I just found out about Lenormand 1 hour ago and tried to do a reading with playing cards to see if my crush and I will start dating, but I need help in interpreting the spread. I got the whip, the rider, and the ring. From what I've read, this means that we will enter a long-term relationship but it will be toxic? But I've also seen that the whip means kinky?

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  • hello! i think that means that yall will have a relationship, yes, but probably not long-term! the whip and rider normally talks about not long-term relationships, but still very intense (with a lot of s2x😭

    interesting, may I ask how you got that answer? 🧐

    by the order of the cards and meanings!! you can do a reading with more cards to get more answers about it

  • I'm not a fan of Y/N questions personally. You might consider pivoting to an open-ended question or rephrasing to let the deck tell you a story. An example would be "If we talk about becoming romantic how will the conversation go?" Then you could read the cards in a linear way left to right to get a better idea of how that talk might unfold. Just a recommendation! 😀

    Yeah, when researching I saw that people are iffy on Y/N questions but I wanted to try since it seemed easiest and I had literally just found out about this and I'm bad at coming up with questions lol 😭 I'll def try what you said though, thank you 🙏

    Cool! Yeah a few hours in and you are trying to read! I think that's great! People are afraid of getting things 'wrong' and end up doing nothing at all or only becoming 'armchair experts' so good on you for jumping in with both feet! Cheers!

    This is so encouraging 🥹 thank you!

  • You may have a brief relationship, a furtive encounter, or something that lasts about a month to a month and a half, but the relationship will quickly turn into misunderstandings and arguments, revealing a toxic dynamic.

  • Maybe it will seem like it's headed in that direction but not actually make it to that point.