kids?: Yes, in sha Allah.

    Hobbies / Interests: Technology and learning new skills Forex (currently in the learning stage) Going to the gym (recently started again and staying consistent)

    Something Short & Interesting About Me: Friends describe me as kind-hearted, well-mannered, and fun to be around. I enjoy volunteering and am involved in communities in London. I’m motivated by self-improvement, whether that’s faith, fitness, or personal growth, and I’d love to travel more in the future.

    Age and Gender

    • 21 Male - Height: 5'8"

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    • 20-24

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    • London, not willing to relocate

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    • Bangladeshi born in the UK - Open to Mixing

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    • Single - Never been in a relationship

    Ideal marriage timeline

    • Ideally nikkah within a year

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    • Deen
    • Character
    • Kind-heartedness
    • Honesty
    • Femininity

    State/specify your level of religiosity

    • I complete all fardh acts (Pray 5x a day, Fast in Ramadan etc.)

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    • Graduated from University having studied Computer Science. Ideally looking for someone who has also gone to/is currently at university (but not a deal-breaker if that's not the case)

    Current Job Status

    • Employed as a software engineer

    Do you want kids?

    • Yes

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    • Computer-related hobbies
    • Being in nature/walking around in general
    • Watching the night sky

    Something short and interesting

    • I would describe myself as a relaxed and easy-going person
    1. ⁠Age and Gender: 29M 188cm
    2. ⁠Age Range: 23-30
    3. ⁠Location: Germany, don't mind moving within Europe or to an Arab country depending on where
    4. ⁠Ethnicity: Egyptian, prefer to be with someone who speaks both Arabic and English but not a dealbreaker (could be persuaded with good food)
    5. ⁠Marital Status: Single, never been in a relationship
    6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: within a year or when we both feel ready
    7. ⁠Five important characteristics: similar level of practising islam, sense of humour and tolerating my bad jokes, physically active, modest (not necessarily hijab but the overall personality),
    8. ⁠Level of religiosity: I pray 5 times a day, fast, stay away from alcohol, the obligatory stuff but trying to improve
    9. ⁠Level of education: Masters, would be nice to be with someone similarly educated but not a must
    10. ⁠Current Job Status: been working as an engineer for a few years
    11. ⁠Do you want kids? yes but after a year or two of marriage at least
    12. Hobbies: gym, video games, basketball, martial arts, anime
    13. ⁠ I'm more on the introverted side and I like cats

    As-Salamu Alaykum. Hope 2026 will be the year I find my spouse. Do give my entire post a read and if anything resonates with you, feel free to reach out!

    1. Age and Gender: 22, Male, 5'5 (166 cm)

    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Around my age, roughly 2 years up or down — 19–23.

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Raised and live in Spain. Open to relocation within Europe for the right partner.

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bengali (family from Dhaka). Open to mixing; shared values, mindset, and life vision are far more important than ethnicity.

    5. Marital Status: Single, never married.

    6. Ideal marriage timeline: 1–2 years, with a clear, intentional progression. I believe in a reasonable “getting to know” phase (around 6 months), then moving to family involvement once compatibility is established to keep things halal and intentional, and eventually, Nikah without unnecessary delay.

    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    • Shared Values & Teamwork: Life is a team sport. We solve problems together, talk through expenses, evaluate goals, and share responsibilities rather than keeping a strict “yours vs mine” scoreboard. Ambition & Growth Mindset: You like to push yourself and me to reach our best selves, and can motivate each other when either of us hits a low day. Nerd-level curiosity is welcome (bonus point if you like planes and rockets 😂).

    • Emotional Intelligence & Maturity: Able to communicate clearly, handle quiet moments gracefully, and navigate disagreements without judgment. Someone who doesn’t share problems with siblings or family for every small issue and knows how to communicate. Also good at laughing at our own mistakes because life’s too short to hold grudges.

    • Family & Quality Time: Enjoys long walks (I still don’t own a car 😭), cooking together, watching movies, or just spending relaxed, meaningful time with family whenever we can.

    • Common Goals & Values: You prioritize meaningful things over superficial ones, like partying or keeping up with trends. I’m focused on building a life with shared goals, including home ownership (riba-free!) and long-term stability.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity: I pray my five daily Salah consistently and on time, alhamdulillah. I also read the Quran from time to time and attend Jummah prayers. I am actively work on my Deen, and avoid major sins. I dress modestly (loose pants and T-shirts, no shorts). Faith guides all my decisions. I usually ask myself how I’d justify an action before doing it.

    2. Level of education, and what are you looking for Bachelor’s in Mechanical Engineering and currently pursuing an MSc in Electrical Engineering. I’m looking for someone similarly dedicated to building their path.

    3. Current Job Status: Working as an Electrical Engineer while completing my Master’s part-time. You don’t need a PhD, but pursuing something stable and halal is important.

    4. Do you want kids? Yes, when we are emotionally and financially prepared to provide a stable, loving home.

    5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    • Reading & Learning: Nerdy stuff, mostly about airplanes and technical topics.

    • Exercise & Fitness: Small home gym, trying to lift my body weight without pulling something.

    • Leisure: YouTube, TV shows, movies, and deep conversations (yes, I can yap at 2 AM if we don’t have early alarms).

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I’m introverted at first but very open once trust is built. I can cook real South Asian/Bengali food — biryani, polaw, tuna kebabs, fish bhuna, chicken, you name it (pics available on request 😂). I enjoy making people laugh, having deep conversations, and generally being easy-going while knowing when to be serious. I speak a few languages (European and South Asian) and love learning new ones. If you speak something I don’t, I’ll probably pick it up eventually, Insha’Allah.

    The next chapter in my life excites me, so I’m genuinely looking for a partner with the same enthusiasm to build everything with: family, wealth, security, and a future. Someone laid-back, trustworthy, and open, who I can cook for, share life with, and come home to after a long day. Bonus points if you laugh at my terrible jokes.

    Bismillah

    1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender -33 Male 6ft 2
    2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect -26-36, but open if there is compatibility
    3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?- UK, yes willing to relocate if needed be
    4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - British Pakistani - open to any but preferably pakistani/arab
    5. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single - never married
    6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline 6-12 months
    7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Ambitious, Caring, Humble, Deen Independent
    8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Practising Sunni Muslim, i am not perfect but by the will of allah i am trying
    9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters in Interior and Textile Design, looking for someone with an MA or BA degree equivalent
    10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status - Employed
    11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? yes
    12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - trying new cuisines, travelling to different countries, a good movie
    13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you - i feel as though i’ve seen a lot of the world and i’ve got to the stage where i want to share my adventures and journey with my wife to be inshallah.

    Bismillah,

    1. Age and Gender - 19 Male, North West UK, 6ft2 80kg - slim/average build

    Languages: English, urdu and punjabi

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 18-21

    2. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Willing to relocate but ideally move to the UK, although looking to move to the middle east in the future

    3. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British Pakistani, open to mix but ideally Pakistani

    4. Marital Status - Single

    5. Ideal marriage timeline -2/3 years

    6. important characteristics:

    DEEN: Deen is definitely the most important character I would look for in a potential, I would want my children to be raised by a mother who prays their 5x namaz and understands the true purpose of this life and the greatness of Allah throughout her day

    RESPONSIBILITY: islamically I would like a traditional wife, one who would make the home and upbring the children. With this I would love a modest wife who has haya and sabr

    FAMILY ORIENTED: coming from a traditional background I would ideally prefer someone who wouldn't mind living with my parents, I understand the rights and responsibilities of my wife, to my parents, siblings etc... it would only be myself, my wife and my parents living in a relatively large house. Just as I would adopt your parents as my parents I would also expect the same, I believe unity within families is very important

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity - alhamdulilah I am regularly in tablighi Jammat and frequent the masjid for Salah and programs.

    I am sunni hanafi, I started aalim class at a very young age but due to complications I couldn't continue, I wish to start this again in the future and further consolidate my knowledge and understanding of our beautiful religion

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have completed an apprenticeship alongside other IT related courses, I'm looking to do further studies alongside work

    2. Current Job Status - I'm currently employed full time for local government and manage 10 schools IT infrastructure

    3. Do you want kids? Yes, not sure how many but inshallah yes

    4. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    • I love hiking and going out on random adventures, not knowing what's next always excites me, observing and embracing the creation of Allah
    • photography/videography: this was once a hobby but now a source of income as a side business I run
    • gym and sports: I love playing football, cricket and often go to the gym
    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I'm looking to start further training within the next 2 months inshallah to fulfil a childhood dream of becoming a commercial pilot. This is a very demanding course and will take approximately 2-3 years, alhamdulilah I have accumulated the funds to do so and inshallah if everything goes to plan, once I have employment in this field I'd be looking to complete the other half of my deen

    MALE PROFILE [ESP] 🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸 Salam, everyone If you're interested, feel free to send me a message.

    Age and Gender

    • 25, Male

    Age Range that You Would Want/Require in a Prospect

    • 18-30

    Location, and Are You Willing to Relocate for a Prospect?

    • Spain (España)(spanish)(Español)
    • I could consider relocating, although at first, I would like to stay here.

    Ethnicity, and Are You More Open to Mixing?

    • I'm Mauritanian, from the Black ethnic groups.
    • I don't care about ethnicity, but I would prefer if they spoke Spanish(or soninke/saranhule) to avoid the language barrier.

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    • Single

    Ideal Marriage Timeline

    • Within a reasonable time frame once compatibility is established.

    Five Important Characteristics You Look for in a Prospect

    • Muslim (Sunni)
    • Fulfills her obligations as a Muslim (prays, wears the hijab, fasts, etc.)
    • Respectful
    • Kind
    • Empathetic

    State/Specify Your Level of Religiosity

    • Practicing Sunni; I go to the mosque for all the prayers I can and prioritize my religion.

    Level of Education, and What Are You Looking for?

    • I have a higher education degree in software development. I'm not looking for anything in particular.

    Current Job Status

    • Programmer in the banking environment.

    Do You Want Kids?

    • I believe children are a blessing and would love to have them in the future.

    List 3 Hobbies, or Things You Like to Do in Your Spare Time

    • I'm passionate about reading manga, manhwa, and light novels because they allow me to disconnect and explore different worlds.
    • Video games are my way of having fun and challenging myself.
    • I enjoy riding my bike through nature and staying active through boxing.

    Add Something Short and Interesting About You That Makes You Stand Out!

    • I’ve always enjoyed challenges. If a problem arises, even if everyone else prefers to leave it or turn to someone else, I prefer to take it as a challenge and learn what’s necessary to solve it (as long as it's within my capabilities).
    1. ⁠Age and Gender: 26 and Male (5’9)
    2. ⁠Age Range Desired: 22-28
    3. ⁠Location and Relocation: West Midlands and open to discussion.
    4. ⁠Ethnicity and Openness to Mixing: Bengali and yes.
    5. ⁠Marital Status: Single, never married
    6. ⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within a year or so of meeting the right person.
    7. ⁠Important Characteristics in a Prospect: Honesty, Respect, Kindness, Companionship, and Caring.
    8. ⁠Religiosity: I pray most of my daily salah, trying to implement more sunnah acts like reading the Quran and watching Islamic lectures more often. I value modesty and have never consumed alcohol nor smoked. I would prefer my partner not to be actively doing this (dealbreaker).
    9. ⁠Education Level and Expectations: Graduate with a degree in Mathematics. I dont have a preference.
    10. ⁠Current Job Status: Working full-time as an IT Consultant.
    11. ⁠Do You Want Kids?: Yes, I love kids.
    12. ⁠Hobbies and Interests: I love going to the gym, spending time with family. I enjoy playing sports and am always up for a game of football or cricket. I also like playing video games, especially RPGs and strategy games. Additionally, I enjoy watching MMA, wrestling, and football.
    13. ⁠Something Unique About Me: I am an easy-going person. I prioritize deen over dunya, especially over culture.

    Thank you all for reading.

    Age: 27

    Gender: Male

    Height: 5'10

    Location: Ulm, Germany

    Ethnicity: Pakistani

    Nationality: German

    Marital Status: Single

    Ideal marriage timeline: Within an year

    Age Range: 20-27

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Educated, curious, caring, kind, fun

    Current Job Status: Senior IT Consultant

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?- South Asian, Yes

    Do you want kids? Yes

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Gym, Anime, Programming

    Would be great if you are from Europe :)

    32 Male 5’10

    looking for someone between ages 27/32

    Location: UK Bedfordshire

    My ethnicity British Pakistani open to all Uk national

    Marital Status: single never married

    marriage time line 9 months to 1 year

    ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Deen, kindness, family oriented, positive and willing to compromise

    level of religion - someone that prays 5x and would be a plus if they wear the hijab dress modestly

    ⁠Degree in finance and doing my Acca

    currently an accounting for a resourcing company

    Do you want kids: yes iA

    List 3 hobbies: play sports, keep active gym, going to restaurant, Netflix YouTube.

    Just want to complete my deen and move on to a new chapter in my life and live a good and happy life in the boundaries of Islam. Build strong bond with my wife and her family.

    Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

    • Age/Gender: 30M 
    • Location: UK (originally from Pakistan) 
    • Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to intercultural backgrounds) 
    • Marital Status: Single, never married 
    • Preferred Age Range: 29 and under 
    • Timeline: Within 6 - 12 months, in sha Allah

    A little about me

    Assalamu alaikum! I’m UK-based and work as a Software Developer. I’m pretty easygoing, family-oriented, and I appreciate a simple, peaceful life: deen, good character, and good food.

    I also take biryani seriously. I’m on a long-term mission to perfect it, and I’m not quitting until it tastes like someone’s nani made it.


    Deen / lifestyle

    I’m a practicing Muslim and trying to improve consistently: - I pray 5x a day and more - Ramadan + some extra fasting  - I try to keep things halal (except the occasional “one more dessert won’t hurt” moment)

    I respect sincerity more than perfection, someone who’s trying is a big green flag.


    Education / work

    • BSc + MSc in Computer Science 
    • Software Developer (UK)

    What I’m looking for

    A kind, grounded person who values deen and good akhlaq. Someone who communicates well and wants a marriage that feels like teamwork, not tension.

    Top things I value: - deen + sincerity  - good character (kindness, honesty, patience)  - calm communication (no mind-reading required)  - warmth and affection (a home with mercy)  - someone who stays kind even when life gets a bit spicy (like biryani)


    Children

    Yes, in sha Allah. I’d love to have kids and raise them with Islamic values (and a respectable biryani standard).


    Hobbies

    Cooking, gym/fitness, Islamic lectures, and general tech/gadgets.


    How I prefer to proceed

    Respectful and purposeful conversation. If we seem compatible, I’m happy to involve families appropriately and take it forward in a halal way.

    P.S. If you also like mango shake and can rate biryani like a food critic, we’ll get along.

    JazakumAllahu khairan.

    Age: 30

    Gender: Male

    Height: 6’3

    Location: UK

    Ethnicity: Pakistani

    Nationality: British

    Marital Status: Single

    Ideal marriage timeline: Within an year

    Age Range: 23-32

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect- Loyalty, down to earth, open-minded, caring, practising

    Current Job Status: Healthcare Professional

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?- South Asian, Yes

    Do you want kids?- Yes

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time- Reading, sports and documentaries

    If interested or only questions feel free to ask

    First time every trying something like this, here goes :)

    1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender: 30, Male
    2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Preferred Age Range: 24–30
    3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location: UK – open to relocating for the right person
    4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity: Pakistani – raised in the UK; open to other ethnicities
    5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marital Status: Single, never married
    6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marriage Timeline: Within the next year, insha’Allah (but no rush if things are progressing well)
    7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Top 5 Qualities I’m Looking For: Kindness, emotional maturity, good communication, sense of humour, and someone who’s open-minded but grounded.
    8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Religiosity: I would say I’m moderately practicing – try my best to pray regularly, try to stay connected to faith, fast, love watching Islamic lectures and reading about Islamic history. Ultimately I’m not perfect and would love to grow with someone in this regard.
    9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Education: Medical degree – educational level in itself isn’t important to be but I do want someone who values personal growth and curiosity
    10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Current Job: Doctor (working in the NHS)
    11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kids: Yes, I’d like kids in the future
    12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hobbies/Spare Time: I enjoy traveling, reading (huge fan of fantasy books), gaming and I’m a huge fan of watching live stand up comedy. I also have a cat!
    13. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Something Interesting: I love doing random accents :) don’t know if I’m any good though! I’m also a great cook. I have tonnes of great anecdotes from work/life which I’m sure I could share one day.

    Thanks for taking the time to read this, if you’ve gotten this far you may as well send a message.

    1. Age and Gender: 

      22M

    2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 

      19 - 25

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? 

    Istanbul, yes

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Somali. Yes, Open to mixing

    1. Marital Status:

    Single. No children

    1. Ideal marriage timeline:

    Short once alignment feels clear. 6 months to a year

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    Strong deen. Honest and transparent. Hard working. Emotionally mature and loving.

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity:

    Practicing. Deen comes first. I uphold faraa’id and value discipline.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    Currently pursuing a BBA. I value provision and responsibility over titles.

    1. Current Job Status:

    Student. Focused on long term stability.

    1. Do you want kids?

    Yes, I do want children

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

    Training and fitness. Learning and self growth. Planning and reflection.

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I live with structure and intention. I prefer depth over small talk. I limit distractions.

    1. Age and Gender  --> 26 and Male

    2. Age range that you would want/require in a prospect --> 20 - 28

    3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? --> India/Germany, As being a provider of the house id like my partner to move with me, altho I don't mind relocating 

    4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?  --> open to mixing

    5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children  --> single, never been married

    6. Ideal marriage timeline  --> as long as I find the right one

    7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect  -->  

    8. Honesty kindness and respect  

    9. wears hijab and being modest  

    10. communication regardless of disagreements

    11. supportive caring nature and work as team to build a peaceful home

    12. State/specify your level of religiosity  --> I'm a muslim, I try to pray 5 times daily but due to my work im not able to do all 5 ,fasting during Ramadan and recite entire Qur'an specially during Ramadan and I read and learn hadith and way of our prophet Muhammad pbuh

    13. Level of education, and what are you looking for?  --> I have a Bachelors degree in Mechanical engineering and would prefer educated partner

    14. Current Job Status  --> Production Engineer

    15. Do you want kids?  --> yes , at least 2, however not atleast for first 2yrs cause I would love to spend much time with my partner cause once kids r born it gets busy

    16. List 3 hobbies or things you like to do in your spare time  --> I do pencil drawings, read news and stuff and watch TV shows

    17. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!  --> I like to cook sometimes just make random stuff with my mother,  I'm quite a walker if I'm exploring new places I can walk for hrs without realising and I love simplicity and take my responsibilities seriously and also willing to find common ground. 

    1. Age and Gender:

    29, Male

    1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

    25 - 32

    1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    I live in İstanbul, Turkey. I'm not willing too relocate now but I'm not saying never.

    1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

    Turkish. Open to anything as long as we click.

    1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

    Single, never married

    1. Ideal marriage timeline

    3-6 months

    1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    Commitment to faith Honesty, loyalty Self awareness Being easy-going, patient, not getting angry easily Having good communication skills and transparency

    1. State/specify your level of religiosity

    Committed to fulfill all fardhs and avoid all harams, pray 5 times a day, fast at Ramadan and other times occasionally, eat halal, went to Umrah once and want to go again.

    1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

    I've gone to university but haven't graduated. It's kinda long story but I can say that I don't feel or experience any drawbacks of not having diploma.

    1. Current Job Status

    Working as a graphic designer

    1. Do you want kids?

    No. I am not saying never but also I'm expecting from my future wife to be totally okay if my thoughts about this doesn't change in future.

    1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    Watching movies and series. I prefer watching at home rather than cinema Tennis Last but not least, I LOVE coffee

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I've had Islamic education and have graduated. I'm not just talking about learning to read Quran even though it is the most important one. My family are all committed Muslims and very supportive.

    Salaam,

    1. ⁠Age and Gender 29, Male 5ft5

    2. ⁠Age Range you would want/require in a prospect 24-28

    3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based in London, UK. Planning to stay in London for now.

    4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British Bangladeshi (Sylheti).

    5. ⁠Marital Status Single, no children.

    6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline Looking to get married within the next 1–2 years, Insha’Allah.

    7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect • Practicing Muslimah with modesty and good akhlaaq • Family-oriented with respect for elders • Intelligent and able to hold meaningful conversations • Kind and easy-going personality • Someone who values stability and tranquility in daily life

    8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity Moderately practicing — I pray and try to live by Islamic values, but always striving to improve.

    9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? University-educated MSc. Would prefer someone with degree.

    10. ⁠Employed in tech.

    11. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes, Insha’Allah.

    12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time • Weight training and swimming to stay active • Reading and discussing topics like history, philosophy, psychology, and science

    13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’m introspective, easy-going, and value calmness and stability.

    I went to Las Vegas for a tech meet up - can discuss more on how it was!

    Age and Gender: 25 M 5'11'' 

    Age Range: 22~28 flexible

    Location: UK South East England, can't relocate

    Ethnicity: Pakistani, open to mixing

    Marital Status: Single

    Ideal marriage timeline: Max 1 year

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: honest, trustful, forgiving, empathetic and someone who is willing to and trying to be better

    State/specify your level of religiosity: pray 5 times, fast, zakat. Can be a bit up and down but I am trying to make myself better. 

    Level of education: Master in field related to AI and data science and bachelors in software engineering

    Current Job Status: Full time software engineet

    Do you want kids? Sure but in future

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    Gym, book reading and thinking about joining a sports club in future

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out

    Brutally honest, clumsy, sense of humor, don't have any female or male friends and have never dated anyone or had gf or whatever, I don't get angry easily. Please ask me anything I will answer as honestly as possible and I expect same from others. 

    Assalamualaikum!

    Age and Gender: 24M , 5’7

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Germany. Can be discussed, but yes.

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, and yes!!!

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single.

    Ideal marriage timeline: I don’t believe in long talking stages, and prolonged engagements. With that being said, nikkah can be mutually agreed upon In Shaa Allah.

    3 important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    Someone who complete the basic pillars of Islam. I don’t consider myself perfect, nor do I want perfection. However, i’d like for them to have the desire to be a better muslim. I would ideally want someone more religious than me.

    Someone who isn’t materialistic. I do well for myself, and live for different experiences. Despite liking finer things in life, I don’t want someone that defines success or growth with materialistic values.

    Also, it would be amazing if the person loves nature, travelling, learning new things, and is ambitious. (Goals of their own)

    State/specify your level of religiosity:

    I would consider myself to be a moderate muslim (sunni, if that matters) looking to be better.

    • ⁠Pray 5x a day • ⁠Don’t listen to music • ⁠No riba • ⁠I don’t smoke/drink/do drugs • ⁠Fulfill the basic pillars of islam • ⁠I take an interest in deen and want to constantly improve. • ⁠I take my deen from Quran and Sunnah. • ⁠I don’t engage in cultural traditions that go against Islam.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for? I am a Lawyer, have a Law degree from the University of London and currently pursuing a masters in IP and Data Law

    Current Job Status: Work full time in data privacy law in Germany Alhumdulliah.

    Do you want kids? Yes, In Sha Allah

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

    • ⁠I love travelling, exploring new cultures, food and spontaneous plans. • ⁠I love outdoor sports (football being the 1st).

    Asalamualakhum everyone,

    1. Gender: Male
    2. Age: 24
    3. Age range I require: 20-24
    4. Height: 5ft 8
    5. Ethnicity: Pakistani
    6. Open to mixing: Would prefer Pakistani but am open.
    7. Status: Single
    8. Location: London, England
    9. Ideal marriage timeline: within 2 years

    Five important characteristic I want in a spouse: Good akhlaaq, humbleness, modesty, loyalty and trust.

    Specify my level of religiosity: I try my best to pray 5 times a day (Fajr is a struggle I’ll admit) and be god conscious in all my actions. I’ve been trying better with reading Quran with translation lately and expanding my Islamic knowledge. I wouldn’t say I’m ‘religious’, just that I’m actively trying to be a better Muslim.

    No one’s perfect and everyone’s on their own journey. Long as you try to be a better Muslim, you are a good Muslim. It’s our effort and intentions that count.

    Level of education: Bachelors in Computer Science.

    Job: Automation Test Analyst.

    Do I want kids? Yes.

    Hobbies/Interests: I spend my free time with family, reading about the world, watching movies and spamming friends with memes. I also love my long drives, vibing to music, going out with friends and playing sports.

    Bit about me: I’m a thoughtful and caring person. I’d want to make my wife’s life easier and make her feel seen and special.

    An ambivert - I have my phases of being a hobbit at home but also going out with friends every weekend. I’d like someone open minded, fun and adventurous as I believe I’m the same. Most people would say I’m mature, quite easy to talk to, level headed while still being fun, ambitious and true to my values and I hope to find the same in my partner.

    May Allah make everyone’s search easier 🤲

    Asalaamu Alaikum

    Age and Gender 22 Years old, Male, 6ft slim/lean physique

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 20+ (Flexible - just looking for similar maturity, life experiences and understanding.)

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? United Kingdom (West Midlands) open to relocating within the UK after discussing

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani Punjabi (born and raised in the UK). Open to different ethnicities. Looking for someone raised here.

    Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single - Never been married

    Ideal marriage timeline ideally within 6 months from speaking to 1 year (No hard limit, comes down to circumstances but I wouldn't want to delay marrying my wife!) 

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    1. Genuinely strives to do their best in Islam. Strives to observe Hijab / modesty, does their best to pray all 5 prayers, fasts when necessary and reads Quran.
    2. Mature Communicator & Accountable. Someone who is receptive to advice but can also give good advice. Tries their best to be open about their feelings and not bottling up thoughts, it's a team effort!
    3. Fun and warm. I want to be able to relax and unwind in my wife's company. I love jokes, humour and a bit of sarcasm!
    4. Academically / Professionally motivated in some capacity. Shows an interest in pursuing knowledge.
    5. Cultural / family compatibility - Looking for someone family oriented. Understanding/speaking Urdu isn't necessary but having good family values is important to me.

    State/specify your level of religiosity: Sunni Muslim following the Hanafi Madhab. Strive to do my best religiously. Pray 5 times a day, fast during Ramadan and read Quran. I only eat halal food, don't smoke, don't drink, don't have female friends, don't have any prior relationships and don't engage in any bidah.

    I've previously completed the first year of an Islamic alim course and I occasionally read books or listen to lectures. Overall I consider my level of knowledge to be average. Considering resuming Islamic studies depending on my situation (and if my wife is keen on learning together too). Would love to preform Umrah and eventually Hajj with my wife inshaAllah, something I'm keen to work towards.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for? BEng in Engineering. I don't have a strong preference for specific level, but I do value ambition in some capacity (e.g. professional/academic/religious).

    Current Job Status: Employed full time Alhamdulilah (Graduate Engineer in a consultancy)

    Do you want kids? Yes inshaAllah, but I'd be happy with however many we're blessed with. Would love to raise my children in a stable, loving, deen focused household!

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. Keeping active is always a priority for me (hikes, morning walks, late night jogs and cycling when the weather is good). I also like hobbies that keep my hands busy Origami and knitting I do on and off, also picked up baking bread after I graduated (I'd love to practice cooking and baking with my future wife). I enjoy playing games with my family and friends like board games or chess and occasionally video games. Don't really watch shows anymore but I'd be willing to sit through them with my wife if she's super keen. I'm hoping to pick up hiking and other out door activities to better appreciate nature and for reflecting.

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Despite being introverted I managed to do a bit of public speaking Alhamdulilah, once in front of a group of about 90 people and once on radio. I also led a month long Muslim community project. Gave me a much deeper appreciation for overcoming weaknesses and challenging yourself. Something I want to take forward into my married life insha Allah.

    Ultimately I'm looking for someone who will bring me closer to Allah and someone I can help bring closer to Allah. Once I get to connect with some shared interests or experiences I can be a lot more talkative! I'd say I'm a very calm and peaceful person by nature and a good listener.

    (if you're not sure about anything feel free to drop a message to ask!)

    Age and Gender?
    22. Male

    Age Range that you would want in a prospect?
    F19-24

    Location? Willing to relocate for a prospect?
    UK. Can not relocate : (
    Possibility of marrying someone outside the UK if they get a dependent VISA on myself so they can move here.

    Ethnicity? Open to mixing?
    South Asian (but people often confuse me for an Arab lol). Open to other ethnicities

    Marital Status?
    Single (never married)

    Ideal marriage timeline?
    If things work out, as soon as both families agree on a suitable date

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    1. Her actions, mindset and goals have the akhirah in mind, including seeking marriage. Does the obligatory actions, wears modest clothing including hijab (would love it if she is able to wear the niqab), implements the sunnah, does voluntary i3badah, diligently avoids and aspires against haram.
    2. Growing with her husband in religion and other matters is a bonding experience she looks forward to
    3. Good character (kind, good control over anger, patient, doesn't look down on certain people, is not stingy, etc.)
    4. Feminine (loving, gentle, values affection, etc.)
    5. Wants to work part time or not at all after children. This can be discussed further

    State/specify your level of religiosity:
    I almost always pray all 5 prayers in a masjid, including all sunnahs and the duha prayer, read the Quran for 1-2 hours a day, fast occasionally, and pray tahajjud (when I don't sleep through my alarm). I have memorised 23/30 parts of the Quran, and have studied fusha grammar to an intermediate level (my vocabulary and fluency is very poor though, so I can not speak Arabic, but have some understanding of the Quran, and can sometimes understand arab scholars if they speak slowly). Considering my strong foundations, I believe that I could learn spoken arabic within 6 months if I were to marry an Arabic speaker. I am working on improving my Arabic, Quranic understanding, knowledge and practice of the religion. I often recite some adhkaar or listen to lectures while walking, cleaning, etc.
    Alhamdulillah for whatever i'badah Allah SWT gave me the strength to do.
    Alhamdulillah, I don't really have any habitual sins, though of course I slip up and sin like any other Muslim.

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?
    A*, 2A, B in A-levels. Currently studying MBBS

    Current Job Status:
    Unemployed. I receive a stipend as part of my sponsorship, which would be used to provide for myself and future wife. Assuming I am the sole provider, this means we would have quite a simple/basic life (but yes, separate accommodation) until I start working as an FY1 in 3 years, inshaAllah (job essentially guaranteed on graduation). I hope that Allah gives me the ability to provide my wife such love, affection and attention that she still feels blessed in spite of simple living circumstances. I have a genuine desire to fulfill this hadith, and be like the prophet ﷺ was to his wives, so I can be from amongst the best of people:
    The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.”
    Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1162

    Do you want kids?
    Yes

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:
    Gaming (though I'm not the obsessive type who plays games late into the night, or rages (Alhamdulillah))
    Technology: Building PCs, tinkering with electronics (repairs, refurbishing, etc.), buying and selling electronics
    Spending time with family

    Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    Not a picky eater. If you possess the knowledge of placing edible objects in a pot, I can consume it
    (though I do have a sweet tooth so if you can skillfully place edible objects (including sugar) in an oven, I will love you very much).
    I would like my wife to cook for us. If I'm not the sole provider, I would make up for that with other chores.

    I have lived with just my sister for a year. I felt like that was very similar to a marriage (without the romance of course) as I learned how to live with another person. We ironed out almost all our contentions quickly and I hope to have an even more successful partnership with my wife (romance included this time lol).

    I have little social media presence as I consider most of them very harmful. I use WhatsApp, Facebook marketplace and Reddit.

    In terms of character, I am introverted and shy. Though I can open up once I'm comfortable. Alhamdulillah, I am also gentle, honest, kind, and have great control over anger. I am a thoughtful person, and consider myself to be emotionally intelligent. I strive to perfect my character, which means I take on criticism and try to address any flaws. I am precise, and can handle stress very well.

    Alhamdulillah, I have received many comments that I am quite handsome (beauty is in the eye of the beholder though).

    Salamaleykum.

    # Age and Gender
    25 Male, 182cm, average/slim physique.

    # Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
    20-27.

    # Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
    Netherlands, Amsterdam. Willing to relocate within the Netherlands, but prefer Amsterdam and adjacent cities.

    # Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
    Turkish. I am open to mixing, but think being of the same Dutch/Turkish culture would ease marriage and communication.

    # Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
    Single.

    # Ideal marriage timeline
    Ideally getting married this year or in 2027.

    # Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
    I would like to be with someone who is confident, is feminine, and likes to spend time with me and respects alone time. I highly dislike gossip and jealousy. I find it very attractive if someone gets happy from even the most smallest thing, such as something nice/surprising happens to a fictional character from a book. Also, if there is a dispute, I would like us to handle it between each other without involving parents or friends, with the Deen as our compass. Also, I would like to go on trips to (south)east Asia with my prospective wife.

    # State/specify your level of religiosity
    I perform my 5 daily prayers, fast during Ramadan and am planning to go on Hajj with my prospective wife inshaAllah. I try to attend weekly religious meetings (islamitische lezingen). Recently, I finished taking Aqeedah lessons (Basic/Intermediary level). I try to grow in my Deen gradually without a rush inshaAllah.

    # Level of education, and what are you looking for?
    I have a masters degree in Software Engineering and am looking for someone who has a degree or is near to get her degree.

    # Current Job Status
    I work full-time as a junior software engineer for just over a year.

    # Do you want kids?
    Yes. There should be no preference for a boy or girl child. I pray that Allah gives me children if it is going to be the best (most ghayr) for me.

    # List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
    In my free time I read books, work on personal software projects, research about interesting stuff or watch a movie or anime.

    # Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!
    Not sure if it is of interest, but I am a twin with a girl :). Also, I am reading "Can't Hurt Me!" by David Goggins at the moment even though I rarely read self-help, but David has greatly astonished me with his life story.

    Age and Gender- 32,M

    Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?- Canada and Dubai. No

    Marital Status - Single

    Ideal marriage timeline- Within an year

    Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect- 24-30

    Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect- Loyalty, love, open-minded, caring, independent

    State/specify your level of religiosity- Balanced

    Level of education, and what are you looking for?- CPA,CGA,FCCA (equivalent to 3 masters qualifications) and bachelors degree, looking for an educated person

    Current Job Status- Employed

    Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?- South Asian, Yes

    Do you want kids?- Yes

    List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time- Sports, visiting the gym , tv series, helping parents

    Please respond with a profile and picture so we can proceed further InshAllah

    بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

    1. ⁠What is your age and gender? 20M 5ft6

    2. ⁠What age range would you want or require in a prospect? 18 to 23, shorter than 5ft6

    3. ⁠What is your location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? London, not willing to relocate.

    4. ⁠What is your ethnicity, and are you open to mixing? Pakistani, not open to mixing. This is purely due to language (Urdu) as i’d feel uncomfortable if my wife couldn’t understand my mother tongue, or if I couldn’t understand hers. I’m not concerned about cultural traditions as Islam is more important.

    5. ⁠What is your marital status (Single / Divorced / Children)? Single, never been in a relationship.

    6. What is your ideal marriage timeline? Within 6 months. In my opinion, this should be more than enough time to know we are compatible with each other without the nikkah being excessively delayed.

    7. ⁠List five important characteristics you look for in a prospect. Caring - I wish to have a wife who deeply cares and loves me, and for me to reciprocate this back to her. I want to be greeted with a warm smile every time I arrive home from a long day of work/study. She will be by my side supporting me throughout my career and entire life until our deaths, and may we be reunited in Jannah.

    Feminine - I would like her to be very feminine in all ways. Beauty, softness and love are traits which Allah swt has blessed women with, and I want my wife to exemplify these traits to the best of her ability.

    Modest - I follow the opinion that the Niqab is fardh, and as such would strongly be in favour of it being worn. I want a wife who is comfortable yet confident in protecting herself from the fitna of non-mehram men in public.

    Submissive - As men we are the protectors and providers of women. I want my wife to receive this protection and provision to the maximum ability, and for this to happen she’ll need to be submissive to my leadership.

    1. What is your level of religiosity? Very practising. I follow the Quran and Sunnah upon the understanding of the salaf to the best of my ability. I am strongly against innovations, and I am seeking knowledge to further my Islam.

    It’s impotant to note that I come from a family of varying levels of religiosity, and even from different sects of Islam. I hope this won’t impact our marriage and isn’t used against me as I still love and cherish my family even if I hold disagreements with them.

    1. What is your level of education, and what are you looking for in your prospect’s education? Currently in my third year of university. I would prefer my wife not to be in university so she can focus on being a wife first and foremost.

    2. What is your current job status? Student with the occasional job. Basically, in my university course there are 3+ month long paid placements where I earn a fair amount of money. Once I graduate inshallah (in mid 2027), my course had guaranteed a job at a large accounting company depending on my placement performance.

    3. Do you want children? Yes, inshallah I wish to have many children. My goal would be to start having children around 1.5yrs into the marriage, to make sure that I have an established stable job to give our kids the best upbringing.

    4. List three hobbies or things you like to do in your spare time.

    Going to the gym - Alhamdulilah I have been on a long weightloss journey where I have lost tons of fat and gained a fair amount of muscle in the process. Since then I still consistently go to the gym, although I wish to make a home gym to avoid the fitna of a puvlic gym.

    Cooking - During the same time as my passion for gym grew, I started cooking my own meals to track my calories for weight-loss. In the process however, I also grew a passion for cooking tasty but healthy recipes, and I consistently meal-prep for myself.

    Gaming - I don’t game as much as I used to, but I still enjoy it here and there. I don’t watch shows or movies so gaming is my main escape when life becomes a bit stressful or hectic.

    1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out. I am extremely passionate about Islam and have been for the past five years. I love learning stories about our beloved Prophet ﷺ, sharing them, and implementing them into my life. My goal is to have a partner who shares this same level of enthusiasm and can be my life partner to help me reach Jannah.

    ‎اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ I hope this finds you well

    1. ⁠⁠⁠23M 5’11 ft⁠/180 cm
    2. ⁠⁠18-26 (not too fussed about age as long as we click)
    3. ⁠⁠⁠Live in London. Willing to relocate to a Muslim country in the future.
    4. ⁠⁠⁠I am Bengali(Noakhali). Open to mixing.
    5. ⁠⁠⁠Single, never married.
    6. ⁠⁠⁠Depend of how quickly we click. But within a year إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ
    7. ⁠⁠I try to live in a simple fashion - value the smaller things in life. I’d like a spouse who values the same . Deen and Akhlaaq - an individual who strives in this life in preparation for the next. Someone affectionate and caring. Someone adventurous, as I would like to travel with my spouse quite a lot.
    8. ⁠⁠⁠I pray 5 times a day الحمد لله. And I do prioritise to pray them at the mosque. I attend Islamic events and would like someone that enjoys them too. I try my best to follow sunnah and the Quran teachings. I am looking for someone that is willing to grow both mentally and spiritually to try be the best version of ourselves. I try my best to improve my Islamic knowledge on a daily basis, by listening to islamic podcasts and lectures.
    9. ⁠⁠⁠Im currently doing an apprenticeship as a mechanical and electrical engineer for the London buses. I will qualify in 2 years إِنْ شَاءَ اللَّهُ
    10. ⁠⁠⁠Employed full time.
    11. ⁠⁠⁠Yes, I love kids and would love to have mini me running around if Allah blesses me with them.
    12. ⁠⁠⁠In my spare time I like to spend time with friends and family and I love travelling( hope you do too as I want to travel all over before having kids)
    13. ⁠⁠Grew up in Italy, and people say I am quite funny. But I would let you decide if that is true.

    ‎جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرً for reading

    بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

    1. ⁠Age and Gender - 28M, 6ft

    2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 23-28

    3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK, id prefer my wife to be from UK or Europe

    4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British Pakistani and i’m open to mixing, though my values and principles are more aligned with Islam than culture and so Id want this in my wife.

    5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single, never married, no children - I also want my wife to be the same.

    6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - no fixed timeline. A sensible amount of time will be required to check compatibility. I would like to get parents involved early on in the process.

    7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    1 - Deen over Dunya - Someone who is a practicing Muslimah (fardh, sunnah and other optional acts of worship), fears Allah and strives for Jannah, someone who can self reflect and constantly trying to improve themselves in all aspects.

    2 - Calmness - Im really calm and relaxed in nature and I also want my partner to be calm and gentle in nature who likes a relaxed, peaceful environment, always positive minded and sees the good in everything.

    3 - Modesty - Hijab should be practised. Im all for dressing well and feeling bonita as long as it’s compliant with Islam.

    4 - Family orientated - Someone who can prioritise the needs of the family and has a nurturing mindset.

    5 - Loving - Someone who loving, caring, gentle, kind and romantic and overall someone feminine. Id want to be able to do various different activities with my wife to maintain a strong bond & keeping the spark alive.

    I like to keep fit and would want someone who also values keeping fit and being healthy in mind body and soul.

    1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Alhamdulillah Im a practising Muslim. I’m able to pray 5 times a day both Fard and Sunnah prayers comfortably, dhikr and istigfhar daily as well as other private acts of worship which I keep between myself and Allah SWT. I practise the pillars of Islam, I follow the commands ordained in the Quran and follow as much Sunnah as I can and aim to improve consistently.

    I’m strict on no riba (will not take out things like mortgage, loans, car financing & buy now pay later schemes) even if it means my life isn’t as fancy.

    I was lucky to have been called to perform Umrah and InshAllah perform Hajj in the future to complete the fifth pillar.

    I like listening to lectures/ talks to build knowledge on Islam and perfect my character. I avoid music as much as possible but may fall into it occasionally.

    Alhamdulillah, I don’t smoke, I don’t drink alcohol or consume other intoxicants. I do not gamble. I do not follow culture traditions that go against Islam.

    I don’t label myself with sect differences or madhabs. I don’t do mawlid, milad or khatam.

    1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? - BA in Accounting & Finance, currently working to become qualified ACCA. Id like for my wife to be educated and will support her if this is something she’ll want to pursue after marriage as well.

    2. ⁠Current Job Status - Employed, full time as an accountant and working on a business on the side.

    3. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes definitely, ideally 3 but of course this is something to discuss, I accept whatever Allah has written for me.

    4. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - in my spare time I love working out at the gym. I like watching movies, sitcoms/ documentaries and travelling.

    5. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

    I would like to make al-hijrah one day in the future if Allah wills, I think being in a muslim environment and around Islamic values in society would be nice. I try to travel and experience the Islam dense countries so I can learn and experience the different cultures.

    Overall I want my wife to be my best friend, I want to be able to experience life together. A peaceful home with ethical values, a place where we feel safe and comfortable around each other, raise children with good akhlaq and correct Islam and strive for Jannah.

    بِسْمِ ٱللّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ‎

    عَلَى أَكْمَلِ الْعالَمينَ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ الصَلَوَات

    1) 27 year old male at an intimidating 5’6!

    2) 19-27 (However depending on the overall person, it’s not a dealbreaker if they are slightly older)

    3) Family based in Oxford, and I am currently there too and aim to be based in the South East long term. Agreeable to relocating within the UK but would like to be within travelling distance to family.

    4) Pakistani (Punjab). Open to other ethnicities as long as our families are compatible.

    5) Single, never married/been in a relationship before.

    6) As soon as Allah wills. Not interested in long talking periods and “halal dating”.

    7) Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    i) Steadfastness in their Deen. Allah and His Prophet are dearer to a believer than their own selves and egos. I’m confident that for someone that does this, they would be able to live with their spouse in tranquillity; working together to create an environment that nurtures affection and mercy between each other, with the aim of working towards Jannah.

    ii) Dedicated to their loved ones. Growing up, I have really enjoyed being a pillar of support for my family. Whether this is helping with the mundane chores around the house, being a good laugh after a long day, to pushing myself to support and lead my family to get closer to Allah and His Prophet ﷺ. Going forward, this is the baseline of my role as a husband and I will build upon that to be merciful to my spouse like my exemplar, the Prophet ﷺ. I would like to see an equivalent enthusiasm from my spouse with their families.

    iii) Aficionado (I wanted to throw in a new word I learnt!). This means someone who is really enthusiastic about a particular subject. I don’t think spouses should have a complete overlap of interests. It’s great to see someone who has mastered a craft and you can see the enthusiasm in their eyes! I’m sure it would be even more lovely to learn and hear about a new skill from my spouse inshaAllah.

    iv) Integrity in their interactions. I want someone who’s clear and sticks to the Islamic moral principles when it comes to interacting with others. This would mean respecting the Islamic boundaries between the genders online and offline (i.e not free mixing, having friends with the opposite gender, going to shisha lounges, etc.). I wouldn’t ask this of someone if I wasn’t doing it myself, so I think it’s fair to expect this level of commitment from one another.

    v) Accommodating to the challenges of life. I have strong belief in Allah ultimately deciding what is written for us with the good and bad in life. I want to have a partner who also understands this. Nobody is the "perfect spouse" so I would want my partner to work together with me to assist and be patient with each other so that we can become each other’s pillars through thick and thin!

    8) I’m Sunni and follow the Hanafi madhab in fiqh. Alhumdullilah I pray the 5 daily prayers including when I’m at work and I make an effort to plan things around my salah so I don’t miss it if I am out. I have studied my obligatory knowledge (fard ‘ayn) under a scholar and am have studied a short book of hadith translated by Shiekh Mahdi Lock. I only eat halal meat. In terms of the future, my goal is to improve my tajweed, memorise more Quran and learn fusha Arabic.

    For my spouse, it would lovely if they have also studied their deen to some level (Studying Islam from TikTok doesn’t count haha!). Definitely not a deal breaker if they haven’t. The main thing for me is finding someone who loves Allah and His messenger ﷺ. Regardless of knowledge, someone who surpassed us in manners has surpassed us in the religion - though I do have an ‘ick’ if someone greets me by saying “salaams”!

    9) MBBS, BSc Alhumdullilah. I went to a university in London (Imperial) for 6 years and got my medical degree and a seperate BSc

    I am looking for someone who is knowledgeable - if someone has not had the chance to go to university, then I'd want them to be more educated in the Islamic sciences as a student of knowledge at least. I am supportive of my spouse working after marriage but with the expectation that I will be upholding the financial responsibility of the household. If they want to chip in or not, it would not affect how I see them in my eyes.

    I'd also want my spouse to put their work on hold once children are in the picture inshaAllah. Off chance someone is not working at the moment, I would like them to be productive with their time, preferably learning a skill and actively growing as a Muslim.

    10) 4th year working as a doctor alhumdullilah. Now working as an Anaesthetist with a long term interest in also working in ICU inshaAllah.

    11) InshaAllah. Within the next few years after settling down with my spouse, and when Allah decrees.

    12) On top of being similar to other people out there with being a foodie, spending time with family, socialising with friends, and going to the gym (going to pick this back up again), I enjoy reading and making coffee (I have my own Nespresso machine!). In terms of a hobby I’d like to develop, I’d probably would like to become more finance savvy and start investing. If you have tips that would be a major plus haha!

    13) I saved the best for last - I really enjoy collecting fragrances and have an upward of 100 and counting. It’s also something the Prophet ﷺ enjoyed (Sunan an-Nasa'i 3939) so I enjoy this hobby the most! I tend to wear Terre d’Hermes but I always spice it up depending on the weather and occasion.

    JazakaAllah khair for reading. May Allah grant each and every one of you the best in this life and the next.