video announcement because I don't think a lot of you actually read anything, not very many of you seem to understand the purpose of the sub or the rules. But tldr the mod team is very aware of various matters in the subreddit and we are working on solutions.
This post is actually a couple weeks late but it is hard to focus on tasks sometimes.
key points:
-This is not a gooner subreddit and this is not a misandry subreddit, this is a meme subreddit and some of you are ridiculous. We have been gradually getting stricter about post approval, but we can ultimately only approve what is posted. Be the change you want to see, post actually good memes.
-It's funny to make fun of short men but we don't have any genuine hate towards them and we would rather promote a positive space instead of just letting them be shunned and fall into the internet moid radicalism pipeline. People say no one cares about men issues and then other people say men only care about father's day on mother's day or whatever. You're all so childish, so I just have to be mommy and fix your problems for you.
-We are partnering with the guy who runs r/kitchencels and we've opened up r/dwarfmaxxing to promote healthy and positive manlet development.
part of the reason the mod team opted for the video announcement was because we expected to be accused of being secretly men because we don't fall into the cringe redditor circlejerk, but now we're probably gonna be called pick-me girls because God forbid women aren't all a hivemind that agree with each other all the time. There will probably also be someone saying "that's a femboy" or something, and then someone will reply with "even better" and you'll both get so many updoots.
Our plans for reddit are only in their early stages. This is only the beginning. :3
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What the hell happened?
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Literally me when I check the sub while laying in bed in the middle of the night. I feel like I must have missed a roller coaster of drama or something
Sorry everyone, I farted real bad and it killed the mood in this sub.
Man it stinks really bad 🤢
Every TIME, ButtIsForPunishment…
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Same. I'm just as confused.
I was caught of guard too
Me fr fr
“Unfortunately I have a job in real life” painfully relatable
as long as I don't get random dudes in here shaming me for being a freak I don't care. long live the rules!
Naw they just side into the DMs to lay down their lame game and then call us sluts.
true. the most recent DM I have is from a guy asking to see a picture of my pussy as a first message. really bringing their A game
Shame kink. They think all attention is good attention. Brain broke.
Chat me up a bit. Pussy pics are like 4th message material.
that's why I don't answer or reply to any of them. 0 attention is the only way and I have enough horny ppl who actually know me IRL I can sext if want that
Wish I had your problems. I got an empty stable and low-grade randos only.
honestly I was in a very bad relationship for almost all of my 20s. took me some time in therapy but I have been slowly meeting good people since then but I had to be a good enough place to let those relationships grow. I hope you find what/who you're looking for 💖
edit: ahaha getting downvoted for sharing I wish someone else luck in finding the kind of thing they're looking for after saying they have an empty stable. wtf
What fucking losers. Way I see it this space is for the ladies. Guys are guests. Since we are guest if we are not the ones that should be initiating DMs. We gotta have manners. Also using slut as an insult in 2025 is crazy. I would love to be sluttier. Just dont have the self confidence, or frankly the energy 🤣
The loudest guests ever. Sit quietly in the shame box and I’ll get you when I need you.
Or if you just fucking HAVE TO DM me, have something to say. My back hurts too much to carry a conversation.
Girl same, I don’t care if they dm me but expecting me to dom them off the bat and be sexual in the DMs when they say absolutely nothing and get mad when I don’t want to sext them isn’t cool.
I've always been autistic, overweight, and socially inept, but even I know that's not kosher. I don't even understand why they do it. Maybe they think they'll get lucky? Or they've been talking to themselves and have the whole conversation played out in their head? Because clearly if you post here you must want attention, right? (/s)
This is the first (and probably last) comment I've made on this sub. I just hope yall can have your sub back.
I think it’s those people who got high on copium of “you miss every shot you don’t take” and think it’s a valid strategy to just try again and again without any introspection.
"you miss every shot you don't take" is such a weird thought if you don't change anything. As an archer if you miss your first couple of shots it's not the target that is wrong it's your technique that is wrong.
Ur good my man. I’m just saying if you stroll into my DMs act like a guest, you (anyone not you specifically) don’t own them.
Let your freak flag fly! :)
Real talk...
When I first got here, I felt like I stumbled across a secret ladies club. And as a man, it was kind of a privilege to be here. Just be chill, don't rock the boat, making jokes. It was cool to laugh with you guys and you lot crack me up.
I remember even then seeing these simps popping up here and there. Maybe cause of the anime and porn memes. They weren't really joking or laughing, they were just throwing a pity party for themselves. Constantly trying to appeal to anyone who'd look at them. I knew it was a bad idea to coddle them.
Now it seems like this sub is 90% rancid horny incels thinking they're going to find their nerdy goth queen here. And it fucking sucks cause this was such a cool place for a little while.
Same, I lurked for so long cuz I afraid if I commented or posted I’d get banned 😭🤣
I didn’t want to speak up since I wasn’t sure how the subreddit felt about trans women.
Turns out it’s pretty chill here
I welcome any subreddit that welcomes you. Happy to have you here 😊
Honestly same for the longest time xD
Agree completely. I'm an AMAB enby who is queer, disabled, and incredibly kinky, so a lot of the posts I resonated with were entirely about the freaky/broken/don't-give-a-fuck overlaps. It used to be that the simps were hanging out with 1-3 upvotes, but then they started appearing higher and higher up in threads and I started to feel kinda gross even just lurking here.
This sub has consistently been the one I've shared the most with my friends though. Probably says something about the company I keep xD
I absolutely agree. It all happened when that big post that a bunch of dudes brigaded and cried "not all men" and the vibe shifted dramatically
which post?
https://www.reddit.com/r/LetGirlsHaveFun/comments/1iowgzb/god_forbid_a_girl_has_stable_friendships_im_so/
This is the one I'm referring to
As a random girl can i praise you for being a freak instead? 🥺
approved!
Just keep posting your unhinged feral memes please. 🙏 they bring a light to my otherwise dour days.
i absolutely will. that's why I do it. I am lucky enough that I get to enjoy my kinks IRL with people who respect me and care about me. figure the least I can do is be a freaky inspiration/confidence fairy
Freak shaming? No, we do only freak praising here.
as a random dude, please be you. If you are a freak, so be it!
This might sound weird but I feel like as a consequence of men being seen as the "interesting" gender and girls being seen as the "boring" ones I sometimes feel like anything weird or eccentric about me is just something I'm doomed to have as a guy. I think they'd call it gender essentialism? Like, the idea that men and women have certain innate qualities that they can't escape, if I have that right.
I grew up as the weird, autistic, overweight, asthmatic kid. It was a hard uphill battle to try and learn where the line was between what kinds of behavior and attitudes are normal and what aren't acceptable around others. Maybe that in itself is something everyone goes through, but I distinctly remember getting therapy in 3rd grade to learn how to socialize because all the other kids were just doing it naturally and I wasn't.
So I guess seeing a space like this, where girls can reclaim the idea of being a freak, is like, comforting and validating to me. Like, yea. Everyone's weird, and that's okay. I don't have to feel ashamed for not being normal or feel like being born a guy means I'm just naturally a weirdo who can't help turning people away. I still wanna work on myself and be the kind of person who treats everyone well, but it's nice to know some types of freaky are just... normal, I guess.
So, thanks for being a freak. You're pretty cool 👍
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why are the funny people that live in my phone talking about being real very concerning
how dare they be real
GOD FORBID they be real
Except the puppy. Real puppies do be wonderful.
Punished Chip would like a word with you
c'mon dude dwarfmaxxing is freaking genius, HAHAHAAH
Rock and stone!
FOR ROCK AND STONE
ROCK AND STONE TO THE BONE
Rock and Stone forever!
For Karl!
FELS UND STEIN!
FOR KARL
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I think the number one rule most people should internalize.... Don't be dick!
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Sad day for us nightwing fans :(
r/batmanarkham leaking
/unaslume That's just his name man why does aslume take the credit for everything😔
/reaslume I'm proud of you, Dick
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Predator
Nice car
I have no idea what she’s talking about, so I’m not who she’s addressing, but as a short guy, I’m just here because I like the memes made by horny women.
We love short men 🗣️
Closer to the cooch! 🙂↕️
Preach
Ever had the back of your knees kissed by a man standing up?
actually tho i love short men and im friends with a dude who is the same height as me (idk whether to consider it short or not bc i couldnt bother to)
I love you short king 🫵🏾🩷‼️ as a pocket sized woman, I love short men cause I don't have to take a ladder to kiss y'all and most of y'all are still taller anyways
Be me, be under 6'. Land a beautiful 5' 2" Spanish woman with double Ds and an athletic frame. Never pay for a date, going Dutch or letting her pay sometimes. Get married. Be happily married for several years. Have your wife figure out that in the three years you dated you never bought her dinner. Get called a mother fucker. Laugh. Enjoy a happy life with the love of your life.
Me and you 🤝
From what I understood, some come here to 1st degree talk about unhinged stuff, while at the other side of the spectrum you have some taking obvious jokes way too seriously
Also PS, Mod face reveal = rest in pepperoni her DMs
God forbid women curate a space and set expectations!
I love these periodic reminders about not being actually evil. If this sub was (or became) a genuinely hateful place, it would stop being fun and instead just be toxic.
Playful ironic evil must be mixed with sincere wholesomeness, just like horrifying sex fantasies must be paired with consent and communication. ❤ Consent is what makes ethical depravity possible.
It's also neat to see someone directly chastising heightism. I want my short kings to have love and respect and big big smiles 🥰
I'm glad we have good conscientious moderators. We would not have this safe space without them.
ethical gooning ftw 🤑🙏🏾
This is exactly what I feel happened to r/sillygirlclub. It was funny at first then I realized people were actually being serious about some of that shit
This one gets it.
WHERE did you get that shirt from? 😭😭
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it was a test design, the shirt is one of a kind right now but I made stickers with the design
r/LetGirlsHaveFun merch when?
Yes please
Where can we buy the stickers?
I'll add a link in my bio, I didn't think anyone would care lol
dang what did i miss
Gotta be good little puppies
God forbid people remember there are real faces behind most of the names on here.
A cheeky little hooter for the mod team!
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And sometimes it's not just a face, it's a whole...
... creature...
... the creature
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We are indeed funny little guys.
Quite silly as well 😜
And here I was thinking this was all about women touching themselves and/or wanting to put things in other peoples butts.
fr I'm admittedly not very active on this sub, I usually just come here to steal cat memes from chip's comments but I never noticed any genuine misandry on here, I just lurk usually unless I actually have something super funny to say or relate to a meme. Great that the team is taking action though, very cool of the modsies :3
Yep it always genuinely seemed like "girls having fun". A fair bit of debauchery (like a LOT of it, hot damn ladies lift the heavy thing...) but I never saw any actual misandry. Granted most of what I see is the "top rated" shit so maybe it slips through the cracks, but yeah it seems totally benign.
Debauchery is such a good way to describe it! (I’m gonna steal it muahaha)
I always sort by new on this sub bc it’s not the most active and that way I get to see everythinggg and yeah it’s definitely just people being a lil silly. I think some people read “I want a man I can step on and make whimper” type posts as like genuine misogyny?? Which is SO funny to me bc right under a post like that there will literally be a post that’s like “I want a man/woman to step on me and make me whimper”😂
It's a fucking great word isn't it! As long as everybody consents and nobody is getting hurt, except if they consent to getting hurt, within boundaries... Yeah I'm not gonna kink-shame.
As long as everyone involved is cool with it, stuff being put in butts and all, let it rock.
I'm just here to steal memes for my Gf so she thinks I'm funny, sorry not sorry.
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here you go ig :3
Or our own butts. God forbid a girl get backdoor pleasure too.
For real I love spreading sexual positivity through the lens of being a complete freak
Why would I post about hating short men when I could post about pegging them and making them choke on my girl cock (consensually of course)
I applied to a bunch of jobs today and now you’re calling me a good girl. Thank you. Why yes I am 🥰
did you just call the dog "chuddy"
His name is Chuddy
Does he have fun and jump on the bed?
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This video is a rollercoaster and I’m not super clear on what’s been going on but yes it is perfectly valid to choose to be short
Not like a big rollercoaster though. Like the little ones you say at county fairs.
an xkcd i feel is relevant
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i guess that means mods are doing a good job
"choose" to be short?
Let me guess, you're one of these woke snowflakes who think they they were "born that way". Pack it up, liberal. God made "Adam and Eve", not "Madame and Petite".
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Exactly! These people literally need to grow tf up
*sighs* FINE. *adjusts my height in menu so I’m no longer 4’11”*
Hey do you know where the dick and tiddy sliders are? Asking for a friend
Trust me, if I knew where the tiddy slider is you’d be able to tell 💀 (bc I’d have huge gazoongas)
Yeah I'm confused what are people doing that is hateful here? 🤔
This is my favorite mod post of all time.
…if you say so…
Wait I thought this was a jokey meme subreddit. How did other people miss the memo?
Also I love the shirt
"based." as the hip kids say
“That’s a femboy” or something
"Even better" or something
"Take these updoots" or something
My only takeaway is that I wanna be mommy's good little girl
I gotta say I love this sub, I really appreciate you mods for keeping this a positive space
Easily my fav sub.
“Unfortunately I have a job in real life.”
Same :(
After watching the video:
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Honestly I've been convinced that most posts that reach hot on this sub are just men posting slutmaxxing stuff and other horny men upvoting it.
Yeah but they are dumb and bad at it so it is pretty obvious.
The real sad ones try to chat girls up in the DMs and have nothing to say but “what’s up.”
That happens waaay to often but sometimes I get gems like this too
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Lmao “just wanted to let you know” okay dude😭
How the hell do you overshare in a fucking DM like how much of a self conscious do you lack to do something like this. Like as a guy I’d never even think of doing something like that it genuinely fucking perplexes me
Honestly it's better than some of the convos I've had 😭 there's one that particularly creeped me out and I wanted to do something about it but idk who to talk to or what to do because it seemed like something really bad
What's up?
I like you. The way you think is 100% in line with how I see things.
Bullying is wrong. Light jabs are fun.
The difference is targeting a person and targeting an aspect of a person.
If I laugh about short people, it doesn't mean I hate them. If a short person voices how they didn't like that joke, then tell them there's nothing wrong with being short.
Because there isn't! Just remind them you're just having anonymous fun online and don't hold any hate for anyone, especially aspects of people they can't control.
Live and let live. But part of "live and let live" means you gotta let me make light jabs about things I find funny anonymously online lol
Rules people, rules!
I vote for more of this puppy posted on the sub🫡
pls. new mascot??!!
You women are great. Please gatekeep this sub from men who are no fun. Yall are great and provide me with dopamine on a regular basis.
Thank you 🩷
Yes.
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10/10, no notes.
As a tiny dog I can confirm
but you’re not gonna address the men creepily cosplaying as women??
We need the men out of this subreddit!! Why 🥲🥲 legit I can't just be a girl here having fun if there is a dude gooning two replies above me
Hold. Were we getting real hate toward short men?
I have really liked this sub for a long time and want to continue to see it grow. It has always seemed to me to be a very pro-woman and not very toxic toward men at all. (There seem to be quite a few men who pretend to be women here and that's gross but outside of that).
I'm sorry to hear there was a real problem with men being treated poorly because of their bodies. I very firmly believe that no man or woman should ever be made to feel bad because they have "bad" physical characteristics. It's awful. No one should experience that.
Also it’s crazy how fast women are to address misandrist when ive asked subreddits like r/askmenadivce to say something about the incels and they told me they have a right to be in the sub .
So why should we give such a shit about dudes legit invading our space ?
"God forbid women aren't all a hivemind" She still said the thing!
"God forbid a woman record a mod announcement without an adorable dog barking up a storm".
Jokes aside, thank you so much for this. I'm non-binary so I don't particularly fit into either main group and while I genuinely love most comments and posts I see here, it is a little concerning when you see a comment getting a little too close to just straight up hating on another group of people and it's somehow got a lot of upvotes.
Just glad to see the mods are dedicated
Are you a horny feral gremlin or horny feral gremlin adjacent? If so, you can sit by me. If not, you is still welcome here.
I gave my college roommate a very drunk handjob while watching gremlins, she seemed to like it…..
Does that make me the horny feral gremlin or am I adjacent and giving a handjob to the horny feral gremlin
Por que no los does?
oop im special?!?
“ that’s not good, they don’t like it when you do that” is sending me
This was an important update.
Well, I am shocked and appalled.
alright if we are going to do something about the misandry can we do something about the tourist dudes using "gay" as an insult, intentionally trolling, and breaking all of the rules of this sub not letting girls be toxic/worse/different? it seems like every post has majority replies from some guy doing at least one of the above
TIL: I've been mispronouncing "Vitriol"
I had the volume off. But that's one cute dog!
I’m a dude, honestly I just want girls to have a space for their chaotic crazy horny evil girl energy and I wanna watch.
Fuckin’ right. Just let them have fun.
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say that again?
GOD FORBID A GIRL LOVE SHORT MEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Short men stand up!
They are standing.
💀
Ban the men!!!
"Let girls have fun" unless males don't like it lol
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BORN UNDERGROUND
you mean this ISNT a fem-Gooner subreddit?!?
god forbid women do anything
Sub should go to ladies mode like BPT goes country club mode. So many pathetic dudes posting inane "I'm one of the good ones."
I was hoping the barking was coming from a man whose ball gag slipped out. That's the example this sub needs.
God forbid a woman expresse their silly feelings about men.
God forbid women realize it's not the men but the bad people in general because if we tell people they're bad people they might actually become bad people. This goes for everyone. Can't we spread positivity and not generalize the world. People suck ok but it's not all that bad and I ploor those women not to give up hope
Yep, bad people are bad people, some of them short some of them tall. Unnecessary to radicalize more people because of things they can't change.
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Do you want to eat men?
No he said it wasnt him
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Why not both?
Praise motivates me. I like being called good
Didn't know there was an issue going on in the sub, thx OP for clarifying and bringing attention
If it matters, I haven't been noticing a lot of what you describe, so that means you girls are doing a pretty good job at filtering this sub. Keep it up!
God forbid a woman want to be body positive
I looove short men ❤️
my boyfriend is a little shorter than me and it just means it's easy for me to kiss him on the forehead and I love it~
Somewhat related quotation, are trans ladies welcome here?
This is one of the better places to be a trans woman interacting with non-trans people. I haven't gotten downvoted to oblivion just for being here like literally every lesbian subreddit. Nor is it full of chasers and the validation-starved trans women chasing them like some NSFW subs I could mention.
Yes! You’ll see plenty of trans ladies and trans lady appreciation in here, as long as you’re willing to be a girl who has fun! I’m cis and stand by my unhinged trans sisters
Shit i hope so
Yes, 100%
Fr you're asking that??
Gock, Glock em.
https://i.redd.it/g8jnnnmr6jse1.gif
Pow!
Jk This person may actually be a trans woman with some internalized stuff to deal with so I won't be so harsh
Thanks for backing me up Chip 💜
given how much nsfw content is posted here, it is absurd you do not have an 18+ rule. i have seen so many minors post here. please get your shit together 😭
God forbid Redditors have fun. Not sure what the "various matters" are, everything seems fine to me
I feel like the term “manlet” necessitates the Napoleon Complex. I would never hate on the sweet little guys, but the nasty little guys are a different story entirely.
Good on the mods here. There was a floodgate of unironic misandry posts for some months. That hadn't been the case before. Like legit, there have been users saying things like "what's wrong with hating men" and similar things. I joined here for the memes and vibing with people in the comments (I'm a man, so I keep the posts to the girls here since it's a sub about them).
Also, I can't actually fucking believe that a Reddit mod has a job. Like holy fuck. /s
As a silly little guy (who happens to be kinda chonkers), that just found this sub very recently, I am here for the unhinged lulz and memes.
Teasing happens, I accept that. Hate, I haven't seen, but I appreciate anyone getting out ahead of it, especially with the amount in the world these days.
I will now resume lurking and distracting myself with memes.